Fantasy better than reality?

[tmatthews]

Hi guys, this is my first (and maybe last...I don't know) post on here. This may not be interesting to any of you, but thought I'd share anyway. For a while I've been quite into shemale porn, mainly the girls fucking guys type, and I came across these boards so started reading the reviews section, toying with the idea of giving it a try.

Have always been with regular girls in the past, but over time the idea of getting fucked by a shemale really turned me on. This evening I thought "fuck it, why not?" and had a browse online. Ended up going to see a fairly convincing tv mainly because of the low price.

So, I get there, very nice, we have a good time. She sucked my cock for a while, I sucked hers a bit as I was curious, but didn't really do anything for me. Then she lubed me up a bit and started to fuck me which was (unsurprisingly) pretty uncomfortable. As an anal virgin, it was hard work for both of us and then I decided I wanted to fuck her. Fucked doggystyle for a while then I turned her over, fucked her missionary and came in her ass. Time was pretty much up by this point and she stepped out the room to answer the phone, so I got dressed. She then comes back in, raging hard on and asks me to suck her cock. I was not too bothered, but thought may as well make the most of the experience, so I did this for a bit, and would have been happy for her to cum that way, but then she wanted to fuck me. I was just completely not into it, so I said "no, sorry" and left.

Point of this is, I don't think I'm actually really into cock at all. I think the appeal of the idea is more to do with being dominated sexually, the role-reversal element. I also like the idea of a regular girl fucking me with a strapon. Can anyone identify with this? I think for me it's the kinkiness of it that's the turn on, but not the reality of actually doing it, if that makes any sense?

P.S. I am in no way trying to say that this is the case for anyone else. I also would not wish to offend anyone, least of all any trans girls, some of whom are truly beautiful and amazingly sexy. :)

[buttslinger]

I think you definitely pay for the sizzle, not the steak.

[up_for_it]

Your situation sounds pretty similar to my own. I've been into shemale porn for awhile and find many TGs to be absolutely stunning. However, I've never been with one and like you, have wondered if reality would ever match the fantasy. Personally I'm not a big fan of dick, and like you part of the attraction of actually having sex would be the kinkiness of being dominated (see my avatar for example- its no big surprise I'm a Jessica Host fan). My of my TG fantasies involve some sort of BDSM play, as this is a pretty big centerpiece of my sexuality overall.

Maybe you need some sort of role play to get things heated up? TG Dommes are pretty common place and if you try a personal site like Collarme you'll also find plenty available. Not to mention plenty of women into strapon play. It sounds to me like part of the problem was not having a good scene lined up in advance, and (based on your post) your infamiliarity with anal play. I'd recommend trying this out again by yourself- Wendy Williams markets a great and affordable training kit which I've used. The largest size is roughly begining strapon and this was pretty uncomforable for me, which led me to reply to your post since I can relate to the mixed feelings and at the moment I'm not sure I'd be totally into strapon play with a woman, which has been a longtime fantasy. So, again, it pays to experiment by yourself first.

Anyways, it sounds like a good experience overall in the sense that you've had a first encounter and can go forward from here- you have plenty of options. From what I understand, any good escort would be familiar with these issues and be happy to work at your pace. On the other hand, it'd also be up to you to be ready to get busy and have some knowledge of anal sex.

[WendyWilliams]

Your situation sounds pretty similar to my own. I've been into shemale porn for awhile and find many TGs to be absolutely stunning. However, I've never been with one and like you, have wondered if reality would ever match the fantasy. Personally I'm not a big fan of dick, and like you part of the attraction of actually having sex would be the kinkiness of being dominated (see my avatar for example- its no big surprise I'm a Jessica Host fan). My of my TG fantasies involve some sort of BDSM play, as this is a pretty big centerpiece of my sexuality overall.

Maybe you need some sort of role play to get things heated up? TG Dommes are pretty common place and if you try a personal site like Collarme you'll also find plenty available. Not to mention plenty of women into strapon play. It sounds to me like part of the problem was not having a good scene lined up in advance, and (based on your post) your infamiliarity with anal play. I'd recommend trying this out again by yourself- Wendy Williams markets a great and affordable training kit which I've used. The largest size is roughly begining strapon and this was pretty uncomforable for me, which led me to reply to your post since I can relate to the mixed feelings and at the moment I'm not sure I'd be totally into strapon play with a woman, which has been a longtime fantasy. So, again, it pays to experiment by yourself first.

Anyways, it sounds like a good experience overall in the sense that you've had a first encounter and can go forward from here- you have plenty of options. From what I understand, any good escort would be familiar with these issues and be happy to work at your pace. On the other hand, it'd also be up to you to be ready to get busy and have some knowledge of anal sex.


Thankyou the Anal Training Kit is def. great for those who want to slowly work themselves up a size.

[jamesedwards]

I can definitely identify with it, because I too love a GG to fuck me with a Strapon and TGirl cock, I've even did 3sum with both at the same time, FUCKING UNBELIEVABLE FUN!!!

My reality is better than the fantasy, just to get that out the way.

Go with what you're comfy with, if you can't and don't like the TGirl cock don't do it, f you like GG strapon better stay with that, it's your choice. I love both and I love a TGirl with a big cock who has confidence that I can't take her whole cock and I do and fuck it until she cums.

If getting cock from the Tgirl is a fantasy and you get off on that then let it stay a fantasy.



Hi guys, this is my first (and maybe last...I don't know) post on here. This may not be interesting to any of you, but thought I'd share anyway. For a while I've been quite into shemale porn, mainly the girls fucking guys type, and I came across these boards so started reading the reviews section, toying with the idea of giving it a try.

Have always been with regular girls in the past, but over time the idea of getting fucked by a shemale really turned me on. This evening I thought "fuck it, why not?" and had a browse online. Ended up going to see a fairly convincing tv mainly because of the low price.

So, I get there, very nice, we have a good time. She sucked my cock for a while, I sucked hers a bit as I was curious, but didn't really do anything for me. Then she lubed me up a bit and started to fuck me which was (unsurprisingly) pretty uncomfortable. As an anal virgin, it was hard work for both of us and then I decided I wanted to fuck her. Fucked doggystyle for a while then I turned her over, fucked her missionary and came in her ass. Time was pretty much up by this point and she stepped out the room to answer the phone, so I got dressed. She then comes back in, raging hard on and asks me to suck her cock. I was not too bothered, but thought may as well make the most of the experience, so I did this for a bit, and would have been happy for her to cum that way, but then she wanted to fuck me. I was just completely not into it, so I said "no, sorry" and left.

Point of this is, I don't think I'm actually really into cock at all. I think the appeal of the idea is more to do with being dominated sexually, the role-reversal element. I also like the idea of a regular girl fucking me with a strapon. Can anyone identify with this? I think for me it's the kinkiness of it that's the turn on, but not the reality of actually doing it, if that makes any sense?

P.S. I am in no way trying to say that this is the case for anyone else. I also would not wish to offend anyone, least of all any trans girls, some of whom are truly beautiful and amazingly sexy. :)