the9
04-10-2006, 08:09 AM
Hi yall
I'm new as a member, but a long time lurker to the insightful conversations here.
Well, this has led me to ask some questions on safety, as my "girl" and I have decided to take our escapades to another level, physical.
I am a "straight" man, with a wife, and have a "girl" whom I spend time with about once a month. My wife understands my attraction as I have explained it, more of a narcissism if anything.
That said, I am concerned for my wife's well being if I partake in any physical contact with this other person. While she is open to me exploring my curiosities, she too is concerned that I will put us at risk.
As of late, this other person and I have gotten into heavy petting and lots of grinding. I met her as an escort, and started with simple conversation and little kisses a month ago. I'd very much like do more, and so would she, but I keep putting her off, and I'm afraid that if I continue to do this, I may lose the opportunity to ever do this again.
Some of you may know how hard it is to get close to a tranny in this sense, as most of us are instantly demonized as tranny chasers despite our sincerity.
So what should I do? Or better yet, what shouldn't I do?
This girl would like for me to bring her to climax with my hands, and I would very much love to accomodate her, but this takes me back to my original question of safety.
Honest responses are very much appreciated, and I look forward to contributing to the fine community you have established here.
:)
I'm new as a member, but a long time lurker to the insightful conversations here.
Well, this has led me to ask some questions on safety, as my "girl" and I have decided to take our escapades to another level, physical.
I am a "straight" man, with a wife, and have a "girl" whom I spend time with about once a month. My wife understands my attraction as I have explained it, more of a narcissism if anything.
That said, I am concerned for my wife's well being if I partake in any physical contact with this other person. While she is open to me exploring my curiosities, she too is concerned that I will put us at risk.
As of late, this other person and I have gotten into heavy petting and lots of grinding. I met her as an escort, and started with simple conversation and little kisses a month ago. I'd very much like do more, and so would she, but I keep putting her off, and I'm afraid that if I continue to do this, I may lose the opportunity to ever do this again.
Some of you may know how hard it is to get close to a tranny in this sense, as most of us are instantly demonized as tranny chasers despite our sincerity.
So what should I do? Or better yet, what shouldn't I do?
This girl would like for me to bring her to climax with my hands, and I would very much love to accomodate her, but this takes me back to my original question of safety.
Honest responses are very much appreciated, and I look forward to contributing to the fine community you have established here.
:)