Escort life is nothing but anxiety!!!

[dslovaa]

ANXIETY.....

WHY?,,,,,
You NEVER know when the phone will ring,
you never know if it is a serious client or time waster,
no steady income,
RISK...... is this guy going to be nice? will he rob me? will he rip me off?
is this a set up?


you have random weirdo's touching you, using you like a cheap toy and throwing you away when they are done.

NO STEADY PAY CHECK!!!!

YOU BASICALLY WAKE UP UNEMPLOYED EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I'm 21.... and realizing that if I want security in my life, I need to go to college and get that degree.

ladies all opinions are WELCOME....

[Tika]

Use some common sense and get a real job.

Don't even bother thinking about college right now. First, sit down and figure out what real, marketable skills you have and can bring to bear on a *real* job. College isn't a guarantee, it's a crapshoot. You will spend years of your life and end up owing tens of thousands of dollars, which is enormous pressure even before you graduate and start trying to find work - work that no amount of college education will help you get, because you were too stupid to consider college in the first place, and decided that sucking cock and taking it in the ass for money was a good idea.

Most people don't like their jobs. The ones that do are lucky as hell. Sneer all you want at someone making minimum wage, but it's possible to live on it and even save. However, it requires you to make sacrifices - cutting out things like pissing all your money away on purses or shoes, alcohol and drugs, for example. Is that an unfair assumption? No, not really. If you're stupid enough to think that being a whore is a good idea, you probably don't have a strong sense of financial responsibility.

If you do decide to go to college, have *realistic* expectations. It is not a magic wand that solves all your problems. There are plenty of unemployed college graduates out there. There are also plenty of employed high-school dropouts. You want to know why one person's employed and the other isn't? Motivation. Intelligence. Luck. Plenty of factors.

Figure out what you're good at and what you're shitty at. Don't lie to yourself. Find someone who doesn't like you and ask them what your strengths and weaknesses are. They're not going to be nice about it. Use that information wisely. If you have what it takes to go through higher education, then do it. If not, don't waste your time and money. Not every place requires a college degree. Think outside the box.

Good luck. You're going to need it. However, the big first step of realizing that what you're doing now is pointless and self-destructive... you're already past that. Good for you. That more than anything shows awareness, wisdom, courage. That's more than most people have going for them.

[the_corner]

I couldn't disagree more with the previous statement. This world is fucked up right now because of lack of education. Specially on developed countries.

Recommending somebody NOT TO EDUCATE themselves is giving them a death sentence.

Its true, there are some that make very good in life without college, and there are some that do very bad even with college.

In my humble experience, those that finish college end up on average better than those that just get high school education.

A quick google search reveals that the average "high school graduate" will make $30,400 USD per year, where the average "Bachelor's degree" make $52,200 per year.

http://www.earnmydegree.com/online-education/learning-center/education-value.html

If you add the fact that the US high school students fare at 18th of the world (oecd.org), behind countries like Estonia (can you point me Estonia in a map without using wikipedia?), telling somebody NOT TO GET EDUCATION is probably a very bad piece of advice.

If you can go to college, GO TO COLLEGE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF!

[NYBURBS]

If you can go to college, WITHOUT TAKING ON UNGODLY AMOUNTS OF DEBT, GO TO COLLEGE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF!

Fixed it for you :dancing:

[Merkurie]

Get an education.

Avoiding debt in this world is near impossible. You will no doubt go into debt at some point -- credit card BS, car BS, or a house. So debt should not stop you from getting an good education.

[train_rider]

You didn't even mention STDs. I had a great deal of anxiety when I first saw a female escort and was paranoid until after I got results of my STD test.I know every time I think of calling up a tranny escort, I just think of AIDS or herpes, and quickly come back to my senses

[RainMan]

If you go to college try and get into a field that will not only allow you to work here but also in other places of the world

[Prospero]

Sound advice a out getting educated. But for god's sake don't go for one of the fashionable subjects like Media studies. Millons of kids want to work in the media and they are not gonna get there doing a media degree.

[Mike11]

It is a tough job being an escort and some cope with it better than others and some do rather well out of it and deal with its negatives. If it is getting you really down then it is not for you.

Regardless of the job market, education is a must for a variety of reasons. However on its own it does not guarantee anything and particularly not a job. It is drive and focus that is key to success. Luck plays a part too but luck often comes about when you have drive and focus and put yourself out there. The trouble is that these days people expect something for nothing and want to just take. To be successful in anything you have to give a lot before you can take.

[TSMichelleAustin]

I tried to escort at her age, its not easy... first off it makes u jaded, hate men, etc.. I started escorting again at 30 and its so much different. I know who I am, I love sex and love giving my clients comfort. If you are safe then no issues with STDs... go more so with a pornstar you have less chances because she always has to get tested to work! Just some sound advice. It is not for everyone! I do have an education and spent many years in a normal job! And barely survived in that, so escorting has made me more stable. But I market and put myself out there.

[FreddieGomez]

Most of these dudes dont give a fuck how manly you are. Just slap on a wig and tell them you have 9"(even if you don't) and can bust buckets of nut, theY'll start calling all hours of the day. a thirsty sucker is born every minute!

[MrNuts]

Most of these dudes dont give a fuck how manly you are. Just slap on a wig and tell them you have 9"(even if you don't) and can bust buckets of nut, theY'll start calling all hours of the day. a thirsty sucker is born every minute!

lol totally true, but i prefer a prety girl with small weapon than a manly looking cd with a big bazukaa.

[MrNuts]

You didn't even mention STDs. I had a great deal of anxiety when I first saw a female escort and was paranoid until after I got results of my STD test.I know every time I think of calling up a tranny escort, I just think of AIDS or herpes, and quickly come back to my senses

thats why i never go with the backpage or cl ads, those girls have been with thousands of guys,, i rather pay more and be safe, even that it doesnt guarantee that the girl also have something but the risks are less. About pornstars being safer i dont think so, almost all of them have sex like rabits evenn if they are not getting paid by young guys.

[FreddieGomez]

thats why i never go with the backpage or cl ads, those girls have been with thousands of guys,, i rather pay more and be safe, even that it doesnt guarantee that the girl also have something but the risks are less. About pornstars being safer i dont think so, almost all of them have sex like rabits evenn if they are not getting paid by young guys.

they only get tested for hiv. not herpes ect....

[lisaparadise]

ANXIETY.....

WHY?,,,,,
You NEVER know when the phone will ring,
you never know if it is a serious client or time waster,
no steady income,
RISK...... is this guy going to be nice? will he rob me? will he rip me off?
is this a set up?


you have random weirdo's touching you, using you like a cheap toy and throwing you away when they are done.

NO STEADY PAY CHECK!!!!

YOU BASICALLY WAKE UP UNEMPLOYED EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I'm 21.... and realizing that if I want security in my life, I need to go to college and get that degree.

ladies all opinions are WELCOME....lol,well im never broke i work and shop everyday and still have time for the tanning bed and watch my tv shows plus i dont have to call in sick when i wanna take a day off to chill with my friends,i work when i want and have 100 per cent freedom how the hell is that a bad thing?

[lisaparadise]

they only get tested for hiv. not herpes ect....80 per cent of all humans have herpes by the time there 10 years old including you freddie what makes you think your in the 20 percent range?

[FreddieGomez]

80 per cent of all humans have herpes by the time there 10 years old including you freddie what makes you think your in the 20 percent range?

i believe i am. i've never had sores around my mouth or my genitals. so IF i have it, it's dormant and always has been.

[MrF]

I've sometimes wondered what it would be like to be an escort.

You should try standing sometime in Walmart, or a similar public place, and imagine having sex with any customer who is willing to pay your market value. It seems to me it wouldn't be much fun. Maybe every now and then you'd have an exciting encounter, but for the most part, I don't think so.

However, I suppose you could get used to it, depending on your temperament. And it might work out if the pay is good. Sorta like working in a blast furnace for a good wage.

The pay is good if the escort is young, pretty, and knows how to advertise herself -- and how to avoid trouble.

[TsJizelle]

The ups and downs and all the struggles with escorting is one of the many reasons I have chosen to never do it. It works for some girls, but just wouldn't for me.

I've always wanted to get married one day and from what I was told by working girls many years ago when I first transitioned, they warned me to not get into it. No matter how many times you get out of the business, you always go back for the money. and I knew this would be complicated when it came to relationships. So I stayed away!

[mikejones]

It is a tough job being an escort and some cope with it better than others and some do rather well out of it and deal with its negatives. If it is getting you really down then it is not for you.

Regardless of the job market, education is a must for a variety of reasons. However on its own it does not guarantee anything and particularly not a job. It is drive and focus that is key to success. Luck plays a part too but luck often comes about when you have drive and focus and put yourself out there. The trouble is that these days people expect something for nothing and want to just take. To be successful in anything you have to give a lot before you can take.

Well put.

[NYBURBS]

Get an education.

Avoiding debt in this world is near impossible. You will no doubt go into debt at some point -- credit card BS, car BS, or a house. So debt should not stop you from getting an good education.

It depends on the cost/benefit. A lot of kids end up paying out their nose for a BA because they go to private 4 year schools that charge them 30 or 40k per year, and then they drown in debt for years with no guarantee of a good job. Now, if one manages to do it on the cheap (2 years community college and 2 years State school) then it is probably worth it.

I'm all for education, just not necessarily a costly degree program.

[CaptainPlanet]

thats why i never go with the backpage or cl ads, those girls have been with thousands of guys,, i rather pay more and be safe, even that it doesnt guarantee that the girl also have something but the risks are less. About pornstars being safer i dont think so, almost all of them have sex like rabits evenn if they are not getting paid by young guys.

Majority of the girls on Eros advertise on CL, BP, ect. Your definitely not narrowing down your odds, your just being stupid!

[TsVanessa69]

LAME and lies from a lazy bitch who doesnt want to work, get the fuck outta here!

[tskitana]

LAME and lies from a lazy bitch who doesnt want to work, get the fuck outta here!



LOL. co sign

[baller1987]

Hahahahahaha right. If you cant figure out a way to make money off selling your ass, good luck in the business world. hahahaha


LAME and lies from a lazy bitch who doesnt want to work, get the fuck outta here!

[Silcc69]

The ups and downs and all the struggles with escorting is one of the many reasons I have chosen to never do it. It works for some girls, but just wouldn't for me.

I've always wanted to get married one day and from what I was told by working girls many years ago when I first transitioned, they warned me to not get into it. No matter how many times you get out of the business, you always go back for the money. and I knew this would be complicated when it came to relationships. So I stayed away!

:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowd own:

[runningdownthatdream]

It is a tough job being an escort and some cope with it better than others and some do rather well out of it and deal with its negatives. If it is getting you really down then it is not for you.

Regardless of the job market, education is a must for a variety of reasons. However on its own it does not guarantee anything and particularly not a job. It is drive and focus that is key to success. Luck plays a part too but luck often comes about when you have drive and focus and put yourself out there. The trouble is that these days people expect something for nothing and want to just take. To be successful in anything you have to give a lot before you can take.

Agreed! Formal education is over-rated unless your discipline is related to very specific fields like Science or Economics. I've done quite well and much much better than most college or university educated people I know. Drive and focus are paramount - no matter what field you're in. Even working at McDonalds could have upside for a person with drive.

[asianphoenixx]

I agree too. I wish I could just work as an escort earlier, let's say after my 1st degree, instead of taking my post grad. A total waste indeed...and look at me right now....an escort.

Thanks God..that i can make a good living out of it.

Escorting is definitely not for everybody, but for those who can make it...it's very possible to earn 100K..easy....200K...300K...of course....400K...a little tough...500K only few selected ones can make it, but still possible, and i'm talking about tgirl escorts here

Successful GG escorts can make double than that, simply because they have bigger market (no wonder some of them can charge as much as 2K or even 3K an hour or two. gosh..i just wish!)

So is it a nice income? I guess so, at least for most of us unless if you earn millions a year (like some of our clients)

Actually, i have to be paid because i have revealed the truth LOL on the contrary of dslovaa's belief

[Yvonne183]

I am glad that I am rich, i don't need to escort. Wait a minute,, I'm not rich, I think I'm confusing myself with Lady Gaga, she's the rich one.

Is streetwalking the same as escort, is there anxiety walking the streets?

PS- What does anxiety mean? Is it like being scared or in fear?

[flabbybody]

LAME and lies from a lazy bitch who doesnt want to work, get the fuck outta here!
yea, I think she's playing us

[0utrageousss]

ANXIETY.....

WHY?,,,,,
You NEVER know when the phone will ring,
you never know if it is a serious client or time waster,
no steady income,
RISK...... is this guy going to be nice? will he rob me? will he rip me off?
is this a set up?


you have random weirdo's touching you, using you like a cheap toy and throwing you away when they are done.

NO STEADY PAY CHECK!!!!

YOU BASICALLY WAKE UP UNEMPLOYED EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I'm 21.... and realizing that if I want security in my life, I need to go to college and get that degree.

ladies all opinions are WELCOME....


Follow your heart. Whatever you do, NEVER ever under ANY circumstance listen to any man's opinion or follow his advice, especially on these kinds of forums. They will mislead you, use you and fuck you over EVERY single time, don't fall for it!! There's no reason you can't go to school ,escort and maybe work a part time job too. You could try webcamming too. You'll be fine.

[TsVanessa69]

yea, I think she's playing us
I hate people like her(?? maybe him) who insult my intelligence.
Alleges a REAL job, whatever the fuck that means, a steady paycheck, which i collect as well and job security. Job security?? Really??? Then why want to be an escort.
Some lazy hoes with no skills think they can jump in the game, make millions and run off into the sunset with a happy ending.
Bitch please, get a clue!

ESCORTING is WORK
getting paid for work is having a job right?

I collect steady pay checks from 2 sites, which means I pay taxes a well.

Job security??? Lazy bitches looking for the easy way out NEVER have job security!

[Ineeda SM]

I'm 21.... and realizing that if I want security in my life, I need to go to college and get that degree.

You answered your own problem. Don't think about it, just do it. There are a lot of TS girls that have gone to collage and are in good jobs today. There are always better options to escorting. I hope you go for it. Good luck.

[TsVanessa69]

Hahahahahaha right. If you cant figure out a way to make money off selling your ass, good luck in the business world. hahahaha
It takes skill and brains to be in ANY business. there is no easy way out or fast money.

[bishr]

i live in syria so it might be weird that i am giving u advice about work! i do however have quite a few american friends who lived here for years, and have made substantial amounts of money.

my suggestion is that actually along the lines of what some of the others have recommended which is to focus on what u r good at and u might not realize this but u already have a huge advantage which is the american nationality. many of the americans i have befriended here were unemployed and having trouble finding a job in the US, and then went to what i think is called "school expos" in which u can meet with representatives of american schools in various third world countries and fairly easily get a job as a teacher there without having any previous teaching experience.

due to the crap the media feeds americans, there isn't much competition because most would be terrified of the thought of traveling to a country like syria for example, but the truth is the absolute opposite. schools offer very attractive packages such as short working hours, luxurious housing, nice car, really nice paycheck and from what i understand u don't have to pay any taxes on your income back in the US.

also, everything is very cheap here and some of my friends here spend around 1,500USD/month to maintain a luxury lifestyle and save around 6,000USD/month which is the rest of their paycheck. you don't need any college degree to be kindergarten teacher, a friend cleverly describes the requirements being "a warm body with an american passport". you just need to avoid really fucked up shit like one guy who was drunk almost every evening and got deported because injured a person when he was throwing clay pots from his balcony!

if you also want to make massive amounts of money, you can continue to escort here, and as an american u can stick to only VIP clients and make at least 10,000USD a month.

anyway, i wish u the best of luck whatever u decide to do.

[SammiValentine]

get an ice cream van

[TsVanessa69]

get an ice cream van
sell beer in the ball park, something

[Dino Velvet]

sell beer in the ball park, something

or sell balls in the beer park.

[TSLexiWade]

I tried to escort at her age, its not easy... first off it makes u jaded, hate men, etc.. I started escorting again at 30 and its so much different. I know who I am, I love sex and love giving my clients comfort. If you are safe then no issues with STDs... go more so with a pornstar you have less chances because she always has to get tested to work! Just some sound advice. It is not for everyone! I do have an education and spent many years in a normal job! And barely survived in that, so escorting has made me more stable. But I market and put myself out there.

You couldn't have said it any better than that right there! Myself, who just turned 22, have been escorting since I was 19. Always safe & when you create a friendship with "clients" - they soon become "friends" - therefore the akwardness is at ease.

In the past 3 years of escorting, yes I have run into a few crazies, but hell.. You can go into WalMart and get that.. So, what's the big deal? I carry myself extremely professional, as I AM my own boss and I screen each client as if they were being interviewed for a job. It creates a more personable experience, therefore it's much more pleasurable for both parties.

I've met MANY wonderful gentlemen across the country - and have MANY regulars.. I'd say I have some what of a steady income. (Not bragging at all)
Just my two cents.

[Astryl]

I'm 19 and in full time education doing an Msci degree. To help avoid my educational debt I take escorting with a more casual approach, perhaps seeing 2-3 clients a week. I take bookings in advance - I can be picky with which jobs I take; there's really no stress about about it. As an escort you have the opportunity to earn a great ammount of money without actually putting in many hours of work, so it needn't disturb your studies like normal job would.

XxX

[SuzySnappz]

You couldn't have said it any better than that right there! Myself, who just turned 22, have been escorting since I was 19. Always safe & when you create a friendship with "clients" - they soon become "friends" - therefore the akwardness is at ease.

In the past 3 years of escorting, yes I have run into a few crazies, but hell.. You can go into WalMart and get that.. So, what's the big deal? I carry myself extremely professional, as I AM my own boss and I screen each client as if they were being interviewed for a job. It creates a more personable experience, therefore it's much more pleasurable for both parties.

I've met MANY wonderful gentlemen across the country - and have MANY regulars.. I'd say I have some what of a steady income. (Not bragging at all)
Just my two cents.

What Lexi, Michelle and Astryl said... I think it can be good, especially if you start when you are older and have some life experience (like me), or if you just go into it part-time and have something else going on, whether it's school or a regular job. I recently started doing some part-time escorting, but I already have a degree and a job to fall back on... I'm not worried about being trapped in it.

[SuzySnappz]

It depends on the cost/benefit. A lot of kids end up paying out their nose for a BA because they go to private 4 year schools that charge them 30 or 40k per year, and then they drown in debt for years with no guarantee of a good job. Now, if one manages to do it on the cheap (2 years community college and 2 years State school) then it is probably worth it.

I'm all for education, just not necessarily a costly degree program.

Yeah, I used to be 100% in favor of getting loans or whatever it takes to get a degree, but the student loan stuff is so out of control lately with getting people to become debt slaves forever, that I think you're better off working part-time (even as an escort) while studying rather than taking out huge loans. You can't even discharge those loans if you declare bankruptcy, you're stuck with them forever. It's really becoming a scam. I consider myself lucky to have a degree an no student debt...

[Dino Velvet]

Seriously, you ladies be careful out there. In my experience, ladies don't screen me near enough. They just give me directions. I'm a nice guy but they have no way of knowing that. Plenty of people learn the hard way that they aren't a good enough judge of character and the wrong mistake could be their last. I ring the doorbell, she opens, and I turn sideways to get my shoulders through the door. Sometimes I think their only concern is race and gender. I sound like a polite guy from Nebraska on the phone.

[acdaddy69]

lol,well im never broke i work and shop everyday and still have time for the tanning bed and watch my tv shows plus i dont have to call in sick when i wanna take a day off to chill with my friends,i work when i want and have 100 per cent freedom how the hell is that a bad thing?

Lissa, you do have free insurance in canada..What about the girls in the state? just saying you cant go in life thinking about shopping all day long. What about for the long run and your health..Specially being an escort, you're at a lot more risk..

[tsmandy]

Save money. Take breaks. Pursue meaningful friendships outside of work. Don't look to clients for love or an out. Walk away when it doesn't feel right.

It doesn't have to be bad, dirty, negative. People can operate with integrity and be selective about the people they hook up with. Pursue provider/client dynamics that feel fun and sexy.

I know it sounds idealistic or whatever, but its what I aspire to. When it is not good for me or gets in the way of broader aspirations I pursue my priorities. It sustained me for many years and taught me the importance of many many things.

I think its a good thing that guys (and sometimes gals) can explore broader horizons sexually with a TS and TS get to receive some financial benefit for once in our lives in a society where we are largely discriminated against and payed less at large.

It's not the end all be all of existence and it takes its toll, but then again life takes its toll and we all have to account for how we live and how we treat each other.

Don't be shady. Get tested. use protection. Avoid people with obvious psychological distress. On both ends. Stay relatively sober and aware.

If porn stops making me any money I'll be doing my thing soon enough. kisses.

[BBQ321]

I'm 19 and in full time education doing an Msci degree. To help avoid my educational debt I take escorting with a more casual approach, perhaps seeing 2-3 clients a week. I take bookings in advance - I can be picky with which jobs I take; there's really no stress about about it. As an escort you have the opportunity to earn a great ammount of money without actually putting in many hours of work, so it needn't disturb your studies like normal job would.

XxX
Are you listed on any sites to make a booking?

[Miss Aeryn]

[/QUOTE]


Save money. Take breaks. Pursue meaningful friendships outside of work. Don't look to clients for love or an out. Walk away when it doesn't feel right.

It doesn't have to be bad, dirty, negative. People can operate with integrity and be selective about the people they hook up with. Pursue provider/client dynamics that feel fun and sexy.

I know it sounds idealistic or whatever, but its what I aspire to. When it is not good for me or gets in the way of broader aspirations I pursue my priorities. It sustained me for many years and taught me the importance of many many things.

I think its a good thing that guys (and sometimes gals) can explore broader horizons sexually with a TS and TS get to receive some financial benefit for once in our lives in a society where we are largely discriminated against and payed less at large.

It's not the end all be all of existence and it takes its toll, but then again life takes its toll and we all have to account for how we live and how we treat each other.

Don't be shady. Get tested. use protection. Avoid people with obvious psychological distress. On both ends. Stay relatively sober and aware.

If porn stops making me any money I'll be doing my thing soon enough. kisses.

:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown:

And for the love of all that's merciful have a one year, and two or five, BUSINESS PLAN!!

[sdruws]

Do you consider comimg to Rio de Janeiro for a few days?

[SammiValentine]

anyone still anxious ?

[bob.chicken]

you think thats the only job thats stressful!?!


even when you have a job that pays regular it's still stressful

life is stressful

[TempestTS]

Mandy is Spot on with this.

The only thing I might add is Never let escorting become survival sex - always have another source of income on the side so you are not dependent on escorting as your only source of money. That leads you into doing things that you shouldnt if things are slow. You need to be able to choose the clients you feel good about and walk away from the ones that you dont want.

Should you find escorting is not your thing, do something else, anything else... do not subject yourself to danger or emotional damage in the name of the almighty dollar. Its not worth it, whatever you do you should feel good about or at least OK with what you are doing.

Be well, case dreams, catch a few...



Save money. Take breaks. Pursue meaningful friendships outside of work. Don't look to clients for love or an out. Walk away when it doesn't feel right.

It doesn't have to be bad, dirty, negative. People can operate with integrity and be selective about the people they hook up with. Pursue provider/client dynamics that feel fun and sexy.

I know it sounds idealistic or whatever, but its what I aspire to. When it is not good for me or gets in the way of broader aspirations I pursue my priorities. It sustained me for many years and taught me the importance of many many things.

I think its a good thing that guys (and sometimes gals) can explore broader horizons sexually with a TS and TS get to receive some financial benefit for once in our lives in a society where we are largely discriminated against and payed less at large.

It's not the end all be all of existence and it takes its toll, but then again life takes its toll and we all have to account for how we live and how we treat each other.

Don't be shady. Get tested. use protection. Avoid people with obvious psychological distress. On both ends. Stay relatively sober and aware.

If porn stops making me any money I'll be doing my thing soon enough. kisses.

[MrChris75]

I never tell anyone to start working first, the reason is that most people decide to just work end up not wanting to go to school, or get stuck in life and are not able to go.

I say go to school, maybe part time, while working part time. Get some experience in your field while you're in school. That way when you finally graduate you not only have your degree but some sort of hands on experience in the field. Certifications are the way to go if you don't want to go to a costly college or university.

Heck, if you're focused enough you could do part time school, part time work, and see a few clients a week for some extra income.

Just a suggestion, you can always do what you want to do ;)

[danthepoetman]

anyone still anxious ?

Any girl escorting should be, Sammi, shouldn't she? There are a lot of psychos out there. If my daughter was to do that, I’d probably have a heart attack in no time.


Mandy is Spot on with this.

The only thing I might add is Never let escorting become survival sex - always have another source of income on the side so you are not dependent on escorting as your only source of money. That leads you into doing things that you shouldnt if things are slow. You need to be able to choose the clients you feel good about and walk away from the ones that you dont want.

Should you find escorting is not your thing, do something else, anything else... do not subject yourself to danger or emotional damage in the name of the almighty dollar. Its not worth it, whatever you do you should feel good about or at least OK with what you are doing.

Be well, case dreams, catch a few...

Great advices, Tempest, in themselves and on Mandy’s.

[hurlyburly]

Half of these girls (in the big cities) probably aren't even legal. And everything they're earning is CASH.