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Imakeiteazy
06-08-2011, 08:44 PM
Is it possible to be attracted TS women because of the femininity, and not be considered gay?

I understand that a lot of men are attracted to TS women because of the DICK.

FOr those of use who dont have that attraction..... and who see a TS as another female with a nice HOLE we can stick it in.... are we considered straight?

scroller
06-08-2011, 08:48 PM
In your case: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

loveboof
06-08-2011, 08:54 PM
I think if you're so worried about it then you probably are gay! Nobody needs someone else to tell them what their sexuality is...

flabbybody
06-08-2011, 10:26 PM
OMG !
AM I GAY thread # 8023.
make it stop

BellaBellucci
06-08-2011, 10:28 PM
It must suck being a self-hating homosexual.












Kidding! :dancing:

~BB~

Jackal
06-08-2011, 10:46 PM
Transwomen are women, so if you are honestly attracted to them and you are a guy, that means you are attracted to a different sex so you are either straight, bisexual, or pansexual. Get over the Maury Povich sensationalist attitude.

youshouldtrythislol
06-08-2011, 10:48 PM
Who cares if it means you are gay or not. You like what you like, thats what matters.

Birgitta
06-08-2011, 10:56 PM
Is it possible to be attracted TS women because of the femininity, and not be considered gay?

I understand that a lot of men are attracted to TS women because of the DICK.

FOr those of use who dont have that attraction..... and who see a TS as another female with a nice HOLE we can stick it in.... are we considered straight?

Dont let them brainwash you with their politically correct views...

You are one of the guys out there that like woman and femininity...which means one could consider you straight, or a flexible straight guy...(even open minded) !

For guys that like ts for their male parts and masculinity, both in character and sexuality, those guys are bisexual 2 gay, allthough a lot of men wont admit it to themselves...

They are also the guys that, unwillingly, create a stigma for straight guys and t girls that are not in any way part of the gay scene, not by nature or socially...

just like a lot of gay men sell themselves off as straight woman but continue topping guys and remain a 100% gay sexually, nothing wrong with it, but at least be honest about it...

But what more can you expect from a group of people who believe that gender is just a social construct and not a natural one..

mikelpo
06-08-2011, 11:19 PM
Tgirls are GIRLS and expect to be treated as such. We are attracted to them because they ARE feminine.

Mr. Pump
06-08-2011, 11:19 PM
The reason I like TS is because of the beautiful feminine bodies, I would never do a straight up dude. But, that's just me. Don't worry about what you should be categorized as, like what you want to like and go on about your life, and be happy about yourself...

xVICx411
06-09-2011, 12:14 AM
Believe me, this isn't the place to post stuff that you think is "personal".. Your just going to get shit on left, right, and center. The one thing I hate about this place.

And honestly, no! It doesn't make you gay! I dont give a shit what anyone says, because I feel the exact same way! People think that watching a TS makes you gay, but how does it? If im going to watch a TS fuck a female, its actually more straight than watching straight porn!
Id much rather watch that, rather than watch some hairy dude fuck someone!

Gay people are attracted to other males as a whole, not just the sexual organ!

Helvis2012
06-09-2011, 12:51 AM
Who gives a shit? Does it really make a difference?

Helvis2012
06-09-2011, 12:53 AM
Believe me, this isn't the place to post stuff that you think is "personal".. Your just going to get shit on left, right, and center. The one thing I hate about this place.

And honestly, no! It doesn't make you gay! I dont give a shit what anyone says, because I feel the exact same way! People think that watching a TS makes you gay, but how does it? If im going to watch a TS fuck a female, its actually more straight than watching straight porn!
Id much rather watch that, rather than watch some hairy dude fuck someone!

Gay people are attracted to other males as a whole, not just the sexual organ!


Sure.....if it makes you feel better. Hilarious!

xVICx411
06-09-2011, 12:59 AM
If it makes you feel better to be a disrespectful cunt, and try to down other people for your own personal satisfaction, then go right ahead. Hilarious!

Imakeiteazy
06-09-2011, 01:07 AM
Dont let them brainwash you with their politically correct views...

You are one of the guys out there that like woman and femininity...which means one could consider you straight, or a flexible straight guy...(even open minded) !

For guys that like ts for their male parts and masculinity, both in character and sexuality, those guys are bisexual 2 gay, allthough a lot of men wont admit it to themselves...

They are also the guys that, unwillingly, create a stigma for straight guys and t girls that are not in any way part of the gay scene, not by nature or socially...

just like a lot of gay men sell themselves off as straight woman but continue topping guys and remain a 100% gay sexually, nothing wrong with it, but at least be honest about it...

But what more can you expect from a group of people who believe that gender is just a social construct and not a natural one..

Thanks for the great reply. Very detailed.

Oh, and to everyone else....lets not get it confused, I'm comfortable with who I am and my likings. Just asking my fellow board members what I would be categorized under. I wouldn't be on this forum if I judged people based on gender or sexual preference.

One Love!

Helvis2012
06-09-2011, 01:19 AM
If it makes you feel better to be a disrespectful cunt, and try to down other people for your own personal satisfaction, then go right ahead. Hilarious!


Don't cry. When you say something funny, you have to expect people are going to laugh. No satisfaction involved; it is what it is: You like fantasizing about T-girls but claim you're not gay. That's funny. You should realize that.
Also, that angry response only displays your frustration. Just admit it. You won't be so bunched up.
Good luck with all that.

xVICx411
06-09-2011, 01:26 AM
Don't cry. When you say something funny, you have to expect people are going to laugh. No satisfaction involved; it is what it is: You like fantasizing about T-girls but claim you're not gay. That's funny. You should realize that.
Also, that angry response only displays your frustration. Just admit it. You won't be so bunched up.
Good luck with all that.

Once again, your wrong. Im not in the least bit frustrated lol Im very comfortable with my sexuality, so don't get your shit confused. The thing that pisses me off about responses like yours is simply the fact that nobody can share anything personal on this site without someone else making a big deal about it.
Im a firm believer in "if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all"

If someone says they aren't gay, then they aren't gay, plain and simple. So don't try to tell people they are. And no, im not just saying this towards you, I mean everyone in general.

That being said, people saying they aren't gay, doesn't mean they aren't curious. Like I said, im very comfortable with my sexuality. I know Im not gay, so I really couldn't care less what people say about me. I just really wish this place wasn't full of hate, and people could actually express their feelings without people shitting down their throat!

RaskiaLorenz
06-09-2011, 01:28 AM
Great reply Birgitta, I wish I had the a perfect English write to express myself better on forums. I've been watching your posts for a long time and I agree very much with the way you think about guys and the Ts world. keep going you are a very bright girl =) xx


Dont let them brainwash you with their politically correct views...

You are one of the guys out there that like woman and femininity...which means one could consider you straight, or a flexible straight guy...(even open minded) !

For guys that like ts for their male parts and masculinity, both in character and sexuality, those guys are bisexual 2 gay, allthough a lot of men wont admit it to themselves...

They are also the guys that, unwillingly, create a stigma for straight guys and t girls that are not in any way part of the gay scene, not by nature or socially...

just like a lot of gay men sell themselves off as straight woman but continue topping guys and remain a 100% gay sexually, nothing wrong with it, but at least be honest about it...

But what more can you expect from a group of people who believe that gender is just a social construct and not a natural one..

Ben
06-09-2011, 01:33 AM
Is it possible to be attracted TS women because of the femininity, and not be considered gay?

I understand that a lot of men are attracted to TS women because of the DICK.

FOr those of use who dont have that attraction..... and who see a TS as another female with a nice HOLE we can stick it in.... are we considered straight?

Whether or not one is gay for being attracted to shemales is seemingly endless. It's repeated ad nauseaum on this site.
I really don't think it matters. As it brings up the idea that there is something wrong with being gay -- or: Oh, my God! I can't be gay. Well, why not? What's wrong with being gay.
A very big part of the attraction, as it were, is, well, the dick -- :) ha! ha! And, well, is it more acceptable to say: one is BISEXUAL....

RaskiaLorenz
06-09-2011, 01:33 AM
There a LOT of guys out there like you, which they are not attracted to cock at all, but a feminine beautiful TS. My boyfriend, we been together for 3 years and he never touched or sucked my cock, and I did try to make him do it, but he is not into it. OF COURSE THEY ARE NOT GAY LOL!! gays like masculinity not a feminine girl with long her and boobs. Now totally passive, submissive man who see just a cock instead of a TS girl in a whole, then sorry I think they are gay.

Helvis2012
06-09-2011, 01:52 AM
Once again, your wrong. Im not in the least bit frustrated lol Im very comfortable with my sexuality, so don't get your shit confused. The thing that pisses me off about responses like yours is simply the fact that nobody can share anything personal on this site without someone else making a big deal about it.
Im a firm believer in "if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all"

If someone says they aren't gay, then they aren't gay, plain and simple. So don't try to tell people they are. And no, im not just saying this towards you, I mean everyone in general.

That being said, people saying they aren't gay, doesn't mean they aren't curious. Like I said, im very comfortable with my sexuality. I know Im not gay, so I really couldn't care less what people say about me. I just really wish this place wasn't full of hate, and people could actually express their feelings without people shitting down their throat!


You don't seem very comfortable with your sexuality, otherwise, you wouldn't protest to this degree. The bigger the deal you make, the more obvious it is, but hey, I don't really care either way.

Have it your way: you're into T-girls but you're straight. :whistle:

Birgitta
06-09-2011, 02:05 AM
There a LOT of guys out there like you, which they are not attracted to cock at all, but a feminine beautiful TS. My boyfriend, we been together for 3 years and he never touched or sucked my cock, and I did try to make him do it, but he is not into it. OF COURSE THEY ARE NOT GAY LOL!! gays like masculinity not a feminine girl with long her and boobs. Now totally passive, submissive man who see just a cock instead of a TS girl in a whole, then sorry I think they are gay.

Exactly.

And i just defend my life from my perspective as a transgirl and for me i feel bad that guys that date me, or me being ts, means that we have to deal with stigma, i can deal with it, but i feel bad for guys that like a t girl and are expected to be gay in anyway. When they are not.

But the t community and tgirls in general present themselves as males or at least masculine to the outside world which means true social acceptence for tgirls being actual woman in general will never happen, only in your own social life but the moment someone notices you are a ts, you are dealing with this unpleasent stigma, and also the people around you, like lovers, will have to deal with it...

traumatism
06-09-2011, 02:16 AM
i agree with what a few of the people on here are saying. does it matter?

i like tg and gg. i'd honestly say i'd top and bottom for one. does that make me gay. not in my eyes. do i care what others think it makes me? do i fuck. its my life and no one elses. people know me for me and appreciate me for me so what does it matter. the same should be said for you

amberskyi
06-09-2011, 02:22 AM
i hate when a client asks me this question.i always give him the option of the fantasy answer or the real one lol

SunshyneMonroe
06-09-2011, 02:23 AM
suck my cock and find out?

Yvonne183
06-09-2011, 02:23 AM
I'm attracted to my lawn mower, does that make me a "weed head"?


As long as there are labels there will be people wanting to know where they belong on the label spectrum. The sad part comes when others place a label on someone when they don't want that label pinned to them.

It's OK to want to be called gay, some people want to be called gay, it's OK to be called shemale, some want to be called shemale and so on and so on. It's when someone tells another what they are that causes the problems.

My label, I am a gay, transvesti, shemale, goth, punk, aryan, swamp thing, skater, cajun, psycho, basket case, French, rude girl,, just don't call me Bruce.

traumatism
06-09-2011, 02:26 AM
i hate when a client asks me this question.i always give him the option of the fantasy answer or the real one lol

just tell em shut up and take it! ;-)

i think too may people just think its wrong cuz its not "normal" or politically correct or whatever. if youre happy with yourself then why should it matter. if people judge you on your preference then its their problem not yours. way too many people are closed minded and cant accept whats different, i know this from experience in other areas.

traumatism
06-09-2011, 02:27 AM
My label, I am a gay, transvesti, shemale, goth, punk, aryan, swamp thing, skater, cajun, psycho, basket case, French, rude girl,, just don't call me Bruce.

who cares, from your profile pic on here you are rather gorgeous!!

Ineeda SM
06-09-2011, 02:30 AM
When you decide to put yourself into a category, you set yourself up for a standard to live by. You see what you want to see. Some see TG as men who dress like women, and others like me, see TG as any other beautiful intelligent woman, but with a bonus.

Straight, Gay, Bi, Trans,....it's all good but they are just silly labels. As a general society, we have always put too much into the label as if we have to live the lifestyle that the label makes us. If you are gay, you think everyone sees nothing but a gay guy. It's a stupid stereotype that has been forced on us by a narrow minded society who's ego needs to be better than someone else. It's the 21st century for fucking sakes, and time to grow out of the labels. Whether you like tits, asses, cocks, or pussies,...good for you. Let's just get our fun parts together for a test drive, and enjoy the fucking ride. Just be happy being a homosapien.

Yvonne183
06-09-2011, 02:30 AM
who cares, from your profile pic on here you are rather gorgeous!!


You're right,,, I don't even care about my labels, but I need them if I want to find a forum on the net. I wouldn't have found this forum if it wasn't for the label shemale. Same with the label goth, I couldn't find goth stuff if people didn't use that label but I still didn't find any aryan sites, don't really want to, just a joke,, eh?


Anyways, thanks Trauma

loveboof
06-09-2011, 04:33 AM
suck my cock and find out?
lol. Best response!

Jackal
06-09-2011, 04:51 AM
btw, who isnt attracted to the feminine features? Why wouldnt one be? Look at hazel Tucker for instance, I saw her earlier in a vid and cannot imagine myself not finding her extremely attractive. Of course it is b/c she is cute, sexy and feminine...what else would it be? her feet? her non-existent maleness or masculinity?

traumatism
06-09-2011, 05:02 AM
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You're right,,, I don't even care about my labels, but I need them if I want to find a forum on the net. I wouldn't have found this forum if it wasn't for the label shemale. Same with the label goth, I couldn't find goth stuff if people didn't use that label but I still didn't find any aryan sites, don't really want to, just a joke,, eh?<br /> <br /> <br /> Anyways, thanks Trauma<br /> <br />A Beautiful lady like you is more than welcome. im into the rock scene myself and im rather partial to the gothic look on gals. i understand what you mean about labels. they do come in handy for the reasons you stated. just a shame people use them in a negative manner. however it will get to a point where the label becomes harmless itself as it gets over used and is just forgotten as an insult. i used to get called 'goth' and 'greebo' and all sorts when i was out with friends. i found it funny as me and my mates would purposely shout it at each other too.

robertlouis
06-09-2011, 05:27 AM
btw, who isnt attracted to the feminine features? Why wouldnt one be? Look at hazel Tucker for instance, I saw her earlier in a vid and cannot imagine myself not finding her extremely attractive. Of course it is b/c she is cute, sexy and feminine...what else would it be? her feet? her non-existent maleness or masculinity?

:iagree::iagree::iagree:. Hazel is an excellent example - as is Celeste. Who could ever look at either of these girls and not be attracted primarily by their femininity?

I like gg's and feminine tgirls. Does that make me "gay"? :deadhorse

I couldn't give a damn either way. But I know what I like and I'm very comfortable with it.

Imakeiteazy
06-09-2011, 05:46 AM
Thanks everyone for your response. I enjoy having these thoughtful discussions!!

yodajazz
06-09-2011, 09:09 AM
I'm attracted to my lawn mower, does that make me a "weed head"?


As long as there are labels there will be people wanting to know where they belong on the label spectrum. The sad part comes when others place a label on someone when they don't want that label pinned to them.

It's OK to want to be called gay, some people want to be called gay, it's OK to be called shemale, some want to be called shemale and so on and so on. It's when someone tells another what they are that causes the problems.

My label, I am a gay, transvesti, shemale, goth, punk, aryan, swamp thing, skater, cajun, psycho, basket case, French, rude girl,, just don't call me Bruce.

You raise a major important point: The right to self indentify. I find it ridiculous that someone would point to what I see as a very sexy woman, and say, "that's a man". And meanwihile that sexy woman is calling a man 'gay' that is attracted to her. Let people define themselves.

robertlouis
06-10-2011, 12:00 PM
Thanks everyone for your response. I enjoy having these thoughtful discussions!!

Do I detect a slight tongue in cheek inflection here?

You naughty boy! :)

joeym75ld
06-10-2011, 03:16 PM
Is it possible to be attracted TS women because of the femininity, and not be considered gay?

I understand that a lot of men are attracted to TS women because of the DICK.

FOr those of use who dont have that attraction..... and who see a TS as another female with a nice HOLE we can stick it in.... are we considered straight?
If you were attracted to the femininity, you would be with a REAL FEMALE.

You are bi. Deal with it.

loveboof
06-10-2011, 03:32 PM
If you were attracted to the femininity, you would be with a REAL FEMALE.

You are bi. Deal with it.
Maybe he already is with a 'real female', and t-girls are just a fantasy for him...

And bi-sexual means you are attracted to both men and women, not women and 'men who look like women'. These terms are insufficient for what we're talking about!

Norma
06-10-2011, 05:08 PM
If you were attracted to the femininity, you would be with a REAL FEMALE.

You are bi. Deal with it.

Why Is he Bi for being attracted to WOMEN?

seriously, you guys need to grow the fuck up and get rid of your schoolyard labels.

CORVETTEDUDE
06-10-2011, 05:12 PM
Who knew it would come to this???!!!:whistle:

Jackal
06-10-2011, 07:08 PM
If you were attracted to the femininity, you would be with a REAL FEMALE.

You are bi. Deal with it.

arghhh, trolls like you are so ignorant. Tgirls are females. He is bi if he finds both men and women attractive. Otherwise, he is straight. Get it?

joeym75ld
06-10-2011, 07:19 PM
arghhh, trolls like you are so ignorant. Tgirls are females. He is bi if he finds both men and women attractive. Otherwise, he is straight. Get it?

Haha, since when do "straight" guys fuck other dudes in the ass, with their ballsacks slapping together? You know what they say about the ballsacks touching!

BellaBellucci
06-10-2011, 07:57 PM
Haha, since when do "straight" guys fuck other dudes in the ass, with their ballsacks slapping together? You know what they say about the ballsacks touching!

You disgust me. :yayo:

~BB~

Nivek
06-10-2011, 08:20 PM
If she's hot, I don't care what she's got! Unless it's the cooties.

FreddieGomez
06-10-2011, 09:11 PM
i thought a dick and nuts was considered feminine body parts?

alyssaluxor
06-11-2011, 12:01 AM
Is it possible to be attracted TS women because of the femininity, and not be considered gay?

I understand that a lot of men are attracted to TS women because of the DICK.

FOr those of use who dont have that attraction..... and who see a TS as another female with a nice HOLE we can stick it in.... are we considered straight?

very good points and kinda agree with you

also i could relate to Raskia and Birgitta ;)

in my everyday life whenever i go to malls, grocery, clubbing, parties usually guys would approach and they didnt know that im a TS girl but once they find out most still would go for it not because i have a COCK but because they find me 100% look like a girl and not just that but also pretty ;)

in my country many straight guys would like to have sex with TS girls but not because they have COCK but because they are very very feminine and beautiful :)

amberskyi
06-11-2011, 12:34 AM
if it wasnt about the dick than you wouldnt be into us.every trait that we may posse you can also find in a genetic girl but one...A COCK.
stop lying to yourselves guys.there is nothing wrong with liking alittle dick..i know i love mines lol

fred41
06-11-2011, 01:04 AM
There a LOT of guys out there like you, which they are not attracted to cock at all, but a feminine beautiful TS. My boyfriend, we been together for 3 years and he never touched or sucked my cock, and I did try to make him do it, but he is not into it. OF COURSE THEY ARE NOT GAY LOL!! gays like masculinity not a feminine girl with long her and boobs. Now totally passive, submissive man who see just a cock instead of a TS girl in a whole, then sorry I think they are gay.

I know there are people who are going to disagree with me on this...but I honestly believe that if you're with a guy for three years and he won't even touch it...then he has some issues to contend with also.

If I'm in love with someone...I'm going to touch them EVERYWHERE at some point in time, regardless of my sexuality.

Jackal
06-11-2011, 01:14 AM
if it wasnt about the dick than you wouldnt be in to us.every trait that we may posses you can also find in a genetic gir but one...A COCK.
stop lying to yourselves guys.there is nothing wrong with liking alittle dick..i know i love mines lol

I'm not going to lie and say I won't play with her dick if I am with a pre-or non-op transsexual, but when I first found myself attracted to transsexual women as a teen it was not because of dick but because they were sexy women. Heck, when I first saw a transsexual on television, I found her attractive for the same reason I find attractive GG's hot. At first, I even sought only post-op but then I realized with or without cock, many transsexual women were really hot to me. Now, I am very open minded regarding attraction and consider myself pansexual and versatile(if it comes to that). I dont think all transattractive guys feel that the only reason they are attracted is due to cock, it certainly is so with me.

fred41
06-11-2011, 01:18 AM
It seems that guys have different ways of dealing with the perception of being gay.

Most people that are comfortable with themselves don't care so much what they are perceived to be sexually. They like what they like...and if it falls outside the normal realm into a gray area they don't torture themselves over what they are...they're just happy to recognize something that they like and just "go with it".

Other guys are horrified at the mere thought of even being considered gay...as if it's some sort of leprosy.

I guess it just shows that we still have a long way to go in life as far as enlightenment goes.

nonnonnon
06-11-2011, 01:31 AM
well it's been discussed quite a bit already

phobun
06-11-2011, 06:03 AM
If someone says they aren't gay, then they aren't gay, plain and simple.


Comedy Gold!!!

phobun
06-11-2011, 06:05 AM
i hate when a client asks me this question.i always give him the option of the fantasy answer or the real one lol


In your opinion, what is the real answer?

phobun
06-11-2011, 06:07 AM
haha, since when do "straight" guys fuck other dudes in the ass, with their ballsacks slapping together? You know what they say about the ballsacks touching!


lol!

phobun
06-11-2011, 06:08 AM
i thought a dick and nuts was considered feminine body parts?


That is true in the alternate universe known as HA forum.

dreamon
06-11-2011, 06:45 AM
lol this thread again

giovanni_hotel
06-11-2011, 01:48 PM
suck my cock and find out?


LOL!!

SOme dudes love trannies. Some don't. Work that shit out for yourself, and yes some ignorant folks will call you out as a faggot for your attraction, so get used to it.

Sexuality is sooo personal, IMO it's wrong to try to generalize that we should all view our love of Tgirls the same way anyway.

What attracts me to GGs is the same thing that attracts me to trans-chicks, that's why if a TG doesn't have a smooth face/skin and is outwardly feminine, there's no arousal.

Of course her 'hard candy' plays into the equation, at least for me it does, but unattached cock pics don't turn me on, same as asshole shots where I can't see the owner.

IMO most tranny-loving guys start off with thinking, 'damn this girl is HOTT, but...??!!', and they learn over time to adjust to her different parts.

Now everything is completely normal, as it should be.:salad

LibertyHarkness
06-11-2011, 02:39 PM
can i just chime in with i actually like that feeling when 2 ballsacks crash into each other ... not to hard crashing mind as my nuts are sensitive and to much of a sudden death blow can double me over and make me puke ..

Its as i try to keep telling everyone its only GAY SEX if you push back .. otherwise its hetro all the way ....... wink wink :)

LibertyHarkness
06-11-2011, 02:41 PM
Originally Posted by joeym75ld http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/images/ca_serenity/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?p=948510#post948510) haha, since when do "straight" guys fuck other dudes in the ass, with their ballsacks slapping together? You know what they say about the ballsacks touching!


lol! __________________


Ok so what happens if the other person has no balls? :castrated etc :) does it void that statement :)

loveboof
06-11-2011, 03:11 PM
I think it's better to view sexuality as more of a spectrum anyway. Not just gay, straight or bi, but many various shades in between...

Personally I'm only really attracted to super feminine t-girls, but I'm not all the way in the 'straight' because I know about (and like) their cocks. Does that make me bi? - no. I don't find men attractive at all (not even those fem boys who have a thread on here somewhere).

But does any of this matter? no. Who cares as long as you're comfortable with yourself...

scroller
06-11-2011, 05:41 PM
can i just chime in with i actually like that feeling when 2 ballsacks crash into each other ... not to hard crashing mind as my nuts are sensitive and to much of a sudden death blow can double me over and make me puke ..

Its as i try to keep telling everyone its only GAY SEX if you push back .. otherwise its hetro all the way ....... wink wink :)

Rockin'