How does one arrange a 'meeting' (Serious)

[IHEARTKALENA]

Wanting to do it for the 1st time but I'm nervous as hell as in what to say on the phone.. Any tips guys/gals?

[Prospero]

who're you planning to meet? An escort? Don't be nervous. Just say you saw the advert, interested in meeting... and ask for details of what services she provides, what she charges and when you can see her.

[Ms.Stepford]

if I may, I recommend not asking specifics on first contact, depending on your locale.
If it feels like a guy is trying to get me to say something incriminating, I don't care how much I could use the cash, I don't fuck with that. I like clients who are just as discreet and professional as I am, and I like to be able to verify their identity as "not a cop".

It is plenty easy for them to Google me and find out exactly what I'm about and what I get up to without having to discuss it specifically on the record, and if they're not the sort to put in some effort, they most likely can't afford my rates.

[IHEARTKALENA]

who're you planning to meet? An escort? Don't be nervous. Just say you saw the advert, interested in meeting... and ask for details of what services she provides, what she charges and when you can see her.

Thank you

[Rusty Eldora]

"Hi, I saw your ad on Eros, are you available this afternoon for a session? (if yes)
"May I ask what is the donation for an hour." (If acceptable)
"How do I get there" She gives you directions to her place or near it, and asks for you to call when you get there. "Hi, I've parked, are you ready?" She provides the room number.

Do NOT in the US mention anything other than donation and time, be friendly

[bluesoul]

She provides the room number.



nice, but then what should he say next?

[fivekatz]

Hello?

[BeardedOne]

Be discreet.
Be respectful.
Be reasonably intelligent.

As many will mention in their listings, don't mention anything of a sexual or explicit nature on the phone. It's somewhat crass to talk numbers, either way, and you should already have a handle on that before you call.

After that, it's a crap shoot, depending on who, where, etc. I had one gurl show me the time of my life and not ask for her 'roses' until the next morning. Another was all up in my face and all but asked for a credit report at the outset. One, fairly well-known gurl, blew me off because I didn't have a cell phone. Another never answered my calls/messages and I ended up having a long term relationship with the next gurl in the queue who did reply.

Play nice. Have fun. Report back.

[bluesoul]

Hello?

and that's it?

[Ananke]

Surely, you should know how to take it from there?
I can go with you and do the talking for you?
Sorry, no offence...just kidding.

[IHEARTKALENA]

Thank you Rusty & BeardedOne making the call tomorrow I'll review my experience later on :)

[Jericho]

Be discreet.
Be respectful.
Be reasonably intelligent.

Meh, two out three aint bad! :shrug