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TSPornFan
06-27-2011, 11:10 PM
Would you tell your best friend you are into transsexuals? Most of us tell our best friends our darkest secrets. Hopefully they can be kept.

A month ago one of my best friends for many years told me that he is bisexual. I wasn't surprise. People's sexuality doesn't surprise me regardless of their history. During our talk I also told him that I am attracted to busty feminine transsexuals and shown him pictures of Kimber James, Bailey Jay, Sariana Valetina, and Yasmin Lee. He is the only person who knows my secret.

I didn't feel ashamed about it when I told him. I acted like it was nothing just like when he told me that he is bisexual.

The funny thing is he likes girls and boys. He doesn't find transsexuals appealing. LOL!

Jack59
06-27-2011, 11:14 PM
My best friend already knows, so it's kind of a moot point for me.

Good question though.

Birgitta
06-27-2011, 11:16 PM
Dark decrets are best kept in the dark lol

loveboof
06-27-2011, 11:21 PM
The funny thing is he likes girls and boys. He doesn't find transsexuals appealing. LOL!
Hmm, that's kinda strange isn't it.. Did he say why?

bte
06-27-2011, 11:22 PM
Best friend knows, didn't really have a problem with it.

theone1982
06-27-2011, 11:32 PM
What if your best friend is a transsexual?

joeninety
06-27-2011, 11:35 PM
What if your best friend is a transsexual?

Lmao

Dino Velvet
06-27-2011, 11:41 PM
I'm fairly secretive by nature. There are many things my friends don't know about me; my attraction to transsexual ladies being one of them. People make jokes about me all the time that I'm either in the CIA or a very polite serial killer.

FreddieGomez
06-28-2011, 12:13 AM
nope.

Birgitta
06-28-2011, 12:15 AM
nope.

Hypocrite

SFTB
06-28-2011, 12:19 AM
I not only told her but I took her to the Las Vegas Lounge and gave her money to tip the dancers.

FreddieGomez
06-28-2011, 12:25 AM
Hypocrite

hypocrite how?

TrannyHunta
06-28-2011, 12:50 AM
I would if they would ask me.

Willie Escalade
06-28-2011, 12:57 AM
They already know...

MrBlonde
06-28-2011, 01:03 AM
I would love to share my secret with someone. I am gutless though. I really feel I would if it weren't for me having children and their mom would probably use it against me big time. But I still feel shame for not having the guts to share my desires.

Yvonne183
06-28-2011, 02:17 AM
First I'd have to get a best friend.

BigDF
06-28-2011, 02:27 AM
Not only does my best friend know, but also my wife and other members of my family know. About the only person I haven't told is my father, who is still pretty upset about my 45 year old gay brother. But at this point in Dad's life I could tell him tonight and he'd forget by tomorrow, sadly:(

robertlouis
06-28-2011, 02:30 AM
First I'd have to get a best friend.

I'm never quite sure with you Yvonne. Hope you don't mean that - you've got good friends and supporters here anyway.

Ineeda SM
06-28-2011, 02:47 AM
First I'd have to get a best friend.

You don't have to tell your good friends. We already know.


And to answer the original question. Yes I told him, and he feels the same way.

onmyknees
06-28-2011, 03:16 AM
I never quite feel compelled to tell my friends anything about my behavior behind closed doors. I don't kiss and tell, and I don't share secrets. I prefer keeping it a mystery. I don't care to know their freak and mine is my business. I don't want dudes giving me details on their sexual habits and preferences with their wives or girlfriends. It's not something I need to know. I might smack a dude if he asked me...."so did you fuck her"? I find that completely disrespectful.

JackBeLittle
06-28-2011, 05:38 AM
I wear it loud and proud. It's usually how I introduce myself - Hi, I'm John Fleck, and I love transgendered women!

cronus83
06-28-2011, 05:43 AM
Friends and family know. They all get on fine with my lady.

moonman
06-28-2011, 06:04 AM
i would and i have... no reason 2 hide it... and there's no hiding my tg girlfriend

Nowhere
06-28-2011, 07:30 AM
Not in the mood to be put on the gay train, right now, so no.

An acquaintance of mine recently had slipped out that he was bi, and now everyone is expecting him to just start being a full-blown queen, lisp, hotpants and all - and believe anything less than that is denial. I really feel bad for the guy, since he's already being seen as damaged goods and completely undesirable by the same women that were into him like a month ago.

The whole "bi today, gay tomorrow" thing is completely and utterly believed by the majority of the gay and straight community for men these days, and being into anything but genetic women is a one-way ticket to the gay train. Sorry, all those even 100% open with it have to put up with this perception. Not for me, at least for the moment.

Of course, I'm giving less and less a sh*t about, well, everything, recently, so this could change at any point.

south ov da border
06-28-2011, 08:08 AM
yup...

Nivek
06-28-2011, 10:49 AM
In the mid 90s I told my best friend, took some shit about it but he was cool with it. I've known my best friend for decades, at this point I don't think anything surprises any of my friends at this point.

Prospero
06-28-2011, 11:28 AM
Can I be obtuse and say yes and no..... yes if the lady in question was my regular girlfriend or live-in partner. No if it were to admit I see escorts. But then I wouldn't admit to seeing any sort of escort to family and friends. And they've always met my GFs incuding a TS who I dated for a while.

dderek123
06-28-2011, 03:49 PM
I have. It was a big surprise. But it's not really a big deal, especially after everyone met my gf. The whole process actually made me feel more comfortable.

rockabilly
06-28-2011, 04:40 PM
My wife knows and is pretty cool w/ it ... She's open minded.

amberskyi
06-28-2011, 04:56 PM
My wife knows and is pretty cool w/ it ... She's open minded.

i thought you just broke up with your girlfriend???

CORVETTEDUDE
06-28-2011, 05:39 PM
I don't blatantly offer information or advice. However, if you don't want to hear the answer...don't ask me the question.

trish
06-28-2011, 05:42 PM
I'm fairly secretive by nature. There are many things my friends don't know about me; my attraction to transsexual ladies being one of them. People make jokes about me all the time that I'm either in the CIA or a very polite serial killer.Really? They use the word, "polite?" Now you're shittin' us. I'm guessing you['re] a very inscrutable, foul-mouthed cereal killer who never washes the dish and leaves just a centimeter of milk in the bottle for the next person. :)

CORVETTEDUDE
06-28-2011, 05:49 PM
I'm fairly secretive by nature. There are many things my friends don't know about me; my attraction to transsexual ladies being one of them. People make jokes about me all the time that I'm either in the CIA or a very polite serial killer.


I understand that TACO BELL has a "Wanted" poster up with Dino's picture on it!!!!

REWARD offered for information leading to the capture of "Garbonzo Bean Grabbin' Gringo"
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dderek123
06-28-2011, 05:57 PM
The whole "bi today, gay tomorrow" thing is completely and utterly believed by the majority of the gay and straight community for men these days, and being into anything but genetic women is a one-way ticket to the gay train. Sorry, all those even 100% open with it have to put up with this perception. Not for me, at least for the moment.

Of course, I'm giving less and less a sh*t about, well, everything, recently, so this could change at any point.
Yeah dealing with that "perception" really hasn't been as bad as I had anticipated. Before I thought my friends and family would be estranged from me and everyday my actions would be scrutinized and ridiculed. But it hasn't been like that at all. People just think I'm kind of weird.

The only thing that is awkward is when me and my partner are out together and someone else is uncomfortable with it. Most often they are polite about it but I can sense the awkwardness sometimes. But that's their problem so it doesn't bother me really.

rockabilly
06-30-2011, 01:49 AM
i thought you just broke up with your girlfriend???

i did then I met a girl at work and we hit it off quickly. We recently got married and things are good for me.

Birgitta
06-30-2011, 01:57 AM
Yeah dealing with that "perception" really hasn't been as bad as I had anticipated. Before I thought my friends and family would be estranged from me and everyday my actions would be scrutinized and ridiculed. But it hasn't been like that at all. People just think I'm kind of weird.

The only thing that is awkward is when me and my partner are out together and someone else is uncomfortable with it. Most often they are polite about it but I can sense the awkwardness sometimes. But that's their problem so it doesn't bother me really.

mostly the ones that do judge you, really only do so coz of their own insecurity's, for woman the fear of not being able to please or trust a partner thats bisexual for instance..and for men, insecurity about their masculinity and sexuality...

nonnonnon
06-30-2011, 05:04 AM
women are women

robertlouis
06-30-2011, 05:07 AM
women are women

No shit lol.

otherguy
06-30-2011, 05:36 AM
If asked I won't deny it, but I haven't been asked. I've been waiting to be busted for a decade...

Blank
06-30-2011, 05:40 AM
I wouldn't have to tell a friend unless by transsexual you mean crossdresser.

Pelheckitt
06-30-2011, 09:29 AM
Nobodys business execept mine.

amberskyi
06-30-2011, 03:27 PM
women are women

im loving you for this

amberskyi
06-30-2011, 03:28 PM
I wouldn't have to tell a friend unless by transsexual you mean crossdresser.

lmaaaoooooooooo!

ed_jaxon
06-30-2011, 04:36 PM
See here's the thing....most of my friends know I am the wildest one of the bunch so they would not be surprised by shit that I do. Lemme be real clear....interest in TG individuals is not wild and when stuck up fuckers keep their labels off of others its pretty normal.

maaarc
06-30-2011, 08:39 PM
I just told my best-est buddy Johnny Walker Blue about it and he's says it's Kool man - just don't ever try to mix me with cola again or the friendship is over ya cock sucker :(

ed_jaxon
06-30-2011, 08:47 PM
I just told my best-est buddy Johnny Walker Blue about it and he's says it's Kool man - just don't ever try to mix me with cola again or the friendship is over ya cock sucker :(


Callin someone a cola mixer is worse than callin them a cock sucker.

Jericho
06-30-2011, 09:07 PM
A Cola Mixer, them's fightin' werds! :ignore:

MrsKellyPierce
06-30-2011, 09:10 PM
I'll tell your best friend you are lol

Stoked
06-30-2011, 09:17 PM
Interesting that TS women live a life of ridicule and discrimination and so many of you "down low" tranny chasers dont have the balls to stand up for them, their lifestyle or your own sexual preferences.

The girls have bigger balls than you.

maaarc
06-30-2011, 09:23 PM
Callin someone a cola mixer is worse than callin them a cock sucker.

the worst part is he told all my other friends and family about it.:( I told them it was just one time - that I was just curious and that I hated it( I actually liked it ) that I was drunk and would never ever do it again - but I know deep down things will never be the same - to them I could never be a real man - I'm just a dirty little cola mixer panty waste pervert to them now :(:(:(