View Full Version : Some Transsexuals are very hypocritical and respectful to men who like their cocks.
TSPornFan
08-10-2012, 07:57 PM
Transsexual women want to be recognized as women. I understand and respect those feelings. However, some transsexuals are offended at men who like tranny dick. There are many issues about this.
1. Why do some men like women? They like their pussies. Do you see women getting bad because of this? No
2. TS women who want a man must also want dick because that's what most men have. This is my biggest problem about this. It's okay for TS women to like dick but they're men can't like ts dick. That's very backwards and hypocritical.
3. Just because a man likes TS dick does not mean he sees you as a man. I'm sure some of these men see these TS women as women. They can still treat them like women.
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags. That's insulting and drives away fans. She's not better than us. Do we like her cock sure? But the bitch needs to realize she's the one who is sucking dick on camera.
loveboof
08-10-2012, 08:06 PM
Hmm. I don't think I've ever liked a girl because of her pussy...
Sure it's nice if you get down there and it turns out to be pretty, but every single girl I've ever liked has been mostly due to her personality & looks (not genitalia).
It's kinda the same for transsexuals isn't it?
But I get what you're saying, and I agree that it is counterintuitive for tgirls to call their fans 'fags'... They're just undermining their own gender status...
LibertyHarkness
08-10-2012, 08:13 PM
sucking dick on camera and getting paid for it :) thats the difference ..
me as example i am mostly into females sexually ...but i will do boy scenes etc on webcam/porn shoots , escorting etc ... simply as i am getting paid and shooting diverise content is key to making my fanbase stronger , if i only fucked women that would shut off alot of fans for me, if i only topped dudes that would shut off alot of fans and so forth.. so i try do abit of it all regardless if i personally enjoy it or not .. as long as it looks good on film :) or cam etc .
but franklin there are massive amounts of men that only like a TS as they have a cock, take the cock away and they wouldnt piss on us if we was on fire ... when i twitted a pic a few months back that looked like i had a vagina and made a jokey comment i got hammered with mails. dm-s from fans. crying at me what i have done , what a waste ...
so that really kinda answered it all theat those type are infact Cockfags :)
sure i dont mind a guy liking me and liking i have a cock, if its me he likes .. but in porn its irrelevant as your just selling a fantasy, a charade ... fans come and go just like models ..
amberskyi
08-10-2012, 08:49 PM
lol...i for one only like men for their dicks.sure as hell not for their brains
LibertyHarkness
08-10-2012, 08:54 PM
lol amber :)
can we just use this as well :)
Surprise Cockfags! - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1QMJlAAidQ)
nina_lisa
08-10-2012, 08:57 PM
The English word fetish, does not get fetishized as much as ts girl do. and guess what part get the most attention, some chasers focus so much on the cock that they make the girl feel like she is nothing more than a cock.
Some girls want the surgery, others don't want it, but at the end of the day it is the girl body, and so many men are unable to respect that, they act like if it is their own body, or like if they own the body. It is my body, you don't even have 1% right to have an opinion of what i should do with it or not.
Some of us, go through surgeries that cost $20k-$30k and is extremely painful, yet many men couldn't find any other compliment in the girl, other than her cock?
nina_lisa
08-10-2012, 09:06 PM
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags.
Want to guess how many emails i get along the line:
- I am not gay but i want to try something new.
- Normally I've only dated women, can you introduce me to bisexuality?
- I want to have a MMF, and one male is missing, are you interested?
TSPornFan
08-10-2012, 09:38 PM
but franklin there are massive amounts of men that only like a TS as they have a cock, take the cock away and they wouldnt piss on us if we was on fire ... when i twitted a pic a few months back that looked like i had a vagina and made a jokey comment i got hammered with mails. dm-s from fans. crying at me what i have done , what a waste ...
so that really kinda answered it all theat those type are infact Cockfags :)
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I kinda get what you mean and kinda don't. Ts women don't want to be seen as just a cock. I also think that sexuality is complex. Personally I am not attracted to post-op TS women. If a girl goes post op then I'm not into her anymore. Her cock was part of the physical attraction. Sure I like the ass, pretty face, and big tits. The TS cock has some importance to me as well. Some men are like me who want the total package with a dick.
While Men shouldn't get angry at T-Girls for removing their cocks. Ts women shouldn't get mad because what some men are attracted to.
[QUOTE=loveboof;1182765]Hmm. I don't think I've ever liked a girl because of her pussy...
Sure it's nice if you get down there and it turns out to be pretty, but every single girl I've ever liked has been mostly due to her personality & looks (not genitalia).
QUOTE]
Most men who like women like pussy. Genitalia is a body part. It's apart of the physical attraction.
onmyknees
08-10-2012, 10:23 PM
I get what Franklin's saying...It's the yin and the yang...and it's not going to change.
I think most sophisticated TS women can sort it all out ( note...Bailey Jay not in that category)
I like to think of it this way......
Yin and yang are not opposing forces (dualities), but complementary forces, unseen (hidden, feminine) and seen (manifest, masculine), that interact to form a greater whole, as part of a dynamic system. Everything has both yin and yang aspects as light could not be understood if darkness didn't exist, and shadow cannot exist without light
amberskyi
08-10-2012, 10:40 PM
I kinda get what you mean and kinda don't. Ts women don't want to be seen as just a cock. I also think that sexuality is complex. Personally I am not attracted to post-op TS women. If a girl goes post op then I'm not into her anymore. Her cock was part of the physical attraction. Sure I like the ass, pretty face, and big tits. The TS cock has some importance to me as well. Some men are like me who want the total package with a dick.
While Men shouldn't get angry at T-Girls for removing their cocks. Ts women shouldn't get mad because what some men are attracted to.
you said that if a girl goes post op than you have no interest in her anymore.im not sure if you meant this from a porn point of view or if you also would feel that way in real life but thats exactly why alot of girls talk shit.
we're just like everyone else.we want to be seen and liked for who we are not the sum our parts.im would still be the same amber i am now if i was to get srs.
i also think its very basic and immature to break down the attraction of woman to genitalia.there are so much more to a woman than just a pussy.thats why its possible for some men to still see us as woman regardless of whats between a trans womans legs.
FreddieGomez
08-10-2012, 11:14 PM
i heard Nefertiti went post-op.
that's why she faded from the scene?
MdR Dave
08-10-2012, 11:52 PM
Franklin, a lot of the questions/issues you raise can be answered with one simple phrase: because they are women.
Why is it any different for Bailey? She's a woman.
TSPornFan
08-11-2012, 01:09 AM
you said that if a girl goes post op than you have no interest in her anymore.im not sure if you meant this from a porn point of view or if you also would feel that way in real life but thats exactly why alot of girls talk shit.
we're just like everyone else.we want to be seen and liked for who we are not the sum our parts.im would still be the same amber i am now if i was to get srs.
i also think its very basic and immature to break down the attraction of woman to genitalia.there are so much more to a woman than just a pussy.thats why its possible for some men to still see us as woman regardless of whats between a trans womans legs.
I would feel this way from a porn point of view and in real life. I would not snap at a TS for removing her cock. I would not be sexually attracted to her anymore. We could still be friends but nothing more. To make things more clear I don't like dick on men. It does nothing for me. When I see a dick on a hot chick then I go crazy.
I hate when people use immature and attraction in the sentence. Attraction has nothing to do with maturity. People like what they like. No one has any right to tell someone what they should find attractive. I know this very attractive muscular man who loves bbw women. Does that make him mature? Not really because he is honestly attracted to bbw women and he is not into slim women.
Is it wrong for the TS cock to be apart of the attraction? Not really. Here's way. Before TS women existed there were many sexual fantasies from ancient history that featured women with penises.
Also physical attraction is important in every relationship because of the sex. Physical attraction does include genitalia. There are women who are not attracted to small penises and there are some women who love small penises. Some people are turned off by public hair. The list goes on and on.
BeardedOne
08-11-2012, 01:38 AM
I've skipped ahead, because this thread rehashes some things that rear their ugly heads on too many occasions.
I've never been shy about the fact that my primary attration to T-gurls is the fact that they have 'something extra'. I'm bi and versatile, so the mechanics are pretty much a non-issue with me. I've been with men, women, Ts (Of 'both' persuasions) and intersexed partners. I enjoy it all and don't let what's between the legs interfere with, or define, what's between the ears.
I do get a bit squicky when one of the gurls shouts at one of her admirers (Or anyone, for that matter) that they are a 'fag' for liking her cock/ladystick/clitty/whatever because, via her own reference, she is shouting to the world that she is male.
What the fuck is up with that? Jayzus!
I won't even get into the realm of why the commercial gurls beat up on their fans in such a way (For every one that gets off on the abuse, I'd bet there's two that blow her off because 'asshole' is what she is and not what they are looking at).
I have a bit of a fantasy that I might someday find the partner of my dreams, but I doubt that said position would be filled by a T-gurl. There are too many that dislike me for the primary reason we may have met.
Before people get all up in my virtual face saying that I shouldn't be so focused on a gurl's dick, what if that appendage were replaced with reference to her face, her humor, her hair color? All of the above?
What if your SO just hacked off her pinky fingers so that she'd personify an Elfquest elf? Does that change whether or not, or how you love her?
Get off the dickwagon, people, and stop trying to psychoanalyze yourselves, your clients, your fans, or (Gawd f'bid) your potential lovers.
Sheesh.
amberskyi
08-11-2012, 02:00 AM
damn us woman for wanting guys to like us despite us having or not having a penis.
im sorry but i just think its silly.when i meet a guy im sexually attracted to im attracted to him,not his dick.guess its different for some people i guess *shrugs*
lifeisfiction
08-11-2012, 02:15 AM
Interesting discussion, people have preferences. I know a guy that wouldn't date a woman unless she had a c cup. He linked feminity to the size of the breast. He watched porn with large breasted woman. I told him, breast doesn't make a woman, but he likes what he likes.
Its the same with people who watch ts porn. They want to see a cock and thats a large push to why they are going to purchase or watch porn. People want to see their fantasy. Sadly some, but not all translate this objectification into regular life. I wouldn't be surprise if people watch porn are only looking for the cock. If you think about any asian or interracial porn, it is sometimes protrayed in silly non real manner. It tends to focus aspects that has nothing do with real life. Its the same with ts porn.
Of course people tend to forget people in porn are performers. Sadly some people think Stallone could do the stuff he does in his movies.
TSPornFan
08-11-2012, 03:17 AM
damn us woman for wanting guys to like us despite us having or not having a penis.
im sorry but i just think its silly.when i meet a guy im sexually attracted to im attracted to him,not his dick.guess its different for some people i guess *shrugs*
What if he didn't have a dick? Would you still be sexually attracted to him?
What if he was born with a one inch dick? Are you attracted to very small penises?
I was a born with an ear deformity. Women didn't like that. I had it corrected and since then some women wanted me. I had no interest in them for various reasons. The point is that we can't tell someone what they need to find attractive and accept. Women always rejected me because of my deformity and I had to accept it. They had every right to reject me for any reason including my past ear deformity. It turned them off just like post op pussy turns off some guys like myself. I had no right to demand them to accept it.
Interesting discussion, people have preferences. I know a guy that wouldn't date a woman unless she had a c cup. He linked feminity to the size of the breast. He watched porn with large breasted woman. I told him, breast doesn't make a woman, but he likes what he likes.
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Do I know you? lol
giovanni_hotel
08-11-2012, 03:49 AM
http://www.gifsforum.com/images/gif/op%20is%20gay/grand/this_thread_is_gay_gif.gif
If it just for the dick, why do girls think cock hungry guys go for tgirls when it's SOOO much easier to find an accommodating twink etc. on Backpages??
Sulka_bewitched_me
08-11-2012, 03:59 AM
I find it amusing that a website that supports a certain segment of society & has transgendered members that are part of the gay, lesbian & transgender community and are always on about being "accepted" then turn around and attack FRANKLIN for being true to himself. Hmmm...... it seems "acceptance" is in short supply or exclusive only to some around here. :soapbox
amberskyi
08-11-2012, 04:22 AM
Actually,I didn't see anyone attack him.people are merely stating their feelings and opinions on the subject.maybe your not familiar with adult conversation
bob.chicken
08-11-2012, 04:24 AM
i had an escort who ended up being post op I was most disappointed and to be honest found it a huge turn off. It didn;t state in her ad. The genitals make a huge diff. Post ops to me are equal to men I don't find it attractive. Post ops or gg only
amberskyi
08-11-2012, 04:25 AM
What if he didn't have a dick? Would you still be sexually attracted to him?
What if he was born with a one inch dick? Are you attracted to very small penises?
I was a born with an ear deformity. Women didn't like that. I had it corrected and since then some women wanted me. I had no interest in them for various reasons. The point is that we can't tell someone what they need to find attractive and accept. Women always rejected me because of my deformity and I had to accept it. They had every right to reject me for any reason including my past ear deformity. It turned them off just like post op pussy turns off some guys like myself. I had no right to demand them to accept it.
Do I know you? lol
Yea,I would totally get down with the one inch dude.he has a tongue doesn't he ;)
Sulka_bewitched_me
08-11-2012, 04:50 AM
Actually,I didn't see anyone attack him.people are merely stating their feelings and opinions on the subject.maybe your not familiar with adult conversation
And yet you attack me for stating my opinion (unless I don't understand adult conversation.)
bimale69
08-11-2012, 05:41 AM
I think ts girls get turned off because they want guys (or sometimes gals) who are attracted to who or what they are as a person, not just a body part. True, my partner is non -op, and we enjoy having sex with each other's penises now and then, but sex isnt a priority in my life, and if she were to decide to go through full transition, she knows i will stay by her side, as long as she wants, wether she decides to go through srs or not.
loveboof
08-11-2012, 05:52 AM
Most men who like women like pussy. Genitalia is a body part. It's apart of the physical attraction.
Yeah, a pussy turns me on (obviously some look better than others), but what I was saying is that I've never been attracted to a girl simply because of her pussy. In real life, there are other factors involved in forming an attraction to a person completely independent from their genitalia...
im sorry but i just think its silly.when i meet a guy im sexually attracted to im attracted to him,not his dick.guess its different for some people i guess *shrugs*
I'm totally with you on that.
LittleGuy
08-11-2012, 12:58 PM
If you're paying them, they don't give a fuck
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 02:46 AM
To beautiful transgendered women like Amberskyi (You really are stunning!),
I want to remind you that there are many men like myself who prefer post-op transgender women. I view transgender women as women and treat them as such. I know of several post-op transgender women who are living normal lives and are married to wonderful straight men. True straight men (if you are a male and you like penis, you are not straight) will have no interest in penis.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 02:53 AM
To the men on this board who love cock,
Because of hormones, most transsexuals in real life cannot get erections or have an orgasm. The whole fantasy that you can meet a beautiful transsexual women with a 10 inch dick that shoot loads of cum is just a fantasy. Most transsexual women that I know want to get sexual reassignment surgery and want to live as normal heterosexual women. They don't like their cocks and think that guys who fantasize about their cocks are closeted gay men. This is one of the major reasons why a lot of transgendered women will only start dating men after they get their SRS. They don't want to be with a cock hound or a tranny chaser. They want to be with a normal man who will treat them like a normal women, not some chick with a dick.
Lirking
08-12-2012, 02:54 AM
there are too many varieties to make blanket statements about people. There are girls that don't want you to even touch their penises and there are ones that will tell you to "open your mouth, bitch" lol i like them all
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 03:00 AM
Transsexual women want to be recognized as women. I understand and respect those feelings. However, some transsexuals are offended at men who like tranny dick. There are many issues about this.
1. Why do some men like women? They like their pussies. Do you see women getting bad because of this? No
2. TS women who want a man must also want dick because that's what most men have. This is my biggest problem about this. It's okay for TS women to like dick but they're men can't like ts dick. That's very backwards and hypocritical.
3. Just because a man likes TS dick does not mean he sees you as a man. I'm sure some of these men see these TS women as women. They can still treat them like women.
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags. That's insulting and drives away fans. She's not better than us. Do we like her cock sure? But the bitch needs to realize she's the one who is sucking dick on camera.
I know that you love porn, but I hope you realize that what you see on camera from transsexual porn performers is because they are getting paid money. It is not what they like to do in real life. After Danielle Foxx got her SRS, she admitted on hungangels that she hated using her penis. She stated that she disliked receiving blowjobs and did not like using her penis for penetration. Everything that you saw in her porn films was fake and she did what she did for money. This is a concept that a lot of the guys don't understand. The TS women do what they do on camera, not because they like it, but because they are getting paid. This is also the case with transsexual escorts.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 03:06 AM
If a transsexual women wants to get sex reassignment surgery, I think she should if it makes her happy and complete. If she wants to keep her male genitalia, I think that is fine. At the end of the day, what matters is that a transgendered women is happy with her life, not what some tranny chaser wants.
giovanni_hotel
08-12-2012, 04:13 AM
If a transsexual women wants to get sex reassignment surgery, I think she should if it makes her happy and complete. If she wants to keep her male genitalia, I think that is fine. At the end of the day, what matters is that a transgendered women is happy with her life, not what some tranny chaser wants.
Preferring that a TS keep her equipment doesn't make you a chaser.
Anyway that's not anyone's decision except the trans-woman thinking about having the procedure done, which most people I assume would respect.
EVERYONE..admirers, came to this forum initially because of their attraction to preop TGs, so let's not get all high and mighty.
I can't lie, to me there's something very 'right' about a woman with a cock.
I didn't know until I knew, but now it makes all the sense in the world.:fuckin:
Besides if you define yourself as a straight man who's into TGs, whether or not a significant other decides to keep her cock her not isn't a huge deal.
But I still do wonder how sexually responsive postops really are down there, or if their new vag is primarily cosmetic.
BellaBellucci
08-12-2012, 04:28 AM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
onmyknees
08-12-2012, 04:40 AM
Preferring that a TS keep her equipment doesn't make you a chaser.
Anyway that's not anyone's decision except the trans-woman thinking about having the procedure done, which most people I assume would respect.
EVERYONE..admirers, came to this forum initially because of their attraction to preop TGs, so let's not get all high and mighty.
I can't lie, to me there's something very 'right' about a woman with a cock.
I didn't know until I knew, but now it makes all the sense in the world.:fuckin:
Besides if you define yourself as a straight man who's into TGs, whether or not a significant other decides to keep her cock her not isn't a huge deal.
But I still do wonder how sexually responsive postops really are down there, or if their new vag is primarily cosmetic.\
This is well stated GH. Some of these dudes on here get more wrapped up in the pre-op/ post -op thing than the gurls do. Women like Mandy, Libby, Sammi, Morgan, Delia, Britt, and Ms. Cordova ( and all of you actually) are magnificantly sexual to me. I don't give it a whole lot more thought than that. I know what I like and I go with it.
danthepoetman
08-12-2012, 04:55 AM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
Tend to agree with Bella. A girl is a girl, wether she has a cock or not. And if you consider yourself hetero because you love girls, and if you do, you will love the same girl pre or post op… The dick is just a little cute extra, like big boobs or red hair. It adds a little special to the rest, but if it’s essential for you, it means you fixate on the cock, which should tell you something…
And by the way, not being "perfectly" hetero is ok too, let's get that straight too... Everyone should be respected for who he or she is and like.
sdtgfan
08-12-2012, 05:04 AM
The anger that some girls express about men wanting them for their cocks is always fascinating to me. I hardly ever post here, I'm here for the porn. I'm bi, but about 80% straight if I had to put a number on it and I get turned on by hard cocks. How the person identifies themselves when it comes to gender doesn't matter.
After being with men and t-girl escorts and I've found that I have no desire to please men. I don't want to kiss them or touch their bodies and will only play with their cocks for a minute or two until I get bored. I look at men as service providers anyway, just blow me and leave. On the other hand, I enjoy making out with t-girls and love to make them cum. Make no mistake about it, I'm with her for her cock and have no desire to fuck a post op pussy.
I live in San Diego near Hillcrest which is the epicenter for the gay community here. I see t-girls in public from time to time and am aware of at least one bar which I can go hit on them. Out of consideration for them as people, I don't go out and hit on them because I mainly want them for their cocks. I don't want a relationship and I don't have any desire to be seen in public dating a t-girl. I'll use porn and escorts to fulfill my desire for cock and leave these girls alone.
From reading posts from girls over the years they seem to get pissed when guys treat them like shit because they are apparently not people to be respected to these misanthropes. Fuck those assholes.
I've seen pornstars post threads expressing themselves about this sort of thing on this site and unfortunately they frequently paint us all with the same brush. The general idea being that if we like cock then we're all fags and should fuck off. I presume that it's frustrating that the majority of men want you for your cock while you're turned off by men who want cock. Try not to take it out on people who enjoy your work and subscribe to sites you work with.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 05:30 AM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
I would definetly consider myself heteroflexible (if the girl wants to keep the penis, I would not force her to get rid of it) with a preference for post-op transsexual women.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 05:34 AM
The anger that some girls express about men wanting them for their cocks is always fascinating to me. I hardly ever post here, I'm here for the porn. I'm bi, but about 80% straight if I had to put a number on it and I get turned on by hard cocks. How the person identifies themselves when it comes to gender doesn't matter.
After being with men and t-girl escorts and I've found that I have no desire to please men. I don't want to kiss them or touch their bodies and will only play with their cocks for a minute or two until I get bored. I look at men as service providers anyway, just blow me and leave. On the other hand, I enjoy making out with t-girls and love to make them cum. Make no mistake about it, I'm with her for her cock and have no desire to fuck a post op pussy.
I live in San Diego near Hillcrest which is the epicenter for the gay community here. I see t-girls in public from time to time and am aware of at least one bar which I can go hit on them. Out of consideration for them as people, I don't go out and hit on them because I mainly want them for their cocks. I don't want a relationship and I don't have any desire to be seen in public dating a t-girl. I'll use porn and escorts to fulfill my desire for cock and leave these girls alone.
From reading posts from girls over the years they seem to get pissed when guys treat them like shit because they are apparently not people to be respected to these misanthropes. Fuck those assholes.
I've seen pornstars post threads expressing themselves about this sort of thing on this site and unfortunately they frequently paint us all with the same brush. The general idea being that if we like cock then we're all fags and should fuck off. I presume that it's frustrating that the majority of men want you for your cock while you're turned off by men who want cock. Try not to take it out on people who enjoy your work and subscribe to sites you work with.
As I have stated before, too many men don't realize that TS pornstars use their cocks in porn because they are getting paid. It does not mean that in real life they like their cocks. For example, I have heard that Yasmine Lee wants to get SRS. Based on her films, it would seem that she would want to keep her cock, but that does not seem to be the case at all.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 05:38 AM
I personally know a transsexual woman who was in a long-term relationship with a man. Once the guy found that she wanted to get SRS, he ended up leaving her. He is actually in a relationship with a gay femboy. It looks like he was only interested in her cock, and without it, he did not want to be with her anymore. Now, this transsexual women will only start dating men when she has completed her sex reassignment surgery so she can avoid any men that would be interested in her cock.
dakota87
08-12-2012, 06:02 AM
Lots of girls like their cocks and the sensations they get from it. So if they're cool with it why can't her man be cool with it? What's the BFD?
http://www.gifsforum.com/images/gif/op%20is%20gay/grand/this_thread_is_gay_gif.gif
If it just for the dick, why do girls think cock hungry guys go for tgirls when it's SOOO much easier to find an accommodating twink etc. on Backpages??
Exactly, I don't get going through all this trouble if you're just only interested in dick.
BellaBellucci
08-12-2012, 06:12 AM
Exactly, I don't get going through all this trouble if you're just only interested in dick.
... to delude one's self into believing they're still straight. Duuuuuuh! :lol:
~BB~
theoryman
08-12-2012, 06:31 AM
It is all a matter of what we like...
For example:
I dislike tattoos. Were my partner to suddenly decide she was going to get full sleeves with front and back plates, I'd likely loose my attraction to her body. Wouldn't mean I didn't still love her, would mean that the physical attraction was changed or lost.
It would, likely over time, kill the relationship.
As to 'delude one's self into believing they're still straight.' , maybe some. But I've never been interested in a guy. Just GG's and T's.
And I have a 6yr relationship with an non-op TG.
--
giovanni_hotel
08-12-2012, 06:42 AM
I'm pragmatic like most guys. If I want pussy, I'm not going to hit on married women because the success rate is low. I go for women who are available and least likely to be the biggest hassle.
If I just was after dick, I could literally find a guy right now at any gay bar in D.C. who was more than willing for FREE to blow me.
Too much psycho analysis about why a straight guy would be into a girl with a dick. Most guys don't think they need a rationalization for why they like what they like sexually.
If it was just about dick/tits/ass/pussy, there would be more ugly GGs doing porn.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 07:43 AM
... to delude one's self into believing they're still straight. Duuuuuuh! :lol:
~BB~
I am going to have to agree with Bella. Most guys have internal homophobia, much of it caused by societies unwillingness to let men enjoy their sexuality. Genetic women are given a lot of lenciency and tolerance about their sexuality. Men, such as John Travolta who clearly has an attraction to other males, are not allowed to openly enjoy their sexuality. I personally respect men who are open about being gay and bisexual. I don't they should be attacked, even by transgendered women.
I think men who enjoy transsexual cock are in my estimation true bisexuals. As I mentioned with my story about my transsexual friend, her ex-boyfriend needed to be in a relationship with her so that he could eventually move on to being with a gay femboy. She made him comfortable with his sexuality. I honestly think that some of the transsexual cock lovers should actually focus their sexual interests towards gay femboys. Many of these gay femboys like to dress up as women and some are very passable (check out some of their youtube videos and you will be amazed at how good they look without hormones or plastic surgery). They are actually the perfect match for most men who love cock and needing the cock to be attached to a form of feminity.
Mr. Sinister
08-12-2012, 07:57 AM
Exactly, I don't get going through all this trouble if you're just only interested in dick.
Men are very afraid of being called gay and they will go to great lengths to ensure that they are not labelled as such. Why do you think that a lot gay men are still in the closet?
In my personal opinion, I really think that men who are sexually attracted to the cocks of transsexuals should consider turning their sexual interests toward gay femboys who can often make very passable women without hormones or plastic surgery. Because they are not on hormones, gay femboys can get hard erections. They are also more likely to give the transsexual cock lover what he craves: A large dick that gets hard and shoots loads of cum in a feminine package. A transsexual who is on a regular hormone regimine is not going to have a large cock that shoots loads of cum.
TSPornFan
08-12-2012, 08:09 AM
Men are very afraid of being called gay and they will go to great lengths to ensure that they are not labelled as such. Why do you think that a lot gay men are still in the closet?
In my personal opinion, I really think that men who are sexually attracted to the cocks of transsexuals should consider turning their sexual interests toward gay femboys who can often make very passable women without hormones or plastic surgery. Because they are not on hormones, gay femboys can get hard erections. They are also more likely to give the transsexual cock lover what he craves: A large dick that gets hard and shoots loads of cum in a feminine package. A transsexual who is on a regular hormone regimine is not going to have a large cock that shoots loads of cum.
You don't sound very open about people having unique sexualities. Are some tranny chasers gay guys in the closet? Yup. Not all tranny chasers who like TS dick are gay.
I know that I'm not gay. A manly body turns me off. I 'm no attracted to manly muscles, hair, and a deep voice. I'm only attracted to a female face, big tits, ass, real pussy, and ts cock. Does that make me straight? Not really. Does that make me gay? Not really. In my opinion this type of attraction should have its own definition.
Many of these gay femboys like to dress up as women and some are very passable (check out some of their youtube videos and you will be amazed at how good they look without hormones or plastic surgery). They are actually the perfect match for most men who love cock and needing the cock to be attached to a form of feminity.
Gay Femboys and transsexuals are two different types of people. Femboys still have masculine features. Most guys who are called Femboys mostly have feminine body language. They may look passable with clothes ON. When the clothes are OFF then it is a different story and they look like MEN. They don't have breast. They don't have a feminine ass. Unlike Femboys Transsexuals have true feminine features such as breast, ass, feminine voice, etc.
The point is sexuality isn't as simple as you may think.
theoryman
08-12-2012, 08:21 AM
Interesting. And for some, maybe correct.
But then, there are others who are wired differently. I might like a femboy, never tried. I KNOW I don't like guys, I've tried. Masculinity turns me off in a partner.
Many years ago, in the very early 90's, I was involved with a GG named Patti. I actually met her in truck driving school and we teamed for several years after. Patti was very much a tomboy, no makeup, no bra, jeans and flannel shirts. But she came across as feminine to androgenes. We went our separate ways in '94, but continued to 'run into' each other from time to time and would hookup when we did so.
I quit driving in '98 didn't see her again until '05. She called me up and asked to meet me somewhere and I drove down to Burns Harbor, IN to see her.
I have to say that I wasn't expecting what I found. Patti had become Pat. Hairy face, no tits, deeper voice. I found out later, still concave. We had dinner and chatted for several hours.
But the 'spark', the 'attraction', on my side, was gone. Still friends, still able to joke, but, it just didn't work. We tried, but a hairy face and chest just killed any ability on my side.
I felt bad about it, but I didn't really see any way to fake it. After she transitioned, it was done. I don't like and am not attracted to guys.
Just one empirical example... Not everyone is the same... and what attracts one may not another. The physical has to be right as well as the emotional and mental.
--
giovanni_hotel
08-12-2012, 10:29 AM
I wonder is she hates it when dudes go down on her!lol
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m44foytcAU1qfuc60o1_500.jpg
NewAgain
08-12-2012, 02:25 PM
This thread is retarded! Take anything away from a body (man or woman) that i like and i don't like it anymore...simple.
Willie Escalade
08-12-2012, 02:38 PM
This thread is retarded! Take anything away from a body (man or woman) that i like and i don't like it anymore...simple.
Yup.
But since I'm not fixated on the cock, a girl I really care about can go post-op...and I'd stay with her.
nina_lisa
08-12-2012, 03:06 PM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
i need a definition for the below:
Being with a girl despite her cooking italian everyday:
Being with a girl Because of her italian cooking:
Jericho
08-12-2012, 03:45 PM
i need a definition for the below:
Being with a girl despite her cooking italian everyday:
Forgiving
Being with a girl Because of her italian cooking:
Heart attack waiting to happen...And possibly a love of furry armpits! :shrug
loveboof
08-12-2012, 03:54 PM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
Yeah - so do you not believe that any straight men are attracted to transsexuals?
And what about some of the lofty & superior 'exclusively post-op' crowd, that think they're the only enlightened souls on this site. Surely they're the straightest of all, right? ~ they hate dick... so it's impossible for them to be in denial about anything! lol
onmyknees
08-12-2012, 04:26 PM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
Lots....
Being attracted to a girl because you enjoy ALL things about her...including her uniqueness: cool
Trying to analyze that attraction singling out one particular quality: Oversimplification, misplaced logic and self delusion
You stand corrected :dancing:
dabaldone
08-12-2012, 07:06 PM
Lots....
Being attracted to a girl because you enjoy ALL things about her...including her uniqueness: cool
Trying to analyze that attraction singling out one particular quality: Oversimplification, misplaced logic and self delusion
You stand corrected :dancing:
OMK, great post. Too many folks, trans, trans-attracted, gay whatever attempt to oversimplfy the attraction to trans-women. I've always felt those women who spew the most venom have the most issues.
BellaBellucci
08-12-2012, 07:07 PM
Yeah - so do you not believe that any straight men are attracted to transsexuals?
And what about some of the lofty & superior 'exclusively post-op' crowd, that think they're the only enlightened souls on this site. Surely they're the straightest of all, right? ~ they hate dick... so it's impossible for them to be in denial about anything! lol
They're hetero, but most them just like 'damaged goods.' They make their inferiority complexes more bearable within the context of a relationship.
... or they're just straight-up lying. :lol:
i need a definition for the below:
Being with a girl despite her cooking italian everyday: (Hungry)
Being with a girl Because of her italian cooking: (Bella-lover)
That is all. ;)
~BB~
Bunsdk
08-12-2012, 11:24 PM
Hmm, isnt this answered quite easily really?
When a TS gets srs, she is now a girl.
And those that are attracted to TS, would no longer be attracted to her.
Its not about being gay and hunting cock.
They, we, us whoever likes TS.
A gorgeous girl with something we certainly know how to handle.
If I was gay, I would certainly not date a TS, as she opts to be as feminine as possible.
Also why I dont date Crossdressers. Im simply just not attracted to men.
Isnt the hole point of being a shemale either to depict as closely or become entirely a female?
Lets up the ante shall we, Ill call my x-gf a racist for only dating white males. Its kinda true.... she does infact only date white men.... because she hardly ever meets any other. Even though i know she is turned on by darker skin, but just havent found the one among the very few shes met.
Such arguments are kinda lame and childish to begin with arent they?
ibanezuk
08-13-2012, 01:07 AM
hetero-flexible.
Like that, tickled me inside a little bit.
StinkyPete1000
08-13-2012, 04:15 AM
Being with a girl despite her cock: hetero-flexible.
Being with a girl BECAUSE of her cock: faggotry.
Any questions?
~BB~
This is precisely the type of hypocrisy to which the OP was referring. Setting aside the ridiculous oversimplification of a very complicated issue, this doesn't make much sense. If a guy likes a TS because she has a cock he's a faggot but if he likes her for who she is as a person but she STILL has a cock he's hetero-flexible. Where is the logic. What you meant to say was "I don't like guys that like me for my cock." that's fine. That's your prerogative but it's not pure "faggotry" just because you don't like it.
Moreover, at one point in your life you probably didn't have tits, had a short haircut and maybe dressed like a boy. I bet you also liked dick/men back then. I assume that must be the type of "faggotry" to which you were referring. For some strange reason, now that you have breasts that label doesn't apply to you even though you still like men/dick.
StinkyPete1000
08-13-2012, 04:19 AM
It's strange, the girls on this forum want to be accepted for who they are (with or without the cock). This is a noble desire and I think they all deserve respect and acceptance. What bugs me is that (1) the same girls looking for acceptance and respect have little left over to spare for the people who admire them the most and (2) they don't stop to realize just how hypocritical they are.
BellaBellucci
08-13-2012, 05:00 AM
It's strange, the girls on this forum want to be accepted for who they are (with or without the cock). This is a noble desire and I think they all deserve respect and acceptance. What bugs me is that (1) the same girls looking for acceptance and respect have little left over to spare for the people who admire them the most and (2) they don't stop to realize just how hypocritical they are.
... because the guys who 'admire (us) the most' do so because they admire our 'boy parts' (on a feminine person, i.e. 'beard'). That's fine for porn, but if you want us for personal reasons JUST because of them, then just get a fucking boy and refrain from insulting us by projecting your homolust onto us. This isn't rocket science.
Cockbanditsaywhat?
~BB~
BellaBellucci
08-13-2012, 05:06 AM
This is precisely the type of hypocrisy to which the OP was referring. Setting aside the ridiculous oversimplification of a very complicated issue, this doesn't make much sense. If a guy likes a TS because she has a cock he's a faggot but if he likes her for who she is as a person but she STILL has a cock he's hetero-flexible. Where is the logic. What you meant to say was "I don't like guys that like me for my cock." that's fine. That's your prerogative but it's not pure "faggotry" just because you don't like it.
So offer another perspective. Don't just tell me I'm wrong. Show me how I am.
Moreover, at one point in your life you probably didn't have tits, had a short haircut and maybe dressed like a boy. I bet you also liked dick/men back then.
Actually, no. I didn't. I liked women and I expanded my sexuality as I transitioned.
I assume that must be the type of "faggotry" to which you were referring. For some strange reason, now that you have breasts that label doesn't apply to you even though you still like men/dick.
Again, wrong. See above.
~BB~
StinkyPete1000
08-13-2012, 05:06 AM
... because the guys who 'admire (us) the most' do so because they admire our 'boy parts.' That's fine for porn, but if you want us for personal reasons JUST because of them, then just get a fucking boy and refrain from insulting us by projecting your homolust onto us. This isn't rocket science.
Cockbanditsaywhat?
~BB~
That's not necessarily true. Plus, you generalize way too much (and yet, T-girls get mad when guys expect them to be like pornstars--hint: generalizing is rarely good, even if you're the one doing it).
But, I'll leave it at that. "Cockbanditssaywhat" was all I needed to read to realize that a big-people conversation on this subject was asking way too much.
Mr. Sinister
08-14-2012, 05:06 AM
The truth is that a lot of transsexual women are disgusted that men lose interest in them once they have sexual reassignment surgery. Most transsexual women, not all, want to physically match the bodies of genetic women, including having vaginas. When a guy is fantasizing about their cock, they don't feel like a real woman. I truly believe men who love cock on transsexuals and lose interest in them once they get SRS, are bisexual.
My personal advice to the ladies is to get sexual reassignment surgery (as long as it makes you happy) and to then start dating men. You will not have to deal with tranny chasers or men who are in love with your cock. I know several transsexual women who got SRS and are married to wonderful men who love them for who they are and the women they are, not their cocks.
beatlephil
08-14-2012, 06:45 AM
The truth is that a lot of transsexual women are disgusted that men lose interest in them once they have sexual reassignment surgery. Most transsexual women, not all, want to physically match the bodies of genetic women, including having vaginas. When a guy is fantasizing about their cock, they don't feel like a real woman. I truly believe men who love cock on transsexuals and lose interest in them once they get SRS, are bisexual.
My personal advice to the ladies is to get sexual reassignment surgery (as long as it makes you happy) and to then start dating men. You will not have to deal with tranny chasers or men who are in love with your cock. I know several transsexual women who got SRS and are married to wonderful men who love them for who they are and the women they are, not their cocks. Ditto.
giovanni_hotel
08-14-2012, 08:22 AM
I wonder what percentage of TGs are perfectly fine being pre op??
I know Jennifer Paris claims to be. There have to be others.
baller1987
08-14-2012, 08:39 AM
I geuss I am a cockfag. A nice, cute, wonderful career drivin cockfag that happens to like feminine people with cocks. Do you think I should just repress my longings and switch to fish for the rest of my life, or to guys andnot be happy? Should I give up on what I really want and in the process give up on a special ts out there that might be compatible with me?
Fuck off !!! this post is retarded.
BellaBellucci
08-14-2012, 09:11 AM
"Cockbanditssaywhat" was all I needed to read to realize that a big-people conversation on this subject was asking way too much.
Yes, you're absolutely right. My rhetoric completely invalidates my argument. :rolleyes:
~BB~
StinkyPete1000
08-14-2012, 01:54 PM
Yes, you're absolutely right. My rhetoric completely invalidates my argument. :rolleyes:
~BB~
I'm not sure where I said your argument was invalidated by your silly, childish comment. I simply said that once it comes to that type of ridiculousness I lose interest. Doesn't mean you need to stop making awesome points like that though. Also, look up rhetoric. I can assure you "cockbanditsaywhat" is not that.
These discussion always seem to devolve very quickly. I think the OP's point was, at least partly, the fact that it is extremely hypocritical that some of the girls on this forum treat the guys (and, for some, these guys make up a large portion of their income) with such disgust. I get it, you are more than a dick and if a guy can't see past that, it's clear he didn't like you for who you are (just like if a guy left his gg for getting a breast reduction, he clearly was only with her for her tits). That's called being shallow. Plain and simple.
But once we get into "Hetero-flexible" and "faggotry" we get into one of the most arbitrary distinctions I've ever heard in my life. In both instances, both guys like the fact that the girl has a dick. Let's be clear about that. It's just that in one instance that's all the guy likes. So therefore it's "faggotry." That literally makes no sense. From the perspective of someone who is completely closed-minded and hateful of this community (and the wide spectrum that is human sexuality) both instances are "faggotry." If we met and hit it off and became a committed couple (a guy can dream) there would still be those that were disgusted with our union even if you got SRS, because, to them, you were not born a woman and, therefore you will never be considered a woman. My point is, there's really no need for those types of arbitrary distinctions. They don't make sense, and they make us sound just like the closed-minded, unaccepting people we are trying to avoid on this forum, and in life. If a guy only likes you because you have a dick, he's no more obsessed with your dick than the next guy. He's just shallow. However, we all have a right to be attracted to what/who we find attractive (unless it's illegal, of course). Some people get turned off after SRS, some people get turned off when their partner gets fat, others don't like black/white guys, the list goes on and on. Many of us have something that would turn us completely off and physical attraction is important in a relationship.
As for me, I get hard for both pre and post-op girls. I guess I'm just lucky but I don't judge the guys that don't have the same tastes as I do. Plus, sometimes when you fall for someone you fall for everything about them. For example, I wouldn't like it if some of the gg's I fell in love with in the past suddenly woke up with dicks. I met them as gg's, I fell in love with them as gg's, and I loved them just the way they were.
Ok, I'm shutting up now. Sorry for the long post.
Wrongway41966
08-14-2012, 03:49 PM
I usually dont get this involved in these debates, but I'm willing to go out on a limb on this one. I'm a self admitted by sexual guy. I love women, there looks, tits, ass, and pussy. I like going out with women, the touch and feel of a woman, the whole nine yards. Having said that. I have also enjoyed a few very good 'oral' experiences with men. Not extensive and never anal. I don't want to kiss a man, nor do I have any desire to have a relationship with a man.
I simply like to suck a nice cock once in a while. I got into shemale porn over 10 years ago and have been hooked ever since. I've shared my fantasy honestly with my gf and she let's me enjoy that fantasy. She is also somewhat bi, more curious than me. She has had a girl on girl experience. I'm on this site because of my passion for girls with cocks! That simple for me...
BellaBellucci
08-14-2012, 06:08 PM
I get it, you are more than a dick and if a guy can't see past that, it's clear he didn't like you for who you are (just like if a guy left his gg for getting a breast reduction, he clearly was only with her for her tits). That's called being shallow. Plain and simple.
But once we get into "Hetero-flexible" and "faggotry" we get into one of the most arbitrary distinctions I've ever heard in my life. In both instances, both guys like the fact that the girl has a dick. Let's be clear about that. It's just that in one instance that's all the guy likes. So therefore it's "faggotry." That literally makes no sense.
Someone who's hetero-flexible may not like dick. He may just like the person attached to it. I explained this quite clearly in my first post in this thread. If you still don't see the distinction, then that's on you.
From the perspective of someone who is completely closed-minded and hateful of this community (and the wide spectrum that is human sexuality) both instances are "faggotry." If we met and hit it off and became a committed couple (a guy can dream) there would still be those that were disgusted with our union even if you got SRS, because, to them, you were not born a woman and, therefore you will never be considered a woman.
Who cares what a bigot thinks? There's medical and sociological evidence spanning thousands of years to show that whether or not a trans-person (or equivalent) is considered their desired gender is always a matter of culture. Not everyone has to desire sex with a transwoman, but that doesn't mean that if they decide to reject the concept entirely within their own minds, that transwomen are not women and don't have a long history of being such.
These people usually really think this way because they think a woman with a penis is 'icky' or 'an abomination against God,' or because they don't want to have sex with one of us (or even because deep down, they do). They could also have one or more of a multitude of other self-serving attitudes that ignore cultural history simply because they choose to. It's really just a matter of personal taste and it certainly doesn't make them correct. It's just their opinion, and one that is not shared by anthropology, sociology, or even current law in many places.
These same people often reject the concept of evolution for creationism, or are sexually repressed, so consider who's opinion we're really talking about here.
My point is, there's really no need for those types of arbitrary distinctions. They don't make sense, and they make us sound just like the closed-minded, unaccepting people we are trying to avoid on this forum, and in life. If a guy only likes you because you have a dick, he's no more obsessed with your dick than the next guy. He's just shallow.
No, we're not talking about guys who like that we have dicks, we're talking about guys who like us simply because we have dicks. In those cases, guys are simply projecting their gay fantasies onto us because our female identities make us the perfect beards.
Frankly, until you're in our position, you can never understand this distinction, which is the real reason you reject it: you lack perspective.
As for me, I get hard for both pre and post-op girls... I met them as gg's, I fell in love with them as gg's, and I loved them just the way they were.
You like pre-ops, post-ops, and born-females. So why are you taking this so personally? Obviously I'm not even talking about you! :lol:
~BB~
qwerty94
08-14-2012, 06:55 PM
Ok... I realize I am coming into this late:
I'm post-op... I have dated men who knew from the beginning in the past, but I now date stealth. The reason is, I don't want to date a man who is attracted to me because I am transexual. I've had men tell me that I made a mistake, that I will only attract about 1% of the men who were attracted to me as a pre-op transexual... I have realized that if I was to start dating men from online dating sites geared toward transexual individuals and those who seek them, or meet one at a transexual club, etc, I would constantly be wondering if I was enough, or if he would feel the need to find a pre-op TS.
Ex: I had been dating a guy for 4months. We met when I was pre-op and he knew and understood that I would be having my SRS. So, I had my surgeries and it seemed like everything was good. I found out a few months after my SRS that he had went on a date with a Pre-op girl I know. I was furious. Obviously because he lied to me, etc... but it hurt as well...I realize I may have had some post-surgery depression, but it felt like he only wanted me because of what I had between my legs-even if he never touched it. I felt like I had made a mistake. I thought if I had not had my SRS we would still be together.
I think at the end of the day, it isn't about men liking pre-op TS women... it's about how you view us(pre/post/non op/etc). To the men who claim to view us as women and not as transexuals- If that is the case, how can you fault us for going post-op? By putting TS women in this "box"(whether it is intentional or not), you are keeping us a taboo. I had another thought... being transexual in society is kind of like being a caged animal at a zoo... people are allowed to look, people are allowed to inquire about our lives, wonder how we got to this place that we're at, but they can't touch, they can't empathize
BellaBellucci
08-14-2012, 07:16 PM
Ok... I realize I am coming into this late:
I'm post-op... I have dated men who knew from the beginning in the past, but I now date stealth. The reason is, I don't want to date a man who is attracted to me because I am transexual. I've had men tell me that I made a mistake, that I will only attract about 1% of the men who were attracted to me as a pre-op transexual... I have realized that if I was to start dating men from online dating sites geared toward transexual individuals and those who seek them, or meet one at a transexual club, etc, I would constantly be wondering if I was enough, or if he would feel the need to find a pre-op TS.
Ex: I had been dating a guy for 4months. We met when I was pre-op and he knew and understood that I would be having my SRS. So, I had my surgeries and it seemed like everything was good. I found out a few months after my SRS that he had went on a date with a Pre-op girl I know. I was furious. Obviously because he lied to me, etc... but it hurt as well...I realize I may have had some post-surgery depression, but it felt like he only wanted me because of what I had between my legs-even if he never touched it. I felt like I had made a mistake. I thought if I had not had my SRS we would still be together.
I think at the end of the day, it isn't about men liking pre-op TS women... it's about how you view us(pre/post/non op/etc). To the men who claim to view us as women and not as transexuals- If that is the case, how can you fault us for going post-op? By putting TS women in this "box"(whether it is intentional or not), you are keeping us a taboo. I had another thought... being transexual in society is kind of like being a caged animal at a zoo... people are allowed to look, people are allowed to inquire about our lives, wonder how we got to this place that we're at, but they can't touch, they can't empathize
One-thousand times this! <3
~BB~
archineer
08-14-2012, 08:49 PM
I'm post-op... I have dated men who knew from the beginning in the past, but I now date stealth.
I've known girls who've done this before, its a recipe for disaster.
BellaBellucci
08-14-2012, 09:25 PM
Furthermore, and I may have said this already, lots of guys like us because we're 'damaged,' i.e. they think we'll lack self-esteem and be easy to fuck, or too insecure to leave them. I'm not sure if that's better or worse than using us as beards. Both are pretty shitty.
~BB~
giovanni_hotel
08-14-2012, 11:03 PM
Too many issues.
Well adjusted+transgendered woman....oxymoron??
Westheangelino
08-14-2012, 11:09 PM
Men who like transsexuals like the fact that there is a cock there. Period. Wake up and smell the coffee. Even though some men do not want to put said cock up their ass does not change the fact that that is why they are in the room. The penis could represent something "dirty", "taboo", "exciting", .etc whether or not they want to receive direct pleasure from it.
All this being said, some of you take the attitude of offense if perhaps you are post op or want to become one and men are disappointed. Look at it from another angle. If you take a man from the larger pool (i.e. men that want only pussy), give him the impression that you have a vagina, yet show him a penis when he gets up to room....don't you think he would be disappointed? Do you find that offensive or strange as well?
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 01:14 AM
Men who like transsexuals like the fact that there is a cock there. Period. Wake up and smell the coffee. Even though some men do not want to put said cock up their ass does not change the fact that that is why they are in the room. The penis could represent something "dirty", "taboo", "exciting", .etc whether or not they want to receive direct pleasure from it.
All this being said, some of you take the attitude of offense if perhaps you are post op or want to become one and men are disappointed. Look at it from another angle. If you take a man from the larger pool (i.e. men that want only pussy), give him the impression that you have a vagina, yet show him a penis when he gets up to room....don't you think he would be disappointed? Do you find that offensive or strange as well?
Thats a given, but many threads also make it seem that if a transexual has a sex change she's less attractive or its bad thing... liking a transexual is different from liking cock...
Or how about that thread that puts up real gg celebrities with penis...
Sorry to say but many times its a cock fetish regardless trans or not...
And some men go on and marry and date post op's and are okay with the fact she has no penis, or prefer a gg or a post op.... there are many variable and you can't group all men into ts into one box... there are just way too many boxes to fill...
BeardedOne
08-15-2012, 01:15 AM
I wonder what percentage of TGs are perfectly fine being pre op??
I know Jennifer Paris claims to be. There have to be others.
I've had gurls tell me that they were perfectly happy with their cocks/ladysticks/'shenis'. Not sure whether or not to believe them, but I have no reason not to.
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 01:18 AM
I've had gurls tell me that they were perfectly happy with their cocks/ladysticks/'shenis'. Not sure whether or not to believe them, but I have no reason not to.
I'm not comfortable... I am happy but could be happier...
However i may have insecurities, but in no way am i easy... I do not take shit in a relationship..
BeardedOne
08-15-2012, 01:24 AM
Furthermore, and I may have said this already, lots of guys like us because we're 'damaged,' i.e. they think we'll lack self-esteem and be easy to fuck, or too insecure to leave them. I'm not sure if that's better or worse than using us as beards. Both are pretty shitty.
~BB~
Oy! =:O
I've never encountered that one before. Seriously. Definitely something to consider. I recall having read or encountered similar thinking in the past. More towards abusive relationships wherein the abused is attracted/stays with the abuser because they are attracted to them.
That's more than a little scary.
Too many issues.
Well adjusted+transgendered woman....oxymoron??
No, you're thinking of an octomoron, that's eight times worse.
qwerty94
08-15-2012, 01:37 AM
Too many issues.
Well adjusted+transgendered woman....oxymoron??
I could say the same for the men who admire TS women... a lot of the time they have issues that go far deeper than being TS ever could.
giovanni_hotel
08-15-2012, 01:42 AM
What many of you ladies don't seem to get is that MANY guys on this board are attracted to trans-chicks who participate on this board, purely from dialoguing with them and reading their posts.
There are TGs on HA I would want to know/fuck because of what's going on between their ears, what they're thinking and how they express their thoughts.
Round and round...!
Thank God for populating the world with insecure women, or most men would never get laid!lol
A joke. Sort of. (Not really.;) )
giovanni_hotel
08-15-2012, 01:45 AM
I could say the same for the men who admire TS women... a lot of the time they have issues that go far deeper than being TS ever could.
Yeah maybe what I said was a cheap shot about TGs being insecure, but IMO there's a huge problem when a tgirl from jump thinks there's something 'odd' about any man who's sexually/emotionally attracted to them.
It's like asking a chick with noticeable facial acne out on a date. All she can think is, WHY???
south ov da border
08-15-2012, 02:06 AM
If I'm a fag for liking a girl with extra, then does that make the ts who gets paid for sex a money hungry hoe? Nope, I just like what I like, as do they. That should be as far as it goes.
Now on the flip side some people like the whole dom/name calling thing and that's cool. But repsect should go both ways.
I try to see people how they want to be seen. I'm past labels...
amberskyi
08-15-2012, 02:26 AM
i think what alot of guys forget or dont realize is that we didnt want to be transsexuals.we didnt cry ourselves to sleep wishing we could have tits and dick.our emotional pain/motivation comes from a desire to be a woman.alot of us has come to terms with that fact that we have a penis and dont neglect the pleasure that comes from having said penis stimulated.you shouldn't be mistaken tho,if we had a chance to be a "normal" female we would.so why is it any surprise that we want to be accepted and treated as women regardless of our genitalia and what we choose to do with it...
giovanni_hotel
08-15-2012, 02:31 AM
Can't someone like a TG's penis AND still deal with her as a WOMAN??
I know I do.
When you talk to an actual TG for more than 5 minutes, you know you're in a convo with a chick brain. Just in the way she views the world, her frame of reference, her emotional disposition.
south ov da border
08-15-2012, 02:40 AM
i think what alot of guys forget or dont realize is that we didnt want to be transsexuals.we didnt cry ourselves to sleep wishing we could have tits and dick.our emotional pain/motivation comes from a desire to be a woman.alot of us has come to terms with that fact that we have a penis and dont neglect the pleasure that comes from having said penis stimulated.you shouldn't be mistaken tho,if we had a chance to be a "normal" female we would.so why is it any surprise that we want to be accepted and treated as women regardless of our genitalia and what we choose to do with it...
Personally I get it. I often wonder why I was even born here. I used to have those nights all the time when I was younger, crying to myself because I wasn't accepted and such. Sexuality, skin, thoughts, all of it. Was never accepted. Now I just don't care because I try my hardest to not label. I simply deal with people as they present themselves...
archineer
08-15-2012, 02:51 AM
I've had gurls tell me that they were perfectly happy with their cocks/ladysticks/'shenis'. Not sure whether or not to believe them, but I have no reason not to.
It seems about 50/50 in my experience, just not here on the internet.
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 03:02 AM
But isn't there a difference between learning to accept yourself or having the luxury to be born as a genetic woman...
I bet you 100 percent of the time a ts would want to be a genetic woman, or it defeats the purpose of identifying as one, unless your one of the trans who do it for attention, money and sex...
amberskyi
08-15-2012, 03:05 AM
Can't someone like a TG's penis AND still deal with her as a WOMAN??
I know I do.
When you talk to an actual TG for more than 5 minutes, you know you're in a convo with a chick brain. Just in the way she views the world, her frame of reference, her emotional disposition.
if you truly saw her as a woman than pre-op or post-op it doesnt matter.its more about the woman she is than what she's slinging between her legs.
everyone regardless of who your are want to be accepted and loved because of who they are,not their physical attributes.its no different for us.
how would you feel if a woman said she was only with you cause you were black..or had dreads (just examples) but the second that changes she doesnt want you anymore or isnt attracted to you.
amberskyi
08-15-2012, 03:08 AM
But isn't there a difference between learning to accept yourself or having the luxury to be born as a genetic woman...
I bet you 100 percent of the time a ts would want to be a genetic woman, or it defeats the purpose of identifying as one, unless your one of the trans who do it for attention, money and sex...
trust,im okay with using my dick because its the only sexual organ i have (for now atleast).if given a chose i would be gg in a second.like i said before our emotional turmoil or desire doesnt come from wanting to be a tranny but from wanting to be female.
i wasnt 10 years old crying and confused because i didnt have tiits and a cock.i was torn up inside because i just knew that i was supposed to be the same as my sister.
amberskyi
08-15-2012, 03:10 AM
I've had gurls tell me that they were perfectly happy with their cocks/ladysticks/'shenis'. Not sure whether or not to believe them, but I have no reason not to.
ice learned to enjoy and be happy with it too cause thats the lot i was given in life.doesnt mean that if i had a choose i wouldnt choose the alternative.
zdubya69
08-15-2012, 03:16 AM
Frankly, until you're in our position, you can never understand this distinction, which is the real reason you reject it: you lack perspective
Doesn't this statement apply to everyone? Not just the "Chasers" but also the girls?
archineer
08-15-2012, 03:25 AM
if you truly saw her as a woman than pre-op or post-op it doesnt matter.its more about the woman she is than what she's slinging between her legs.
everyone regardless of who your are want to be accepted and loved because of who they are,not their physical attributes.its no different for us.
how would you feel if a woman said she was only with you cause you were black..or had dreads (just examples) but the second that changes she doesnt want you anymore or isnt attracted to you.
This is a slightly daft argument. Men are attracted to the physical (whatever that may be) for a man attraction is pretty much 100% physical. Women may want a guy to just want her for her personality and not care what she looks like but this will never happen.
Love however is something else. Women simply can't separate love and attraction, men can. I'll admit i'm more attracted to pre op ts' than gg's or post op, it's just a preference/orientation like any other, but its definitely not the be all and end all of a relationship. Say I was dating a girl who had the op after we'd got together, would I just leave? No of course not - I wouldn't date someone just because she had a cock. Would I find her attractive post op? Probably. Would I find her as attractive as I did before? No. Would I still love her? Of course.
archineer
08-15-2012, 03:27 AM
But isn't there a difference between learning to accept yourself or having the luxury to be born as a genetic woman...
I bet you 100 percent of the time a ts would want to be a genetic woman, or it defeats the purpose of identifying as one, unless your one of the trans who do it for attention, money and sex...
Hmm I don't know, I've met ts girls who are happy being ts and wouldn't have it any other way. They are few though.
Mr. Sinister
08-15-2012, 04:05 AM
trust,im okay with using my dick because its the only sexual organ i have (for now atleast).if given a chose i would be gg in a second.like i said before our emotional turmoil or desire doesnt come from wanting to be a tranny but from wanting to be female.
i wasnt 10 years old crying and confused because i didnt have tiits and a cock.i was torn up inside because i just knew that i was supposed to be the same as my sister.
I complete agree with amberskyi. Transsexual women want to be viewed as women. Men who fantasize about cocks on transsexual women do not view transsexual women as women, but rather a sexual fetish. Most guys don't realize that with hormones, most transsexual women loose functionality and the ability to cum. A cock chaser should focus his attention on crossdressers/transvestites. They can give the cock chaser want he wants: A big cock that shoots loads of cum. Most transsexual women who are full time and are on hormones are not going to have a 10 inch dick that shoots loads of cum. The vast majority want to get sexual reassignment surgery and want to be treated as real women.
Mr. Sinister
08-15-2012, 04:12 AM
I look at post-op transwomen like Candis Cayne, Mia Fever, and Danielle Foxx, and I see true femine beauty. It is beyond me that any guy would lose interest in them just because they do not have a penis. If you don't want to date Candis Cayne because she does not have a penis, you are gay or are bisexual and are in denial.
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 04:51 AM
Hmm I don't know, I've met ts girls who are happy being ts and wouldn't have it any other way. They are few though.
That to me sound like a lie...
Its kind of like If a genie was to come out of nowhere and had the power to grant you a wish and they stayed the same, taking hormones for the rest of their live, always watching their back, and society, and losing friends and family due to transitioning, all the embarrassing situations they potentially could be in, the violence against many of us, the sexual fetish, the stereotype... They won't wish to be reborn a genetic woman? And stay a tranny? I think they convinced themselves to the point where they believe it... Like what Amber said no body transitions just because they want tits and a cock... they transition to embody WOMAN.
If you ask ts who they look up to it's mostly gg women, very seldom some point out a trans...
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 04:55 AM
Frankly, until you're in our position, you can never understand this distinction, which is the real reason you reject it: you lack perspective
Doesn't this statement apply to everyone? Not just the "Chasers" but also the girls?
But doesn't this go out to you too, I mean it's kinda like you lack perspective to why we may feel that way when we are dating a guy and the first thing they ask his how big my cock is or if I function, or the only reason your dating us therefore..
It's the equivalent of a girl going out on a date with you and she asked how much money do you make, and whats your net worth? Once you lose your job she leaves you or if your not worth enough she won't even think twice.
It feels like you taking advantage of us... as you would feel if the girl asked you that question...
loveboof
08-15-2012, 06:43 AM
Its kind of like If a genie was to come out of nowhere and had the power to grant you a wish and they stayed the same, taking hormones for the rest of their live, always watching their back, and society, and losing friends and family due to transitioning, all the embarrassing situations they potentially could be in, the violence against many of us, the sexual fetish, the stereotype... They won't wish to be reborn a genetic woman? And stay a tranny? I think they convinced themselves to the point where they believe it... Like what Amber said no body transitions just because they want tits and a cock... they transition to embody WOMAN.
Would you still have become an escort if you were born female?
(or maybe better worded as: would you choose to be an escort if you were a genetic woman?)
zdubya69
08-15-2012, 06:47 AM
All I know is I'm not "that guy". I wasn't taking a position for or against
but making a "can't we all just get along" gesture. I'm not the guy asking a girl how big her
cock is, never have, never will not that there's anything wrong with that.lol
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 07:18 AM
Would you still have become an escort if you were born female?
(or maybe better worded as: would you choose to be an escort if you were a genetic woman?)
Probably not, things led me to escort....
qwerty94
08-15-2012, 07:57 AM
amen!!!!!!
but doesn't this go out to you too, i mean it's kinda like you lack perspective to why we may feel that way when we are dating a guy and the first thing they ask his how big my cock is or if i function, or the only reason your dating us therefore..
it's the equivalent of a girl going out on a date with you and she asked how much money do you make, and whats your net worth? Once you lose your job she leaves you or if your not worth enough she won't even think twice.
it feels like you taking advantage of us... As you would feel if the girl asked you that question...
that to me sound like a lie...
Its kind of like if a genie was to come out of nowhere and had the power to grant you a wish and they stayed the same, taking hormones for the rest of their live, always watching their back, and society, and losing friends and family due to transitioning, all the embarrassing situations they potentially could be in, the violence against many of us, the sexual fetish, the stereotype... They won't wish to be reborn a genetic woman? And stay a tranny? I think they convinced themselves to the point where they believe it... Like what amber said nobody transitions just because they want tits and a cock... They transition to embody woman.
If you ask ts who they look up to it's mostly gg women, very seldom some point out a trans...
archineer
08-15-2012, 11:59 AM
'Men will always be man, and those that think they can cure them are the maddest of all' - Voltaire
StinkyPete1000
08-15-2012, 01:50 PM
trust,im okay with using my dick because its the only sexual organ i have (for now atleast).if given a chose i would be gg in a second.like i said before our emotional turmoil or desire doesnt come from wanting to be a tranny but from wanting to be female.
i wasnt 10 years old crying and confused because i didnt have tiits and a cock.i was torn up inside because i just knew that i was supposed to be the same as my sister.
This is was a great post. I will never be able to understand what it's like to feel like you were born the wrong gender/sex. All I can do is try to empathize as best I can. For that reason, I understand why the girls here are tired of meeting guys who only like them because they have penises (it's just like a gg who is tired of guys who only like them because of their breasts, etc.). It's not who you are (and you certainly don't want to be defined by an attribute whose existence has been the cause of the turmoil you described in your post). And, I agree, some guys need to understand that there is a difference between what we see in porn and what we see in real life (this applies to all porn, not just TS porn).
At the same time, I find it difficult to blame someone for a particular physical attraction. In this instance, I think the problem is that the particular thing these men find attractive is exactly what the tgirls would like to change about Sthemselves. That's where the problem starts. Many relationships start based on physical attraction. If I see a girl at a bar I know nothing about her personality. I just know that I find her physically attractive for whatever reason. If something changes about her that makes her unattractive to me it might make the relationship difficult (like when your partner gains a significant amount of weight). It sucks, but it happens. That's how the brain works sometimes. Does anyone think this problem would happen if the girls wanted to keep their penises (I am NOT suggesting they should--just guessing as to what the root cause of this problem may be)? The guy might still approach because you have a penis, but because he knows you'll keep it perhaps a relationship would form. I guess my point is: in a lot of ways, the whole situation is doomed from the beginning when something a guy finds attractive about you is exactly what you've wanted to change your entire life. That's rough.
downblow
08-15-2012, 05:17 PM
I really try to stay out of some of these threads as they are obvious flame bait, surprised this hasn't been shut down already. I see a lot of sterotyping and assumptions from both sides in this thread and yes I did read most of your replies.
I can understand why some guys would like a Ts lady for her male parts, that's their attraction and so you can't fault them for that. I can understand the emotions and frustration from Ts ladies about how guys don't understand how they feel and their male parts.
Something people have to remember though is that not everybody is the same and not all Ts admirers are "cock hungry". I personally think some TS ladies are very attractive and wouldn't give a damn is she had a cock or pussy. I think most men are attracted to TS ladies because they are mostly above average looking women who are very sexy. Pick an average gg woman and an average Ts woman and I would think most people would say the Ts woman is prettier, although that could be just me.
If you are with a TS lady then I would assume that she would need to be sexually stimulated at some point so whomever they are with should have some attraction to their male parts. Wouldn't make sense to go through life not being sexual pleased by your partner. I think that's a very strong connection between partners and creates a more bonding experience in the relationship. Perhaps that's what is wrong with some of the Ts ladies past relationships, the sexual connection just wasn't there(not saying attraction just for fyi)
I would think that if I was with a TS woman and she wanted to get surgery I'd be fine with it.
BellaBellucci
08-15-2012, 06:50 PM
'Men will always be man, and those that think they can cure them are the maddest of all' - Voltaire
He was referring to the species. *rolleyes*
~BB~
rydermorrison
08-15-2012, 07:56 PM
I agree. Not every guy who likes pre op girls.is a "chaser/cockhound etc". But their r indeed a ton of undercover gay guys who r either in complete.denial about their homosexuality or r just too ashamed to openly admit it. so they project this onto trans women because as bella.said, "we r the perfect beards".
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 08:02 PM
Entertain this idea....
If every ts in the world would get a sex change and no one is walking the earth with a penis thats is a transexual woman, what then?
There would be no ts porn, no hung angels, no stereotyping ts, as porn depicts, we would just be another woman how then do you cure your sexual fetish for the ts cock?
Crossdresser? drag queens? transvestite? or men?
archineer
08-15-2012, 09:50 PM
Well being bi it's not an issue......
giovanni_hotel
08-15-2012, 10:18 PM
That's why I say Evon many guys into preop TGs didn't even know they were into them until they became aware of who transgendered women were.
I've said if I was an adult in the 1960s, I wouldn't have been involved with CDs/DQs because they're just men in costume to me.
Preop TGs of today's world are in a totally different category than CDs/DQs.
There would be no fetishizing of TS cock because there would be no TS.
What if the Martian explorer discovers a race of female humanoids born with both a vag and a penis?? I promise you there would be 'normal' guys who never even had the thought before would suddenly discover they had an all consuming lust for Martian hermaphrodites.
Tgirls to me in the beginning were like that new dish a friend introduces you to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before, but they swear you're going to like it. And damn if that new dish isn't your new favorite meal.
Remember the first time you had ice cream?? You just LIKED that shit, doesn't matter that you'd never eaten it before.
That's the exact same sensation I had when I became aware of preop TGs.
You can't miss what you never knew.
And you can't unring a bell that's been rung by a tgirl.;)
archineer
08-15-2012, 10:27 PM
And you can't unring a bell that's been rung by a tgirl.;)
LOL. Never a truer word spoken.
EvonRose
08-15-2012, 10:35 PM
That's why I say Evon many guys into preop TGs didn't even know they were into them until they became aware of who transgendered women were.
I've said if I was an adult in the 1960s, I wouldn't have been involved with CDs/DQs because they're just men in costume to me.
Preop TGs of today's world are in a totally different category than CDs/DQs.
There would be no fetishizing of TS cock because there would be no TS.
What if the Martian explorer discovers a race of female humanoids born with both a vag and a penis?? I promise you there would be 'normal' guys who never even had the thought before would suddenly discover they had an all consuming lust for Martian hermaphrodites.
Tgirls to me in the beginning were like that new dish a friend introduces you to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before, but they swear you're going to like it. And damn if that new dish isn't your new favorite meal.
Remember the first time you had ice cream?? You just LIKED that shit, doesn't matter that you'd never eaten it before.
That's the exact same sensation I had when I became aware of preop TGs.
You can't miss what you never knew.
And you can't unring a bell that's been rung by a tgirl.;)
That's could be true, but there are guys that do like cock period... but they r more comfortable sucking and getting fucked by a cock attaché to a ts... understandable, some men don't want to be labelled gay...
I have no issue with individual fetish, i only hate it when they incorporate it to my love life, then the fetish becomes an issue...
llove
08-16-2012, 03:47 AM
well,call me what you want, i love ts cocks it's a huge turn-on and i hope tgirls appreciate, i think theyre beautiful,is that wrong....i guess i'm a cockfag
EvonRose
08-16-2012, 04:09 AM
I'm a cock fag too!!!!!!
rito1
08-16-2012, 04:15 AM
I'm a cock fag too!!!!!!
Hope you did well in Boston.
trish
08-16-2012, 04:18 AM
That's why I say Evon many guys into preop TGs didn't even know they were into them until they became aware of who transgendered women were.
I've said if I was an adult in the 1960s, I wouldn't have been involved with CDs/DQs because they're just men in costume to me.
Preop TGs of today's world are in a totally different category than CDs/DQs.
There would be no fetishizing of TS cock because there would be no TS.
What if the Martian explorer discovers a race of female humanoids born with both a vag and a penis?? I promise you there would be 'normal' guys who never even had the thought before would suddenly discover they had an all consuming lust for Martian hermaphrodites.
Tgirls to me in the beginning were like that new dish a friend introduces you to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before, but they swear you're going to like it. And damn if that new dish isn't your new favorite meal.
Remember the first time you had ice cream?? You just LIKED that shit, doesn't matter that you'd never eaten it before.
That's the exact same sensation I had when I became aware of preop TGs.
You can't miss what you never knew.
And you can't unring a bell that's been rung by a tgirl.;)Eloquently argued. You sold me.
Sulka_bewitched_me
08-16-2012, 05:21 AM
Well I can only speak for myself but I have absolutely NO DESIRE to get with a man! I see trans women as sexy exotic beautiful & unique beings. Am I interested in them because of their genitalia? Yes but I also am attracted to gg as well. I also think part of my own personal attraction is that trans women are incapable of vaginal sex (pre-op at least) and so anal sex is the alternative. I had anal sex with only one of my gg in the past (& I enjoyed it immensely, so much "tighter" than vaginal sex) and most gg I've crossed paths with are repulsed by the idea. So for me the attraction is twofold but if I was fortunate to develop a relationship with a TG woman I could live with her having SRS if that is what she desired. I would be grateful for having had the experience though.
rockabilly
08-16-2012, 07:48 PM
Lol at martian hermaphrodite.
fred41
08-17-2012, 02:43 AM
Martians may not be a good example...there seems to be some crossdressing going on there too...
ChaseCashNY
08-17-2012, 04:19 AM
Transsexual women want to be recognized as women. I understand and respect those feelings. However, some transsexuals are offended at men who like tranny dick. There are many issues about this.
1. Why do some men like women? They like their pussies. Do you see women getting bad because of this? No
2. TS women who want a man must also want dick because that's what most men have. This is my biggest problem about this. It's okay for TS women to like dick but they're men can't like ts dick. That's very backwards and hypocritical.
3. Just because a man likes TS dick does not mean he sees you as a man. I'm sure some of these men see these TS women as women. They can still treat them like women.
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags. That's insulting and drives away fans. She's not better than us. Do we like her cock sure? But the bitch needs to realize she's the one who is sucking dick on camera.
Bailey Jay is obviously just a bitch, if you like TS cock then they may have a problem with that because their "cock" is the most MANLY thing about them, they have tits, an ass and hair like a girl and a cock like a guy, that's what separates a TS from a real girl, among other things.
And some are hypocritics IMO they go around talking about "Tranny Chasers" all the while having sex with tons of guys.
But its all relative, everyone's different.
buckjohnson
08-17-2012, 11:22 AM
Franklin, if you think Bailey is insulting by calling her fans fag, you calling her a bitch i not exactly helpful. And the tranny chit chat might be offensive to some
TSPornFan
08-17-2012, 03:04 PM
Franklin, if you think Bailey is insulting by calling her fans fag, you calling her a bitch i not exactly helpful. And the tranny chit chat might be offensive to some
What is Tranny Chit Chat? How is it offensive?
TSPornFan
08-17-2012, 03:10 PM
Entertain this idea....
If every ts in the world would get a sex change and no one is walking the earth with a penis thats is a transexual woman, what then?
There would be no ts porn, no hung angels, no stereotyping ts, as porn depicts, we would just be another woman how then do you cure your sexual fetish for the ts cock?
Crossdresser? drag queens? transvestite? or men?
That's could be true, but there are guys that do like cock period... but they r more comfortable sucking and getting fucked by a cock attaché to a ts... understandable, some men don't want to be labelled gay...
I have no issue with individual fetish, i only hate it when they incorporate it to my love life, then the fetish becomes an issue...
Again it's not that simple. Most gay men are attracted to masculine features. Most TS fans do not fall into this group.
I also think it is the type of T-Girl a man looks for. I see many Grooby members go crazy for non-passable girls. In my opinion if you like non-passable girls then you maybe gay. These girls clearly look very masculine.
If a guy only likes passable girls such as Kimber James, Sarina Valentina, and Nody Nodia then I would say he is in a new undefined sexuality group. These men love TS women with penises and are not attracted to femboys, meatheads, and any other type of man.
Wendy Summers
08-17-2012, 03:11 PM
And you can't unring a bell that's been rung by a tgirl.;)
Hahahaha... if we had a facebook like button I'd hit it here...
Willie Escalade
08-17-2012, 03:13 PM
Hahahaha... if we had a facebook like button I'd hit it here...
:dancing:
Wendy Summers
08-17-2012, 03:26 PM
:dancing:
oooo baby Immona hit that. Once it goes click it'll never want dick.
MHarrigan82
10-02-2012, 06:55 AM
To the men on this board who love cock,
Because of hormones, most transsexuals in real life cannot get erections or have an orgasm. The whole fantasy that you can meet a beautiful transsexual women with a 10 inch dick that shoot loads of cum is just a fantasy. Most transsexual women that I know want to get sexual reassignment surgery and want to live as normal heterosexual women. They don't like their cocks and think that guys who fantasize about their cocks are closeted gay men. This is one of the major reasons why a lot of transgendered women will only start dating men after they get their SRS. They don't want to be with a cock hound or a tranny chaser. They want to be with a normal man who will treat them like a normal women, not some chick with a dick.
This is 100 percent true. My transgirlfriend that I have been dating for a couple of months hates her penis. I have never seen her cock. She plans on getting SRS in the next two years. I told her that I have no urge to suck her cock or get top. Her perso Hnality and face attracted me to her. I am only interested in gg, or post op females. I lose intrest seeing a transwoman cock. I am attracted to transwomen by ass, tits, and face.
GrimFusion
10-02-2012, 07:01 AM
oooo baby Immona hit that. Once it goes click it'll never want dick.
That was corny. Do-over!
jamesedwards
10-02-2012, 07:24 AM
Fuck Bailey Jay and her dumb ass remarks.
My thing is people have the right to like and not like what they like, but when I like TGirls with a cock DON'T FUCKING ASK ME SHIT!!!
If a TGirl likes to bottom only and not top, hey that's her thing but don't call me a cock hound because I love a TGirl with her cock, then if you're a TGirl who is bottom only then you're more of a fucking cock hound than I am.
I accept the Tgirls that like and use their cocks.I love the whole package not just part. IT'S CALLED VARIETY, if everyone was the same it would be boring. Again there are people for everyone not just for one person.
Some TGirls love to penetrate ass and top and they love being in control and then you have some that dont. Yet you can treat the TGirls that's in control like a woman.
Transsexual women want to be recognized as women. I understand and respect those feelings. However, some transsexuals are offended at men who like tranny dick. There are many issues about this.
1. Why do some men like women? They like their pussies. Do you see women getting bad because of this? No
2. TS women who want a man must also want dick because that's what most men have. This is my biggest problem about this. It's okay for TS women to like dick but they're men can't like ts dick. That's very backwards and hypocritical.
3. Just because a man likes TS dick does not mean he sees you as a man. I'm sure some of these men see these TS women as women. They can still treat them like women.
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags. That's insulting and drives away fans. She's not better than us. Do we like her cock sure? But the bitch needs to realize she's the one who is sucking dick on camera.
jamesedwards
10-02-2012, 07:25 AM
:iagree: you're right as fuck
And some are hypocritics IMO they go around talking about "Tranny Chasers" all the while having sex with tons of guys.
But its all relative, everyone's different.
natina
10-02-2012, 07:40 AM
You are gay - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zsVpdBIi1BU)
Homophobic Gay Guys - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YaChXj0wjbs&feature=related)
ARE YOU GAY? - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjAVa9RAfWQ&feature=fvsr)
Homophobic gays
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=57214
Transsexual women want to be recognized as women. I understand and respect those feelings. However, some transsexuals are offended at men who like tranny dick. There are many issues about this.
1. Why do some men like women? They like their pussies. Do you see women getting bad because of this? No
2. TS women who want a man must also want dick because that's what most men have. This is my biggest problem about this. It's okay for TS women to like dick but they're men can't like ts dick. That's very backwards and hypocritical.
3. Just because a man likes TS dick does not mean he sees you as a man. I'm sure some of these men see these TS women as women. They can still treat them like women.
4. I get really pissed off when I see Bailey Jay calling her fans fags. That's insulting and drives away fans. She's not better than us. Do we like her cock sure? But the bitch needs to realize she's the one who is sucking dick on camera.
natina
10-02-2012, 07:42 AM
Homophobe are really closeted gays study says
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=66486
You are gay - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zsVpdBIi1BU)
Fuck Bailey Jay and her dumb ass remarks.
My thing is people have the right to like and not like what they like, but when I like TGirls with a cock DON'T FUCKING ASK ME SHIT!!!
If a TGirl likes to bottom only and not top, hey that's her thing but don't call me a cock hound because I love a TGirl with her cock, then if you're a TGirl who is bottom only then you're more of a fucking cock hound than I am.
I accept the Tgirls that like and use their cocks.I love the whole package not just part. IT'S CALLED VARIETY, if everyone was the same it would be boring. Again there are people for everyone not just for one person.
Some TGirls love to penetrate ass and top and they love being in control and then you have some that dont. Yet you can treat the TGirls that's in control like a woman.
The way you go in depth about the "cawk" you are most defiantly a cawkhound. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but you are who you are. You should re-read your posts sometimes
jamiethewild
10-02-2012, 08:03 AM
The way you go in depth about the "cawk" you are most defiantly a cawkhound. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but you are who you are. You should re-read your posts sometimes
What are you his dad ? lol not defend him.
GrimFusion
10-02-2012, 08:42 AM
To the men on this board who love cock,
Because of hormones, most transsexuals in real life cannot get erections or have an orgasm. The whole fantasy that you can meet a beautiful transsexual women with a 10 inch dick that shoot loads of cum is just a fantasy. Most transsexual women that I know want to get sexual reassignment surgery and want to live as normal heterosexual women. They don't like their cocks and think that guys who fantasize about their cocks are closeted gay men. This is one of the major reasons why a lot of transgendered women will only start dating men after they get their SRS. They don't want to be with a cock hound or a tranny chaser. They want to be with a normal man who will treat them like a normal women, not some chick with a dick.
Sounds like it's correct, but you aren't considering transsexuals who don't plan on SRS, transbians, girls who either enjoy or prefer to top (without cash incentives), and tgirls who don't necessarily top but who dig getting blowjobs and handies. They do exist; I assure you. They make up the only sane motivation for a good half of these dudes who chase.
What about all the girls who have to escort as versatile and act as if they like it just because a cheery disposition and willingness are good for business? Thinking about that is a serious buzz-kill. It's certainly a wonder why that conversation doesn't come up much around HA. </sarcasm>
*pops another viagra*
There's not a single type of transsexual that people have to respect all the same. Much like most of these stupid things called "people", each one of them are different and as such, could very well demand to be respected differently. It's so damn complicated, isn't it!? lol.
I find that the less I know about a person, the better I am to be overly-respectful while getting to know them. I don't kiss ass, but I'm careful about what topics I bring up, how I speak, what subjects I approach, and how I act. The more I get to know about them, the better I can gauge how open and impulsive I can be around them. If you're murmuring "fuckin' duh, Captain Obvious. That's common sense", I'd imagine you're not on many girl's shit-lists.
Otherwise, sometimes it's best to practice respect for people until they lose that respect... over a game of drunken strip beer pong.
Eh... this all sounds way too serious and it's getting boring
so I'll end with something a little lighter in contrast. SUCKERS!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvBbx8WaXxE
MacShreach
10-02-2012, 10:46 AM
Again it's not that simple. Most gay men are attracted to masculine features. Most TS fans do not fall into this group.
I also think it is the type of T-Girl a man looks for. I see many Grooby members go crazy for non-passable girls. In my opinion if you like non-passable girls then you maybe gay. These girls clearly look very masculine.
If a guy only likes passable girls such as Kimber James, Sarina Valentina, and Nody Nodia then I would say he is in a new undefined sexuality group. These men love TS women with penises and are not attracted to femboys, meatheads, and any other type of man.
Great thread. Personally I have come to the view that the issues behind this debate are to do with societal conditioning. Particularly in the Anglo-Saxon world but elsewhere too, people are conditioned to think of everything in dualistic terms: on/off, right/wrong, left/right, male/female, gay/straight. This is a consequence of a particular monotheistic, judgemental religious background which, like it or not, informs our culture (and which many people even believe in to this day.)
The trouble is, nature is just not like that. Nature presents a world of limitless variation. There is no one 'standard' anything, particularly in a biological context.
This clashes directly with out societal conditioning. I forget who said it, but 'nature loves variety, society hates it'. We are the product of at least 7000 years of attempts to enforce social conformity through religion and other means.
Kinsey demonstrated, and his findings have never been successfully challenged in their substance, that sexuality is not a duality but a continuum. Harry Benjamin's pioneering attempts to understand mtf transsexualism, which again suggested a scale, a range of variation, have never been properly challenged, (though unfortunately Ray Blanchard's specious and unhelpful ideas have thoroughly muddied the water.) Nevertheless if we discount these then it is quite clear that transgender people fall onto a scale that goes from fully cisgendered to transsexual (Bnejamin's 'true transsexual.)
So what about attraction? We know from Kinsey that this is not a duality; so can this be related to attraction to transgendered people? I think it can, and the instant you do that, everything gets a lot easier. Men who find preop TS women are not gay in that they are expressing a desire for men or anything like it; they are expressing an attraction to a point along a scale of gender presentation that is somewhere in between fully male and fully female. This has been observed for a very long time but nobody ever seemed to want to study it, for societal reasons.
Are such men bisexual? Well, no, because that is a concept derived from a dualistic understanding of sexuality and gender expression; it suggests a combination of two different and discrete types (and this is probably why the limited research into bisexualism has been so inconclusive), whereas what is being observed is an attraction to an intergendered state.
That being the case, there are always going to be men who prefer their women to have penises; they can't change that about themselves. They are not 'gay' in the classic sense, but neither are they 'straight', simply because these categorisations are an inappropriate way of describing human sexuality.
Similarly there are plenty of examples of mtf transsexuals who prefer to keep their penises and who are not femboys, but women. Just where anyone sits on a scale is unique to that person and people should neither feel cajoled into surgeries to affirm their gender ID nor discouraged from it; it's all up to the individual. At the same time, TS people do have to accept that if they do have surgeries, there will be some men who are no longer attracted to them. That does not make these men 'gay' it just means their particular desire is for a point along the scale that is somewhere else.
Men do need to learn to be a lot more polite and considerate about their expression of these desires, however. Just because one is a tad disappointed that a favourite object of lust has lost her pecker is no bloody excuse whatsoever for flouncing around shrieking hysterically about what a mistake it was. Ask yourselves, guys: would you behave like that if your SO had to have a mastectomy because she had breast cancer? Well would you?
BrendaTG
10-02-2012, 08:29 PM
lol...i for one only like men for their dicks.sure as hell not for their brains
lol !
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