PDA

View Full Version : Something that confuses me..



Corran
06-14-2013, 11:50 PM
about men who claim to be 100% straight. They certianly seem obsessed about fucking something in the ass. Go to any straight porn forum and that's all they talk about: anal anal anal.

Cecil Rhodes
06-15-2013, 12:26 AM
I thought this thread was about Simple Addition when I read title

Corran
06-15-2013, 12:48 AM
No but some people need to learn how to turn their asshole gene off.

amberskyi
06-15-2013, 12:52 AM
so one can not be "straight" and like anal sex lol.doesnt change the fact that its happening with a gg.

Corran
06-15-2013, 12:54 AM
so one can not be "straight" and like anal sex lol.doesnt change the fact that its happening with a gg.

I just find it funny that, while proclaiming, "I love the pussy," all they think about is ass.

BellaBellucci
06-15-2013, 12:54 AM
Being a top (wanting to stick your cock into things - sometimes things that aren't pussies) isn't being straight? Seems pretty normal for a horny hetero man to me, actually. :?

~BB~

LIYankees
06-15-2013, 12:57 AM
I'm not sure I follow. What exactly is confusing?

Corran
06-15-2013, 01:01 AM
Confused..perplexed..take your pick. I guess because I like Transsexuals I find it odd that others blast me for being gay or whatever, yet all they can talk about is fucking someone's ass.

BellaBellucci
06-15-2013, 01:03 AM
Confused..perplexed..take your pick. I guess because I like Transsexuals I find it odd that others blast me for being gay or whatever, yet all they can talk about is fucking someone's ass.

Yes ... someone's ass that doesn't have a penis next door. :lol:

It still doesn't make you gay necessarily, but there is a distinction.

~BB~

Prospero
06-15-2013, 01:04 AM
I am not confused. One simple truth is that ass is generally tighter than pussy. And for heterosexual guys it is perhaps more transgressive and also notionally more selfish. It is entirely in their view for their gratification. It might also be a power thing.

Cecil Rhodes
06-15-2013, 01:19 AM
No but some people need to learn how to turn their asshole gene off.

I thought that is hat we are discussing here ?

yodajazz
06-15-2013, 01:30 AM
Most (straight and otherwise) will say that it has a nice feel. Sometimes it's tighter than a pussy, especially as women age, it tends to get looser. What many people here and elsewhere forget, that what ever the hole, it's still about, who it is attached to. Though the room could be dark during sex, if you have spent some time that night looking at a banging body, or a beautiful face, you are likely to be turned on. Often overlooked in attraction is the person's overall story. For example for women, that fact that a person is an NBA player, or a person of power, is an ego booster, by itself. For me and many others here, knowing that that hot woman was once or boy, is a turn-on. Of course we know that other males would completely be turned off by this.

Give this explanation, because I remember when many t-girls here complained about men liking their cocks, and saying that the men, would eventually want other males. This was not true for the vast majority of men here. So the bottom line is that if they are attracted to the whole person, is the most important thing.

Rabbiteyes
06-15-2013, 03:02 AM
Men are complicated :P

http://images.sodahead.com/profiles/0/0/2/8/2/2/3/6/9/Blow-up-Sheep-Doll-80975366454.jpeg

bluesoul
06-15-2013, 03:17 AM
about men who claim to be 100% straight. They certianly seem obsessed about fucking something in the ass. Go to any straight porn forum and that's all they talk about: anal anal anal.

why does that confuse you? are they only supposed to be confined to the vagina?

on a gay forum, do they only talk about cocks?

danthepoetman
06-15-2013, 03:24 AM
First off, Corran, Bella and Amber are right: basically, a hetero guy is attracted by feminine being and wants to penetrate them wherever. But the fact is, the two feelings are so different. In a pussy, the whole penis rubs on the walls of the vagina. The entry to the vagina, the cunt, is usually quite loose and the inside is relatively tighter, although when a girl comes hard, you have the feeling that from, I don’t know, 3 to 4 inches in, it opens very widely, and you somewhat loose the feeling on the head of the penis. Of course, it’s wet, viscous and warm, and really nice. With an asshole, you constantly feel the ring of the anus exerting a pressure on your cock; it’s like something gripping it in the shape of a ring. But inside, you feel much less of the walls of the rectum, it’s rubbing on your cock here and there as you move in and out, so I guess that this way, you can last a bit longer, the pleasure is in a way more measured. I’m not sure I agree with Prospero that it is a more egotistic pleasure for the top, as many women enjoy A LOT anal penetration (some even prefer it, at least at times, when it’s well done), but indeed, penetrating someone anally is a very intense act of possession of someone, very intimate and very delicate. You get even more a sense, as a top, that you dominate, that you’re in control, that it is up to you to give pleasure or maybe even some pain if you wanted to (which I personally avoid with all my capacity, but I admit that I do enjoy this power as a man). Both are nice; I love pussies! But making love to a woman for a man is to possess her, to penetrate her and really feel that you are the one who control the pleasure. And anal for that is just fabulous.

bluesoul
06-15-2013, 03:27 AM
Give this explanation, because I remember when many t-girls here complained about men liking their cocks, and saying that the men, would eventually want other males. This was not true for the vast majority of men here. So the bottom line is that if they are attracted to the whole person, is the most important thing.

with one exception mr jazz: there are 3 threads here that support the t-girls complaints. 1). i love traps (http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=68492) 2). femboys finally done right (http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=55510) and of course 3). amateur sissy stuff (http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?p=1108917)

also, given the fact that a lot of the men rarely openly disclose they've had/or currently having sex with transsexuals, it's also possible they may not disclose having had sex with men.

Rabbiteyes
06-15-2013, 03:36 AM
but indeed, penetrating someone anally is a very intense act of possession of someone, very intimate and very delicate. You get even more a sense, as a top, that you dominate, that you’re in control, that it is up to you to give pleasure or maybe even some pain if you wanted to (...)

But making love to a woman for a man is to possess her, to penetrate her and really feel that you are the one who control the pleasure. And anal for that is just fabulous.

<3 <3 ((also you shouldn't be afraid of giving pain :P It isn't a bad thing :P :P))

http://www.troll.me/images/bearby-bastard/i-think-i-love-you.jpg

EZWind
06-15-2013, 03:52 AM
I've known many hetero women who enjoy and/or actually prefer anal sex. Which I am more than happy to provide, of course, not for any power trip or to hurt them but to please them by giving them what they desire. So this makes me gay? Now I'M confused.

Cecil Rhodes
06-15-2013, 04:13 AM
why does that confuse you? are they only supposed to be confined to the vagina?

on a gay forum, do they only talk about cocks?

No, they talk about recipes, interior design, clothing, hair dressing, 420ing, clubbing, Madonna , Lady Ga Ga, Brad Pitt's ass etc

danthepoetman
06-15-2013, 04:15 AM
<3 <3 ((also you shouldn't be afraid of giving pain :P It isn't a bad thing :P :P))

http://www.troll.me/images/bearby-bastard/i-think-i-love-you.jpg
Oh! kinky girl! I love that! Lovely, bright and sexy!
It's not like it never happened. But to do it on purpose is not my thing "in principle or in theory"... lol
You are adorable, Rabbiteyes and the feeling is well shared!

EZWind
06-15-2013, 06:16 AM
<3 <3 ((also you shouldn't be afraid of giving pain :P It isn't a bad thing :P :P))

...ah, the proverbial fine line therebetween. One man's meat is another man's poison....ceiling/floor...treasure/trash, etc.
Of course, you're exactly right
I prefer to think of it not as pain but rather as intense sensation
Ordinary people spend their lives trying to get OUT of intense situations....Repo Man spends his trying to get IN to intense situations
(Just thought I'd throw that in there since the guess the movie quote thread seems to have died off)

MacShreach
06-15-2013, 12:41 PM
so one can not be "straight" and like anal sex lol.doesnt change the fact that its happening with a gg.

The meaning of the word 'straight' in this context, is entirely down to the person using it. The very well known Irish comedian Dave Allen used to do a sketch in which he referred to someone as a 'poof' because he must have been standing behind his girlfriend while they embraced. So in the popular imagination, hetero/homosexuality was not just about attraction but practice.

Essentially it's a term that is used by those who consider themselves inside the mainstream cultural group to describe themselves, and by those who do not wish to be part of that group to differentiate. In the 60s and 70s, 'straight' meant, basically, short-haired, white, anglo-saxon, church on Sunday, liked... well I never really found out what kinda music they liked but anyway it wasn't what I liked, while 'not straight' meant smoked pot, got laid, liked The Stones, Hendrix, The Doors, probably read LOTR (several times)...

At the moment the word has a sexual connotation but that is because the mainstream, patriarchal society no longer sees a bunch of hippies as a threat, and anyway the hippies all got jobs, or went into business to screw the 'straight' culture, like Richard Branson (destruction from within--a common cultural strategy). The threat to the patriarchal, masculine society evolved into the gay/straight divide of the 80s and 90s and has in the last couple of decades increasingly focussed on the transgender/cisgender split. This is because these directly challenge the nature of 'what it is to be a man' that straight culture is based on.

Few things challenge straight culture more fundamentally than transgender and transsex. Even gay culture, especially in the States, tried to remodel itself in order for gay men to appear to be part of straight culture, having butch jobs, appearance etc. This strategy successfully permitted this culture some acceptance by the 'straight' mainstream.

rockabilly
06-15-2013, 04:35 PM
Sometimes you feel like a butt sometimes you don't lol.

Sulka_bewitched_me
06-15-2013, 09:12 PM
I may be wrong on this so.......I always assumed anal sex was a bit of a taboo (not so much today) but back in the day. I'm not sure how many GG are into this or are willing to let a man perform it on her without her first thought being "ick". I know you see a lot of it in porn now but in RL how many GG will actually let you perform it on them? I tried it on my girlfriend in my early 20's and I have to say it was definitely tighter than her vagina and I really liked it. Unlike porn though where the girls probably have to "cleanse" for a while or use a douche so as to be clean for their scenes it was [ahem] shall we say messy? Gross factor aside, for me, it was very pleasurable and I don't think I'm gay because I wanted to experiment. As I've stated on here before I do not have an inclination to have or want children so seeing as how I find Transwomen already highly feminine and sexually appealing the fact that she can't have children (biologically speaking and not including from a previous relationship) and potentially a higher percentage that she may not want them is an added bonus.

danthepoetman
06-15-2013, 10:09 PM
I may be wrong on this so.......I always assumed anal sex was a bit of a taboo (not so much today) but back in the day. I'm not sure how many GG are into this or are willing to let a man perform it on her without her first thought being "ick". I know you see a lot of it in porn now but in RL how many GG will actually let you perform it on them? I tried it on my girlfriend in my early 20's and I have to say it was definitely tighter than her vagina and I really liked it. Unlike porn though where the girls probably have to "cleanse" for a while or use a douche so as to be clean for their scenes it was [ahem] shall we say messy? Gross factor aside, for me, it was very pleasurable and I don't think I'm gay because I wanted to experiment. As I've stated on here before I do not have an inclination to have or want children so seeing as how I find Transwomen already highly feminine and sexually appealing the fact that she can't have children (biologically speaking and not including from a previous relationship) and potentially a higher percentage that she may not want them is an added bonus.
I couldn't give you statistics, but many girls are into it, today. Yes, of course, accident happens, Sulka. It's better to clean it up before with a pear and water -I don't know-, but I've done it many times without any accident. Usually, the feces are not in the rectum but higher in the intestines. So in general, there shouldn't be problem. But once again, if you want to take your time and have fun, it's better to clean first.

youngblood61
06-15-2013, 10:19 PM
I would love to indulge.

Jericho
06-15-2013, 10:47 PM
Fuckit, a hole's a goal! :shrug

Rusty Eldora
06-16-2013, 12:16 AM
What does confuse me is the guys that haven't tried Tgirls yet, worried and thinking that doing anal on a GG is somehow safer than with a Tgirl. It's the same anatomy, for Christ's sake. Yes receiving is higher risk than giving, but with protection it is safe.

Rabbiteyes
06-16-2013, 12:45 AM
Unlike porn though where the girls probably have to "cleanse" for a while or use a douche so as to be clean for their scenes it was [ahem] shall we say messy?

lol ew ~_~

I think that is one of the big differences? TGs know the drill (pun intended :D) and make sure they are ready :P So it isn't gross ~_~

danthepoetman
06-16-2013, 12:54 AM
lol ew ~_~

I think that is one of the big differences? TGs know the drill (pun intended :D) and make sure they are ready :P So it isn't gross ~_~
When you look at these adorable little butt and you're as hard as wood, you indeed don't envision at all what could ensue... :)
But anyways, it shouldn't discourage anyone. Accidents are rare, and when it does happen, well, it's no big deal, you jump in a bath or in the shower and you take advantage of the situation with your partner...

EZWind
06-16-2013, 02:22 AM
Santorum.....Google it

maxpower
06-16-2013, 03:42 AM
Santorum.....Google it




Santorum:

The frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of anal sex.

mac.B
06-16-2013, 04:37 AM
"Straight" has nothing to do with vagina being preferred over ass or vice versa but is more about your response to femininity. A lot of men like anal b/c a womans butt is the favorite body part for a lot of men. Since its their favorite part of a woman, the part that turns them on the most, they will be more in to penetrating that over the vagina. Men who love tits like to ttty fuck, men who like feet like to fuck feet...

Sulka_bewitched_me
06-16-2013, 05:39 AM
"Straight" has nothing to do with vagina being preferred over ass or vice versa but is more about your response to femininity. A lot of men like anal b/c a womans butt is the favorite body part for a lot of men. Since its their favorite part of a woman, the part that turns them on the most, they will be more in to penetrating that over the vagina. Men who love tits like to ttty fuck, men who like feet like to fuck feet...
Very valid points mac.B

Sulka_bewitched_me
06-16-2013, 05:45 AM
lol ew ~_~

I think that is one of the big differences? TGs know the drill (pun intended :D) and make sure they are ready :P So it isn't gross ~_~

Well, she was (at the time) only 17 so it's not like she knew what she was doing or what to expect.

youngblood61
06-16-2013, 06:37 AM
I would love to try ass someday!:jerkoff

robertlouis
06-16-2013, 07:15 AM
Most (straight and otherwise) will say that it has a nice feel. Sometimes it's tighter than a pussy, especially as women age, it tends to get looser. What many people here and elsewhere forget, that what ever the hole, it's still about, who it is attached to. Though the room could be dark during sex, if you have spent some time that night looking at a banging body, or a beautiful face, you are likely to be turned on. Often overlooked in attraction is the person's overall story. For example for women, that fact that a person is an NBA player, or a person of power, is an ego booster, by itself. For me and many others here, knowing that that hot woman was once or boy, is a turn-on. Of course we know that other males would completely be turned off by this.

Give this explanation, because I remember when many t-girls here complained about men liking their cocks, and saying that the men, would eventually want other males. This was not true for the vast majority of men here. So the bottom line is that if they are attracted to the whole person, is the most important thing.




:iagree: Perfectly put, Yoda.

robertlouis
06-16-2013, 07:18 AM
First off, Corran, Bella and Amber are right: basically, a hetero guy is attracted by feminine being and wants to penetrate them wherever. But the fact is, the two feelings are so different. In a pussy, the whole penis rubs on the walls of the vagina. The entry to the vagina, the cunt, is usually quite loose and the inside is relatively tighter, although when a girl comes hard, you have the feeling that from, I don’t know, 3 to 4 inches in, it opens very widely, and you somewhat loose the feeling on the head of the penis. Of course, it’s wet, viscous and warm, and really nice. With an asshole, you constantly feel the ring of the anus exerting a pressure on your cock; it’s like something gripping it in the shape of a ring. But inside, you feel much less of the walls of the rectum, it’s rubbing on your cock here and there as you move in and out, so I guess that this way, you can last a bit longer, the pleasure is in a way more measured. I’m not sure I agree with Prospero that it is a more egotistic pleasure for the top, as many women enjoy A LOT anal penetration (some even prefer it, at least at times, when it’s well done), but indeed, penetrating someone anally is a very intense act of possession of someone, very intimate and very delicate. You get even more a sense, as a top, that you dominate, that you’re in control, that it is up to you to give pleasure or maybe even some pain if you wanted to (which I personally avoid with all my capacity, but I admit that I do enjoy this power as a man). Both are nice; I love pussies! But making love to a woman for a man is to possess her, to penetrate her and really feel that you are the one who control the pleasure. And anal for that is just fabulous.


:iagree: And you Dan. Correct in every particular.

danthepoetman
06-16-2013, 07:25 AM
Thank you, Robert Louis. I was reading myself again as you posted that and it suddenly seems to me that I spreaded myself between Freud and an anatomy lesson, there. lol But you're right: I think it's pretty acurate -I'll say it without too much modesty. :)