Top bttm versa? Do you like hung or average?

[Birgitta]

Probably done a thousand times so i changed it a bit...

this is a poll for the guys
What do tops like? What do bttms prefer etc...


Sorry could not include versatile in the poll, not enough poll options were available for this

[south ov da border]

vers, size doesn't matter...

[Ineeda SM]

Probably done a thousand times so i changed it a bit...

this is a poll for the guys
What do tops like? What do bttms prefer etc...


Sorry could not include versatile in the poll, not enough poll options were available for this

I couldn't vote because my catagory is not listed.

''Likes bottom and top" average sized is great.

[theone1982]

I'm mostly a top, I don't care what size she is.:wiggle:

[reissit]

Probably done a thousand times so i changed it a bit...

this is a poll for the guys
What do tops like? What do bttms prefer etc...


Sorry could not include versatile in the poll, not enough poll options were available for this

Your correct this has kind of been done many times, guess you must have been bored and not sure why anybody would be at all interested in the result of the poll. Here goes all the power bottoms giving it the bigger the better quotes.

[blckhaze]

vers top, doesnt matter much but you can be too big.

[Birgitta]

Thank you guys i find the poll results very interesting so far...i am fascinated with the psychology behind this

Seems like the tops in general like to be the biggest bigger and more masculine then their tgirlfriends, while most bttms like their girls hung...i wonder if that is due to fantasy or real life experience, im a bttm but dont like hung guys, big is not always better...:)

[Prospero]

Can't vote in this because I am neither a top nor a bottom. i like both. But beyond that - I actually don't generally care about the cock size - mine or hers. (though too large is... well too large) It's the whole package that matters and what we'd both like to get up. Sorry not to be easy to fit into your categories. Does the fact I like to bottom at all make me a "powerbottom" - whatever that actually means" i know that, in Birgitta's view, any interest by men in girls' cocks makes them gay. I don't care about the labels really ether.

[Birgitta]

Can't vote in this because I am neither a top nor a bottom. i like both. But beyond that - I actually don't generally care about the cock size - mine or hers. (though too large is... well too large) It's the whole package that matters and what we'd both like to get up. Sorry not to be easy to fit into your categories. Does the fact I like to bottom at all make me a "powerbottom" - whatever that actually means" i know that, in Birgitta's view, any interest by men in girls' cocks makes them gay. I don't care about the labels really ether.

Hi!

Ok for me on an emotional level, a guy that likes
To bttm for me is gay
A guy that has a special interest in giving me head is gay too lol
A guy that is not bothered with my genitals but has no special interest for them, still would give head, is bisexual
A guy that is not interested in my private parts but is also not bothered by them, straight
Etc etc

I like the bisexual and straight guys in this list
This is true in my reality, of course its no absolute truth lol

[Quiet Reflections]

I'm a top and I don't care how big her penis is. If I'm dating a girl long term and shes transitioning ideally it won't be there long anyway.

[onmyknees]

I always find these mind sets and terms curious and a little to rigid for my liking.......("tops, bottoms...power bottoms")It reminds me of the way many try to seperate racial groups...black, white, Itilian, Latino etc....We know that very few people have pure racial or ethnic heritage....I don't want to make this into a political discussion,( I never mix sex and politics) but it seems to me we're comfortable when we can put a person into a category...for example The President. No one would argue including him that he's black...but he's actually only half black...probably less than that. I suppose it's human nature to want to group people, we do it constanly here on HA.....My larger point is, to my way of thinking....if one is not adaptable in life, and that includes the bedroom, one tends to miss opportunities. I never felt sex ( or people) could or should be pigeon holed into categories, although I realize it's convenient for many. Shouldn't the dynamics of an encounter be left to reveal themselves during the course of that encounter? For example...I've never said on the way into the bedroom..."I'm gonna top this bitch" .........that does in fact happen, but it's never predetermined.
Wouldn't a better more revealing question be to these dudes who only top be...what happens when you meet your match and find yourself in a situation with a woman is not going to allow herself to be topped? Let's take one of my fave ladies on here...Natasha...an obvious dominant personality. I think if you're planning on topping her...I think you're planning on failure ! LOL
For me...I'd much rather allow the mood and the personalities and the proclivities reveal themselves as the encounter unfolds, that provides much greater excitement and mystery....but I understand the machismo associated with some dudes who find it necessary to say they only top.

[Birgitta]

I always find these mind sets and terms curious and a little to rigid for my liking.......("tops, bottoms...power bottoms")It reminds me of the way many try to seperate racial groups...black, white, Itilian, Latino etc....We know that very few people have pure racial or ethnic heritage....I don't want to make this into a political discussion,( I never mix sex and politics) but it seems to me we're comfortable when we can put a person into a category...for example The President. No one would argue including him that he's black...but he's actually only half black...probably less than that. I suppose it's human nature to want to group people, we do it constanly here on HA.....My larger point is, to my way of thinking....if one is not adaptable in life, and that includes the bedroom, one tends to miss opportunities. I never felt sex ( or people) could or should be pigeon holed into categories, although I realize it's convenient for many. Shouldn't the dynamics of an encounter be left to reveal themselves during the course of that encounter? For example...I've never said on the way into the bedroom..."I'm gonna top this bitch" .........that does in fact happen, but it's never predetermined.
Wouldn't a better more revealing question be to these dudes who only top be...what happens when you meet your match and find yourself in a situation with a woman is not going to allow herself to be topped? Let's take one of my fave ladies on here...Natasha...an obvious dominant personality. I think if you're planning on topping her...I think you're planning on failure ! LOL
For me...I'd much rather allow the mood and the personalities and the proclivities reveal themselves as the encounter unfolds, that provides much greater excitement and mystery....but I understand the machismo associated with some dudes who find it necessary to say they only top.

Ok ill say something silly now,
I know the word "top" has multiple meanings,
I call myself bttm but that does not mean im always passive or
Submissive, i can be active, perhaps even dominant at times, but
That does not mean i will top a guy...

Its a bit silly to tell me im trying to fit people in to category"s, while
The fact that i am a ts (a category) is why some people show interest in me,
Its not always that they love me coz im a woman....then it would be way more
Easy to know what my partners interest is....because i am a ts i have to
Draw the line somewhere...

And i believe straight guys are not interested in dick or being topped,
Ask any gg and she would agree, ask any gay man and he would too..

Its not like i want to be seen as a woman so much that i allow myself to
Become irrational and let guys use me falsely for their identification as straight men

[mikelpo]

I'm a top but I'd like something to play with suck on etc.

[Quiet Reflections]

I always find these mind sets and terms curious and a little to rigid for my liking.......("tops, bottoms...power bottoms")It reminds me of the way many try to seperate racial groups...black, white, Itilian, Latino etc....We know that very few people have pure racial or ethnic heritage....I don't want to make this into a political discussion,( I never mix sex and politics) but it seems to me we're comfortable when we can put a person into a category...for example The President. No one would argue including him that he's black...but he's actually only half black...probably less than that. I suppose it's human nature to want to group people, we do it constanly here on HA.....My larger point is, to my way of thinking....if one is not adaptable in life, and that includes the bedroom, one tends to miss opportunities. I never felt sex ( or people) could or should be pigeon holed into categories, although I realize it's convenient for many. Shouldn't the dynamics of an encounter be left to reveal themselves during the course of that encounter? For example...I've never said on the way into the bedroom..."I'm gonna top this bitch" .........that does in fact happen, but it's never predetermined.
Wouldn't a better more revealing question be to these dudes who only top be...what happens when you meet your match and find yourself in a situation with a woman is not going to allow herself to be topped? Let's take one of my fave ladies on here...Natasha...an obvious dominant personality. I think if you're planning on topping her...I think you're planning on failure ! LOL
For me...I'd much rather allow the mood and the personalities and the proclivities reveal themselves as the encounter unfolds, that provides much greater excitement and mystery....but I understand the machismo associated with some dudes who find it necessary to say they only top.
I get what your saying but I say I'm only top because I don't like bottoming and its just not an option for me. I simply don't enjoy the feeling. If I was to meet a girl such as Natasha, while she is attractive It would never get that far because we are never going to bend over for each other. Following the mood is a great plan but a hard limit is a hard limit. Being macho might be the issue for some but you must realize that some people just don't enjoy it

[Richctdude]

vers size doesnt matter

[payload4]

I top but I don't care what size she is as long as she is a strict bottom...I like it to be long just so that I can feel it while she is riding me

[Birgitta]

I top but I don't care what size she is as long as she is a strict bottom...I like it to be long just so that I can feel it while she is riding me

Purrrr ;)

[Instrumental]

either way and I prefer hung. Not to say I'm against smaller sizes though.

[moonman]

i prefer a bottom, size isn't a factor but if she is hung i guess its a bonus...

[jamesedwards]

Ok ill say something silly now,
I know the word "top" has multiple meanings,
I call myself bttm but that does not mean im always passive or
Submissive, i can be active, perhaps even dominant at times, but
That does not mean i will top a guy...

Its a bit silly to tell me im trying to fit people in to category"s, while
The fact that i am a ts (a category) is why some people show interest in me,
Its not always that they love me coz im a woman....then it would be way more
Easy to know what my partners interest is....because i am a ts i have to
Draw the line somewhere...

And i believe straight guys are not interested in dick or being topped,
Ask any gg and she would agree, ask any gay man and he would too..

Its not like i want to be seen as a woman so much that i allow myself to
Become irrational and let guys use me falsely for their identification as straight men

THEN YOU'RE GAY TOO! You take it in the ass and you have a cock right? I mean what's good for the goose is good for the gander! Anal penetration has been done for years, massaging and getting it milked the Gspot Is not gay. If what you call a STRAIGHT man is fucking you in your ass and you have a cock then he is gay, by your terms. So what he don't like a dick, then he might as well get with a GG, she can give him pussy and ass! You are classifying people and you're not even thinking about what you're saying.