Are 'high maintenance' women just clever whores?

[JamesHunt]

Curious on your point of views on this subject?

[BellaBellucci]

Yes. No. Maybe.

~BB~

[tommymageeshemales2]

No. Some friends of mine are dating high-maintenance girls, and they are either thick as planks or just the kind of car crashes that make you glad YOU'RE not stuck with them. So based on my experience, no, a high maintenance girl is just a needy bitch.

[Nicole Dupre]

'High maintenance" is a relative term. One man's "high maintenance" is another man's "pocket money".

[giovanni_hotel]

A high maintenance female is about more than dating a woman with expensive tastes. She's too particular about EVERYTHING, nothing's good enough and she complains all the time.

Usually high maintenance is another term for 'bitch', from my experience.

Guys who date high maintenance females initially do so because they think their girl is just beyond their reach normally, so they feel lucky for the privilege of being in her presence.
That gets old quick.

[onmyknees]

High maintenance women are normally pretty good looking otherwise they wouldn't be getting any play. Nobody's going to give the platinum card to an ugly gold digger. lol Walk into a bar in Miami Beach and you can have your pick of HM ladies. But you better have the coin or they'll bolt in a heartbeat! . They can smell a pretender the minute he walks in the door...But their needs seem to be never ending, and the ones I know are hardly independent, or gainfully employed, and since they bore easily, there's always some drama. The only thing they enjoy more than the $300 dinner is drama. They'll swear to you they just want a guy who loves them and could care less about his money, but like I said...they bore easily! They prefer to be kept, which is fine...there's lots of dudes with lots of disposable income down on Wall Street. There's a price to pay, and some dudes are willing to pay it.

[Ineeda SM]

^^^^Yes!

[SXFX]

Women have a finite life span on their looks.....I'm sorry but it's true. And it's not an east coast west coast thing. Heck just walk into any bar in NYC. You want to see desperate, any women over the age of say 35 and unmarried is ready to kill any of the cute 21 year old girls that walk into the bar. And if you are a guy on a first date, catch your date shifting in her seat and kicking over a dirty look. Simply say "Yeah but you know going out with that girl would be one dull conversation....." and an hour or so later your head is bouncing off the head board of her bed.

Beauty is currency. Like it or not it is. The better looking the girl the more "currency" she has to spend. And she can spend it by throwing shit fits, being an absolute bitch or demanding X,Y or Z. But once she hits about 30 watch that currency evaporate like a puddle of water in the mid day sun. And by 34, well she's a diva. And we all know what that is....a girl who's writing checks her looks can't cash.

It sucks, but such is life.

[Nicole Dupre]

Women have a finite life span on their looks.....I'm sorry but it's true. And it's not an east coast west coast thing. Heck just walk into any bar in NYC. You want to see desperate, any women over the age of say 35 and unmarried is ready to kill any of the cute 21 year old girls that walk into the bar. And if you are a guy on a first date, catch your date shifting in her seat and kicking over a dirty look. Simply say "Yeah but you know going out with that girl would be one dull conversation....." and an hour or so later your head is bouncing off the head board of her bed.

Beauty is currency. Like it or not it is. The better looking the girl the more "currency" she has to spend. And she can spend it by throwing shit fits, being an absolute bitch or demanding X,Y or Z. But once she hits about 30 watch that currency evaporate like a puddle of water in the mid day sun. And by 34, well she's a diva. And we all know what that is....a girl who's writing checks her looks can't cash.

It sucks, but such is life.That's certainly not always true. There are plenty of attractive, younger women who want a good LTR. Plenty of them get a good education, and simply seek a man of equal caliber. I don't assume that all muscular, attractive, well spoken men are either gay and/or vain bastards. lol You can't always judge a book by the cover. Some men are too easily intimidated though, so they don't bother reading any books at all.

Life's about balance. Good-looking, productive people attract other good-looking productive people. Not everyone has self-esteem issues. And by the same token, many average-looking guys have great personalities. Personally, I'd take love and personality over money any day. I simply don't want to be taken advantage of. I've heard every cheesy pick-up line in the book. And the reason that disappoints me is, I just want someone who's a decent person, ultimately, if they're gonna be a "keeper".

Money can be "easy come, easy go". And looks always fade. Therefore, overall compatibility is key. But, if all you want is a superficially good time, the rules aren't that complicated. Any jackass can lease a Ferrari for just one night. lol

[BellaBellucci]

And by 34, well she's a diva. And we all know what that is....a girl who's writing checks her looks can't cash.

It sucks, but such is life.

Ouch. I'm 32. :lol:

~BB~

[Dino Velvet]

They sure as Hell are. The whore is at least honest about lying.

[runningdownthatdream]

High Maintenance Women AKA Vampires - emotionally and financially!

[Nicole Dupre]

He-Man Women Haters Club Meeting - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBIC8JTQMMQ)

lol

[Dino Velvet]

Hookers > Gold Diggers

[buckjohnson]

I only date high maintenace woman, never been with a clever whore, but,,,nah that is too easy, so I will leave that alone.

[russtafa]

Its just once ask's for more money

[OmarZ]

High maintenance women are normally pretty good looking otherwise they wouldn't be getting any play. Nobody's going to give the platinum card to an ugly gold digger. lol Walk into a bar in Miami Beach and you can have your pick of HM ladies. But you better have the coin or they'll bolt in a heartbeat! . They can smell a pretender the minute he walks in the door...But their needs seem to be never ending, and the ones I know are hardly independent, or gainfully employed, and since they bore easily, there's always some drama. The only thing they enjoy more than the $300 dinner is drama. They'll swear to you they just want a guy who loves them and could care less about his money, but like I said...they bore easily! They prefer to be kept, which is fine...there's lots of dudes with lots of disposable income down on Wall Street. There's a price to pay, and some dudes are willing to pay it.

Precisely, they are trophies, not persons...

[OmarZ]

Women have a finite life span on their looks.....I'm sorry but it's true. And it's not an east coast west coast thing. Heck just walk into any bar in NYC. You want to see desperate, any women over the age of say 35 and unmarried is ready to kill any of the cute 21 year old girls that walk into the bar. And if you are a guy on a first date, catch your date shifting in her seat and kicking over a dirty look. Simply say "Yeah but you know going out with that girl would be one dull conversation....." and an hour or so later your head is bouncing off the head board of her bed.

Beauty is currency. Like it or not it is. The better looking the girl the more "currency" she has to spend. And she can spend it by throwing shit fits, being an absolute bitch or demanding X,Y or Z. But once she hits about 30 watch that currency evaporate like a puddle of water in the mid day sun. And by 34, well she's a diva. And we all know what that is....a girl who's writing checks her looks can't cash.

It sucks, but such is life.

Life is utterly cruel


Smart ones realize they cant hold on to their looks forever, so they marry, settle down and live the easy life...


Thus marriage is like a used car dump.

[Nicole Dupre]

Life is utterly cruel


Smart ones realize they cant hold on to their looks forever, so they marry, settle down and live the easy life...


Thus marriage is like a used car dump.

Maybe for someone who's emotionally unavailable, it is. Sound like anyone you know? ;-) lol

[Nicole Dupre]

Precisely, they are trophies, not persons...
A "trophy" pre-supposes a person who desires to be a "trophy winner". People adopt dogs and cats everyday. Some look at their pets as family, and some look at them as something to just have, like a goldfish.

[OmarZ]

A "trophy" pre-supposes a person who desires to be a "trophy winner". People adopt dogs and cats everyday. Some look at their pets as family, and some look at them as something to just have, like a goldfish.

Well yeah, how better to show off to everyone your "a winner" , than with a trophy girlfriend...

Its the ultimate thing to patch up guys insecurity about themselves, the ultimate showoff.

[OmarZ]

Maybe for someone who's emotionally unavailable, it is. Sound like anyone you know? ;-) lol

Well I am, so?

Women made me that way.

[Nicole Dupre]

Well I am, so?

Women made me that way.
Fair enough. lol

[loveboof]

High maintenance does not necessarily mean the same as a gold digger. And there are plenty of absolutely stunning 30 year old women! Also there are loads of older gold diggers who simply play their game with a different sort of man (usually older too).

A couple of you guys are speaking absolute nonsense about cheques which can't clear lol.

[LibertyHarkness]

dam i am 34 in december lol

[onmyknees]

High maintenance does not necessarily mean the same as a gold digger. And there are plenty of absolutely stunning 30 year old women! Also there are loads of older gold diggers who simply play their game with a different sort of man (usually older too).

A couple of you guys are speaking absolute nonsense about cheques which can't clear lol.


Huh? As far as I'm concerned it's a distinction without a difference. And what does age have to do with anything ? I'm assuming the question was based on high maintenance in terms of $$$$$ , and not women that are emotionally needy. Here's my definition of high maintenance....if you're at work bustin' your ass, and your lady is at her Plastic Surgeon for yet another consultation, then off to the nail place after getting the 5 Series serviced, and then for cocktails and lunch with the girls, and you come home to cold Chinese food....you got a high maintenance chic. Get the fuck outta there unless the sex is mind blowing !

[Dino Velvet]

dam i am 34 in december lol

... And every day you get more beautiful, Libby.

[fred41]

Huh? As far as I'm concerned it's a distinction without a difference. And what does age have to do with anything ? I'm assuming the question was based on high maintenance in terms of $$$$$ , and not women that are emotionally needy. Here's my definition of high maintenance....if you're at work bustin' your ass, and your lady is at her Plastic Surgeon for yet another consultation, then off to the nail place after getting the 5 Series serviced, and then for cocktails and lunch with the girls, and you come home to cold Chinese food....you got a high maintenance chic. Get the fuck outta there unless the sex is mind blowing !

I guess if the woman was hot as hell and keeping herself that way for me then I guess I wouldn't mind paying for it...if I could afford that type of lifestyle.
Only two problems with that:
1...I CAN'T afford that ..

2...In the long run i wouldn't respect it. I like women that are intelligent and self sufficient and couldn't deal with a girl who "wants to be totally taken care of "...not because she deserves it...but because she was lucky enough to be blessed with good looks.


...but I don't expect a woman to cook for me...i could do that shit myself if i have to...I don't need anyone to do anything for me ...I like (and respect) a woman who's the same.

[Paladin]

a high maintenance female is about more than dating a woman with expensive tastes. She's too particular about everything, nothing's good enough and she complains all the time.

Usually high maintenance is another term for 'bitch', from my experience.

Guys who date high maintenance females initially do so because they think their girl is just beyond their reach normally, so they feel lucky for the privilege of being in her presence.
That gets old quick.
amen!!!

[Paladin]

Women have a finite life span on their looks.....I'm sorry but it's true. And it's not an east coast west coast thing. Heck just walk into any bar in NYC. You want to see desperate, any women over the age of say 35 and unmarried is ready to kill any of the cute 21 year old girls that walk into the bar. And if you are a guy on a first date, catch your date shifting in her seat and kicking over a dirty look. Simply say "Yeah but you know going out with that girl would be one dull conversation....." and an hour or so later your head is bouncing off the head board of her bed.

Beauty is currency. Like it or not it is. The better looking the girl the more "currency" she has to spend. And she can spend it by throwing shit fits, being an absolute bitch or demanding X,Y or Z. But once she hits about 30 watch that currency evaporate like a puddle of water in the mid day sun. And by 34, well she's a diva. And we all know what that is....a girl who's writing checks her looks can't cash.

It sucks, but such is life.

This is pretty good too!!!

[bin_dallas]

Yes.

[fred41]

Yes.


I do disagree with the "clever" part...lol.

[Paladin]

Huh? As far as I'm concerned it's a distinction without a difference. And what does age have to do with anything ? I'm assuming the question was based on high maintenance in terms of $$$$$ , and not women that are emotionally needy. Here's my definition of high maintenance....if you're at work bustin' your ass, and your lady is at her Plastic Surgeon for yet another consultation, then off to the nail place after getting the 5 Series serviced, and then for cocktails and lunch with the girls, and you come home to cold Chinese food....you got a high maintenance chic. Get the fuck outta there unless the sex is mind blowing !

Get out even if the sex is mind blowing - you will be bankrupt before u know it!

[SXFX]

How did one very pragmatic friend once put it?
"Mate, every day another gorgeous girl turns 21....and like a conveyor belt the dried up husks are pushed aside as the new flowers are brought it. You on the other hand as a man just enrichen and mature with age."

Yeah there are a few exceptions to the rule but the law of average is just not in the favor of women.

Hell look at Trump? If there was every a guy who understood this...it's him.

[Nicole Dupre]

I have a GG friend who's fairly wealthy. She just found herself, about a month or two ago, a dropdead gorgeous boy-toy, who now lives with her, and who's a construction worker. He doesn't have a pot to piss in. So it works both ways. Trust me. ;-)

[onmyknees]

I think that's great...that's what "equality" is , and I hope it works out for your friend, but chances are one of them is going to get bored or tired. He might start to resent the fact she's footin' the bill for everything. I have a GG friend who is the epitome of high maintenance. She could have any guy she wanted, but opted for a wealthy dude with a bit of a budda belly and a big bank roll , and he's as high maintenence as she is ! I don't hold it against her...we all live with the choices we make.

[SXFX]

I have a GG friend who's fairly wealthy. She just found herself, about a month or two ago, a dropdead gorgeous boy-toy, who now lives with her, and who's a construction worker. He doesn't have a pot to piss in. So it works both ways. Trust me. ;-)
Lucky guy.

[Nicole Dupre]

Lucky guy.
Oh, trust me. She's super fucking picky in every way. This guy is as wholesome as they get, worked like a dog (7 days a wk) his entire life, is built like a Greek god, handsome as the day is long, and never even needed to go to the gym to get that way. He's actually a sweetheart. And she may have money, but she's as good of a person as I've ever met. I just wanted to point out that not everyone's as much of a superficial tool as the Donald. lol Money can't buy happiness or class, although it never hurts.

[SXFX]

Yet your friend is what we call an "outlier" in that her situation does not constitute "average"
but glad they are happy.

[loveboof]

Huh? As far as I'm concerned it's a distinction without a difference. And what does age have to do with anything ?

A few guys were saying that once over 30 a girl starts to look past it - I was pointing out that that isn't always the case.

And there is a difference to that distinction. A gold digger is only interested in money. The reason she dates someone is because she wants at his cash. Where as a high maintenance girl has expensive tastes and usually spends plenty of money, but that is a by product of how she is - the money is not the motivator.

Sure some girls can be both, but one is not necessarily the other.

[Nicole Dupre]

Yet your friend is what we call an "outlier" in that her situation does not constitute "average"
but glad they are happy.
No. She's an exceptional person. She's pretty much my best friend, if I had to pick one person. I mean, she's like my sister. I've known her since I was 15. She was a teacher, worked her ass off for years, and came into an inheritance about two years ago. It's one of those rare cases where good things happened to a good person, and spilled over into yet another good person's life. So yeah. It's pretty cool. I'm happy for her, and for him too. If I thought he was a putz, I would've told her QUICKLY. Neither of us hold back with each other. lol

[Helvis2012]

Hilarious!

[fred41]

A few guys were saying that once over 30 a girl starts to look past it - I was pointing out that that isn't always the case.

And there is a difference to that distinction. A gold digger is only interested in money. The reason she dates someone is because she wants at his cash. Where as a high maintenance girl has expensive tastes and usually spends plenty of money, but that is a by product of how she is - the money is not the motivator.

Sure some girls can be both, but one is not necessarily the other.

Good explanation...you're right too.

[tsnajwa]

Life is utterly cruel


Smart ones realize they cant hold on to their looks forever, so they marry, settle down and live the easy life...


Thus marriage is like a used car dump.


Smart people work on themselves and work toward their future without placating themselves with monetary thrills and petty bar trists.. I've been called "high maintenace" a number of times but I am not without brains, and I never hook up. There will always be someone who breaks the rules and will change your mind.
And marriage is only what you as a person make of it,

[nitron]

Hell yes

[Chaos]

I have always viewed "High Maintenance" as a weakness.
If you need everything handed to you,you obviously have NO skills whatsoever,and it is YOUR weakness.
If you'd rather just be given everything and not work it is someone ELSE'S weakness....provided they fall for it that is.

[Yeah]

To me there are two types of high maintenance women out there. The first is the hot made up to the nines who look for the well off guy or a guy to drain down his bank account i.e. Golddigger. The other type is a women who again is hot, but live for drama and chaos and got to have have constant attention. Basically a basket case. On the outside they seem altogether, but on the inside they are a mess. Unfortunately i dated the second type. God what a shit time for me.

[TS Evelyn Summers]

Im Proud To Be High-Maintenance :)


This is what I pay for gas every 5 Days..... My 7 Series has 25 GAL tank of #91 ONLY!

http://i47.tinypic.com/10sbq6o.jpg


Cept I service my own 7 Series & I Pay to get my OWN Nails done ;) And when my looks fade.( Which I dunno...I got my plastic surgeon on speed dial..lol ) & And its almost said and done.....


I can STILL program/Code & Fix the NEWEST BMW :)


but to answer the question.......


SOME of us are clever........And some are not!

[joeninety]

To me there are two types of high maintenance women out there. The first is the hot made up to the nines who look for the well off guy or a guy to drain down his bank account i.e. Golddigger. The other type is a women who again is hot, but live for drama and chaos and got to have have constant attention. Basically a basket case. On the outside they seem altogether, but on the inside they are a mess. Unfortunately i dated the second type. God what a shit time for me.

I know the feeling dated the latter and broke up with her quite recently to save my sanity:hide-1:, she came across well to begin with but in reality she was a nutjob drama whore:banghead.

[joeninety]

Im Proud To Be High-Maintenance :)


This is what I pay for gas every 5 Days..... My 7 Series has 25 GAL tank of #91 ONLY!

http://i47.tinypic.com/10sbq6o.jpg


Cept I service my own 7 Series & I Pay to get my OWN Nails done ;) And when my looks fade.( Which I dunno...I got my plastic surgeon on speed dial..lol ) & And its almost said and done.....


I can STILL program/Code & Fix the NEWEST BMW :)


but to answer the question.......


SOME of us are clever........And some are not!

Hmmm high maintenance and smart never tried that combo before:confused:, but got a feeling your type would be even trickier to deal with:whistle::D

[trish]

Are husbands just johns who can't get sex without paying for it?

[Yeah]

I know the feeling dated the latter and broke up with her quite recently to save my sanity:hide-1:, she came across well to begin with but in reality she was a nutjob drama whore:banghead.

I also dated the gold digger type too, but that was when i was younger and a little green. Now i see that kinda girl from a mile away and stay clear. But the basket case types are s worse than the gold digger types.

[amberskyi]

i always laugh at older guys who have a taste for younger woman but doesnt want a gold digger or to be a sugar daddy.
maybe trying dating age appropriately might help lol

[Chaos]

i always laugh at older guys who have a taste for younger woman but doesnt want a gold digger or to be a sugar daddy.
maybe trying dating age appropriately might help lol

I tried dating age appropriate....I'm 40. Around here 40 year old girls show their age....and not all of them do it well. Some girls tell me they're younger/same age and it's not even a GOOD lie....Girls my age tend to think that since I am disabled I am worthless. But honestly age is just a number IF the chemistry is there...

[jamiethewild]

I tried dating age appropriate....I'm 40. Around here 40 year old girls show their age....and not all of them do it well. Some girls tell me they're younger/same age and it's not even a GOOD lie....Girls my age tend to think that since I am disabled I am worthless. But honestly age is just a number IF the chemistry is there...

Totally with you 100% age doesn't matter, am 22 yrs old and fall madly in love for 45 yr old man last yr. I was totally attractive to him and we had good chemistry towards each other however, i had to let him go because things were on the way on his side with his family and i couldn't deal with that since i love being priority but he was willing to put much effort to pursue me. That being said he had lots of money and is very successful probably could of been a sugar daddy add on my list but i loved him over his money and i wasn't going to utilize like that, so when you fall in love money is not the matter is personality and the way a guy treats a women. On the other hand OP theres far more worst house wife's or women than a whore so its not only a good whore that can be a gold digger.