Real TG Meetings

[yngnwburbsguy]

I find this site very funny when I see all these guys who want to be with a TS so bad. I have been with a few, even dated one for a year, and its nothing like you guys think. Many of you would never be with a TS again after your first time, sometimes its better left as a fantasy.

[Maximus]

I've been with several. It's a good chance I'll be with more. But I agree in the sense for some people, some things, are best left a fantasy. My experiences were all pretty good.

[popperluv]

I have dated TS's in my early years when I was like 18 and it was a horror.
I prefer to pay for the sex, this way no strings are attached.
You pay for your time and then you go. No bullshit to deal with.

[Realgirls4me]

Y'all who claim to be experienced in relationship field with real women want to break it down to fantasizers such as myself ??? Is this another thread leaning on generalizations as the other current one is ? I don't know if you guys know this, but there are a lot of wacky genetic women out there too. ...boy, don't I know it. :(

[mBomb]

I have dated TS's in my early years when I was like 18 and it was a horror.
I prefer to pay for the sex, this way no strings are attached.
You pay for your time and then you go. No bullshit to deal with.

I've also had to deal with some of the psycho tGirl's who literally demand you take them to 5th avenue and buy whatever they want. I can't deal with gold diggers, and it's pretty pathetic more than half the tGirl's are exactly that.

[kloveva]

Are one of you ladies going to give your side of the story or are we keeping this as a bashing session?

[AllanahStarrNYC]

It always seems like there is some sort of bashing thread on here.

With as much "desire" as some of the men who participate claim to have for the girls, it is generally viewed by many here that we are all messes, drug addicts, psychos, gold diggers, etc. Then there are the criticisms- our hands our too big, the voice too deep, the feet, the surgeries, post op transsexuals...the list goes on, and on. I challange any guy who has anything negative to say about any girl to POSt their own picture on here and let the girls have a go @ it.

I think beyond the fact that that I know to many of the guys we are just objectified as sexual objects and fantasies, the reality is that men are just as jaded as women, and transsexuals. It so easy to be criticical on this board or talk bad about people without ever showing face.

We all have bad relationships and dates, that is just life.
Straight, gay, tranny lover- that is a universal law for everyone.

I could write about alot of nightmares I have had personally with men that would apply to many transsexuals-common things that seem to happen to us. The buttom lime for me is I know tha most men just see me as sexual object and fantasy fufillment, so I capitalize on that-as I think most girls do in one way or the other.

[Realgirls4me]

I challange any guy who has anything negative to say about any girl to POST their own picture on here and let the girls have a go @ it.


But we already know what Danny Devito looks like.:D

My two cents:

Take a group -- any random grouping -- and it's presumptuous to assume that one won't have a flake among them. That's just life, folks, be it in a church choir, a baseball team, or a presidential administration (particularly this one). That's how life is. Deal with it.
Actually, I would prefer that some of the girls not only write about how warped some of their hobbiests' experiences have been, but also what it is they expect from them on the most basic of levels as far as courtesy, decency, and hygeine.For example, I can't believe (there must be a good reason?) how many girls in the Eros site escort ads, for instance, specifically request that their hobbiest be bathed, well groomed, and clean shaven upon meeting. Is that really too much to ask of someone ? Anyone and anywhere ? One should leave their place that way every single day whether they're seeing an escort or shopping for groceries. They also request that hobbiest treat them with respect. Is that also too much to ask for ? I wouldn't blame an escort for having a bitchy attitude if it's premised on a guy showing up looking like crap (not bathed or shaven, crud in nails, smelly, etc.) with a disrespectful attitude to match. I'm not here to make apologies for TSs with attitudes, but is your shit together first ?

Now I grant y'all that I've yet to take the proverbial plunge into a (TS) world that until now is still laden in fantasy, but I've read a lot of good things and bad things about TS escorts and I'll be damned if I am going to judge all of them by one or two bad reviews or experiences I might encounter down the line. Generalizations posters in here, and elsewhere, make carry the least weight if any. I just won't accept the TS world, or any world for that matter, being that black and white. The real world is a montage of grays, not binary as some seem to want to make it...Maybe it's time for some of you to look in the mirror if all of your experiences are, or have been negative to this point.

... By the way, my first time should be coming up soon. I have two sexy girls in mind who live in the Hollywood area, and whose reviews are glowing to say the least. I've spoken to one already who seems not only very nice, but also very intelligent (turn on).We'll see. :)

[yngnwburbsguy]

I never bashed any of you girls, I'm just saying it isnt what you think it will be. And if you or any other girl on here wants my picture and tell me what you think about me I will email it, just ask. I really dont see myself dating another t-girl for a while, but they still do turn me on, no question about that.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

Ok, I guess what you are trying to say is that IT WASN'T WHAT YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE...

Which I guess is true with most relationships and things in life. Dating a tranny isn'y some sort of glory, or state of bliss, or nirvana. It is a relationship like anything else. Relationships and love take a lot of work, period. If you want to let it be a fantasy then just visit an escort, or rent some porn. But if you want a girlfriend then you have to deal with real tranny life-which is not always pretty. The fact is that most men are not ready emotionally to date a tranny because they are not open to the world and themselves about their attraction. To date a trannsexual you have to be totally comfortable with who you like and what you are because there will come a time and day when someone, somewhere is going to figure out your girlfriend is transsexual and perhaps criticize you and ostracize you for it. An you have to e prepared for that. Family, friends, etc. NO ONE LIKES TO BE KEPT IN A CLOSET OR BE ANYONES DIRTY LITTLE SECRET. And when I say YOU, I mean generally speaking- not directed to anyone in partcular.

There are good trannies, bad trannies, ok trannies...and those categories apply to men and genetic women.

I have had horrilbe luck with men and horrible stories I can tell you about men-things that I have been put through, done to etc. Am I jaded? NO.
The sex industry can certainly jade you very fast and so can many bad men but you can't genralize everyone into one category. I am open to life and what may come of it. If I never find a good man the so be it, but I can;t blame every man for my misfortunes.

[yngnwburbsguy]

Hey I never said I cant handle a relationship with one, I just said its not what most guys on here think it is, even sex with a tgirl isnt what you see in the porns. Expecially when you care about her. I dont think Allanah would have a prob but a few girls ive been with even had problems taking me in them. They arent what you guys think. I only brought this up since I read a post about how a few guys really wanted to go out with a tgirl. I personally handled a relationship just fine with a tgirl and every one knew. Just to say again, im just saying some of you guys are in for a suprise.

[peb]

Allanah, i really enjoy your posts, you're a breath of fresh air. 8)

[popperluv]

Allanah seem to know exactly whats up. I cant argue with anything she said. Any guy would be lucky to have Allanah as a girl friend ,she could teach me a thing or two about myself.

[TJ347]

Resurrection! Just wanted to know if anybody has anything they can add is all... If not, just let the thread die again.

[TJ347]

I find this site very funny when I see all these guys who want to be with a TS so bad. I have been with a few, even dated one for a year, and its nothing like you guys think. Many of you would never be with a TS again after your first time, sometimes its better left as a fantasy.

lol, I met a lot of tg's, and most of em aint passable, but when you meet one who is, it's a wierd feeling

Weird isn't the word I'd use, but I know what you mean. The word I'd use though is... "exciting".

[peggygee]

It always seems like there is some sort of bashing thread on here.

With as much "desire" as some of the men who participate claim to have for the girls, it is generally viewed by many here that we are all messes, drug addicts, psychos, gold diggers, etc. Then there are the criticisms- our hands our too big, the voice too deep, the feet, the surgeries, post op transsexuals...the list goes on, and on. I challange any guy who has anything negative to say about any girl to POSt their own picture on here and let the girls have a go @ it.

I think beyond the fact that that I know to many of the guys we are just objectified as sexual objects and fantasies, the reality is that men are just as jaded as women, and transsexuals. It so easy to be criticical on this board or talk bad about people without ever showing face.

We all have bad relationships and dates, that is just life.
Straight, gay, tranny lover- that is a universal law for everyone.

I could write about alot of nightmares I have had personally with men that would apply to many transsexuals-common things that seem to happen to us. The buttom lime for me is I know tha most men just see me as sexual object and fantasy fufillment, so I capitalize on that-as I think most girls do in one way or the other.




Ok, I guess what you are trying to say is that IT WASN'T WHAT YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE...

Which I guess is true with most relationships and things in life. Dating a tranny isn'y some sort of glory, or state of bliss, or nirvana. It is a relationship like anything else. Relationships and love take a lot of work, period. If you want to let it be a fantasy then just visit an escort, or rent some porn. But if you want a girlfriend then you have to deal with real tranny life-which is not always pretty. The fact is that most men are not ready emotionally to date a tranny because they are not open to the world and themselves about their attraction. To date a trannsexual you have to be totally comfortable with who you like and what you are because there will come a time and day when someone, somewhere is going to figure out your girlfriend is transsexual and perhaps criticize you and ostracize you for it. An you have to e prepared for that. Family, friends, etc. NO ONE LIKES TO BE KEPT IN A CLOSET OR BE ANYONES DIRTY LITTLE SECRET. And when I say YOU, I mean generally speaking- not directed to anyone in partcular.

There are good trannies, bad trannies, ok trannies...and those categories apply to men and genetic women.

I have had horrilbe luck with men and horrible stories I can tell you about men-things that I have been put through, done to etc. Am I jaded? NO.
The sex industry can certainly jade you very fast and so can many bad men but you can't genralize everyone into one category. I am open to life and what may come of it. If I never find a good man the so be it, but I can;t blame every man for my misfortunes.

^I gotta go to bed, but for now, what she said. ^

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[goldensamba]

If I never find a good man the so be it, but I can;t blame every man for my misfortunes.

Unfortunately it seems your attitude is not the one that is most common. It's generally men are assholes and should pay for it. As in pay my way, pay my bills, and generally do whatever I want for the privilege of being allowed to breath the same air.

I have tons of GG friends with this attitude then they constantly gripe about how they can't find a good guy. For some reason they don't realize that you put off a vibe that others pick up on and those of us with good sense can feel your bitter attitude coming a mile away. Now that some of them are in their mid thirties and still single I think they are finally starting to take a long hard look in the mirror.

If all men and women had Allanah's attitude relationships wouldn't be such a mystery to most of the population.

[TJ347]

Unfortunately it seems your attitude is not the one that is most common. It's generally men are assholes and should pay for it. As in pay my way, pay my bills, and generally do whatever I want for the privilege of being allowed to breath the same air.

I have tons of GG friends with this attitude then they constantly gripe about how they can't find a good guy. For some reason they don't realize that you put off a vibe that others pick up on and those of us with good sense can feel your bitter attitude coming a mile away. Now that some of them are in their mid thirties and still single I think they are finally starting to take a long hard look in the mirror.

This is all very, very true. Sorry it took so long for me to get back to this thread, but I'm glad I finally did. Way too many girls are looking for a man to finance their lifestyles, instead of trying to work with a man who's committed to moving both of them ahead.

[tonkatoy]

I am not going to claim that I was a joy to be with, but I never cheated, did everything i could to provide, and was supportive, at least I tired to be. I have plowed almost everything I have made int eh last five years back into my business, and I have bought a lot of equipment, I am an excavating contractor, and the stuff is expensive, but all my ex saw was that I was buying bulldozers instead of Louise Vitton, whatever the fuck that is. But that is not a function of her being trans, that was just the type of person she was. Nothing against her, she did have good traits too, and as I said, I am probably not easy to live with. If people would just do exactly as I say we would get along fine.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

lol, I met a lot of tg's, and most of em aint passable, but when you meet one who is, it's a wierd feeling

Ahh BINGO! :lol:

Alas! I just found out the reason WHY Silvester is soo "suspicious" and jaded about transexuals! LOL :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

[whatsupwithat]

I was in a relationship with a TS for over 13 years, have many friends who are transgender, and I really don't appreciate the first few comments I read. No wonder the girls are so bitter. Just the first few posts alone are priceless gems of idiocy and immaturity.

[TJ347]

I was in a relationship with a TS for over 13 years, have many friends who are transgender, and I really don't appreciate the first few comments I read. No wonder the girls are so bitter. Just the first few posts alone are priceless gems of idiocy and immaturity.

I read the whole thread, and with the exception of one poster, I found it to be quite interesting, as well as accurate based on what I've personally experienced. No, not every tgirl out there is a drug addict or gold digger, but the fact is, the overwhelming majority of tgirls I've met have been one or the other. That said, I do concur with the OP when he says that for one who fantasizes about what a relationship with a tgirl would really be like, he might be better off leaving it a fantasy, as the reality is quite different, from most of my experiences, and apparently all of the OPs experiences to date.