Guys: How Many Of Your Friends Are Into TS Women?

[gaga99]

It's fun, but not the same when going out to TS Bars/ Clubs alone. When going to clubs & cars with my boys, it's good to have a wingman, makes the night infinitely more fun. Only time I've had a semblance of that at a TS bar was at the LV Lounge when me & this other guy drunk till like 2pm & told stories.

Flying solo when you go out, or do you have like-minded friends/ met people with similar interests?

[Cecil Rhodes]

I only know one . He is an Old Chap from the UK that likes GRECIAN things .

[Willie Escalade]

Lots

[RallyCola]

well, excluding the friends that i met because of my interest in tgirls, i have a very sneaking suspicion that at least one of my friends from college school has an interest. he gets very defensive when the topic comes up but he has amazing "radar" when challenged with pics. he is never ever wrong.

there is a preference assessment test that can be administered. it is essentially a photo grading test, where a eye movements are tracked as well as duration of time spent observing the image. i've always wanted to give this test to him. he would likely rate the images low, because he would think the score mattered...but i'd love to see the duration and eye tracker results.

[danthepoetman]

I rarely discuss with friends about precise porn consumption. But I know that a few of them at least (for having seen it) are interrested in beautiful girls, whether they have a little extra or not...

[robertlouis]

Those that are interested, are interested. Those that aren't, are not.

[Helvis2012]

Three good friends.

[nysprod]

Not sure about talking up the far-out sex with my friends, but if someone was into them I think they'd clock me.

I was in a GG strip club recently and was talking with an outstanding Thai girl...when the talk got around to the pleasures of Thailand, she made a comment to me along the lines of "I think you'd be more interested in meeting the Ladyboys."

And she said it very confidently, like she was reading my mind.

[runround04]

Nah, my friends have bad taste. lol

[Colin92660]

Great question. I am guessing I have some friends that would LOVE transgender ladies, as I do. However, we do not discuss this.

Really I would love to have a friend to share my this with.

[gaga99]

Great question. I am guessing I have some friends that would LOVE transgender ladies, as I do. However, we do not discuss this.

Really I would love to have a friend to share my this with.


Yeah bro, I'm in the same boat. Only difference is, I know for a fact that my immediate friends aren't into TS women. I see you're in Newport, I was actually down there this past weekend at District with a bunch of friends & there was a pretty decent looking TS girl in there. Was with a girl, but wanted to make a move on her, lol.

Someone should start a socal men's group, lol.

[Prospero]

No idea.

[MacShreach]

well, excluding the friends that i met because of my interest in tgirls, i have a very sneaking suspicion that at least one of my friends from college school has an interest. he gets very defensive when the topic comes up but he has amazing "radar" when challenged with pics. he is never ever wrong.

there is a preference assessment test that can be administered. it is essentially a photo grading test, where a eye movements are tracked as well as duration of time spent observing the image. i've always wanted to give this test to him. he would likely rate the images low, because he would think the score mattered...but i'd love to see the duration and eye tracker results.
Mmmm do you have a link for that test or just a name? I take it it's academically valid.

As to the topic, I have made quite a few friends through my interest in transwomen, many of them being trans, and I certainly know of one older friend who is interested, though he since got married (to an ordinary girl) so maybe he's on the d/l.

[starkem]

None of my friends are into this lifestyle.

[thickjimmy]

None of my friends are into this and they think the same about me. I'm taking this fetish to my grave. There was one guy I used to work with I wouldn't call him a friend more like an associate but he was that person that always sent those annoying group text messages and his bad trannys in them a lot. He also admitted to watching a porn scene with a man woman and a tranny and he was grossed out about it. I think he's into them but I won't tell him I am as well I'm keeping this to myself.

As far as the going out goes I can go solo and have a good time I don't need a wingman I can pull ass by myself tranny or girl.

[francisfkudrow]

None that I'm aware of. All of my current friends either claim to be solely into GGs (who knows what they do in their private time though), or are outright gay and only want men.

[youngblood61]

None that I know of.:)

[be2378]

Nobody I know, Im the only one that I know of that likes a TG.

[tflix]

I would like to have friends to go to the club and meet or trade tgirls

[amberskyi]

Trade tgirls?? Lmao really

[tflix]

None I need to make friends interested in tgirls in nyc

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Trade tgirls?? Lmao really

Yeah, we can print up cards and trade them just like baseball players LMAO

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I have ZERO friends that like tgirls! I'm all alone :-( LOL

[amberskyi]

I have ZERO friends that like tgirls! I'm all alone :-( LOL

That you know of.have you ever spoke up and confided to your friends that you like ts woman?
Here's the thing guys, I'm betting most of y'all don't honestly talk about your attraction to ts woman because you fear social consequence.even if you had a friend who was also intrigued by ts woman (and I'm sure allot of y'all do) he's probably keeping it a secret for the same reasons as you.it's all rather silly.expect to be alone in your attraction until more men stop living in closets and come out as trans attracted.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

That you know of.have you ever spoke up and confided to your friends that you like ts woman?
Here's the thing guys, I'm betting most of y'all don't honestly talk about your attraction to ts woman because you fear social consequence.even if you had a friend who was also intrigued by ts woman (and I'm sure allot of y'all do) he's probably keeping it a secret for the same reasons as you.it's all rather silly.expect to be alone in your attraction until more men stop living in closets and come out as trans attracted.

It's not something you discuss over dinner with friends. I'm fine with being alone in my attraction LOL :shrug

[amberskyi]

It's not something you discuss over dinner with friends. I'm fine with being alone in my attraction LOL :shrug

So you and your boys never talk about woman?

[Ryz]

2 Friends that I know of... Maybe more, not exactly sure

[BeardedOne]

Yeah, we can print up cards and trade them just like baseball players LMAO

Well, Caroline 'Tula' Cossey is on a couple of collector cards, so this isn't an impossible hobby. :)

As for friends 'into' TS women, most are either here on these forums or somehow directly related to same. Most of my other friends are just tolerant of my odd hobbies.

[my my my!]

I actually only have one friend that is into tgirls like myself
but he is married to one, so It's not like a SINGLE friend. I met him through my gf and her friend. I don't know if it counts as it was After the fact.

It's actually very, let's say, healthy, to have someone that shares the same experiences as you do.

Most of my other "friends" associate being with a transwoman as bad, so I hardly talk to them anymore.

[Prospero]

Actually I realised that, of course, I have one increasingly good friend who is very much into the ladies. He is also a member here and we meet for lunch quite often.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

So you and your boys never talk about woman?

Sure we do. We all like GG. I like both GG and TG. Like I said, it's not a topic at dinner where your friend is like, "Hey look at her, damn she's fine!, and then I go, "Yeah, she is! You know what else is sexy? Chicks with dicks!" LOL

[amberskyi]

Sure we do. We all like GG. I like both GG and TG. Like I said, it's not a topic at dinner where your friend is like, "Hey look at her, damn she's fine!, and then I go, "Yeah, she is! You know what else is sexy? Chicks with dicks!" LOL

Why not?...a hit chick is a hot chick right.if you can't tell by now i have no patience or respect for closeted dudes

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Well I don't live for you so.......hate on! LOL

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I bet most of your clients are closeted, but I bet you still take their money LOL

Just because some of us don't sling our dicks on video and do everything someone who is "out" does doesn't mean you should look down on anyone.

[amberskyi]

Of course i take their money! Lol this chick has real bills that doesn't include shoes lol.however i would never socialize with them.would you hang out with someone who was ashamed of you?i doubt it.that probably also explains why you have a hard time finding ts chicks who don't want to charge you

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

Of course i take their money! Lol this chick has real bills that doesn't include shoes lol.however i would never socialize with them.would you hang out with someone who was ashamed of you?i doubt it.that probably also explains why you have a hard time finding ts chicks who don't want to charge you

I don't have a hard time with anything :shrug

What does it say about you for taking money from people you don't respect? I don't know because I'm not judging you for that really, or for selling your ass. To each their own. I don't care what you do because I'm more interested in me LOL

You don't know why people do what they do. A guy doesn't have to be ashamed of a tgirl if he doesn't acknowledge he likes them. It can be a number of factors and you should really open your mind and not be so judgmental. It obviously bothers you and it shouldn't :shrug

Plenty of people can say a lot of things about you for doing what you do.

If someone was ashamed of me, I would find out if they truly were, and if they were then no I wouldn't hang out with them, but I also wouldn't take anything else from them either, but that's just me.

[Rockit_]

Friends? No, I'm the only one in my circle who is adventurous at all. I don't really have reservations about what I like, and I don't self-censor. Unfortunate? Yeah, but we can't all be special snowflakes.

[amberskyi]

I don't have a hard time with anything :shrug

What does it say about you for taking money from people you don't respect? I don't know because I'm not judging you for that really, or for selling your ass. To each their own. I don't care what you do because I'm more interested in me LOL

You don't know why people do what they do. A guy doesn't have to be ashamed of a tgirl if he doesn't acknowledge he likes them. It can be a number of factors and you should really open your mind and not be so judgmental. It obviously bothers you and it shouldn't :shrug

Plenty of people can say a lot of things about you for doing what you do.

If someone was ashamed of me, I would find out if they truly were, and if they were then no I wouldn't hang out with them, but I also wouldn't take anything else from them either, but that's just me.

I grew up in a capitalistic society do i don't need to respect someone or even like them to take their money.what a silly notion lol.i provide service with a smile to all but most of my clients are dishonest cheaters and while i don't judge they're not anyone i would want in my circle.
You could judge me for selling my ass if you'd like, that's your right.we all make judgments about people, some are fair and some aren't.i have no problem with that.
I honestly don't care if my clients are closeted.the only time it bothers me is when i encounter it with someone who I'm dealing with on a purely social level.you'll find most girls share my view.

[RallyCola]

Mmmm do you have a link for that test or just a name? I take it it's academically valid.

As to the topic, I have made quite a few friends through my interest in transwomen, many of them being trans, and I certainly know of one older friend who is interested, though he since got married (to an ordinary girl) so maybe he's on the d/l.

it is a test that requires an intrinsic optical imaging setup and is not something you do online. sorry. it is used in neurophysiological studies and not something the general public would ever see.

[fred41]

I'm acquainted with one or two people from a previous site...and friends of GF's...other than that I have one really good friend who is into Transsexuals. I think slowly more people are expressing an interest due to media coverage...and because some transsexuals are simply knockouts (you know who you are...lol).
The awareness level is slowly rising amongst men. I now run into more and more guys that seem to express a possible attraction whereas in previous years the same people would have given you a "Hell no!!"...
I did learn one thing though, as I have stated in the past. If you talk about your attraction to transsexuals too much...your girlfriend is going to be scrutinized a lot more...and she may not appreciate that.

[Quiet Reflections]

one for sure but maybe two

[RallyCola]

well...the question could be phrased, do any of you guys consider yourself friends because of this board...if so...we all have a friend that likes tgirls.

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I grew up in a capitalistic society do i don't need to respect someone or even like them to take their money.what a silly notion lol.i provide service with a smile to all but most of my clients are dishonest cheaters and while i don't judge they're not anyone i would want in my circle.
You could judge me for selling my ass if you'd like, that's your right.we all make judgments about people, some are fair and some aren't.i have no problem with that.
I honestly don't care if my clients are closeted.the only time it bothers me is when i encounter it with someone who I'm dealing with on a purely social level.you'll find most girls share my view.

Don't try to justify your judgments. Everyone has a perspective on things and there is no such thing as a fair perspective or not. What one person believes another doesn't have to. To each his or her own. Just don't be a hypocrite LOL

I don't need to deal with you or the girls that share your view, because our views obviously clash. I really don't care. People need to stop worrying about if someone doesn't want to disclose something to the world and just worry about themselves LOL

[danthepoetman]

well...the question could be phrased, do any of you guys consider yourself friends because of this board...if so...we all have a friend that likes tgirls.
Good point, Rally! :)

[TSPornFan]

None of my friends are into TS women. I have a friend who is bisexual. He likes men and women, but he is disinterested in TS women.

[amberskyi]

I'm not justifying my judgments.your the one who told me not to be so judgmental.i said it's within peoples nature to make judgments.
Any way carry on with the thread fellas....

[danthepoetman]

I'm not justifying my judgments.your the one who told me not to be so judgmental.i said it's within peoples nature to make judgments.
Any way carry on with the thread fellas....
You're right, Amber. You have to make judgements indeed. One can't help it. Life is about judgments. We wouldn't be able to take any action without judgements. What's wrong is gratuitous condemnation...

[gaga99]

In response to Amber;

Here's the thing, guys are less apt to reveal something of this nature to there friends in fear of being ostracized. In a perfect society, everyone would be tolerable of a person's interests, beliefs and even race. We don't live in a perfect society.

Most of our friendships have been built over many years & should mostly be indestructible if they are true friends. Once again, we don't live in a perfect society. I've had a friend who was closer with a few other guys in my circle who came out as gay. What happened, they slowly eliminated him from the circle. We're all still cool, but the friendship was in no way the same after he revealed his sexuality.

Many would say, you don't need friends like that anyways, but guess what? Most of us in our late 20's & early 30's do. Unless something drastic happens, we will remain friends because ironically, we've accepted who they are.

So unfortunately, things aren't as black & white as just telling your friends about every aspect of your life. I'm sure you have things that you keep "closeted" from your immediate group of friends. Nothing wrong with it, it's basic human nature.

[amberskyi]

And things will never change because no one wants to be the first to do it.
*walks out thread and closes closet door

[ed_jaxon]

I have friends I have met on here whom are a blast to hang out with irl. Shit is fun. I probably have hung out with as many guys from here as babes. A guy has to have guys to drink with, gamble with and chase girls with.

I also have guys I have grown up with come over to the spot and not bat an eye with the girls. My friends are for the most part pretty cool.

[gaga99]

And things will never change because no one wants to be the first to do it.
*walks out thread and closes closet door


Lol, that's quite a simplistic view of our world. Let me guess, you tell everyone you meet your a transgender woman right off the bat? Regardless of how things may improve in gender and race relations, there will always be segments of people who don't approve, many of those in our own personal lives. I'm old enough to accept it. If you want to keep looking at the world through your rose colored glasses, fine. Things can & have changed on a surface level, but overall, people still hold and adhere to their personal beliefs. I've taken the glasses off & see the world as it is, a decent place, but filled with of intolerant people we have & will deal with. Some are even friends & many aren't willing to give up friendships by revealing something personal about themselves.

[giovanni_hotel]

Guys don't share their love of TS women with their friends because they don't wanna get stuck with the 'gay' label.
Guys don't mind if their friends know they like to stick their tongue up their girl's ass, drink her breast milk, get peed on, etc.

But being called a faggot for liking TS?? Bummer.

I think most guys would be surprised to find out MOST of your friends won't disown you in 2013 for liking tgirls, even if they think you're a little odd and not quite straight.

The most I've gotten friends to admit without them totally coming clean is when I say I think a certain TS is pretty, they'll agree but claim they can't get past the genitalia.
At which point I said 'don't put her dick in your mouth and it's all good.'
(Present company excluded.lol)
Like I've said, I don't advertise it, but I don't deny it either.

Look at how many dudes lurk on this site!!! There are way more guys jonesing for TS than they'd ever admit.

[smoothboi]

I don't talk about sex with my friends because they're married or have serious girlfriends. So I don't really know either way. I'm doubtful.

I don't think if [when?, ladies, hello] I dated a tgirl anyone would really care though. I have told 2 gg play partners that I'm interested in tgirls. They weren't really surprised.

[dunksnrice]

yeah, its tough to tell your friends..i'm 23 and it really sucks to go to bars in LA solo. its so much easier to hit on girls when you're with friends.

[danthepoetman]

I might be overzealeous and over moralistic, but I find that we have a responsability to talk about it, to act and speak as if it wasn't a big deal -because in the end, finding women attractive isn't, and t-women are women! It's very simple: a woman is a woman is a woman... We guys, all hang out in here and gets freebees from these girls. They show us their lovely bodies, they interract with us, they are nice, charming and lovely to us, but we, all of us guys, are ashame of our attraction to them! Isn't that ridiculous and terribly unfair of us? Just fuck what the rest of the world thinks about it: let's come clean with what we think. Not necessarily with our desires, but with what we all think on the question! That's the very fucking least (excuse the French, but I am) we can do!
Moreover, if these girls (hello! guys! girls!) are ready to go through so much socially and in their intimate lives to get to what we see them to be and further, shouldn't we, "guys", be tough enough, strong enough, to at least say around us that transsexual women are women, to say that they should have the same rights as any other women, to insist that twomen be recognized in everyway possible as women? If we guys could put our pants on, I'm sure things would change radically for them.

[youngblood61]

None that I know of.:)

[CaptainPlanet]

Probably the reason i don't attend the parties as often. I end up chillin at the bar all night. Getting asked to buy drinks by every girl that passes by gets old.

[Castor_Troy05]

None of my friends have admitted they're into it, they just accept I am and get on with things

[amberskyi]

I might be overzealeous and over moralistic, but I find that we have a responsability to talk about it, to act and speak as if it wasn't a big deal -because in the end, finding women attractive isn't, and t-women are women! It's very simple: a woman is a woman is a woman... We guys, all hang out in here and gets freebees from these girls. They show us their lovely bodies, they interract with us, they are nice, charming and lovely to us, but we, all of us guys, are ashame of our attraction to them! Isn't that ridiculous and terribly unfair of us? Just fuck what the rest of the world thinks about it: let's come clean with what we think. Not necessarily with our desires, but with what we all think on the question! That's the very fucking least (excuse the French, but I am) we can do!
Moreover, if these girls (hello! guys! girls!) are ready to go through so much socially and in their intimate lives to get to what we see them to be and further, shouldn't we, "guys", be tough enough, strong enough, to at least say around us that transsexual women are women, to say that they should have the same rights as any other women, to insist that twomen be recognized in everyway possible as women? If we guys could put our pants on, I'm sure things would change radically for them.

Sadly that will never be the majority of guys.look what resistance i was meet with in this thread.
*sigh* all i can say is thank you to the men who treat us like normal woman and not something to be ashamed of or something to hide.

[MacShreach]

Guys don't share their love of TS women with their friends because they don't wanna get stuck with the 'gay' label.
Guys don't mind if their friends know they like to stick their tongue up their girl's ass, drink her breast milk, get peed on, etc.

But being called a faggot for liking TS?? Bummer.

I think most guys would be surprised to find out MOST of your friends won't disown you in 2013 for liking tgirls, even if they think you're a little odd and not quite straight.

The most I've gotten friends to admit without them totally coming clean is when I say I think a certain TS is pretty, they'll agree but claim they can't get past the genitalia.
At which point I said 'don't put her dick in your mouth and it's all good.'
(Present company excluded.lol)
Like I've said, I don't advertise it, but I don't deny it either.

Look at how many dudes lurk on this site!!! There are way more guys jonesing for TS than they'd ever admit.
One of these days you and I need to meet up for a pint. One of the most reasonable and perceptive posters on here.

[youngblood61]

None of my friends have admitted they're into it, they just accept I am and get on with thingsThose are good friends Castor.:)

[IHEARTKALENA]

None.. most of my friends aren't exactly tolerant of the LGBT community, It's why I'm hesistant to check out the local scene I can to gigs & other stuff solo but I'm not so sure on going to a club by myself

[CaptainPlanet]

none here, but i wouldn't put a doubt on anyone, i have seen some Mutual friends on Facebook, and other online apps!

[Andyg125]

I didn't let any of my friends or family know about my attraction to ts women for 10 years. I finally had to let it out one night. Friends look at me differently, certainly. Two of my buddies actually bring it up all the time about transgender women and this and that. They support me and I know that they're very jealous that they can't come out with enough confidence and admit it is attractive. They can't get over the penis part and that's understandable. But I know that each and everyone of them has looked into ts porn since and at least a few of them are super attracted to ts women already. They just won't admit it.

[hwbs]

just the friends i know from here....the ts nightlife is pretty horrible here so i have no reason to want to hang at ts clubs....that and i like to roll solo

[Tapatio]

As far as I know, exactly none of my friends have experience with TS girls.