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macklefreak
07-27-2011, 01:15 AM
Hello people,
I'm new here and I've only been with 2 trannies both of whom I met on aff. I have never paid for sex, in fact I've never even been to a strip club because I never liked the idea of paying for a woman's attention. I've always been good with the ladies so this was never a problem, in fact I've been told often that I'm a great fuck. Not trying to brag, just providing a backdrop for the discussion. I'm currently working a good job and traveling alot. And now that I'm divorced I want to settle my transsexual fetish. My problem is I can't find trannies who are hot enough (passable) who aren't escorts. I'm a little nervous about dealing in prostitution because its obviously illegal and I'm deathly afraid of AIDS and Herpes. Any thoughts or advice?

nonnonnon
07-27-2011, 01:19 AM
haven't you ever played grand theft auto? you know what you must do.

macklefreak
07-27-2011, 01:23 AM
haven't you ever played grand theft auto? you know what you must do.

Lol I always beat the hookers to death after the transaction and took my money back. On grand theft auto that is

saifan
07-27-2011, 01:37 AM
Keep it a fantasy or bite the bullet and see an escort. Be safe, have fun and you have no idea where things can go. I have been seeing a girl for a little over 2 years now who I saw as a client exactly one time.

macklefreak
07-27-2011, 01:58 AM
Keep it a fantasy or bite the bullet and see an escort. Be safe, have fun and you have no idea where things can go. I have been seeing a girl for a little over 2 years now who I saw as a client exactly one time.

Any advice on the transaction process? How it normally goes? Red flags? Negotiating sex acts? Etc

Nikka
07-27-2011, 02:16 AM
calmidias

macklefreak
07-27-2011, 02:31 AM
calmidias

Sorry beautiful I don't know what that means.

saifan
07-27-2011, 04:50 AM
Any advice on the transaction process? How it normally goes? Red flags? Negotiating sex acts? Etc

Don't talk money or sex on the phone. If you want to know if they are a top or bottom you can say something like "I like to stay on top of things". Aside from that I would never go any further. Try and meet with known providers and/or providers with reviews. Shy away from providers that don't list rates. Transaction time leave the money on the bed or nightstand (don't hand it to them). The money part might not be a hard and fast rule but it is what I have noticed.

Have fun and be safe! If you have any other questions feel free to drop me a PM.

Also maybe tell us where you are and we can recommend a good provider.

flabbybody
07-27-2011, 04:59 AM
as soon as you start thinking about seeing a tranny escort you might as well just do it cause the itch will never go away

OmarZ
07-27-2011, 05:05 AM
Hello people,
I'm new here and I've only been with 2 trannies both of whom I met on aff. I have never paid for sex, in fact I've never even been to a strip club because I never liked the idea of paying for a woman's attention. I've always been good with the ladies so this was never a problem, in fact I've been told often that I'm a great fuck. Not trying to brag, just providing a backdrop for the discussion. I'm currently working a good job and traveling alot. And now that I'm divorced I want to settle my transsexual fetish. My problem is I can't find trannies who are hot enough (passable) who aren't escorts. I'm a little nervous about dealing in prostitution because its obviously illegal and I'm deathly afraid of AIDS and Herpes. Any thoughts or advice?

Go to Mexico, or Chile,... Seriously there are hot young trannies in the making in those places who are desperate to get some gringo cock.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=48444

Teydyn
07-27-2011, 05:23 AM
And i am sure that girls who are sexworkers are at least, if not way more safer then the ones fucking around for drinks.

Prospero
07-27-2011, 08:09 AM
And in Mexico a gringo who goes cruising for trannies can get into serious bad trouble.


I have no idea where "centex" is but if you are in the vicinity of NY or LA or Chicago there re clubs you can go to and meet the girls. If you're in the US otherwise your best bet is a well reviewed escort. Try it once. if you like it then go to a club. If you don't ,well..... and as for your hang-up about paying? Well that is all it is. It's not about attraction. it's about getting your needs/desires seen to surely?

And as for your AIDS fears/ Well I have been seeing escorts in the Uk for years. Never had any form of STD. Play safe is the essential thing.

macklefreak
07-27-2011, 10:01 AM
Don't talk money or sex on the phone. If you want to know if they are a top or bottom you can say something like "I like to stay on top of things". Aside from that I would never go any further. Try and meet with known providers and/or providers with reviews. Shy away from providers that don't list rates. Transaction time leave the money on the bed or nightstand (don't hand it to them). The money part might not be a hard and fast rule but it is what I have noticed.

Have fun and be safe! If you have any other questions feel free to drop me a PM.

Also maybe tell us where you are and we can recommend a good provider.

I'm sorry centex is central Texas, killeen to b exact

macklefreak
07-27-2011, 04:01 PM
How often have u guys paid and not got what u wanted in return? Do u usually leave the cash out before u talk sex? I'd be REALLY pissed off if I threw down a couple yard for a handjob.

bte
07-27-2011, 06:28 PM
Hello people,
I'm new here and I've only been with 2 trannies both of whom I met on aff. I have never paid for sex, in fact I've never even been to a strip club because I never liked the idea of paying for a woman's attention. I've always been good with the ladies so this was never a problem, in fact I've been told often that I'm a great fuck. Not trying to brag, just providing a backdrop for the discussion. I'm currently working a good job and traveling alot. And now that I'm divorced I want to settle my transsexual fetish. My problem is I can't find trannies who are hot enough (passable) who aren't escorts. I'm a little nervous about dealing in prostitution because its obviously illegal and I'm deathly afraid of AIDS and Herpes. Any thoughts or advice?


"Not trying to brag..." Well you basically were

If you are deathly afraid of AIDS and Herpes, well then maybe you shouldn't do it. Usually your first instinct is always the right instinct. Also if you never like the idea of paying for sex, why start now?

saifan
07-28-2011, 05:17 AM
Any advice on the transaction process? How it normally goes? Red flags? Negotiating sex acts? Etc


How often have u guys paid and not got what u wanted in return? Do u usually leave the cash out before u talk sex? I'd be REALLY pissed off if I threw down a couple yard for a handjob.

I've never gotten stiffed and I saw quite a few girls in my time. This is where reading reviews and seeing known girls comes into play.

Start to get naked while discussing sex and you will be fine.

Miss Aeryn
07-28-2011, 05:49 AM
LMAO! Thankyou for making my morning here in Australia.

1 plus 'Not trying to brag': yes you are

2 plus calling us 'trannies': show some simple respect & courtesy to the women you're so caught up on not paying for sex but want to fuck a hot transsexual that isn't a sex worker...

3 plus 'I'd be REALLY pissed off': would you now? Get violent perhaps in your indolent rage? True gentleman stuff

equals 6: you really have your work cut out for you.

Best of luck

effigyc
07-28-2011, 02:51 PM
I'm in the same boat. I've had sex with several tgirls for free, but once when I was traveling for work I said fuck it and paid an escort. Hands down one of the worst sexual experiences of my life. She took my money, got me off as quickly and uncermoniously as possible, and then went to applebees to get a margarita. Ill never pay again.

Richctdude
07-28-2011, 02:58 PM
sometimes its ok to pay!!

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 03:57 PM
LMAO! Thankyou for making my morning here in Australia.

1 plus 'Not trying to brag': yes you are

2 plus calling us 'trannies': show some simple respect & courtesy to the women you're so caught up on not paying for sex but want to fuck a hot transsexual that isn't a sex worker...

3 plus 'I'd be REALLY pissed off': would you now? Get violent perhaps in your indolent rage? True gentleman stuff

equals 6: you really have your work cut out for you.

Best of luck

1) its not my fault that when I'm out swinging for a hit my batting average is pretty high. And when I do hit I tend to knock em out the park. Pardon my baseball pun but my slugging percentage is probably at Allstate numbers

2) I'm sorry if the term "tranny" offends you, I've never been told this was offensive but then again I don't have much experience in this realm. However I find it quite ironic that you have a problem with the word tranny but yet ur profile picture says "whore" well if you'd rather I call u a whore I'll call u a whore. Especially since technically that's what u are if your charging money for sex. Not trying to judge just calling it how it is

3) you're goddamn right if I spend upwards of 4-500 bucks I want satisfaction. I don't know how you Aussies roll but in America we expect bang for our Buck. And since the price is equivalent to a professional outing I demand a professional level of service. Especially since 9/10 times I'm gonnand as for getting violent. I would never hit a lady. But I'll protect my property from a crook or thrifty by any means necessary. I'd do my best to avoid that scenario by only dealing with professional ladies of leisure of good repute.

You don't know me so don't act like you do. Save ur comebacks for someone else because it sounds like your fishing to pull a shark and I don't like it

amberskyi
07-28-2011, 09:01 PM
woooowwwww.....your kinda an ass sir

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 09:10 PM
I might be cocky but I'm not an ass. I just speak the truth as I know it. Its sad that we can't disagree without being disagreeable. People resort to ad hominen attacks and name calling instead of trying to communicate and educate people from different walks of life. Obviously I am quite ignorant of the ways of the commercial sex trade. I'm asking for tips but all some folks want to do is ridicule me. But its all good because I know who I am and those who know me know I'm a stand-up Guy so if you must attack personally over an internet forum to feel good about yourself, go for it

0utrageousss
07-28-2011, 09:38 PM
Yeah you're kind of a douchebag. Maybe you should work on acting a gentlemen, instead of a hypersexed trick chaser. You don't get something for nothing. When guys talk to me like you are, they go straight to the"TRICK" category, and they have to pay. You don't get free sex from a beautiful, passable TS by acting like an asshat. Try meeting a girl and taking her out and getting to know her f you want free sex, ya know like most respectable guys do.

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 09:42 PM
Yeah you're kind of a douchebag. Maybe you should work on acting a gentlemen, instead of a hypersexed trick chaser. You don't get something for nothing. When guys talk to me like you are, they go straight to the"TRICK" category, and they have to pay. You don't get free sex from a beautiful, passable TS by acting like an asshat. Try meeting a girl and taking her out and getting to know her f you want free sex, ya know like most respectable guys do.

Thank you very much your a superb human being and you know me so well

0utrageousss
07-28-2011, 09:54 PM
Thank you very much your a superb human being and you know me so well

I'm going off YOUR words that YOU said. Don't deflect it on me.

SirCumsAlot
07-28-2011, 09:58 PM
‪Break Yourself‬‏ - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1T0zvj8R8M)

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 10:05 PM
I'm going off YOUR words that YOU said. Don't deflect it on me.

And exactly what is it that I said? I'm bad for admitting that I'm a good lover? Or I'm bad for expecting a good performance if I pay for sex? Or am I bad for protecting my property from thrives? You have to be specific because I said alot. And btw, I'm only referring to escorts I might find in advertising, not in the real world.

0utrageousss
07-28-2011, 10:09 PM
Hello people,
I'm new here and I've only been with 2 trannies both of whom I met on aff. I have never paid for sex, in fact I've never even been to a strip club because I never liked the idea of paying for a woman's attention. I've always been good with the ladies so this was never a problem, in fact I've been told often that I'm a great fuck. Not trying to brag, just providing a backdrop for the discussion. I'm currently working a good job and traveling alot. And now that I'm divorced I want to settle my transsexual fetish. My problem is I can't find trannies who are hot enough (passable) who aren't escorts. I'm a little nervous about dealing in prostitution because its obviously illegal and I'm deathly afraid of AIDS and Herpes. Any thoughts or advice?

First you call us a fetish, then you go on about how you want to have your cake and eat it too. You would go in the trick category of every girl I know, no wonder you have to resort to an escort to get your cock fix. And this is the sad state of the American male.

Yvonne183
07-28-2011, 10:17 PM
Any advice on the transaction process? How it normally goes? Red flags? Negotiating sex acts? Etc

Any negotiations come before money is paid, this is probably true with legal dealings as well.

Red Flags? Don't let her handcuff you to the bed.

Paying for sex is the same as paying for other stuff, sometimes you get a good deal and sometimes you get a lemon,, but as for paying for sex you can't complain to the better business bureau.

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 10:19 PM
First you call us a fetish, then you go on about how you want to have your cake and eat it too. You would go in the trick category of every girl I know, no wonder you have to resort to an escort to get your cock fix. And this is the sad state of the American male.

Ok you clearly misunderstood me. I said I have a fetish for transsexuals I didn't call you a fetish. I also have a fetish for blondes, fat asses and nylons and pretty feet. Sorry you misunderstood me, but if you still feel slighted I'm sorry YOU have a problem with me. I don't have a problem with you but I'd appreciate u refraining from calling me names. And I don't want my cake and eat it too. I'd date a ts if I were into her just like a gg. But OBVIOUSLY hot TS are hard to find except on escort ads. I've said my peace and if you still don't like it please stop reading my comments or block me. Thank you

PS: what's the PC term for describing transsexual women so I don't inadvertently offend anyone. And I know their just women but what terms should I use and avoid when differentiating between them and ggs?

giovanni_hotel
07-28-2011, 10:26 PM
You want guarantees. There's no such thing when seeing an escort.

You choose a girl, hope there's a minor spark of the remotest 'chemistry', and that she gives you the service she advertised.

Anyone who's seen an escort more than once has been burned, meaning they didn't get exactly what they expected.

All I want is for a girl to put on a pleasant disposition and make an effort.

If you find a cool escort, whatever that means to you, you keep going back to her. No money wasted that way.

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 10:27 PM
Any negotiations come before money is paid, this is probably true with legal dealings as well.

Red Flags? Don't let her handcuff you to the bed.

Paying for sex is the same as paying for other stuff, sometimes you get a good deal and sometimes you get a lemon,, but as for paying for sex you can't complain to the better business bureau.

Lol thanks for the advice. Your avatar pic is cute.

macklefreak
07-28-2011, 10:30 PM
You want guarantees. There's no such thing when seeing an escort.

You choose a girl, hope there's a minor spark of the remotest 'chemistry', and that she gives you the service she advertised.

Anyone who's seen an escort more than once has been burned, meaning they didn't get exactly what they expected.

All I want is for a girl to put on a pleasant disposition and make an effort.

If you find a cool escort, whatever that means to you, you keep going back to her. No money wasted that way.

Thanks Giovanni that's what I'm planning to do. There's 2 girls in Austin I'm interested in meeting Tina and Camille, hopefully 1 of em will click and become my regular mistress

Miss Aeryn
07-29-2011, 04:33 AM
1) its not my fault that when I'm out swinging for a hit my batting average is pretty high. And when I do hit I tend to knock em out the park. Pardon my baseball pun but my slugging percentage is probably at Allstate numbers

2) I'm sorry if the term "tranny" offends you, I've never been told this was offensive but then again I don't have much experience in this realm. However I find it quite ironic that you have a problem with the word tranny but yet ur profile picture says "whore" well if you'd rather I call u a whore I'll call u a whore. Especially since technically that's what u are if your charging money for sex. Not trying to judge just calling it how it is

3) you're goddamn right if I spend upwards of 4-500 bucks I want satisfaction. I don't know how you Aussies roll but in America we expect bang for our Buck. And since the price is equivalent to a professional outing I demand a professional level of service. Especially since 9/10 times I'm gonnand as for getting violent. I would never hit a lady. But I'll protect my property from a crook or thrifty by any means necessary. I'd do my best to avoid that scenario by only dealing with professional ladies of leisure of good repute.

You don't know me so don't act like you do. Save ur comebacks for someone else because it sounds like your fishing to pull a shark and I don't like it

Once again, thankyou for making my morning :)

Did I ask you to call me a whore? Yet you did. You take a image of a sex-work positive sticker on my avatar and jump to all the wrong conclusions.

I've got nothing against you, I'm not fishing for marlin, and yet again you prove your passive aggressiveness.

Honestly, I wish you luck in Austin.

gaga99
07-29-2011, 04:53 AM
I havent paid either & have hooked up with some pretty hot girls.(some who happen to be pornstars and/or escorts) Try posting an ad on Craigslist or a going to a T-Girl bar. I go to vegas frequently & score every time I go either from CL or the Las Vegas Lounge.

The Tranny Slayer
07-30-2011, 06:49 AM
Just go onto transgenderdate.com or craigs...believe it or not, not all ts ladies are escorts and you can meet some good girls on those sites

SirCumsAlot
07-30-2011, 08:18 PM
Just go onto transgenderdate.com or craigs...believe it or not, not all ts ladies are escorts and you can meet some good girls on those sites

Yeah, or if they do escort, not all of them want to escort. I've meant a few and are friends with a few who either used to escort and stopped, or is still escorting, but really don't want to but feels thats the only best/fastest way they can get money.