How to phone an escort for the first time?

[Spaceghost1]

Hi,

I have found a nice ladyboy in my town but I ahve never been with an escort or a ladyboy before. Are there any rules or things I should or shouldn't say on the phone? I figure I would just say hello I saw your ad and would like to make an appointment. Is it ok to text or not? Should I leave a voice mail if she doesn't answer or phone again later?

[timid1]

As a relatively inexperienced member here, I would suggest you keep ringing . 99% girls dont like text , at least until you have met them once . By all means leave a voicemail saying you tried to call and you'll call back later . Nothing beats voice to voice , and gives the girl some confidence in you? My advice is be polite , friendly and honest . Nearly all the girls I've have spoke to are friendly , and I guess used to a slightly "nervous" enquiry from a new punter. Also be specific about what you are hoping from your meeting . Not a lot of point in visiting a girl who is 100% top or bottom if you are the same way , may lead to disappointment on one or both sides?

Good luck! And dont forget , the girl wants it to go well , and be fun , as well as you . After all , although she's working she wants repeat business if the punter is nice , and work is much nicer when it is fun!

[TSCURIOUS]

Just pick up the phone and call. Introduce yourself and talk.
The first time it's like calling for job interview - you'll get nervous!. But she will sense that and hopefully put you at ease-
2nd time will be easier!
Don't text!

[Janna_b]

I am not an escort, but would think they get a lot of flaky people calling them so I would think calling her and telling her....hey this is my first time so I am a bit nervous and not sure what to say, but would love to spend some time with you....I am sure she will take things from there.

[Dino Velvet]

The less talk the better. Nothing illegal for sure. Try to check the girl out in advance.

[ChubsterT]

once again - i am not experienced but am so grateful for the no-nonsense common sense advice given on this forum - what a beautiful bunch of people. Good luck to you all- :Bowdown:T:Bowdown:

[Rusty Eldora]

If in the US - Never, Never, Never discuss sex acts and $. That is illegal, will cause the good escorts to hang up and the sting to lead you on. Assuming she is on Eros or Backpage but doesn't post a rate, I would do a call similar to the following:

"Hi Vanessa, this is Rusty. I saw your ad on Backpage and I would like to see you at your incall." "Hi Rusty, that would be great - when" "I was wondering what your donation for an hour is" "$250 - when would you like to come by" "This afternoon about 3 PM, also I am new to this if that matters" "Rusty I would love to see you at 3 PM, can you park near 1st and Pine, then call me." "Sure - see you at 3 PM"

Go Google 1st and Pine, get an idea of the lay of the land and guess what building she is in. Shave, get super clean, enema, brush teeth, dress appropriate for the neighborhood. Be a bit early, but do not call her back until a few minutes before 3, you will be probably told "Baby, can you give me 10 minutes, I'll call you" After 15 she will call, give you the room number, I write that down on the donation envelope. Walk in like you are a resident. Knock quietly, enter as she opens the door, no talking in the hall. Smile because she looks amazing.

[hurlyburly]

If in the US - Never, Never, Never discuss sex acts and $. That is illegal, will cause the good escorts to hang up and the sting to lead you on. Assuming she is on Eros or Backpage but doesn't post a rate, I would do a call similar to the following:

"Hi Vanessa, this is Rusty. I saw your ad on Backpage and I would like to see you at your incall." "Hi Rusty, that would be great - when" "I was wondering what your donation for an hour is" "$250 - when would you like to come by" "This afternoon about 3 PM, also I am new to this if that matters" "Rusty I would love to see you at 3 PM, can you park near 1st and Pine, then call me." "Sure - see you at 3 PM"

Go Google 1st and Pine, get an idea of the lay of the land and guess what building she is in. Shave, get super clean, enema, brush teeth, dress appropriate for the neighborhood. Be a bit early, but do not call her back until a few minutes before 3, you will be probably told "Baby, can you give me 10 minutes, I'll call you" After 15 she will call, give you the room number, I write that down on the donation envelope. Walk in like you are a resident. Knock quietly, enter as she opens the door, no talking in the hall. Smile because she looks amazing.

Best case scenario.

All kinds of things can go wrong along the way.
Not the girl from the pics, doesn't answer the phone when you finally show up to the neighborhood, picks up and cancels the appointment but promises two hours next time (which will never happen), and/or shoves you out the door after a quick 10 minute encounter.

Anything is possible.

[TSCURIOUS]

Sent you a PM