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nina_lisa
06-28-2012, 09:16 PM
in one case it is short term, but you don't want been in relationship, so you just pay for sex.

Sugar daddy, maybe cheaper (if you often go out with esocrts of course), but live with you full time, and you might not want to be with someone 24/hr.

which one will you prefer?

Jericho
06-28-2012, 11:30 PM
Pay the escort :shrug

talldudeil
06-29-2012, 12:17 AM
Married so pay the escort and I like variety

Dino Velvet
06-29-2012, 01:03 AM
Only by the hour.

BeardedOne
06-29-2012, 01:26 AM
Though a long term relationship would be nice, I've found that I save a considerable sum in annual maintenance expenses with escorts as opposed to a steady lover/relationship. Of course, if I could afford to be a 'sugar daddy' this might balance out.

Token Williams-Black
06-29-2012, 01:41 AM
Pay the escort.

If I was a sugar daddy, I'm not gonna pay you to fuck someone else.

Yeah
06-29-2012, 02:34 AM
Pay an escort. I was a sugar daddy to this stripper for awhile. She was a complete freak in bed. Nothing was taboo for this girl. She did vaginal, anal, fisting, toys, 3-ways with other girls, squirting, swallowing, creampies. You name it, she did it. She loved to be filmed doing this shit too. Sounds great doesn't it? Well it turned out to be bad. I was her sugar daddy and bought her stuff and took care of things, but turns out she would go off and do all this freaky stuff with broke ass guys. Sometimes she would take on two guys or even gangbangs. Once I found out, I got tested and dropped her. If she wasn't screwing around with other guys, I would say being a sugar daddy is the way to go, but reality is tbere is going to be other guys getting it from her for nothing.

Dino Velvet
06-29-2012, 02:45 AM
If I was a sugar daddy, I'm not gonna pay you to fuck someone else.

Bingo.

shaustin
06-29-2012, 03:20 AM
Sugar daddy for an average girl only. I'd rather have a steady thing with the same girl and know she's not out fucking a bazillion guys more than the average girl would, especially when said average girl is getting it regularly from a guy whose treating her wonderfuly.

GrimFusion
06-29-2012, 03:37 AM
I'd rather just pay an escort. I couldn't imagine being a sugar daddy because after a few months, I'd probably start getting attached. The realization that our relationship is purely a transaction would start getting to me after a while, and confessing any of it would drive her off. Plus, if you're single, 'the fuck are you doing sleeping with the same women all the time? That's not interesting.

Honestly though, I wouldn't do either. I'd just pass on both and go bag some pussy for free.

Jessica Presley
06-29-2012, 05:03 AM
You guys are smart. As for me, I don't want to have to answer to one guy I love my independence :-)

south ov da border
06-29-2012, 05:31 AM
eithe way you're paying. Just have to decide which route you wanna go. I don't have disposible income right now, so That would make escort an easy decision for me...

jamiethewild
06-29-2012, 06:48 AM
funny tread . sugardaddies shouldn't care wether am fucking other guys thats why their sugardaddies not relationship ! they should just request you when they need you after all its a transaction but theres difference between a 1 hour session and sugardaddy relationship .

buttslinger
06-29-2012, 07:03 AM
I've only been face to face with a handful of women that were so incredibly out of my league, they were like another species, or from another planet. IF I had the money, goddam yeah I'd want them in my life whenever however whatever.

Jericho
06-29-2012, 07:27 AM
Pay the escort :shrug
Just to add, if i wanted a leech, I'd be married

nina_lisa
06-29-2012, 09:05 AM
Pay the escort.

If I was a sugar daddy, I'm not gonna pay you to fuck someone else.

it make sense to me, that such a relationship need to be exclusive.

It would be unfair if you are a suggar daddy, then she sleep with others, and do escorting or webcamming and the same time.

nina_lisa
06-29-2012, 09:34 AM
funny tread . sugardaddies shouldn't care wether am fucking other guys thats why their sugardaddies not relationship ! they should just request you when they need you after all its a transaction but theres difference between a 1 hour session and sugardaddy relationship .


I would strongly disagree with you. it is not a sugar daddy relationship if they don't care with who you sleep or not. Then it become an escort discount for been a regular.

If i am in relationship with someone and the person does not care with whom i sleep with or not, i wouldn't be happy, because it can me they don't value me that much.

For me the main difference is:
-escort: it is purely sexual.
-sugar daddy: you come back home and you know someone is waiting for you, you even have a fight about if take way should be Mexican or Chinese for the evening. You make the time in the weekend to have a walk along the beach..etc

The main difference is in an escort one try to avoid any emotional connections. Of course a guy in a sugar daddy relation should be smart to avoid a girl that every day want a new gucci bag and so on.

Stavros
06-29-2012, 09:59 AM
Nothing wrong with being a sugardaddy until the sugar runs out and daddy goes grand...

naresuan
06-29-2012, 10:43 AM
'Sugar Daddy' implies the relationship relies on the guy being able to bank roll the girl to some/alot of extent , this 'relationship' alone is fraught with danger, when she finds a 'Bigger Bettter Deal' will she walk? You can visit the same escort multiple times which to me borders on a Sugar Daddy relationship. Not sure if the emotional contatc is ever there whether Sugar Daddy or escort choice is made....

SXFX
06-29-2012, 06:11 PM
Sugar daddy.
It's amazing how many women and especially TS women wish to be dominated.
And the more you do it the harder you do it the more they like it!
Tell her what to wear when and to keep her looks up and to be more sexual and they really turn on like a light bulb in the night.
It took me a while to get use to this for i like a dumb fuck use to be a nice guy.
But now fuck it. Grab the bitch by the hair and kiss her lips bight her lip pull her head back and kiss her neck and bight her nipples and watch her just melt in your hands.

buttslinger
06-29-2012, 08:22 PM
Sugar daddy.
It's amazing how many women and especially TS women wish to be dominated.
And the more you do it the harder you do it the more they like it!
Tell her what to wear when and to keep her looks up and to be more sexual and they really turn on like a light bulb in the night.
It took me a while to get use to this for i like a dumb fuck use to be a nice guy.
But now fuck it. Grab the bitch by the hair and kiss her lips bight her lip pull her head back and kiss her neck and bight her nipples and watch her just melt in your hands.

That's a pimp!!!
As I understand it, Sugar Daddies basically want to spoil little girls that are so beautiful they get hit on fifty times a day. It is the INVOLVEMENT, the attention, that turns me on as well. Strret hos have pimps, Fashion Models have sugar daddies. Like Linda Evangelista. It's not the fucking, dogs fuck. It's the social intercourse of social animals. That's what makes it interesting, that's what makes it complicated.

There are no normal sex lives-Oscar Wilde

sydburn9
06-29-2012, 11:58 PM
Well after all those opinions, here's mine : i prefer to pay an escort because i ove my independance, so i don't see myself in a relationship, that's too hard for me.

undercvrslut
06-30-2012, 03:01 AM
Pay an escort. I was a sugar daddy to this stripper for awhile. She was a complete freak in bed. Nothing was taboo for this girl. She did vaginal, anal, fisting, toys, 3-ways with other girls, squirting, swallowing, creampies. You name it, she did it. She loved to be filmed doing this shit too. Sounds great doesn't it? Well it turned out to be bad. I was her sugar daddy and bought her stuff and took care of things, but turns out she would go off and do all this freaky stuff with broke ass guys. Sometimes she would take on two guys or even gangbangs. Once I found out, I got tested and dropped her. If she wasn't screwing around with other guys, I would say being a sugar daddy is the way to go, but reality is tbere is going to be other guys getting it from her for nothing.

What a delightful story with a sad ending lol

BLKGSXR
06-30-2012, 11:52 AM
Well since O Ed and the Jizz is back full force I might as well be Meh!
always have fun while spending money on just my own shit ^___^

Token Williams-Black
06-30-2012, 02:00 PM
Well since O Ed and the Jizz is back full force I might as well be Meh!
always have fun while spending money on just my own shit ^___^
I saw how y'all party at the Tranny Awards. I'm jealous...

Yeah
06-30-2012, 02:52 PM
it make sense to me, that such a relationship need to be exclusive.

It would be unfair if you are a suggar daddy, then she sleep with others, and do escorting or webcamming and the same time.

Agreed. If Im bank rolling the girl, it needs to be exclusive.

Yeah
06-30-2012, 02:58 PM
Sugar daddy.
It's amazing how many women and especially TS women wish to be dominated.
And the more you do it the harder you do it the more they like it!
Tell her what to wear when and to keep her looks up and to be more sexual and they really turn on like a light bulb in the night.
It took me a while to get use to this for i like a dumb fuck use to be a nice guy.
But now fuck it. Grab the bitch by the hair and kiss her lips bight her lip pull her head back and kiss her neck and bight her nipples and watch her just melt in your hands.

You got it SXFX. Screw the nice guy stuff. It gets a guy nowhere. A guy has to dominate a girl. Girls love it and gotta have it.

rockabilly
06-30-2012, 04:16 PM
What's the difference?

No FWB options?

Boomerang Man
06-30-2012, 07:18 PM
To the OP this is an easy question for me to answer. You pay you say & you walk away.

Chase_Mcthirsty
06-30-2012, 07:32 PM
Neither!

I'm Chase.....Chase Mcthirsty.

And I have standards.

If the affection isn't free then I'd rather jerk off and just imagine I'm fucking her which in most cases is better anyway. So it's a win/win in my book. Tricking or playing "rent a husband" = lose/lose

Stay Thirsty~

Chase_Mcthirsty
06-30-2012, 07:49 PM
Pay an escort. I was a sugar daddy to this stripper for awhile. She was a complete freak in bed. Nothing was taboo for this girl. She did vaginal, anal, fisting, toys, 3-ways with other girls, squirting, swallowing, creampies. You name it, she did it. She loved to be filmed doing this shit too. Sounds great doesn't it? Well it turned out to be bad. I was her sugar daddy and bought her stuff and took care of things, but turns out she would go off and do all this freaky stuff with broke ass guys. Sometimes she would take on two guys or even gangbangs. Once I found out, I got tested and dropped her. If she wasn't screwing around with other guys, I would say being a sugar daddy is the way to go, but reality is tbere is going to be other guys getting it from her for nothing.

Sugardaddies are just long term clients. So you need to realize that SD's does not equate to boyfriend or husband.

The fact that you have to buy her things in order to win her attention should sound off bells and whistles.

I'm that guy she'll likely be fucking for free, and for the record I'm not broke, I'm morally poor and so are they so learn how to play their games. LOL!

Stay Thirsty~

Yeah
06-30-2012, 09:02 PM
Sugardaddies are just long term clients. So you need to realize that SD's does not equate to boyfriend or husband.

The fact that you have to buy her things in order to win her attention should sound off bells and whistles.

I'm that guy she'll likely be fucking for free, and for the record I'm not broke, I'm morally poor and so are they so learn how to play their games. LOL!

Stay Thirsty~

It was more than buying her things. she was a living with me. I was fine with the arrangement until she started to sleep around, at that point I had to end it. I wasn't going to be her sugar daddy and have her off sleeping around.

I have learned from this. No more sugar daddy and treat them the way they should be treated, like they are worthless.

Willie Escalade
07-18-2012, 03:37 PM
...and THIS is why I'll never be a sugar daddy.

http://www.madisonmontag.info/

Epic, Seanchai...epic.
:cheers:

brickcitybrother
07-18-2012, 04:41 PM
Pay an escort. I was a sugar daddy to this stripper for awhile. She was a complete freak in bed. Nothing was taboo for this girl. She did vaginal, anal, fisting, toys, 3-ways with other girls, squirting, swallowing, creampies. You name it, she did it. She loved to be filmed doing this shit too. Sounds great doesn't it? Well it turned out to be bad. I was her sugar daddy and bought her stuff and took care of things, but turns out she would go off and do all this freaky stuff with broke ass guys. Sometimes she would take on two guys or even gangbangs. Once I found out, I got tested and dropped her. If she wasn't screwing around with other guys, I would say being a sugar daddy is the way to go, but reality is tbere is going to be other guys getting it from her for nothing.

HPV / Warts? Sounds like a girl I know ... and I would always cover up ... but found out from the 'other' guy she gave him warts and chlamydia!!!! I got tested and dodged the bullet... but damn!!!

Ryz
07-18-2012, 04:47 PM
Pay an escort. I was a sugar daddy to this stripper for awhile. She was a complete freak in bed. Nothing was taboo for this girl. She did vaginal, anal, fisting, toys, 3-ways with other girls, squirting, swallowing, creampies. You name it, she did it. She loved to be filmed doing this shit too. Sounds great doesn't it? Well it turned out to be bad. I was her sugar daddy and bought her stuff and took care of things, but turns out she would go off and do all this freaky stuff with broke ass guys. Sometimes she would take on two guys or even gangbangs. Once I found out, I got tested and dropped her. If she wasn't screwing around with other guys, I would say being a sugar daddy is the way to go, but reality is tbere is going to be other guys getting it from her for nothing.

They were just most likely better looking than you

Stavros
07-18-2012, 05:28 PM
...and THIS is why I'll never be a sugar daddy.

http://www.madisonmontag.info/

Epic, Seanchai...epic.
:cheers:

On the other hand, the man in question was not forced to part with a single dollar, he chose to. Part of the problem with a scam is that it relies on persuasion rather than theft, possibly guilt, unfulfilled desire, whatever. If the woman concerned had discovered that over a period of, say, 25 years her 73-yr old husband had regularly paid prostitutes for sex, she might add up all the money involved and wonder why that new patio never appeared, and so on and so on. She is understandably bitter, but we don't know the truth of what happened from her husband's perspective.

Prospero
07-18-2012, 06:06 PM
Th Madison Montag thing is interesting - and i can fully understand why the woman is upset. But she might have been even more upset if Madison had actually proved to be real in the sense that she met and persuaded the man to leave his wife. (That might well be what he'd have wanted to do - had the opportunity really arisen). Either way this is a sad story - and Madison appears to be a scoundrel.

So in a way he WAS her sugar daddy and this in an era where you can undergo all of that via the Web without even meeting. Sad.

loveboof
07-18-2012, 06:22 PM
...and THIS is why I'll never be a sugar daddy.

http://www.madisonmontag.info/

Epic, Seanchai...epic.
:cheers:
I can't see much different about what she did there to every other cam girl online...

They all milk guys for their money - pretend to be into them, send them pictures, and share their wishlists.

You telling me they check the state of people's finances before asking for tips?!

Dino Velvet
07-18-2012, 06:23 PM
...and THIS is why I'll never be a sugar daddy.

http://www.madisonmontag.info/

Epic, Seanchai...epic.
:cheers:

I read it too. I still call her.

BellaBellucci
07-18-2012, 07:14 PM
Sugar daddy.
It's amazing how many women and especially TS women wish to be dominated.
And the more you do it the harder you do it the more they like it!
Tell her what to wear when and to keep her looks up and to be more sexual and they really turn on like a light bulb in the night.
It took me a while to get use to this for i like a dumb fuck use to be a nice guy.
But now fuck it. Grab the bitch by the hair and kiss her lips bight her lip pull her head back and kiss her neck and bight her nipples and watch her just melt in your hands.

This post is surprisingly hot. :Bowdown:

Although, as much as I love this attitude, I also love my freedom. It's a tight rope that I walk every day.

~BB~

bassman2546
07-18-2012, 07:15 PM
Pay an escort. I don't need them around all the time.

Dino Velvet
07-18-2012, 08:05 PM
Pay for 60 minutes > Pay for 60 years

SammiValentine
07-18-2012, 08:27 PM
I can't see much different about what she did there to every other cam girl online...

They all milk guys for their money - pretend to be into them, send them pictures, and share their wishlists.

You telling me they check the state of people's finances before asking for tips?!

hahahah i cant wait for cam site services idustry to be regulated.

bluesoul
07-18-2012, 08:33 PM
in one case it is short term, but you don't want been in relationship, so you just pay for sex.

Sugar daddy, maybe cheaper (if you often go out with esocrts of course), but live with you full time, and you might not want to be with someone 24/hr.

which one will you prefer?

neither

nina_lisa
07-18-2012, 09:10 PM
When it comes to madison montag story, blame the husband not the girl. People pay escorts and cam girl so they pretend that the girl love them.

Want to guess how many men take a day out of work, so a ts can fuck them in the ass, while there is photo of his wife, kids, etc, on the wall? Then when the wife is back home they say: oh honey i love you, i miss you.

I don't ask client for marriage certificates, they pay for my time, they ask how much my time is worth , and during that hour sure i'll tell them how amazing they are. Then when i am done, i'll tell my friends: i really feel sorry for his wife, what is wrong with such men?

loveboof
07-18-2012, 10:07 PM
hahahah i cant wait for cam site services idustry to be regulated.

Haha, yeah that will make for an amusing 6 o'clock news segment!