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littletwink
03-19-2013, 01:37 AM
I really like good looking t-girls and crossdressers and the fantasy goes to a greater level for me when she's better looking IMO than MOST gg's. It's not just a greater physical attraction because of the looks, though. The heightened tingling comes I think because it's not expected that a genetic male transformed into a woman would or even COULD be prettier than the average genetic female.

Yes, I read a lot into my fantasies and fetishes, but it makes them more worthwhile for me, because it becomes about so much more than chasing hot she-cock. :)

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 01:46 AM
I really like good looking t-girls and crossdressers and the fantasy goes to a greater level for me when she's better looking IMO than MOST gg's. It's not just a greater physical attraction because of the looks, though. The heightened tingling comes I think because it's not expected that a genetic male transformed into a woman would or even COULD be prettier than the average genetic female.

Yes, I read a lot into my fantasies and fetishes, but it makes them more worthwhile for me, because it becomes about so much more than chasing hot she-cock. :)

Me too! I'm amazed that my GG friends say I look better than them, and I'm not even fully cooked! I'm like "No, you're just being nice!"

bluesoul
03-19-2013, 01:50 AM
I really like good looking t-girls and crossdressers and the fantasy goes to a greater level for me when she's better looking IMO than MOST gg's. It's not just a greater physical attraction because of the looks, though. The heightened tingling comes I think because it's not expected that a genetic male transformed into a woman would or even COULD be prettier than the average genetic female.

Yes, I read a lot into my fantasies and fetishes, but it makes them more worthwhile for me, because it becomes about so much more than chasing hot she-cock. :)

thanks for sharing your fantasy. it's a pretty radical one i have to say

Molly D'Vyne
03-19-2013, 02:09 AM
Me too! I'm amazed that my GG friends say I look better than them, and I'm not even fully cooked! I'm like "No, you're just being nice!"

I'm definitely on-board with that! You've got great features to start from... from what I can tell. :)

Personally, even before taking hormones I would get shit from my GG friends about looking better than them sometimes... and now that I'm over a year in... it's a constant sort of thing. I've been to strip clubs with a gg friend that was successful as a model... and had more guys hitting on me there than her and the girls working combined! o_O

I still have trouble seeing myself as being as attractive as people tell me I am... but the way people react in public backs it up.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 02:26 AM
I'm definitely on-board with that! You've got great features to start from... from what I can tell. :)

Personally, even before taking hormones I would get shit from my GG friends about looking better than them sometimes... and now that I'm over a year in... it's a constant sort of thing. I've been to strip clubs with a gg friend that was successful as a model... and had more guys hitting on me there than her and the girls working combined! o_O

I still have trouble seeing myself as being as attractive as people tell me I am... but the way people react in public backs it up.

Me too! Awesome! It's especially funny when people ask me if I've had FFS!

Like at my Uni club night last week, I had a guy just come up and start french kissing me. It was SO awkward. After he got done, I was like "Hey, I need to tell you something!" but he ran off. And last Saturday at Wendy House (awesome goth club night), I was ordering some food, and I turned to two guys to ask if my stubble was showing. They were like "You're a TS?!? You've done amazingly well, we couldn't tell at all until you asked that!"

Rusty Eldora
03-19-2013, 02:45 AM
I'm definitely on-board with that! You've got great features to start from... from what I can tell. :)

Personally, even before taking hormones I would get shit from my GG friends about looking better than them sometimes... and now that I'm over a year in... it's a constant sort of thing. I've been to strip clubs with a gg friend that was successful as a model... and had more guys hitting on me there than her and the girls working combined! o_O

I still have trouble seeing myself as being as attractive as people tell me I am... but the way people react in public backs it up.

I was discussing this by email with some others of the Seattle TS appreciation club. We are all quite amazed by it. One new guy was a lurker, he saw his first TS and was just blown away by her.

In the last 10 days I've been with 4 just amazing Tgirls - among the most beautiful women I have ever been with. I think all of them have some trouble realizing how attractive they are. But they are also friendly, outgoing, fun, and energetic that is rare in a GG, and very rare in attractive GG's. Usually a bitch factor emerges with the attractive ones.

Another surprise is how little makeup Tgirls use, hardly any mascara, powders etc etc. Yes lipstick and eyes but excellent healthy skin.

Molly - I think the guys see you as fun to be with, nice looking, and being the best part of feminine - you love being a girl, few woman have that passion about it.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 02:50 AM
I was discussing this by email with some others of the Seattle TS appreciation club. We are all quite amazed by it. One new guy was a lurker, he saw his first TS and was just blown away by her.

In the last 10 days I've been with 4 just amazing Tgirls - among the most beautiful women I have ever been with. I think all of them have some trouble realizing how attractive they are. But they are also friendly, outgoing, fun, and energetic that is rare in a GG, and very rare in attractive GG's. Usually a bitch factor emerges with the attractive ones.

Another surprise is how little makeup Tgirls use, hardly any mascara, powders etc etc. Yes lipstick and eyes but excellent healthy skin.

Molly - I think the guys see you as fun to be with, nice looking, and being the best part of feminine - you love being a girl, few woman have that passion about it.

I get asked all the time if I wear makeup! "What kind of powder do you use? Your skin is flawless!" "I'm not wearing any..." "Damn you!"

I do need to learn eye makeup! I wear lipstick/gloss from time to time.

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 02:56 AM
Me too! I'm amazed that my GG friends say I look better than them, and I'm not even fully cooked! I'm like "No, you're just being nice!"

Aren't you preheating that oven so you can roast a sausage this weekend?

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 03:01 AM
Aren't you preheating that oven so you can roast a sausage this weekend?

I know this is funny, but I don't get it!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 03:21 AM
I know this is funny, but I don't get it!

I'm sure he'll get plenty and leave you fuller than a canoli.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_fPoWZ33QqG4/S3AtDoKGKRI/AAAAAAAAFzw/OuIrs6c6ewM/s400/cannoli1.gif

Molly D'Vyne
03-19-2013, 03:33 AM
I get asked all the time if I wear makeup! "What kind of powder do you use? Your skin is flawless!" "I'm not wearing any..." "Damn you!"

I do need to learn eye makeup! I wear lipstick/gloss from time to time.

Similar situation here. I use foundation and powder on occasion... mainly just if I'm doing a photo shoot or anything especially ridiculous with my makeup (or to cover up the occasional stress breakout)... but generally I only do my eyes and a light gloss on my lips. And half the time nowadays... I roll out with no makeup at all because... fuck it!

Eye makeup is definitely a fun thing to learn just for the artistic elements that go along with it though. I definitely recommend checking out some tutorials on the interwebs and/or just playing in a mirror and learning. It's one of my favorite parts of being a girl!

And thanks for the nice words Rusty, I wouldn't be living the way I do if I didn't enjoy it!

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 03:33 AM
I'm sure he'll get plenty and leave you fuller than a canoli.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_fPoWZ33QqG4/S3AtDoKGKRI/AAAAAAAAFzw/OuIrs6c6ewM/s400/cannoli1.gif

Oh yeah! My boyfriend! I'm a spaz!

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 03:38 AM
Similar situation here. I use foundation and powder on occasion... mainly just if I'm doing a photo shoot or anything especially ridiculous with my makeup (or to cover up the occasional stress breakout)... but generally I only do my eyes and a light gloss on my lips. And half the time nowadays... I roll out with no makeup at all because... fuck it!

Eye makeup is definitely a fun thing to learn just for the artistic elements that go along with it though. I definitely recommend checking out some tutorials on the interwebs and/or just playing in a mirror and learning. It's one of my favorite parts of being a girl!

And thanks for the nice words Rusty, I wouldn't be living the way I do if I didn't enjoy it!

Yeah, me too! I love playing with makeup!

Question: why are is this forum populated with young tgirls that seem to have fun and interesting lives, while Laura's Playground is populated with older one's that are...boring? Is there anyone, other than me, who are members of both?

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:01 AM
Oh yeah! My boyfriend! I'm a spaz!

Shake hands with him first before you drink each others' blood. Baby steps...

Don't be such a spaz you can't relax your funhole later.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:04 AM
Shake hands with him first before you drink each others' blood. Baby steps...

I love blood! LOL (from 2:00 to 3:09; I'm the silver-haired dude) is always how I imagine a more dramatic version of the tranny trick would be:

Trinity Blood - Crusnik Abel Compilation Part 1 - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEUvFm3O1MQ)

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:05 AM
Don't be such a spaz you can't relax your funhole later.

I have poppers for that!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:07 AM
I have poppers for that!

Funhole still has that new car smell but you're so horny you're gonna leave grill marks on his cock after he pulls it out of your broiler. Stick a fork in that banger. It's done.:jerkoff

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:10 AM
Funhole still has that new car smell but you're so horny you're gonna leave grill marks on his cock after he pulls it out of your broiler. Stick a fork in that banger. It's done.:jerkoff

You're great! I'm horny AND hungry now!

amberskyi
03-19-2013, 04:10 AM
Oh yeah! My boyfriend! I'm a spaz!

So you have a boyfriend but lost your virginity to a client? Out of curiosity how did he feel about that?
My ex would of killed me and dumped my body in a wood chipper lol

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:12 AM
So you have a boyfriend but lost your virginity to a client? Out of curiosity how did he feel about that?
My ex would of killed me and dumped my body in a wood chipper lol

It was before I met my bf. He knows I escort, and he just wants me to a) use condoms (duh!), and b) don't get involved with them (again, duh)

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:12 AM
Hey, how 'bout those Bears?

The weather has been really nice lately.:whistle:

amberskyi
03-19-2013, 04:14 AM
It was before I met my bf. He knows I escort, and he just wants me to a) use condoms (duh!), and b) don't get involved with them (again, duh)

Oh i thought it just happened.
You'll learn soon enough that boyfriends and escorting don't mix.i just learned that lesson within the past year

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:19 AM
Oh i thought it just happened.
You'll learn soon enough that boyfriends and escorting don't mix.i just learned that lesson within the past year

He hopes I get into porn (he wants to run my website and do my PR!) and/or I get a biotech job, as then I can stop escorting to make money.

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:23 AM
Let's get back to commenting on that frisky funhole of yours and you getting popped after popping those poppers.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:28 AM
Let's get back to commenting on that frisky funhole of yours and you getting popped after popping those poppers.

I'm a frisky kitty! I either want a nice long cuddle, or a hard fucking!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:33 AM
I'm a frisky kitty! I either want a nice long cuddle, or a hard fucking!

Frisky Kitty. Slutty Starfish. Eager Beaver. Don't let 'em getcha preggars. Don't let him bottom either fer Christ sakes. Fellas might adjust the temperature but ladies cook the sausage. Think it says that in The Bible.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:38 AM
Frisky Kitty. Slutty Starfish. Eager Beaver. Don't let 'em getcha preggars. Don't let him bottom either fer Christ sakes. Fellas might adjust the temperature but ladies cook the sausage. Think it says that in The Bible.

LOL!!! I can't top without Viagra!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:39 AM
Hey Lexi, I appreciate you sharing about your first experience. Now, that was the first time up the rear. What about the mouth? How many of them thangs had been in there before? Wieners, that is.

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:41 AM
LOL!!! I can't top without Viagra!

I surely wouldn't ask. I'm a filthy ogre that enjoys to dominate.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:45 AM
Hey Lexi, I appreciate you sharing about your first experience. Now, that was the first time up the rear. What about the mouth? How many of them thangs had been in there before? Wieners, that is.

Remember, I did suck my client! Most blandest thing I've ever tasted. It was like sucking my thumb.

My escort session was my first sexual contact ever.

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 04:45 AM
I surely wouldn't ask. I'm a filthy ogre that enjoys to dominate.

You can top me any time, buddy!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 04:55 AM
Remember, I did suck my client! Most blandest thing I've ever tasted. It was like sucking my thumb.

My escort session was my first sexual contact ever.

Gotcha. First sexual contact ever. That fella's in for some serious buttsex after you bite the pillow. Brown that meat!!!

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 05:00 AM
Gotcha. First sexual contact ever. That fella's in for some serious buttsex after you bite the pillow. Brown that meat!!!

I'll make it burst into flames!

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 05:06 AM
I'll make it burst into flames!

You mean to say you're such a butt slut you'll set off the smoke alarms?!?

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 05:12 AM
You can top me any time, buddy!

You might be tall but I am mightier! Meatier too.:fuckin:

http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p121/ewitner/penismightier.png

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 05:16 AM
You mean to say you're such a butt slut you'll set off the smoke alarms?!?

Yep!

betts
03-19-2013, 05:37 AM
My escort session was my first sexual contact ever.


strange

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 05:37 AM
strange

It is. Can we all get over this?

Dino Velvet
03-19-2013, 05:43 AM
Yep!

Just stay in position after so he can fry some eggs on your left butt cheek and a couple grilled cheeses on the right one. If you don't conserve energy and use your ass as a hot plate the terrorists have truly won.

http://akirathedon.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/osama_obama.jpg

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 05:45 AM
Just stay in position after so he can fry some eggs on your left butt cheek and a couple grilled cheeses on the right one. If you don't conserve energy and use your ass as a hot plate the terrorists have truly won.

http://akirathedon.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/osama_obama.jpg

Please do stand up. Or write for Cracked. It's your calling!

SuzySnappz
03-19-2013, 07:34 AM
Like at my Uni club night last week, I had a guy just come up and start french kissing me. It was SO awkward. After he got done, I was like "Hey, I need to tell you something!" but he ran off. And last Saturday at Wendy House (awesome goth club night), I was ordering some food, and I turned to two guys to ask if my stubble was showing. They were like "You're a TS?!? You've done amazingly well, we couldn't tell at all until you asked that!"
Are you for real? I'm thinking no. Although in that context, I'm enjoying Dino's commentary.

Molly D'Vyne
03-19-2013, 07:51 AM
Yeah, me too! I love playing with makeup!

Question: why are is this forum populated with young tgirls that seem to have fun and interesting lives, while Laura's Playground is populated with older one's that are...boring? Is there anyone, other than me, who are members of both?

I think I might have had an account forever ago... probably with some random alias connected to a bullshit yahoo email I tossed. I definitely browsed plenty of times though. That site is depressing as fuck! I partially blame that place for waiting so long to talk to a therapist and transition... because after reading the shit there... my thoughts were... "Oh damn! I must not be transsexual, because I'm not that fucked in the head!"

Just because you can manage a gender identity disorder well enough to lead a semi-satisfying functional existence... doesn't mean you don't have one.

Back when I last looked at Laura's though... that's exactly what it seemed like. The attitude of "UR NOT A REAL WOMYN IF U DONT"... attempt suicide a few times... get shunned by all of your friends and family... become homeless... try to chop your dick off etc. etc. etc!

/rant

And I'm sure some TS would probably give me shit for doing porn on a site called "Shemale Yum"... but bitching about semantics is silly and I'm sexy as hell, so damn right I'm going to show off this bod! (and my epic skillz, not yet demonstrated on cam):banana:

Ms.Stepford
03-19-2013, 09:08 AM
Back when I last looked at Laura's though... that's exactly what it seemed like. The attitude of "UR NOT A REAL WOMYN IF U DONT"... attempt suicide a few times... get shunned by all of your friends and family... become homeless... try to chop your dick off etc. etc. etc!

These were the first trans voices I'd heard and they kinda fucked me up for a little bit there. I'm glad I got far away from them.


And I'm sure some TS would probably give me shit for doing porn on a site called "Shemale Yum"... but bitching about semantics is silly and I'm sexy as hell, so damn right I'm going to show off this bod! (and my epic skillz, not yet demonstrated on cam)

I used to bitch about those semantics, but I realized I could be having so much more fun. And since I'm a little bit fucked up, the fact that I've been dramatically opposed to the word makes it all the more fun to use. I used to lose money on cam because of that very word. I'd get really bitchy when it came up, even though my job is to be a perfect dirty whore. Lately when I hear it, I'm like "fuck yeah. I am a rare and beautiful fucking unicorn and I accept your worship. Call me whatever your mortal understanding can fathom."

I've seen some shots of you. You're totally right about being sexy as hell! You should have all the fun. :)

Ms.Stepford
03-19-2013, 09:09 AM
And to answer the OP:

Guys like anything with a dick in panties as long as it's a dirty slut.

Molly D'Vyne
03-19-2013, 10:13 AM
I used to bitch about those semantics, but I realized I could be having so much more fun. And since I'm a little bit fucked up, the fact that I've been dramatically opposed to the word makes it all the more fun to use. I used to lose money on cam because of that very word. I'd get really bitchy when it came up, even though my job is to be a perfect dirty whore. Lately when I hear it, I'm like "fuck yeah. I am a rare and beautiful fucking unicorn and I accept your worship. Call me whatever your mortal understanding can fathom."

I've seen some shots of you. You're totally right about being sexy as hell! You should have all the fun. :)

Lolyes! And thanks, I rarely miss an opportunity to have a good time or acquire some lulz. You're looking rather fine yerself! ;)

And speaking of rare and beautiful fucking unicorns...

TSLexi
03-19-2013, 02:54 PM
Are you for real? I'm thinking no. Although in that context, I'm enjoying Dino's commentary.

That seriously happened! It was so awkward.

C. Saw
03-20-2013, 04:35 AM
... but bitching about semantics is silly and I'm sexy as hell, so damn right I'm going to show off this bod! (and my epic skillz, not yet demonstrated on cam):banana:

Amen, sister, amen! You definitely look great.

And, Trixie, I...uh...um...yeah, oh...um..........right. You confuse and fascinate me at the same time. And it doesn't hurt that you're damn attractive too.

Lexi, you worry me. First sexual experience less than a week ago, now you're with a guy that label boyfriend and letting him fill you like a canoli, letting a stranger French-kiss you at a club - should have punched him, and poppers? You seem like you're living hard and fast. You know I dig you, girl, please...PLEASE be safe.

TSLexi
03-20-2013, 04:46 AM
Amen, sister, amen! You definitely look great.

And, Trixie, I...uh...um...yeah, oh...um..........right. You confuse and fascinate me at the same time. And it doesn't hurt that you're damn attractive too.

Lexi, you worry me. First sexual experience less than a week ago, now you're with a guy that label boyfriend and letting him fill you like a canoli, letting a stranger French-kiss you at a club - should have punched him, and poppers? You seem like you're living hard and fast. You know I dig you, girl, please...PLEASE be safe.

Actually,the dude who french-kissed me I was trying to pull away from. Seriously, I felt violated. I should've punched him, but he ran off before I could.

And I've been doing poppers for a long while. Nothing new.

And my bf, I seriously think that when we meet up all we're going to be doing is cuddling.

Trust me, I know when I'm in over my head.

C. Saw
03-20-2013, 05:27 AM
Actually,the dude who french-kissed me I was trying to pull away from. Seriously, I felt violated. I should've punched him, but he ran off before I could.

And I've been doing poppers for a long while. Nothing new.

And my bf, I seriously think that when we meet up all we're going to be doing is cuddling.

Trust me, I know when I'm in over my head.

Alright, I feel better now. Maybe I'm jealous because I wish I was the one who was getting the cuddling. Damn, I could really use a good cuddle:(

TSLexi
03-20-2013, 05:35 AM
Alright, I feel better now. Maybe I'm jealous because I wish I was the one who was getting the cuddling. Damn, I could really use a good cuddle:(

*cuddle* On me!

C. Saw
03-20-2013, 05:53 AM
*cuddle* On me!

:) I appreciate the thought - really - but I'm afraid that's just not going to cut it.:heartbroken:

TSLexi
03-20-2013, 05:58 AM
:) I appreciate the thought - really - but I'm afraid that's just not going to cut it.:heartbroken:

Awww...:heartbroken:

When I get that way, I cuddle Chloe, my stuffed kitty cat that Mom gave me for when I moved here. You really should get a plushie! They're so much fun to cuddle!