Why are straight men afraid to admit that they have seen a sexy tgirl

[jayallday]

any takers

[seamonkey]

If everyone's afraid to admit, then there won't be many responses to this, right?

[Looking 4 Now]

they wouldn't understand
i don't even understand....lol

[Willie Escalade]

Reaction from society

[Bunsdk]

The gay stigmata?

Honestly I dont meet many of those kind of ppl. I dont have many gay friends, but I clearly dont have any friends who dont know themselves well enough to be honest.

An example, a lot of straight friends and I went to a gay bar to support a bisexual gf. We actually discussed the looks of the ppl. There just isnt any point in going to a gaybar and then be too scared to look at anyone. And if you can look, you can disguss.

We have argued in the group how some ppl react. And do so a lot after parties like the one above. And so far, our conclussion is, the more testosterone they ACT, the less likely they are to admit beauty in anything that can question their own sexuality.
Usually the important thing is the act makes the diff.

[sirrobin]

The gay stigmata?

Your friends might think "hey, how are you spotting these types of people? are you looking? or have you been looking?"

I know guys who would never admit they spotted a tgirl. I personally call out who i see all the time and watch my friends act like they didn't notice.

[ChaseCashNY]

Because it's nunya.... nunya BUSINESS!! :)

[onmyknees]

On one level I get what you're asking.....and unfortunately there is societal ignorance, but just Who am I suppose to admit this to? My family ? Co-workers? My closest friends? People on the Subway? I don't admit or confess when I'm fucking a stripper either and it has nothing to do with her profession or her gender. Don't you get annoyed when your friends are always sharing with you who they fucked? If you do that around here in excess, they'll hang the "chaser" label around your neck ! lol

[Dinand]

I'm very straight but I have no problem to admit that I would kill to have sexy with Hazel Tucker. I have no idea what this means.

[Willie Escalade]

I'm very straight but I have no problem to admit that I would kill to have sexy with Hazel Tucker. I have no idea what this means.

You are willing to take the life of another individual in order to have sexual intercourse with Hazel Tucker.
;)

[mattt1989]

no i wouldnt its my secrect if i told people they would think im gay why would i do that

[Jamie French]

You mean 'stigma' - 'stigmata' is a completely different thing... Google it.


The gay stigmata?

Honestly I dont meet many of those kind of ppl. I dont have many gay friends, but I clearly dont have any friends who dont know themselves well enough to be honest.

An example, a lot of straight friends and I went to a gay bar to support a bisexual gf. We actually discussed the looks of the ppl. There just isnt any point in going to a gaybar and then be too scared to look at anyone. And if you can look, you can disguss.

We have argued in the group how some ppl react. And do so a lot after parties like the one above. And so far, our conclussion is, the more testosterone they ACT, the less likely they are to admit beauty in anything that can question their own sexuality.
Usually the important thing is the act makes the diff.

[Quiet Reflections]

Im sure some guys fear stating it aloud because of public reaction but for me it just isn't anyone's bussiness who I sleep with unless you are my signficant other.

[MrF]

Maybe because they have a Ggirl S.O. ?

Which would make them cheaters or clients, as the case may be.

Otherwise, if they're single, I guess their secrecy is owing to social pressures. Who needs trouble ? But it might not be fair to the Tgirl, depending on circumstances.

[TatianaSummer]

I would never admit that to a straight person, then they would think I am a trans-lesbian.
LOL

[ed_jaxon]

but you are a translesbian

[Erika1487]

:dead: at this thread.

[onmyknees]

I would never admit that to a straight person, then they would think I am a trans-lesbian.
LOL

But you're not a trans-lesbian...........are you? lol I've heard stories of your prowess as a top !!!!!!!

[danthepoetman]

On one level I get what you're asking.....and unfortunately there is societal ignorance, but just Who am I suppose to admit this to? My family ? Co-workers? My closest friends? People on the Subway? I don't admit or confess when I'm fucking a stripper either and it has nothing to do with her profession or her gender. Don't you get annoyed when your friends are always sharing with you who they fucked? If you do that around here in excess, they'll hang the "chaser" label around your neck ! lol


Onmyknees makes a good point: we’re all at least a bit secretive as to our sex life and/or our fantasies. It’s normal, and difficult to act any differently. But it’s somewhat unfortunate, at times. In this case, I think the implicit side of the question is: “Why are straight men more embarrassed about seeing a t-girl than a gg escort?” Correct me if I’m wrong, jayallday (OP).
I find this way of acting and being unfortunate and frankly ridiculous (not the question in itself; the attitude). I find people should put in their mind once and for all that t-women ARE women. If we, on this forum, all acknowledged that for a fact in our private life, I think such a silly opinion as the opposite would eventually just fade away. Because t-girls ARE women; if they take androgen’s inhibitors and estrogens, everything changes, their metabolic functions completely transforms and so is their bodies (and God! their mood! just like any woman). Don’t get me wrong, I’m not blaming anybody here, but I think we have to make more and more efforts to induce those changes in society by our general attitude on the subject.

[Prospero]

Perhaps the OP mrant at the level of the guys who brag about that 'chick they screwed" hen they are out with their buddies. Few guys who fly the "straight" flag would have a few beers and then boast about the TG girl they enjoyed the night before.

But then MOST men don't boast about their sex partners anyway. IMHO. Except here!

[beatlephil]

If everyone's afraid to admit, then there won't be many responses to this, right?

For the vast majority of straight men it's going to depend on the transsexual and the circumstances. I guarantee you that the first time straight guys saw Tula after the story broke about her being a James Bond girl appearing in a James Bond movie "For Your Eyes Only", or when Jahna Steele appeared in the National Enquirer after it outed her as a Las Vegas showgirl, or in Brazil where Roberta Close appeared in a Brazilian edition of Playboy Magazine, or more recently when Jenna was allowed to compete in the Miss Canada contest leading up to the Miss Universe Pageant, the transsexual status of these beautiful women did not mean that their innate sexual attraction to them was in error. The fact they were all post-op transsexuals fully capable of functioning as normal women probably gave them something to consider positively should circumstances arise where they might encounter a lady with a similar background like I have on occasion. But you have to wonder what people's reaction would be if they had been pre-op transsexuals. A lot more more hostile most likely because straight people are not going to buy the argument that transsexuals are a third gender or that a "woman" with a penis is legitimately still a woman. And so it goes...

[Bunsdk]

You mean 'stigma' - 'stigmata' is a completely different thing... Google it.

Im not english speaking as first language. I honestly dont care about perfect grammar. Just wether im understood or not.

[Prospero]

Would be interesting if men developed some form of stigmata after seeing a ts

[danthepoetman]

Would be interesting if men developed some form of stigmata after seeing a ts

Well, Prospero, we're not talking brother Pio nor saint Francis of Assise, but sometimes our hearts bleed…

[NJfan]

I would never admit that to a straight person, then they would think I am a trans-lesbian.
LOL

And I have no problem with that! :)

[Prospero]

The sort of stigmata you don't want of course are red rashes or sores...lol

[danthepoetman]

Yes. And especially considering that our Lord and Saviour hasn’t been marked in that potential anatomical surrounding.

[flabbybody]

Besides this forum , irl I talk about my sex life to maybe 2 or 3 close buddies who know about my transgirl crazyness. For the rest of my family and friends sex talk is just not appropriate so why would I say I'm "afraid" ? The premise of the question doesn't make sense.

[tsadriana]

:banana::)Straight men?is not such a thing like that ...where did u get that?hahahaha

[Jericho]

Would be interesting if men developed some form of stigmata after seeing a ts


Depends how/where it manifests.... :hide-1:

[danthepoetman]

:banana::)Straight men?is not such a thing like that ...where did u get that?hahahaha

Adriana, the straight guy here loves your new avatar…

[talldudeil]

I think of it as a fetish, and I don't tell people I know about my fetishes. Only when I am at a fetish party or at a t party then every one know. If I were to run into one of my friends or co-workers would not bother me cause I would know they have the same fetish. Just don't go around explaining my unusual sex life. lol

[mj9902]

I'm a straight man and I wish I could find a tranny to be with. I live in Florida and the choices are not the best. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman period. I always thought the term tranny or shemale is disgracing the girl and a term that as a society we have to label someone. So what they have a penis, big deal. Show the girl respect and act like a real man.

[red-cyberman]

Well many guys aren't afraid to admit including me but the thing is I never met a tgirl and didn't even find the right GG girl till now.
I met someone online and thought I had a chance to know her but she wanted what's in my pockets and she charges 250$ per hour in a country of 500$ minimum wage.
Btw I am a man of Brazilian and Lebanese decent and lived awhile in Brazil and now I'm living in Lebanon middle east. My father is Brazilian and my mother is Lebanese and also have Italian roots from my mother parts of the family. Her great grandfather was Italian.
I wish I could meet a tgirl that loves me for who I am.
I like tgirls like Hazel Tucker, Tayla Dieckmann, Ashley George.
My greatest fantasy would be if I met Patricia Araujo, Angel Star and Barbara Ksivicks.

[ew86riv]

i feel no responsibility to anybody to tell them i've been with a t-girl. i'll always tell them i saw a sexy girl bc that's what they are.

[natina]

CAUSE IF YOU LIKE TRANSSEXUAL THEN YOU
like dick and not pussy
therefore you must be GAY
DUH! homosexual agenda

[pimpdog]

Because it lowers your chances with both tg and gg, what red blooded male would do that.