Does a porn producer have an obligation to tell his love interest he shoots TS porn?

[Kevin Dong]

Before sex? Second date? While my knob is in her? Discuss.

[GroobySteven]

Before sex? Second date? While my knob is in her? Discuss.

After he's met her parents.

[Kevin Dong]

After he's met her parents.

mwahahaha. one of these days I'm gonna have a story for you. :banana:

[bluesoul]

just follow this guys advice

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbP1DVeJCT0

[Prospero]

Depends if his love interest is a player in his porn. But yes - 100 per cent. Especially if she is a practicising churchgoer. Perhaps you could get a bumper sticker proclaiming your profession. Make it easier for everyone.

[Kevin Dong]

Depends if his love interest is a player in his porn. But yes - 100 per cent. Especially if she is a practicising churchgoer. Perhaps you could get a bumper sticker proclaiming your profession. Make it easier for everyone.

Let's say the love interest is an unsuspecting civilian GG that thinks she's struck the JACKPOT and met a nice, kind, generous quiet humble slightly insecure (nobody's perfect) young man that works from home. :geek: For the sake of argument.

[Prospero]

Make sure she REALLY loves you before you lay it on her then....

[nysprod]

Let's say the love interest is an unsuspecting civilian GG that thinks she's struck the JACKPOT and met a nice, kind, generous quiet humble slightly insecure (nobody's perfect) young man that works from home. :geek: For the sake of argument.

Obviously this question is coming from real life...the subject of employment tends to come up early...what have you told her to this point?

[Amber Littlefeather]

Let's say the love interest is an unsuspecting civilian GG that thinks she's struck the JACKPOT and met a nice, kind, generous quiet humble slightly insecure (nobody's perfect) young man that works from home. :geek: For the sake of argument.

Hey hun...And I will and Smoking "HOT"!!...LOL i have just had this happen to me but from model side with a GG..Well I think if you're really in to her and would like to have a relationship you should..But know its going to open more Questions like are you into the models you shoot and have you had sex with any of them..If you do tell her have a game plain and all of ansewers in order "she will ask hun"...xo Amber L.

PS..Remember my chaperone.."100 % the GF".

[Prospero]

Sorry i was flip before.
In all honesty I don't think OBLIGATION comes into it, but pure common sense and a desire to be honest does. You can't have a serious relationship with someone and keep what you do for a living secret (unless you are in the CIA maybe)

[jennylicious]

Sorry i was flip before.
In all honesty I don't think OBLIGATION comes into it, but pure common sense and a desire to be honest does. You can't have a serious relationship with someone and keep what you do for a living secret (unless you are in the CIA maybe)

I disagree. They are completely obliged. I'm pretty sure I read it in the Bible.

Somewhere in the middle.

[amberskyi]

the same time that i tell a guy im an escort..before we bone.that is if he doesnt find out on his own before than lol

[Prospero]

Jennylicious wrote: "I'm pretty sure I read it in the Bible."

"The things that you're liable, to read in the Bible, it ain't necessarily so."

[Buddy Wood]

Yes!! Totally!! For his own mental health though. As an obligation to himself.

OR...hide it like you're a secret agent and lie lie lie!! But that's impossible if you're really in a relationship. I've tried a few times and bottom line my brother...it's really difficult to date outside of the industry.

What..? Is the nice gg that works at the corner coffee shop gonna understand your porn job where you have transsexuals (most of them escorts) over to your house almost daily and they show you their buttholes and masturbate for you?? Or they have sex with a big bald guy for you? No!! I mean she might...but she has to be a REALLY great girl!! Or a REALLY freaky girl!! Or love you to death! And if you find someone with all of those qualities...hold on to her tight and don't let go!!

Tell her right away and see how she reacts (it's fun)...or hide that shit and lie like a rug (or like Frank) until you're so exhausted from lying you can't take it anymore and you move to Thailand!!

Chances are it wouldn't work out anyway cuz you'd just end up fucking one of your models! ;-)

[littletwink]

Definitely while fucking, and then tell her to look at the red light and make an O with her mouth.

[Kevin Dong]

Yes!! Totally!! For his own mental health though. As an obligation to himself.

OR...hide it like you're a secret agent and lie lie lie!! But that's impossible if you're really in a relationship. I've tried a few times and bottom line my brother...it's really difficult to date outside of the industry.

What..? Is the nice gg that works at the corner coffee shop gonna understand your porn job where you have transsexuals (most of them escorts) over to your house almost daily and they show you their buttholes and masturbate for you?? Or they have sex with a big bald guy for you? No!! I mean she might...but she has to be a REALLY great girl!! Or a REALLY freaky girl!! Or love you to death! And if you find someone with all of those qualities...hold on to her tight and don't let go!!

Tell her right away and see how she reacts (it's fun)...or hide that shit and lie like a rug (or like Frank) until you're so exhausted from lying you can't take it anymore and you move to Thailand!!

Chances are it wouldn't work out anyway cuz you'd just end up fucking one of your models! ;-)

Lol I'm never telling my woman anything. That's how we roll in Russia.

[SP27]

you should tell her when you are buried balls deep in her doggie style, grab her hips tight, then say smile you're on camera. then hold on for a wild ride.

[Ecstatic]

My wife has known since my first shoot, and has met probably 3/4 of the models I've shot. So long as she doesn't have to watch, she's totally fine with it.

[TatianaSummer]

You are asking like if there is something wrong with that. Nothing wrong with shooting any kind of porn. TS, Straight, Gay, etc

I mean if its just a job, but when the producers start having sex with the actors then its something different. :geek:

[fivekatz]

Depends if his love interest is a player in his porn. But yes - 100 per cent. Especially if she is a practicising churchgoer. Perhaps you could get a bumper sticker proclaiming your profession. Make it easier for everyone.Soon as possible is good advice. If the intended has a real problem with the line of work, better to know now and spare the risk of falling in love only to rejected for your profession.

Aside, if this is a real and healthy relationship, shouldn't you both be sharing who you are to each other?

Just my take

[Willie Escalade]

I'd tell them. It's only a job.

[Kevin Dong]

Thanks for all the input. While I would never actually take life or dating advice from anyone on a porn forum, I can see where many of you are coming from. It seems that the most common answer is tell her right away. While I agree that honesty is the best policy, in today's day and age anything you say can and will be used against you. One thing I will always do is keep my business to myself. I will never share accounts, bank statements, or any information about finances with my wife. The divorce rate in North America is staggering. Can you imagine what kind of a divorce you would have disclosing this kind of information? You think you're brave thinking you have a big dick and you'd "man up" and tell your old lady everything. It's all going to come back and haunt you after. I am not that naive.

if a girl loves me she'll be with me no matter what. I have dated genetic girls that would have been with me still had I kept them around.

[Jamie French]

I always meet my GFs on porn sets anyhow so it's never a problem. I highly recommend going that route.

The dating pool is limited if you're in porn but when you consider that the pool is made up of people so hot that they are paid to be jerked off to then you realize it's not such a bad deal.

[nysprod]

Thanks for all the input. While I would never actually take life or dating advice from anyone on a porn forum...

WTF...then why ask in the first place...so it's like you need advice, then you go looking for it from people you never would take any from...what is that?



I can see where many of you are coming from. It seems that the most common answer is tell her right away. While I agree that honesty is the best policy, in today's day and age anything you say can and will be used against you.

Translation: I was looking for people who think like me in order to find support my inherent dishonesty and paranoia...unfortunately for me, I haven't, which is why I'm not taking advice from any of you.[/QUOTE]



One thing I will always do is keep my business to myself. I will never share accounts, bank statements, or any information about finances with my wife. The divorce rate in North America is staggering. Can you imagine what kind of a divorce you would have disclosing this kind of information? You think you're brave thinking you have a big dick and you'd "man up" and tell your old lady everything. It's all going to come back and haunt you after. I am not that naive.

Earth to Dong Brain: No woman is going to deal with you under those circumstances. And BTW, it's called communal property.


if a girl loves me she'll be with me no matter what. I have dated genetic girls that would have been with me still had I kept them around.

God help any woman, GG or TG, who goes anywhere near you..."had i kept them around"...more than likely it was them that walked out on you...of that, I'm totally convinced.

[Kevin Dong]

WTF...then why ask in the first place...so it's like you need advice, then you go looking for it from people you never would take any from...what is that?




Translation: I was looking for people who think like me in order to find support my inherent dishonesty and paranoia...unfortunately for me, I haven't, which is why I'm not taking advice from any of you.




Earth to Dong Brain: No woman is going to deal with you under those circumstances. And BTW, it's called communal property.



God help any woman, GG or TG, who goes anywhere near you..."had i kept them around"...more than likely it was them that walked out on you...of that, I'm totally convinced.[/QUOTE]

Actually I made the thread as a joke because of the other two threads. Also, had you ever actually met me you'd realize what a Beta you are in comparison.

[nysprod]

Earth to Dong Brain: No woman is going to deal with you under those circumstances. And BTW, it's called communal property.



God help any woman, GG or TG, who goes anywhere near you..."had i kept them around"...more than likely it was them that walked out on you...of that, I'm totally convinced.

Actually I made the thread as a joke because of the other two threads. Also, had you ever actually met me you'd realize what a Beta you are in comparison.[/QUOTE]

The thread you probably made as a joke originally...but I have zero belief that what you said was...

[Kevin Dong]

Actually I made the thread as a joke because of the other two threads. Also, had you ever actually met me you'd realize what a Beta you are in comparison.

The thread you probably made as a joke originally...but I have zero belief that what you said was...[/QUOTE]

OK keyboard warrior

[amberskyi]

Hilarious

[nysprod]

Hilarious

Lol...The crap you read on here sometimes...