Saying hello to an escort?

[tao1kiku]

If you ahd at one time enjoyed some time with a TS escort, no problem, time went well, everyone had fun) and saw her about 6 months later in a social situation (bar, party, whatever), would you, should you go up and say hi?

Had that recently at my bar, saw someone I had a wonderful time with, she came in, gave me a big smile (but not one of recognititon).

[fred41]

If you ahd at one time enjoyed some time with a TS escort, no problem, time went well, everyone had fun) and saw her about 6 months later in a social situation (bar, party, whatever), would you, should you go up and say hi?

Had that recently at my bar, saw someone I had a wonderful time with, she came in, gave me a big smile (but not one of recognititon).

I can only speak to a specific social situation (assuming this is NOT at a TS party bar):

If she is with a man (or a group of people that could be friends or family)...leave her alone. Many girls have BFs who know what they do for a living, but private time is private time (and family time is family time).

[Willie Escalade]

If I see someone I know, I usually acknowledge them. Just because I know them doesn't mean I have to let everyone know HOW I know them. I live in a big city; I could have seen them at McDonalds or something...

[Infern0]

If I see someone I know, I usually acknowledge them. Just because I know them doesn't mean I have to let everyone know HOW I know them. I live in a big city; I could have seen them at McDonalds or something...

you say hello to people you saw at McDonalds? http://www.eastsideboxing.com/forum/images/smilies/eusa_think.gif

[Dino Velvet]

I ran into one of my China Ladies at the Culver Center. It was awkward so I started staring at her little daughter which made her quickly retreat back to Rub & Tug Village.

[amberskyi]

thats a no-no.respect her privacy just like you would want your privacy respected

[Jackal]

I'd let her take the lead because some escorts request discretion from their clients. If she recognizes you and gestures, I'd say hi back. She might not even remember you but maybe if you are a regular she might want to shoot the shit, IDK. There are X amount of escorts out there with X amount of preferences and personalities, so just go by her lead.

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Why would you say hello?

You pay for your discretion right?

I would say that it is more of a 'no-no' for the escort to say hello to you!

You pay the escort to have sex with her and then you leave. The whole point of using an escort is so you can have no strings sex with complete discretion. Why would you want to ruin your own discretion and say hello to the transexual escort in public?

If you want to say hello to someone you know in public, take a girl (m2f) out on a date, have a sexual relationship with her/be friends etc, then you spend time with her in public. But this girl was just being professional by ignoring you. You were her client and you paid for her time and discretion, so she respected that and she ignored you.

She could have said something to you and meanwhile (as plenty of transexual sex workers clients are married men) for all she knows, your wife could have been behind you and seen her talk to you.

Then what happens when your wife says 'why was that tranny talking to you, tell it to fuck off' (or something disrespectful like that).

She was keeping her end of the bargain, you paid to fuck her and leave with complete discretion, very professional sex worker on her part.

[tsdvdman]

Why would you say hello?

You pay for your discretion right?

I would say that it is more of a 'no-no' for the escort to say hello to you!

You pay the escort to have sex with her and then you leave. The whole point of using an escort is so you can have no strings sex with complete discretion. Why would you want to ruin your own discretion and say hello to the transexual escort in public?

If you want to say hello to someone you know in public, take a girl (m2f) out on a date, have a sexual relationship with her/be friends etc, then you spend time with her in public. But this girl was just being professional by ignoring you. You were her client and you paid for her time and discretion, so she respected that and she ignored you.

She could have said something to you and meanwhile (as plenty of transexual sex workers clients are married men) for all she knows, your wife could have been behind you and seen her talk to you.

Then what happens when your wife says 'why was that tranny talking to you, tell it to fuck off' (or something disrespectful like that).

She was keeping her end of the bargain, you paid to fuck her and leave with complete discretion, very professional sex worker on her part.
Thank You. Finally a comment with some common sense and taking into consideration that some people have lives (outside of escorts, trannies etc) and the respect/discretion aspect goes both ways. No pun intended..lol

[fred41]

Why would you say hello?

You pay for your discretion right?

I would say that it is more of a 'no-no' for the escort to say hello to you!

You pay the escort to have sex with her and then you leave. The whole point of using an escort is so you can have no strings sex with complete discretion. Why would you want to ruin your own discretion and say hello to the transexual escort in public?

If you want to say hello to someone you know in public, take a girl (m2f) out on a date, have a sexual relationship with her/be friends etc, then you spend time with her in public. But this girl was just being professional by ignoring you. You were her client and you paid for her time and discretion, so she respected that and she ignored you.

She could have said something to you and meanwhile (as plenty of transexual sex workers clients are married men) for all she knows, your wife could have been behind you and seen her talk to you.

Then what happens when your wife says 'why was that tranny talking to you, tell it to fuck off' (or something disrespectful like that).

She was keeping her end of the bargain, you paid to fuck her and leave with complete discretion, very professional sex worker on her part.

Excellent answer...if you weren't paying her for discretion...then why were you paying her?

[Infern0]

Excellent answer...if you weren't paying her for discretion...then why were you paying her?

it could be he doesnt care about anyone finding out he pays for sex!!!!!!!

[Tom_36_MD]

you say hello to people you saw at mcdonalds


hahahaha

[fred41]

it could be he doesnt care about anyone finding out he pays for sex!!!!!!!

That may well be true...but it completely misses the point...

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

it could be he doesnt care about anyone finding out he pays for sex!!!!!!!

This could be true, but as fred already wrote, missing the point.

The point of hiring a sex worker (of any kind) male, female or transexual.

(Once we beat around the bush and accept what it really is, instead of 'paying for my time and anything that happens in the time is between two consenting adults' etc etc).

The client pays for some form of sexual stimulation and for complete discretion and privacy (this is how a professional sex worker acts).

Any sex worker who is blabbing on about sleeping with such or sleeping with so, is clearly not a professional person.

Men go to see escorts for two reasons.

1. They are unfortunate enough that they can not get sex elsewhere.

2. They want to have sex with zero strings attached and want complete discretion in full confidence.

The men on this forum are not necessarily a good indication of 'sex worker users'.

There are busy married men who also share certain fetish's for transexuals and they want to pay their 200 to see a good escort, safe in the knowledge that what goes on in the room, stays in the room and no one talks about it.

A professional escort will not start talking to clients outside her work, unless there is mutual agreement in order to talk.

There are cases that a married man with family who has hired a transexual escort who he sees quite regularly, she then ends up falling for him and a 'less professional' link develops. Then he decides to actually start up a full on affair with his wife and even leave his wife and kids for the transexual sex worker because they fall in love together. These type of things happen. Not just with transexual escorts but male, female as well of course.

With a professional escort, you pay for her time and you pay for complete discression.

If you want to interact socially with a transexual, quite simply start dating one as a regular girlfriend.

There are a few male to female transexuals who are very attractive and passable and are not envolved with the sex industry or adult industry. Those who lead completely normal lives. Studied hard at school and college/university and have regular well paid jobs.

Goldman sacks investment bankers have a specific code of equal rights and anti discrimination to any transexual workers within their company. As do many other high profile companies. The difference is that you wouldnt know these people are transexual unless you bumped into them or worked with them and had a hunch. They will just work as a regular woman and live the life of a regular straight woman in a well paid profession, not interested in the whole niche of tranny porn.

Most of the time, these transexuals will go post op as well.

If you want to socialise with transexuals then interact in a public place with non sex workers.

If you want fantasy fullfillment, then use an escort. But a professional escort of any kind will ensure full discretion as it comes as part of the service. That is what you are paying for.

[Prospero]

Be sensible. Be discreet. And think. If you're on the street and she is alone for sure perhaps say hello. if she's with friends assume she doesn't want to know you unless she breaks the ice. As someone says - private time is private. Same rule would apply with an escort. And vice versa. Do you want HER to greet you if you're out with your wife, GF or whatever.
And as someone else said you're aren't trying to be this girl's friend. You paid her to have sex. Mutual discretion is the perfect default position.

[LittleGuy]

Don't say anything at all. She didn't have sex with you because she likes you. You paid her for her service.

[Equalizer]

If you ahd at one time enjoyed some time with a TS escort, no problem, time went well, everyone had fun) and saw her about 6 months later in a social situation (bar, party, whatever), would you, should you go up and say hi?

Had that recently at my bar, saw someone I had a wonderful time with, she came in, gave me a big smile (but not one of recognititon).

no buisness is buisness, shes a provider, not your friend

[Willie Escalade]

you say hello to people you saw at McDonalds? http://www.eastsideboxing.com/forum/images/smilies/eusa_think.gif


hahahaha
Yeah, and?

[youshouldtrythislol]

I dont have any experience with this issue, but i would probably acknowledge her with a smile or something, and if she wanted to talk, she could, or if she wanted to ignore it, thats fine too. as others have said, its about discretion. there is no reason one cant be civil though.

[kensterling]

I have been a male escort for many years. A smile and a "how are you" and keep moving work very well. No one can begrudge that. We don't remember everybody, but we do know when someone looks at us like that, we probably have been with them or they have seen our pics.
They can always tell us how they saw us on our next session.

[BLKGSXR]

If I see someone I know, I usually acknowledge them. Just because I know them doesn't mean I have to let everyone know HOW I know them. I live in a big city; I could have seen them at McDonalds or something...
Willie you do this....Yasmins here? FUCK YES! Runs over waits HEY YASMIN lol lmfao... :p I wait to see whos here and hug the fuck outta them :p:whistle: