Dating Thai Ladyboy in UK

[laser2507]

Hi all
I did post a few days ago about going thailand, since then I have met a ladyboy here in UK and we clicked straight away, and are seeing eachother. Its obviously not a normal relationship, she is a working girl. I have seen working girls before though.

We went to a club few days ago and some guys argued with her, she seemed ok with it and it ended, or so I thought. They then started on her again and I tried to stop them but one of the guys pushed me away. Now I am not a fighter, actually I am crap at fighting lol, but he pissed me off so I would have reacted..but then she took off her shoes and gave them to me. I said leave it dont worry, she said she will beat them all up (3 guys). But luckily it didnt get to that point.

She is my type body wise, she is feminine, but strong and muscular, but not male looking. I found out how strong she was when we mucked around a bit play fighting, but I didnt think she would take on 3 guys!!

Well I guess Im writing this just to get it down, I feel good I met her. As long as I dont fuck up then she wont beat me up lol,.

I have not read my last post yet, but I did want to go thailand, i guess I love thai girls but for now she is perfect. Just hope we get on for quite a while.

[Bobby Domino]

nice story. I love the fact that she made you hold her shoes, lol. The earrings didn't come off as well? LOL
Hope she's the one for ya!!!!

[robertlouis]

Nice story, and best of luck. Sounds like a very feisty lady, so you've definitely got your hands full....

Or at least I hope you have.....:dancing::whistle:

[maaarc]

if she find out you want go LOS without HER or be butterfly boy with other girls you get beating you never forget round eye boy - you see and try :)

[laser2507]

lol she can kick my ass thats for sure... bet for now we connected really well.

Butterflies and all that :P

I still wanna go thailand thoug, is that LOS?

[BraveHeartz]

LOS = Land of Smiles = Thailand

[laser2507]

nice story. I love the fact that she made you hold her shoes, lol. The earrings didn't come off as well? LOL
Hope she's the one for ya!!!!

Yes, she probably already thought she better fight this one and NOT me lol

[robertlouis]

if she find out you want go LOS without HER or be butterfly boy with other girls you get beating you never forget round eye boy - you see and try :)

That's uncannily accurate Maaarc.

Errr, is there something you should be telling us, you katoey or what, round eye boi?

[laser2507]

Is it possible for a working girl to have a relationship with someone without there being issues. She seems down from working, but then she needs the oney she sends it back home mostly.

I feel I should keep my distance sometimes, I dont want to feel so close, then have it end suddenly.

[maaarc]

That's uncannily accurate Maaarc.

Errr, is there something you should be telling us, you katoey or what, round eye boi?

LOL Oh Roberts you very handsome man. now you give me many compliments and moneys since you know I now ladyboy I PM paypal account OK OK :) :)
I'd make the ugliest ladyboy in history but you don't gotta be katoey to know katoey

[maaarc]

Is it possible for a working girl to have a relationship with someone without there being issues. She seems down from working, but then she needs the oney she sends it back home mostly.

I feel I should keep my distance sometimes, I dont want to feel so close, then have it end suddenly.

well, it's up to you my friend. nothing ventured nothing gained. if I were you I'd enjoy her company right now and not worry about the future. if things don't workout LOS - land of smiles(Thailand) will still be waiting for you. good luck and enjoy your good fortune to find someone special

[laser2507]

How likely is it to find an honest ladyboy to share a futre with? Here or in Thailand (I mean I would live here and she come back here??)

[robertlouis]

well, it's up to you my friend. nothing ventured nothing gained. if I were you I'd enjoy her company right now and not worry about the future. if things don't workout LOS - land of smiles(Thailand) will still be waiting for you. good luck and enjoy your good fortune to find someone special

That's very good advice, Laser. The only thing I'd add is that she may be very confused and frightened right now if she feels she's found someone she can care about, so give her space, but hang in there if you want to.

[laser2507]

I am trying.,.. I dont want to be too forward incase it scares her. But she says nice things to me and it leaves you thinking what she means really. I do like her alot, i didnt expect to like her this much so fast... its all a bit mad to be honest. I might back off for a few days

[maaarc]

How likely is it to find an honest ladyboy to share a futre with? Here or in Thailand (I mean I would live here and she come back here??)

how easy is it to find an "honest" person of any type from anywhere??? Laser, please forgive but too many mind - why not let the situation evolve without agonizing over what will be - why not allow yourself to fully enjoy the here and now with your beautiful friend :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7N4UIrC8uY

[laser2507]

how easy is it to find an "honest" person of any type from anywhere??? Laser, please forgive but too many mind - why not let the situation evolve without agonizing over what will be - why not allow yourself to fully enjoy the here and now with your beautiful friend :smile:

So true... I need to enjoy the moment :)

[dderek123]

Hi all
I did post a few days ago about going thailand, since then I have met a ladyboy here in UK and we clicked straight away, and are seeing eachother. Its obviously not a normal relationship, she is a working girl. I have seen working girls before though.

We went to a club few days ago and some guys argued with her, she seemed ok with it and it ended, or so I thought. They then started on her again and I tried to stop them but one of the guys pushed me away. Now I am not a fighter, actually I am crap at fighting lol, but he pissed me off so I would have reacted..but then she took off her shoes and gave them to me. I said leave it dont worry, she said she will beat them all up (3 guys). But luckily it didnt get to that point.

She is my type body wise, she is feminine, but strong and muscular, but not male looking. I found out how strong she was when we mucked around a bit play fighting, but I didnt think she would take on 3 guys!!

Well I guess Im writing this just to get it down, I feel good I met her. As long as I dont fuck up then she wont beat me up lol,.

I have not read my last post yet, but I did want to go thailand, i guess I love thai girls but for now she is perfect. Just hope we get on for quite a while.

This is a cool story. Bro, it would be a good idea to not forget what happened. Thais are known for being calm and serene because it is a no-no to show emotions. So they could be acting all calm and cool on the outside but be a bubbling mess of anger on the inside. It can be very surprising to witness when Thai people argue or get involved in confrontations. Sometimes the way they react is very extreme and can almost be frightening.

I had trouble with this in my relationships over here in Thailand. Thais do show their anger but in very subtle ways. It's good to be mindful of this so you know when you're in trouble or not! :hide-1:

[laser2507]

This is a cool story. Bro, it would be a good idea to not forget what happened. Thais are known for being calm and serene because it is a no-no to show emotions. So they could be acting all calm and cool on the outside but be a bubbling mess of anger on the inside. It can be very surprising to witness when Thai people argue or get involved in confrontations. Sometimes the way they react is very extreme and can almost be frightening.

I had trouble with this in my relationships over here in Thailand. Thais do show their anger but in very subtle ways. It's good to be mindful of this so you know when you're in trouble or not! :hide-1:

I know what you mean, I have seen thai lb's fight before and they beat up a dude real bad, blood everywhere, he had no chance.. then they were all calm after and walked off.

Scary!

[dderek123]

How likely is it to find an honest ladyboy to share a futre with? Here or in Thailand (I mean I would live here and she come back here??)

Well, recently my gf and I had to go to a popular clinic in BKK to have some work done on one of her breasts. The place has been open for more than 20 years and is extremely popular for breast enhancement and nose jobs. One of the owners of the place is a ladyboy and while my gf was recovering from the procedure she had a chance to chat with her.

During the conversation the owner speculated that 90% of the ladyboys in Thailand have sold their body at one time or another. I thought this was a staggering amount.
Also, keep in mind that Thais approach love and relationships differently. There is a Thai word for a fuck-buddy or friend-with-benefits. It's called "gig" or "geek". And it is quite common for Thais to have multiple gigs especially for Thais that grew up near Bangkok. Now this doesn't mean that if a person is working in the sex industry that they are less likely to be 'honest' but I think it's good information as for what to be ready for in the relationship as far monogamy goes.

It seems like you are cool with dating working girls. I just thought I could lend some friendly advice as this seems like your first relationship with a Thai. I have lived here for three years so if you feel like asking anything more go right ahead.

[laser2507]

Thanks dderek, appreciated.

I PM'd you.

[lovetheladies]

where in the uk are you dating this girl?

[Prospero]

Terrific. Just don't get on the wrong side of her! Good luck and may the course of love run smooth.

[laser2507]

I think it will just end up as friends with benefits. We may go out sometimes to club and whatever but I am not hopeful

[laser2507]

London UK mate.

[Jackal]

Nice story, I wish the two of you the best!

[laser2507]

Saw her again, went well, shes wantig to take things real slow, which is a good sign I guess? I'm happy with it though, feels like there is something special there.

[Prospero]

If she is a working escort and you publish her name here, you'll soon have grounds for jealousy. So keep it a secret is my advice.

[dderek123]

Thanks dderek, appreciated.

I PM'd you.

No worries. I like to help others out.