Girls pay for themselves in the club at all?

[tsmounting]

I met this girl in a London bar a while ago and she seemed to like me and we got on well. But then she started to demand expensive drinks and when I bought her a couple of rounds I said you can get one in. I don't spend money to hang out with anyone. She then said she was an escort and started hinting at me paying to to take here back somewhere.
Well, I have no issue with a girl working the club but I think it's pretty lame not to mention it at first when you have had quite a good connection as well as a bit of a smootch. The club in question has a policy against 'working' in the club but that's not really what I care about.
Should she not have just been up front about this from the start instead of wasting half an evening with me?
She also had the nerve to get arsy with me when I ended up with her friend instead, who didn't charge a penny! lol

[Silcc69]

Dude the minute reds flags come up drop her and get another chic. I see that you wised up and got her friend so no biggie really.

[SammiValentine]

I rather pay for myself than accept bevvy off a stranger, some guys act like you owe them something after a drink is bought ;). If you know someone vaguely, it is a bit different.

Needless to say that once half cut then ones powers of sense and sensibility start to wane :O :)

[oifarang]

I rather pay for myself than accept bevvy off a stranger, some guys act like you owe them something after a drink is bought ;). If you know someone vaguely, it is a bit different.

Needless to say that once half cut then ones powers of sense and sensibility start to wane :O :)

Let me buy you a pint in the Castle sometime :praying:

[Willie Escalade]

"You must be used to me spending...with all that sweet wining and dining, I'm fucking you tonight..."

biggie smalls- im fucking you tonight - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5X55eU5cQ4o)

[SammiValentine]

Let me buy you a pint in the Castle sometime :praying:


lets go!!!!!!!!. it is my local in norwich , well if i go out. hahahah. we can play pool -_-;; and it is staggering distance home,. i love it :D

:-D erm no pint though please :|

[SammiValentine]

i took nikki montero there... hahaha :D oooo and liberttty:D

[amberskyi]

i dont pay for shit (like im going to say no to free booze....me of all people? lmaoo)...but i do bring my own money

[mealticket]

Sounds like a tacky girl that lacks class....I am more than happy to buy a girl drinks at the bar, but if I haven't offered then she shouldn't be asking, if she does then I move on...sometimes you can sniff out the girls that just want you for free drinks and not you....

[JenniferParisHusband]

When I've gone to clubs, it's always been more social. If I want an escort, Ijust get an escort, if I want to go to a club, I'm probably going to talk to the ladies for a while, enjoy a drink or two on my own and try to build a relationship. Whether it's a business relationship or one that is more personal is a question for later. But I've always found that a drink at the club for a girl I'm into is a small price to pay considering the service they provide later for someone who treats them well. The same is true for them, if they treat me well, they know I'm going to reciprocate either in the club or elsewhere. Plus, some of the ladies I met at Cobra and the Palms in LA were just fun to chill out and hang with. OMG, if you ever get a chance to just sit and chat with Angelica in LA, that red-head is hysterical!

[Willie Escalade]

OMG, if you ever get a chance to just sit and chat with Angelica in LA, that red-head is hysterical!
This is a true statement.

[Ryz]

This girl I'm really good friends with always has guys buying her drinks, but she isn't that big of a drinker. So whenever we go to a bar and some guy gets her a drink she just passes them over to me. Keeps my wallet full:wiggle:

[Yeah]

I don't buy them anything unless im interested or there's potential. I learned from my past mistakes.

[tao1kiku]

If I offer to buy a drink for someone and she accepts, wonderful. If a girl says to me or hints that I should buy her a drink, big red flag.

[alyssaluxor]

In Asia usually when dating a girl and she pays for her drink it means she is not interested in you and will be running away from you soon lol

[GroobySteven]

This girl I'm really good friends with always has guys buying her drinks, but she isn't that big of a drinker. So whenever we go to a bar and some guy gets her a drink she just passes them over to me. Keeps my wallet full:wiggle:

Pimp.

[Willie Escalade]

In Asia usually when dating a girl and she pays for her drink it means she is not interested in you and will be running away from you soon lol
This happened to me at Divas awhile back unfortunately. Maybe she didn't like my Dodgers cap...

[acdaddy69]

Funny story but true...I was at a party in nyc, hanging out with a well none girl getting her drinks cause am like that...to my surprise she asked for 20 to payed a guy that was there for some drugs....

[tsmounting]

Did you give her the money or tell her to go suck his dick?...

[Dino Velvet]

In Asia usually when dating a girl and she pays for her drink it means she is not interested in you and will be running away from you soon lol

I know. When I'm out with a Filipina dame I tackle her the moment I see her try to use her own money. She's naturally submissive so she falls back in line.

[onmyknees]

I met this girl in a London bar a while ago and she seemed to like me and we got on well. But then she started to demand expensive drinks and when I bought her a couple of rounds I said you can get one in. I don't spend money to hang out with anyone. She then said she was an escort and started hinting at me paying to to take here back somewhere.
Well, I have no issue with a girl working the club but I think it's pretty lame not to mention it at first when you have had quite a good connection as well as a bit of a smootch. The club in question has a policy against 'working' in the club but that's not really what I care about.
Should she not have just been up front about this from the start instead of wasting half an evening with me?
She also had the nerve to get arsy with me when I ended up with her friend instead, who didn't charge a penny! lol


I don't buy drinks with escorts, I buy time. I enjoy a social drink before, or perhaps afterward...but that's it.

It's a fact of life in the social bar scene for the most part if you're going to have more than a 30 second dialogue with a fine woman, it's going to involve a drink or two. During that drink....you're either going to make or break your rap. All these pikers who claim to have this smooth dick rap and never buy a drink, and leave with a different girl every night are jerking your chain...and their own.

[Dino Velvet]

I try to limit my purchase to buttsex and buttsex only. I make it greasy.:fuckin:

I worked clubs for years. There were always dudes claiming they get more ass than a toilet seat. What they got was more TROs than Mike Tyson and Cindy Garvey combined.

[lovesall]

For me if I offer a drink to you it shows I have interest and we can take it from there. I have had times when some girls just comes up and rubs my back and says honey buy me a drink and 99% walk away with her free drink, so with the experence I have the answer will be no.

[batman4ever]

if i see an interesting girl,iam never afraid to offer a drink,i see it as a very small investment, that buys me a short time to decide if i wants to "invest" more time ( and drinks) in her,if not...no problems..its just a drink...if yes i just been a gentleman :-)
after all guys...we expect the girls to look great...and that DOES cost...so at least we can offer them a drink :-)