Dating an Escort I need advice asap

[greenshady87]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and decide.

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen

[TSMichelleAustin]

Its her job, she is safe then nothing to worry about. I have been with my hubby 4yrs and I escort and support our life. He deals with it fine. Most of time I am not with the guy more than half hour and 9 times out of ten most guys are oral or there for your company. She is working for something better, if I was you I would keep my opinions to myself and support her. Men on here cry all the time about not being able to date a ts, and you are! Support and love her for all she has, she must like you back because she took it out of dating to serious and told you.

[Prospero]

If you look in the forum there was another thread on an identical topic started a couple of weeks ago by another guy who had fallen in love with an escort. Lots of wisdom there. Worth reading.

Ad I agree with Michelle's post.

[Silcc69]

She's in school at least, so that is a big plus IMO.

[Yeah]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
[COLOR="Red"]The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen

If u are ok with it and can handle it, go for it. I dated a gg stripper/escort. It wasn't perfect, but no relationship is. I loved her for who she was, not what she did professionally. Hope it works out for u 2.

[lisaparadise]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and decide.

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen First off congrats,rule number one never and i mean never have an additude while bringing up escorting especially bringing up other men if you do you will be shut out of her heart and she will build that invisable wall youll never penetrate later always support her when she brings it up think of her first before you say anything,second treat her with respect go out for brunch shopping etc and be prepared for others staring etc its no big deal the guys will love her and the girls will hate her once you get that through your head youll be find,let us know how it unfolds k.ive been in 2 long tearm relationships both over 4 years so i know what im talking about.

[FiremanforTS]

I dated a dancer for 18 months and it was a train wreck dude. I am not a jealous type, very confident in myself, but the drama! People are individuals though, so you gotta go with your gut on how you think both you and her will deal with it. Good Luck.

[Kevin Dong]

disaster waiting to happen...seen it time and time again.

[MdR Dave]

you practically screamed "whore" at her when she told you.

You're fucked.

[dafame]

disaster waiting to happen...seen it time and time again.

Agree. Plus there are girls out there that don't escort. You have to decide what your standards are and if being in a relationship with an escort is ok with you then by all means go for it. If not then don't compromise yourself for anyone, even the "elusive and hard to find" TS.

I've dated a girl that escorted and will never do it again.

[Kevin Dong]

Agree. Plus there are girls out there that don't escort. You have to decide what your standards are and if being in a relationship with an escort is ok with you then by all means go for it. If not then don't compromise yourself for anyone, even the "elusive and hard to find" TS.

I've dated a girl that escorted and will never do it again.

And there are TONNS of girls that don't escort. I find them all the time. Most of them don't want to do porn either, obviously.

[dgs925]

that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.


That's the part I could never accept. I say run away, and do it quickly!

[MDM23]

Not going to work mate sorry. No man would be happy with his girl fucking loads of random dudes every month lol

[RallyCola]

personally, i am not going to want my siggy to be out fucking random people. that is the #1 reason i could never date an escort.

the #2 reason is i could never be sure why she got with me in the first place...if it was for me or my money. when you meet a girl socially who is not an escort (g or t), if they are interested in you, it could be for any number of reasons...looks, personality or your money. the pervading discomfort of meeting a girl whose job it is to fuck for $$$ that I would have about her setting her eyes on my money would probably prevent me from getting involved with her.

[ashymon]

Some of these responses seem a bit cold hearted, although I can understand the positions. Nevertheless, it comes down to what you can stand and how much you actually love. In my experience love (with perseverance) can conquer just about anything. Just be honest with yourself and if you can live with it, go into it with your eyes wide open. It wont be an easy road, but then again the rewards could be immense.

[jerseyboy72]

I have dated escorts in the past, and the tgirl I'm dating now was an escort in the past. There is actually a review of her in the review section of the new york girls. She got very high remarks. She is a very smart and beautiful girl and we are very happy together.

I really dont judge anybody, cause I dont know what situation they are in life. Being an escort doesn't mean they are not worthy of being loved or they can't love anybody.

[Realmain27]

Where is best place to find TS girl?

[diddyboponTOP]

I would never do it now At 40
But in my 20s I dated several very well known escorts and XXx stars of that Era..I kept it in my mind that it was their Job, I never took them to seriously like I woyld marry them, we just had good times and enjoyed each others company
And I would Fuck who I wanted as well, I saw it as my Job ;) I sold drugs from the age of 16 until 34 so I had no right to judge what others did, now I work for a living, and after living the good life in my youth I have in semi poverty Its been hard keeping a job for me. Never had one until I was 35, and I'm to broke to date anyone lol

[Budweiser]

You might catch scabies.

[Ts RedVeX]

Loads of you guys have wives who do not know that you are fucking other women yet the thought of having a wife fucking other men is something you would not be able to accept... get a fucking grip.

[diddyboponTOP]

Loads of you guys have wives who do not know that you are fucking other women yet the thought of having a wife fucking other men is something you would not be able to accept... get a fucking grip.
That's very true, I never understood guys like that. I was never a Cheater myself unless we were in open relationships..The way I see it is when I'm single I do what ever I want, I sowed my oates by my mid 20s and did all my fantasy situations so when I'm with someone I'm just with them now.I no longer have an urge to cheat, By 30 I was done with that Shit, My friends also but a few still play games and as YOU said if their wives Fuck around they freak, I see it as they had it coming.

[dickten]

I have been down that path and it has never worked out. I think sex work is sole crushing for relationships and if your looking for long term commitments, look other places. I think in most cities ladies can find other work besides escorting now to make a living, the world is changing in the right direction, it's in no way perfect, but girls now do have options.

[Vladimir Putin]

Speaking for myself, if I ever get serious with an escort, she would need to stop escorting not because I would question her commitment to our relationship, but because I'm afraid she may get an incurable disease that she could pass on to me. Or there will be certain sex acts I cannot perform on her out of concern of what she catches.