Forced sex fantasy?

[ryanmurph69]

Has anyone here ever had a forced sex (rape) fantasy? I have had dreams about being raped by a CD or Tgirl for many, many years and I'm not sure what to think of it. I have always been dead set against the act being done to someone, but the idea of being the victim keeps reoccuring in my dreams. I am a pretty masculine guy, but have dreamed of being a hopeless victim for years. Being pinned down and taken from behind. Thoughts?

[Ms.Stepford]

It's a thing with masculine guys. You spend so much time exerting and vying for power that it's a relief for you to lose it for awhile, especially to a superior woman.

[Bribi]

I can assure you that it is as feminine as masculine
A lot of woman have a certain fantasy of forced sex and rape
Weird, but true

[amberskyi]

Have fun getting your ass sown back together smh.
I've never got rape fantasies.anyone who's ever been a victim of rape or know a victim knows it's an incredibly violent act.i think allot of people that have these fantasies think it's some sort of gentle submission or something.the reality is often times there is allot of tearing/bruising of the genitalia (or anus) and other various injuries all of the body from the struggle.

[ryanmurph69]

It's a thing with masculine guys. You spend so much time exerting and vying for power that it's a relief for you to lose it for awhile, especially to a superior woman.

Thank you! This helps :)

[ryanmurph69]

Have fun getting your ass sown back together smh.
I've never got rape fantasies.anyone who's ever been a victim of rape or know a victim knows it's an incredibly violent act.i think allot of people that have these fantasies think it's some sort of gentle submission or something.the reality is often times there is allot of tearing/bruising of the genitalia (or anus) and other various injuries all of the body from the struggle.

I understand that. I know people who have been victims, and that is why I am curious as to why I have these dreams. Thanks for the input :)

[ryanmurph69]

I can assure you that it is as feminine as masculine
A lot of woman have a certain fantasy of forced sex and rape
Weird, but true

I have heard of women having this fantasy, but the masculine victim thing was a new one to me. Thanks for the reply :)

[Prospero]

You can't legislate for someone's dreams.

[Michelle.]

Surrender of control/ submission is completely different than rape. Maybe you would like to be cast as the star of your own raw/bareback/creampie gangbang?

[Legfetishnyc]

Sometimes, i think if i fantasize being 'forced', it pushes those sexuality doubts away. I consider myself 'straight' - attracted to feminine women, but i entertain fantasies about cock sucking of very feminine looking trans girls (with great legs:)) who are unfortunately referred to here derogatorily as 'shemales'. Stories where the guy 'accidentally' fins out his new gf/pickup is transgender, and maybe pushes the issue a bit makes it seem like less of your own chice; you can enjoy the fantasy without thinking too much about 'typical' male American sexual stereotypes.

[freak]

When I fist seen TS porn there was a few rape/drugged videos that really turned me on, I wanted and still do be the guy that gets taken by 2 hung T-girls. Used anally and forced to take their loads in my mouth.

[up_for_it]

I think one of the issues this post has raised in the difference between domination and rape. To me, rape is a violent act absolutely devoid of eroticism. It also expresses a whole different set of power dynamics. In my opinion rape isn't about sex, its about violence.

Now, being used sexually and physically abused during the scene is another issue. I think a lot of guys like the idea of being forced into a sex act, and being dominated is a way to expand their horizons. I have a couple of fantasies along those lines involving transexuals and dominant women, who observe what happens. For me, this is about submission and the pushing of my sexuality in this context is something I find really erotic. I've fantasized and experimented with themes of submission and dominance since I was a kid. Then again, I don't feel like I need to be 'forced' to have sex with a transexual. I have plent of other fantasies involving loveyl T girls where force or BDSM never happens. A lot of them are pretty tame and vanilla.

I feel like the term 'rape' is often used out of context for describing being erotically forced, and I agree with the other posters who are repulsed by the use of the word to describe a sexual encounter. Its totally understandable, but then again, I'd like to point out it's also probably used by most people as a quick and seemingly best way to explain some form of erotic coercion. At the end of the day the type and extent of the force is the fantasy in the eye of the beholder. To each their own. Personally, I don't find being man handled or assualted to be too cool. A fool might get punched. But, I do fantasize about being bound, put on display, spanked, caned, verbally humiliated, and get my dick slapped by a hot transexual while a domme watches, and then commanded to perform foot worship, ass worship etc. So, I dig some erotic pain, but again, don't want to get jumped, beaten, ass pounded, and left lying in the street. But, like I said, to each their own. I also have some great fantasies about cuckolding and abusing sissies and their wives.

Again, it's all about someone's interests and I don't to knock anyone else's. I do think we shouldn't take the term 'rape' at face value on this thread, but I also hands down agree we need to find a better way to articulate this than rape, which is an ugly word and an even uglier act.

[amberskyi]

Line up fellas.....i got screwdrivers

[bluesoul]

Has anyone here ever had a forced sex (rape) fantasy? I have had dreams about being raped by a CD or Tgirl for many, many years and I'm not sure what to think of it. I have always been dead set against the act being done to someone, but the idea of being the victim keeps reoccuring in my dreams. I am a pretty masculine guy, but have dreamed of being a hopeless victim for years. Being pinned down and taken from behind. Thoughts?

honestly i think this is very disturbing.

[sheyum]

"Disturbing"??????

lets not get overly--precious here guys..

Not to offend anyone who has ever ACTUALLY been raped --which of course is a horrible and seriously violent occurrence...

but the FANTASY of being raped...coerced..forced...whatever you want to call it....is like Fantasy 101--and exceedingly common --certainly in women..
(all the ones Ive ever fucked anyway)--and i would imagine MANY guys who are into t--girls

its just a fantasy....and lets face it..isnt most of sex about power and control..one some level??













honestly i think this is very disturbing.

[Prospero]

I think some escorts will offer the "fantasy" of being raped. In other words being held down and forced to take hr cock orally and/or anally. But as far wiser souls than me have pointed out this is HUGELY different from the real thing - which no-one would want to experience. Amber, as often, is talking a great deal of sense here.

The physical and mental anguish caused by real rape can be long lasting and can involve permanent mental and/or physical damage. Really NOT to be joked about. Long ago i had a girlfriend who'd been raped. She was seriously emotionally damaged by it.

[bluesoul]

sheyum: if you check what the op asked, they wanted "thoughts". since we're all different, chances are the "thoughts" will also be different, right?

also- i think you are confusing rape with rough sex

[blackshemalelove]

i would accept to be raped by a ts any day....well a ts that fits into my description....it makes me accept it easier even though at the end of the day i allow it my self

so like someone said, i have a high position, respected in society, big and shaped in physique, young and energetic that sometimes want somebody over me....well you cant be on top all the time i guess

[sheyum]

I understand Bluesoul

and i dont mean to be Flip...trust me
of course rape os a horrific thing...

im just saying...we';re getting into serious discussons of rape..

where it seems to me..that The OP is just talking about a "forced sex" fantasy--which is --i think--pretty common...

not to be confused with actual rape...






sheyum: if you check what the op asked, they wanted "thoughts". since we're all different, chances are the "thoughts" will also be different, right?

also- i think you are confusing rape with rough sex

[bluesoul]

where it seems to me..that The OP is just talking about a "forced sex" fantasy--which is --i think--pretty common...

not to be confused with actual rape...

in that case, we're in agreement, but i still think the fantasy is disturbing. that's just my personal opinion regarding the question.

[Prospero]

Forced sex fantasy - in truth a consensual game - is fine. It is not rape.

[robertlouis]

Line up fellas.....i got screwdrivers

I'll have whatever drinks are on offer, Amber..... :dancing:

[stan.smith]

Reminds me of captain david asuveda from the show "the shield". after watching a victim get raped on tape he started having this fantasy. i remember recalling a hooker telling him its nothing wrong and u need to get this energy out instead of keeping it bottled up inside u . better in the bedroom with a hooker than to go n actually rape some1.

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Biastophilia
This is a form of sexual sadism. Rape in short, of an un-consenting person. This can also fall under the category of fantasy which can be practiced between consenting adults.