how to tell everyone you like Shemales/Transsexuals

[Wolver]

Hi as the Thread title say how to?? I don't think any of my friends or relatives will like this news..... So how do you know if or when to tell and things like that?

[Nicole Dupre]

Just blurt it out, tell them it's 2012, and to get used to it. Tell them it doesn't mean you're gay, because it actually doesn't. Let the responsibility fall on them to understand it, not on you to explain it. And if that doesn't work, move on from them and their petty judgmental attitude. You can't live to please your parents your whole life. If they love you, they'll understand and/or just won't care. And friends? lol What kind of friend would judge you for that and make you feel like you need to keep secrets? If they have a problem with that, get new friends. :2cent

[FreddieGomez]

well my family is gay friendly, i have a god father who is openly gay and i respect gay people as long as they respect me. i have nothing wrong with them, and if it wasn't for my son and my attraction to genetic women as well, i wouldn't be so afraid to let it be known. But my baby mom will start shit and i don't want to jeopardize my relationship with my son...maybe when he's older, but right now? no.
if u cant respect that then fuck u

[grooby frank]

I don't tell my friends or family all of my secrets. There are many things I consider important to me as a person that I don't feel I need to share with everyone. I don't get this shouting from the rooftop ideal or wearing your heart on you sleeve expectation of modern society. If you are in a relationship with someone and think it is time to introduce them to your family and friends, then that is the time they need to know.

If they love you or are a true friend then it will not be a issue. If they don't "fuck em".

[Wolver]

Nicole Dupre you got a big point there, i have that a but moving anyway so. But don't know if to tell them first???

FreddieGomez
My friends are not gay or as i prefer to call it shemale lover friendly i think???

[Wolver]

grooby frank nice reply, it is so true...

[Wolver]

i have told them and there still my friends :D
The said that i like what i like, and the are cool whit it :D

[ed_jaxon]

Not sure why you would tell them.

If you are living a lie that is one thing but if you are private by nature there is no need for anyone outside of who you want to tell to know.

All my friends know I am the one to take the extra step, push the envelope and do the things they wish they could. I learned a long time ago that confidence in all situations is what matters most.

[Jersey77Curious]

I don't tell my friends or family all of my secrets. There are many things I consider important to me as a person that I don't feel I need to share with everyone. I don't get this shouting from the rooftop ideal or wearing your heart on you sleeve expectation of modern society. If you are in a relationship with someone and think it is time to introduce them to your family and friends, then that is the time they need to know.

If they love you or are a true friend then it will not be a issue. If they don't "fuck em".

:iagree: Very nicely put...

[archineer]

Hi as the Thread title say how to?? I don't think any of my friends or relatives will like this news..... So how do you know if or when to tell and things like that?

Just don't, at least not until you are seriously dating someone. You need to stop caring what others think and live for yourself. Most people don't really care anyway in my experience, and as long as you are confident in your convictions they don't take the piss either.

[Willie Escalade]

I don't tell anybody. If they happen to see that pic of my with Yasmin Lee, then so be it.

[SammiValentine]

i would do it at xmas dinner, wear a crop top and hotpants and do a cheerleader routine.

record it and put it on youtube :)

[robertlouis]

i would do it at xmas dinner, wear a crop top and hotpants and do a cheerleader routine.

record it and put it on youtube :)

Ah Sammi, the low-key and subtle approach - never fails lol.

[SammiValentine]

softly, softly..:D

[qwerty94]

i have told them and there still my friends :D
The said that i like what i like, and the are cool whit it :D


yay! congrats... :Bowdown: it's awesome that you told them, but I could totally see why, if you had chosen not to tell.

[thickjimmy]

I won't n never will. Thank goodness for private browsing and having a gf that isn't very good at using computers. Only thing she knows how to Pull up is history. I've never told anyone or felt the need to do so. I'm glad for forms like this though so I can discuss what I like with others that share the same interest.

[lollipop2284]

OK,
I admit it.
I love shemales.
Always have, always will.

[fireblad]

Whhhhhyyyyyy tell?????? I just hope not meet them when I go to a tgirl club. But then I could always say someone tricked me to get there or I was looking for directions. I still fancy ggirls very much, thank you.
But hey, aint this a revelation? Carolina Montenegro

[irvin66]

I do not think it's a good idea to tell it. I would certainly not say that I like girls who are not quite like other girls. That's probably why I like these girls, no one can see that they have something extra between their legs! :geek:

[Dino Velvet]

I'd bring her with me so everyone would understand and agree and ask is she has an extra friend.

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[bluesoul]

Tell them it doesn't mean you're gay, because it actually doesn't. Let the responsibility fall on them to understand it, not on you to explain it.

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[pimpdog]

well my family is gay friendly, i have a god father who is openly gay and i respect gay people as long as they respect me. i have nothing wrong with them, and if it wasn't for my son and my attraction to genetic women as well, i wouldn't be so afraid to let it be known. But my baby mom will start shit and i don't want to jeopardize my relationship with my son...maybe when he's older, but right now? no.
if u cant respect that then fuck u
Yeah defiantly not worth less time, with your son.

[RallyCola]

Whhhhhyyyyyy tell?????? I just hope not meet them when I go to a tgirl club. But then I could always say someone tricked me to get there or I was looking for directions. I still fancy ggirls very much, thank you.
But hey, aint this a revelation? Carolina Montenegro

Why not tell?

its simple.

if you are the type of guy that gets off on tranny porn but would never seriously entertain a relationship, then i understand why you keep your secrets...I am sure your friends and family don't know if you like S&M, latex, cosplay or golden shower fetishes either.

if you are the type of guy that is not at all ashamed of what you are into and will pursue a relationship with a person regardless of their birth gender, then, be true to yourself and your partner.

[pablo12]

I'm still waiting for my missus to ask me why I haven't deleted that documentary called "Ladyboys" that's been sitting on the SKY+ box for months now.

[Wendy Summers]

Whhhhhyyyyyy tell?????? I just hope not meet them when I go to a tgirl club. But then I could always say someone tricked me to get there or I was looking for directions.

#TRUFAX

Someone from my local bar, wandered into my video chat room one day and was astonished to learn I had a dick. He started to be all "I'm going to tell EVERYONE".

I calmly reminded him that in order to FIND my chatroom he has to be looking for trannies anyway.

No one at the bar knows to this day.

Feel free to use that if a friend walks into a tranny bar you are at ;).

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

I personally and honestly dont think its anyone's business. If you like women you like women. Spare the details.

[Wendy Summers]

I personally and honestly dont think its anyone's business. If you like women you like women. Spare the details.

Welcome to Hung Angels... hope you survive the experience...

[EvonRose]

if you want to tell you should just say it!

however, if your were my boyfriend, I wouldn't want you saying anything!

[hwbs]

I told the people I'm closest too and that's it...only because I have had many ltr with ts.....but telling your friends u like ts just cause u beat off to porn is just gay hahahaha

[tommy001]

If i liked a Transsexual girl enough to know there was something between us, i would gladly walk hand in hand down the street with her. I'd be the happiest guy and say to the world this is my girl. I can even hear the sound of her high heels as i'm writing this.

[buttslinger]

i would gladly walk hand in hand down the street with her.

I was walking down the street with a prostitute and all the guys were dropping their jaws and saying "You're a lucky guy" and stuff like that. Finally she had to explain to me that when you got a few feet away from her dress it was a see-thru. So if you want to tell everybody your girl is a TS, just buy her one of those dresses.

[bte]

Hi as the Thread title say how to?? I don't think any of my friends or relatives will like this news..... So how do you know if or when to tell and things like that?

Don't know why you would out a girl's T like that, because you know if you tell your friends or relatives that you like transsexuals, then every girl you bring home, they will wonder "Is she a man or a woman?"

[tommy001]

I was walking down the street with a prostitute and all the guys were dropping their jaws and saying "You're a lucky guy" and stuff like that. Finally she had to explain to me that when you got a few feet away from her dress it was a see-thru. So if you want to tell everybody your girl is a TS, just buy her one of those dresses.

I'd tell everyone myself if i liked the girl enough! :)

[Nicole Dupre]

I wouldn't want my husband's family waiting around for us to have a baby, or for them to see my photos as a kid and find things out the wrong way. Certain people are in that inner circle and some aren't. My family all know about me and completely accept it. Many, although they don't want to know details, know I've been a sexworker. I just never rubbed their faces in it. But I'm not used to my gender status being an issue for the important people in my life.

Eventually I'll have a pussy anyway, and it will be even more irrelevant than it is now.

[fireblad]

hey hey

[fireblad]

if you want to tell you should just say it!

however, if your were my boyfriend, I wouldn't want you saying anything!

wud tell everyone if I was dating u:Bowdown:

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

Welcome to Hung Angels... hope you survive the experience...

LOL Thanks.

[tommy001]

Eventually I'll have a pussy anyway, and it will be even more irrelevant than it is now.[/QUOTE]

It's all to do with the person. If she now has a pussy or ok with the way she is and i liked or love that person enough.

[BIG E]

I dont see the reason of telling someone

[dabaldone]

I agree with another poster and Nicole as well. Tell those in your close circle of family amd friends (so they won't ask stupid questions). If the don't like it f'em.

[EvonRose]

Well many women can't have children, I am a woman so lets keep it that way. lol


However, if the ts is not as passable i can see the need to explain to family... I get it.

[Nicole Dupre]

Well many women can't have children, I am a woman so lets keep it that way. lol


However, if the ts is not as passable i can see the need to explain to family... I get it.
Not always. I've seen the most unclockable girls face the man's family's scrutiny.

"Doesn't she have any childhood photos?"

"Why aren't you two getting married and having kids? You always said you wanted kids."

It's not just whether they're clockable or not. It's having a history that was not always female. Latin and Italian men will often dump a LTR with a TS because children and family are a more expected thing in their culture. Passing on the family name is important to them.

[EvonRose]

Not always. I've seen the most unclockable girls face the man's family's scrutiny.

"Doesn't she have any childhood photos?"

"Why aren't you two getting married and having kids? You always said you wanted kids."

It's not just whether they're clockable or not. It's having a history that was not always female. Latin and Italian men will often dump a LTR with a TS because children and family are a more expected thing in their culture. Passing on the family name is important to them.

Well, yeah but now these days there are ways to pass genetics without the woman giving birth.

Not all women can carry, I know my auntie cannot and a few In my fambam.
I have no childhood photos because there was a war in my country and me and my family left for the US in a hurry.

But I get your point, the thing is I think family should know that women re not built the same we all have different stories to tell gg or ts. Don't you think?

[rockabilly]

On one hand it's your life and you can't let others dictate how you should live or love. You can't please everybody but if your family and friends love you then they should accept you unconditionally.

[rydermorrison]

i dont see the need to tell them anything. as long as you're prepared to defend her if she gets clocked then no worries. just live your life

[giovanni_hotel]

i dont see the need to tell them anything. as long as you're prepared to defend her if she gets clocked then no worries. just live your life

Agreed.
It's nobody's business except for you and your lady.
Only bring your family into it on an intimate level if it's really necessary.

[Nicole Dupre]

I think if a man calls a group of people "family", but feels he needs to keep me a secret, he's not much of a man imo. It's not so much about what I want. It's the idea of being a dirty little secret because his family is bigoted. I'm not worried about being clocked because I think I crossed that line a while ago. I worry I'd have to lie. But would I lie if I loved him? Probably. I don't blurt out my gender status to too many people anyway.

But it's things like this that bother me. Nikki Araguz Case Update: April 2011 - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MwckoaXzlQ)

[giovanni_hotel]

There are people in my extended family I could tell much more easily that I was in a LTR with a trans-woman than my nuclear family. But yeah it's an awful situation if a tragedy happens to one partner and his parents are in denial about his relationship status.

[rydermorrison]

yea the situation with nicki is so messed up. i cant believe the judge sided with the family.. it vexes me bevause they were legally married and everything!

[south ov da border]

if I'm dating somebody I'll let them know, just because I don't want it to be drama and have to explain after the fact. It's been cool with the last 2. But family and friends is a different matter all together. Don't do like me and get in a situation where you can't go home and have to have your family find you stuff.

[buttslinger]

The friends in my life have all been from my neighborhood, my school, or my job, none of which teem with transsexuals. Where are you guys meeting all these Shemales?

And aren't there any better terms than Tranny, Transsexual, Shemale, or T-girl?

And hey, I've sloughed off people just because they like Kenny Rogers. You have to draw the line somewhere.

[Wendy Summers]

The friends in my life have all been from my neighborhood, my school, or my job, none of which teem with transsexuals. Where are you guys meeting all these Shemales?

You gotta be lucky - most of us hide in plain sight lol

[ballzNnutz]

everything isnt for everybody to know. keep it to yourself its a cold world.

but this was an hilarious scene.

Sopranos Season 6 - Vito caught being GAY - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4V3jM7x3bk)

[westman]

One of the first things I told my wife. Only person who knows is the most important person.