What's Holding You Back?

[SheWantsTheD]

Is there anything that is stopping you from enjoying the scene?
Perhaps something physical, emotional, money, partner, location, shy etc.

Would you like to be with or around trans people more than you are currently? If yes, whats been holding you back?

[luvts/tvs]

Being married :(

[nysprod]

Is there anything that is stopping you from enjoying the scene?
Perhaps something physical, emotional, money, partner, location, shy etc.

Would you like to be with or around trans people more than you are currently? If yes, whats been holding you back?

That's a cool name...thinking about changing mine to IGotTheD

[Flaco]

My issue is that when I was younger I always wanted genetic females and pussy, that changed when I stumbled upon Shemale porn. I've had sexual encounters with TS, some have been amazing, others not so much. There is a part of me that wants to have a relationship with a TS. Maybe even date TS solely. However, my mind tells me that its wrong to build a relationship on something that is based on lust and fetish. So for that reason I keep my distance. That may or may not change in the near future.

[JerseyMike]

Lack of money and I'm not a fan of many escorts. The some girls at the parties are too pushy while others seem too shy or stuck up.

[SheWantsTheD]

Well my main issues are that I never go to any events so I miss out on the club/party scene.
Also, some of these TS are taller than me. I wish I could be tall just once!


My issue is that when I was younger I always wanted genetic females and pussy, that changed when I stumbled upon Shemale porn. I've had sexual encounters with TS, some have been amazing, others not so much. There is a part of me that wants to have a relationship with a TS. Maybe even date TS solely. However, my mind tells me that its wrong to build a relationship on something that is based on lust and fetish. So for that reason I keep my distance. That may or may not change in the near future.
Hmmm... reading your post I think I've gone this same route. I was keeping my distance for some time but then I ended up take the plunge again lol.

That's a cool name...thinking about changing mine to IGotTheD
Haha! Glad I inspired someone! You should go for it! :banana:

[south ov da border]

for me its the cash. Other than that, I got no issues with being out and about in the scene.

[f-finger]

Nothing anymore really, cuz I had my fair share. Now I am well into my 30s and the thrill has gone. I still check back occasionally to this scene bc it's a strange, crazy but yet fascinating thing.

[dominoadmirer]

Location mostly, I have the the money and I don't really care what others think but unfortunately I live in a country where Dublin is the only city with a trans friendly vibe. And that's only in one or two bars which is a pity

[Marky_B]

Just a bit curious why a few people above said their reason was lack of money... Why is this stopping anyone enjoying the Trans scene? I don't earn a fortune but am able to enjoy the scene :)

[GiDM]

I wouldn't list money as my number one reason. I've been with plenty of girls regardless of money. If your honest and treat em well they'll take care of you. I guess right now...is 1. Location. 2. Relationship, even tho' I mingled a lot in the scene. It seemed like every time I met a great TG I was getting more involved in a relationship with a GG. Such is my situation now. Almost like in order for me to want this scene I need that "normal" relationship to balance me out. 3. Location AGAIN!!! Lol

[Willie Escalade]

No problems...except for my weekday job during the graveyard hours. Before that I usually was at all of the venues. I still have my weekends (and occasional day times) though...

[sheyum]

germaphonia...period..
i referring to escorts...(so no girls start yelling at me!!)
but --90 percent of girls you meet ARE escorts....and i dont feel i can do the things i want to freely..

even kissing has risks...

so its frustrating.

[amberskyi]

germaphonia...period..
i referring to escorts...(so no girls start yelling at me!!)
but --90 percent of girls you meet ARE escorts....and i dont feel i can do the things i want to freely..

even kissing has risks...

so its frustrating.

That's a really weird statistic.where did you get that from?

[Jericho]

That's a really weird statistic.where did you get that from?


He pulled it out of his arse of course.
Everyone knows it's closer to 98%! :shrug







:joke:

[Ziggles93]

If I could find the scene, I'd be in it.

[inSD]

If I knew where 'the scene' was in SD I'd check it out. I just don't really want to hang out in tranny or gay bars trolling for girls.

where do the girls hang out in San Diego that isn't like an obvious market?

[sheyum]

hi amber

its a very un--scientific stat!!:)

im just making the point that most girls that you meet...at NY parties for example..are all escorting..

and once again...no judgements AT ALL...but facts are facts...and escorts DO present hgher risks...its just common sense..

im not suggesting in any way that T-girls are any more dangerous than anyone else...but escorts are....wouldnt u say?





That's a really weird statistic.where did you get that from?

[bluesoul]

If I knew where 'the scene' was in SD I'd check it out. I just don't really want to hang out in tranny or gay bars trolling for girls.

where do the girls hang out in San Diego that isn't like an obvious market?

the grocery store. trannies need groceries too. camp outside your local vons/safeway and approach anyone that looks suspect accordingly (do a search for things to do on a first date with a tranny for step-by-step guidelines of how to navigate past this part)

[amberskyi]

hi amber

its a very un--scientific stat!!:)

im just making the point that most girls that you meet...at NY parties for example..are all escorting..

and once again...no judgements AT ALL...but facts are facts...and escorts DO present hgher risks...its just common sense..

im not suggesting in any way that T-girls are any more dangerous than anyone else...but escorts are....wouldnt u say?

Well duh...those parties and clubs are for escorts.that's like going to the bakery and wondering why you see pastries lol.
There are plenty of girls who don't escort, they're just not as visible.

[Prospero]

Girls who don't escort - or work in other parts of the industry - try to be invisible, by and large, because of the wide hostility much of society still has to anyone who is deemed 'different."

[dudeguy90]

North Dakota.....

[sheyum]

ok amber--this might piss u off..but dare i say-----that the ones who dont escort arent usually as hot..

seems like all the sexy fem ones are working
i could be wrong..but i live in a big city..and whenever i see a hot girl (just walking around" she looks very clockable and not that fem




Well duh...those parties and clubs are for escorts.that's like going to the bakery and wondering why you see pastries lol.
There are plenty of girls who don't escort, they're just not as visible.

[Tits McButts]

ok amber--this might piss u off..but dare i say-----that the ones who dont escort arent usually as hot..

seems like all the sexy fem ones are working
i could be wrong..but i live in a big city..and whenever i see a hot girl (just walking around" she looks very clockable and not that fem

If you're trying to avoid escorts but find a girl that looks like an escort it means you're too particular or perhaps your standards and expectations are unrealistic. Move on.

[giovanni_hotel]

Finding attractive, non-escort TS randomly is like trapping a striped unicorn. That's almost pure dumb luck.

It's just very challenging to meet compatible TS for guys who are into them.

LOL at the guy who said 'the thrill is gone'.
Might want to get your T(estosterone) levels checked.