Has this ever happened to you?

[9inchesthickncut]

Out for a beer with some buddies last night, saw an unusually hot girl. My very first thought: "God, she'd be perfect if she had a cock."

[9inchesthickncut]

Anyone? Anyone?

Bueller?

[Tumblepop2002]

It's the first thing that goes through my mind with every hot girl I see. The second thought is "I wounder if she'd wear a strap on?"

[GroobyKrissy]

...and from the ladies' perspectives:

...has this ever happened to you?

You get all dressed up and look amazing. You go to a bar and notice this hot guy checking you out all night but he never comes over to say, "hi". You leave alone thinking to yourself, "God, he'd be perfect if only he had some balls."

[trannylover_york]

...and from the ladies' perspectives:

...has this ever happened to you?

You get all dressed up and look amazing. You go to a bar and notice this hot guy checking you out all night but he never comes over to say, "hi". You leave alone thinking to yourself, "God, he'd be perfect if only he had some balls."

Only fidelity to my wife or if you're obviously with another guy, would stop me approach you in a bar, Krissy :kiss:

[Wendy Summers]

...and from the ladies' perspectives:

...has this ever happened to you?

You get all dressed up and look amazing. You go to a bar and notice this hot guy checking you out all night but he never comes over to say, "hi". You leave alone thinking to yourself, "God, he'd be perfect if only he had some balls."

More often than I wish...

[GroobyKrissy]

Only fidelity to my wife or if you're obviously with another guy, would stop me approach you in a bar, Krissy :kiss:

awww... Damn wife.

[9inchesthickncut]

More often than I wish...


sorry to hear that, Wendy ... come on out to Seattle!

[youngblood61]

Why does the guy always have to make the first move? If you see a guy you like come up to him and say hi. Most guys love this, I know I do.:)

[bluesoul]

Why does the guy always have to make the first move? If you see a guy you like come up to him and say hi. Most guys love this, I know I do.:)

this is a good way to show the guys you've got some balls (literally) and this being hung-angels, you can later empty their contents in the guy's mouth

[Yeah]

Why does the guy got to put himself out there everytime. It would be nice if the girls would do it once in a while.

[GroobyKrissy]

Really people...? Really?

[Idt20082008"]

Come on out to Los Angeles Krissy and Wendy, I'll make sure you know you're wanted! :salad

[dabaldone]

Out for a beer with some buddies last night, saw an unusually hot girl. My very first thought: "God, she'd be perfect if she had a cock."

Yes Sir!!!!

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

I agree with some of the comments here....what's wrong with a lady approaching the guy? I mean, we're in an equal opportunity world now so how about girls putting it out there for a change? Besides I find that a major turn on.

[RallyCola]

i imagine almost every girl i find attractive in various positions.

if i see a hot girl eating ice cream, i may think bj first...bending over, i may think doggy or anal first, etc. but given enough time to formulate my thoughts, i'd get to a cock/strap on fantasy.

[9inchesthickncut]

Exactly, dabaldone ... that's the response I've been waiting nearly 24 hours for!

Good to find a kindred spirit among all this depravity.

[GroobyKrissy]

Well let's see... tradition, romance, chivalry, flirting, gallantry... need I go on?

There is a distinct difference between a guy going out and a woman going out (obviously with exceptions). A guy goes out to get laid. A woman goes out to be desired. It defeats that purpose if the woman takes the lead and goes after the guy. Stereotypical? Maybe. True. Absolutely.

[bluesoul]

Well let's see... tradition, romance, chivalry, flirting, gallantry... need I go on?

There is a distinct difference between a guy going out and a woman going out (obviously with exceptions). A guy goes out to get laid. A woman goes out to be desired. It defeats that purpose if the woman takes the lead and goes after the guy. Stereotypical? Maybe. True. Absolutely.

i disagree. a guy could be flirting by not going after a girl and basically, not playing the stereotypical guy. and it could also depends on personality. i can understand some guys employing these kinds of traditional values in some locations places, but not all.

[GroobyKrissy]

i disagree. a guy could be flirting by not going after a girl and basically, not playing the stereotypical guy. and it could also depends on personality. i can understand some guys employing these kinds of traditional values in some locations places, but not all.

...and hence the "obviously with exceptions". It is generally true that for a guy going to a bar / club (and I'm obviously not talking sports bar or neighborhood hangout bar here) alone, it is for the purposes of getting some tail. For a woman going to a bar alone is because she wants to be desired, noticed... appreciated. [edit]Perhaps a sexual encounter is the end result, but I think it is rarely the actual main goal. Or perhaps I am just too old fashioned.[end edit]

My point was, for a woman, who is not normally sexually aggressive, to make the first move, defeats the actual purpose of going out. Which is why you'll find me and probably countless other women waiting for the guy to make the first move. It isn't about equality... it is about desire.

[bluesoul]

My point was, for a woman, who is not normally sexually aggressive, to make the first move, defeats the actual purpose of going out. Which is why you'll find me and probably countless other women waiting for the guy to make the first move. It isn't about equality... it is about desire.

i understand that and completely agree, but a guy with the intent of going out to get laid will be looking for "easy access" rather than some kind of courtship ritual so anything that will avoid the later will do.

in fact, the last time i was trying to figure out why many pay for sex, they said it's "for the convenience" as anything that requires them to "put in work" is regarded a hassle. in fact, i'd go so far as saying it's insulting for anyone with such morals to consider paying for sex as it's definitely not traditional (except with prostitutes), romantic, chivalrous, flirtatious, gallant.

[GroobyKrissy]

i understand that and completely agree, but a guy with the intent of going out to get laid will be looking for "easy access" rather than some kind of courtship ritual so anything that will avoid the later will do.

in fact, the last time i was trying to figure out why many pay for sex, they said it's "for the convenience" as anything that requires them to "put in work" is regarded a hassle. in fact, i'd go so far as saying it's insulting for anyone with such morals to consider paying for sex as it's definitely not traditional (except with prostitutes), romantic, chivalrous, flirtatious, gallant.

And I would agree with that point if we're talking "courtship ritual" here. I was just responding to the "why don't girls make the first move" responses. I consider a "first move" just making the effort to say "hi" and start a conversation. That very act shows interest, which in the club / bar scene from a woman's perspective often translates into desire. Mission accomplished.

From there, I'd say you're correct. Guys looking for a quick fuck in the alley are probably not going to get mired in the conversation a woman will invariably want to start (getting to know each other, etc.).

Also, I don't think morals have anything to do with being romantic, chivalrous, or any of the things I mentioned. When I was escorting, I met some of the most romantic and caring guys around... while they were cheating on a loved one or spouse with me. I'm not making a moral statement at all, just saying that the traditional role is for the guy to go after the girl. Cavemen, bravado, testosterone, and all that stuff...

[bluesoul]

^^^ we're in agreement

http://fileinabox.com/files/2008/11/thumbs-up.jpg

[GroobyKrissy]

Well fuck me silly.

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

And I would agree with that point if we're talking "courtship ritual" here. I was just responding to the "why don't girls make the first move" responses. I consider a "first move" just making the effort to say "hi" and start a conversation. That very act shows interest, which in the club / bar scene from a woman's perspective often translates into desire. Mission accomplished.

From there, I'd say you're correct. Guys looking for a quick fuck in the alley are probably not going to get mired in the conversation a woman will invariably want to start (getting to know each other, etc.).

Also, I don't think morals have anything to do with being romantic, chivalrous, or any of the things I mentioned. When I was escorting, I met some of the most romantic and caring guys around... while they were cheating on a loved one or spouse with me. I'm not making a moral statement at all, just saying that the traditional role is for the guy to go after the girl. Cavemen, bravado, testosterone, and all that stuff...
Traditions can and should change. Transsexuals weren't always accepted (in some parts of the world they still aren't). Want to hold onto that tradition as well? Women need to lose that BS mentality....we're in the 21st century and we've evolved from Cavemen.

[robertlouis]

More often than I wish...


Head to the UK, Wendy, and we'll show you that our famed British diffidence is just a myth.

By the way, for identification purposes, that's Prospero on the bus.

[robertlouis]

And as for the OP, well, no. I'll start from the position that she's a pretty girl and deal with the genitalia later if it goes that far.

[Prospero]

Since when did you start following me around RL? Wendy here meanwhile is the famed Scot Robert louis

[Prospero]

Aside fro that I agree - I see a woman. Period. The genitalia can be either version and I'd be more than happy if she takes an interest in me..

[Willie Escalade]

Well fuck me silly.
I'm willing to do that. :salad