men will always be trfflin liars (END OF STORY)

[bridgetbbyxo]

ok this guy i was talkin to for a min online. we was gettin real close and becomin real good friends , or so i thought... so school starts i get busy an i assume he gets busy too... he tells me that he's been busy with school work, im like ok, thats understandable..
LORD BEHOLD i just happen to stumble into bgc chat one day... n he was in there talkin about how he made this trannie nut yesterday on her sisters sheets... i was just sittin there lookin at that stunned thinkin whats this all about. i send him a message in bgc chat sayin "ur a mess" then he starts spillin these excuses , i didnt even wait to see what else he had to say.. i just logged outta bgc...
sooo i ended up sending him a text " i was dam fool to think of your differntly"
then he sends me some texts sayin how he dont know why i was mad bc if he was to have a relationship with somegirl across the country she would leave him for some one close to her. i mean first of all i wasnt even considering us like that but ok. so sent him this text
"Yo real talk that not even what it is. I jus didnt kno you was trifflin lik that, talkin bout your sexcapdes on a chat room... Seriously who does that. You didnt have to lie and pretend to be someone u wasnt when u was talkin to me. I jus thought of you differntly. I wouldnt have been sittin here think why u playin games nd whats this all about. But it is what it is matt... Have a good life."
all he had to say to that was" oh wow"

so thats where this thread came from... im sorry i just had to vent , thats the tea..

[RubyTS]

boys will be boys

[NYBURBS]

boys will be boys

To hell with all you misandrists!!!!! :fu:

j/k :banana:

[dlbi22]

whats bgc

[NYBURBS]

whats bgc

Some gay/trans site aimed at blacks and latinos.

[blckhaze]

sux
but you live, learn, and look elsewhere.


and trust noone is exempt from the "i thought of you better/differently" speech.

[hwbs]

The only long lasting relationships I see in ltr are ones with open relationships in this community.....its why I stopped bothering....I know a girl is going to want to sleep with other guys and I am going to most likely want to do the same with other girls . ...its not my personal choice but its the way of the world esp in the ts community.....well like the saying goes if u can't beat em join em....well I have been a card carrying member for like 4 years now...people need to stop fronting and be more honest with their feelings...

[raiku9909]

that sucks. onward and upward.

[phobun]

ok this guy i was talkin to for a min online. we was gettin real close and becomin real good friends , or so i thought... so school starts i get busy an i assume he gets busy too... he tells me that he's been busy with school work, im like ok, thats understandable..
LORD BEHOLD i just happen to stumble into bgc chat one day... n he was in there talkin about how he made this trannie nut yesterday on her sisters sheets... i was just sittin there lookin at that stunned thinkin whats this all about. i send him a message in bgc chat sayin "ur a mess" then he starts spillin these excuses , i didnt even wait to see what else he had to say.. i just logged outta bgc...
sooo i ended up sending him a text " i was dam fool to think of your differntly"
then he sends me some texts sayin how he dont know why i was mad bc if he was to have a relationship with somegirl across the country she would leave him for some one close to her. i mean first of all i wasnt even considering us like that but ok. so sent him this text
"Yo real talk that not even what it is. I jus didnt kno you was trifflin lik that, talkin bout your sexcapdes on a chat room... Seriously who does that. You didnt have to lie and pretend to be someone u wasnt when u was talkin to me. I jus thought of you differntly. I wouldnt have been sittin here think why u playin games nd whats this all about. But it is what it is matt... Have a good life."
all he had to say to that was" oh wow"

so thats where this thread came from... im sorry i just had to vent , thats the tea..


Unfortunately guys who come to these sites to actually meet girls are almost uniformly self-centered and insincere chasers. And generally speaking, the ones looking to meet up and saying "give me a chance" are undesirable losers and latent chasers who haven't had the chance to prove themselves otherwise.

[TsVanessa69]

a man is only as good as the pipe he lays and the money he leaves when he leaves.
When will you ladies listen to me? daymn.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Bridget I told you what to do honey in the chatroom.........Telling you :)

[rockabilly]

That's the name of the next Madea movie.

http://www.gifsoup.com/webroot/animatedgifs/47801_o.gif

[Ryz]

Oh Bridget your just looking for love in the wrong places

[CaliBoy951]

It is because many people think that they can become somebody they are not in real life, kind of like this "thug", enjoy: LiveLeak.com - Facebook E-thuggin' will get you a drive-by-ass whoopin' by Uncle Ward (http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=9a4_1294328176)

[MrsKellyPierce]

Oh Bridget your just looking for love in the wrong places
So well said...and she needs to be more skeptical and hold out on the feelings till she knows HIM....

[TsVanessa69]

So well said...and she needs to be more skeptical and hold out on the feelings till she knows HIM....
I agree. Online is NOT the place to look for or conversate with a dude.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I don't consider it fair to generalize so blatantly....we're not all bad.

[bridgetbbyxo]

I agree. Online is NOT the place to look for or conversate with a dude.

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/

[Ryz]

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/

You can always come to Canada. :)

[bridgetbbyxo]

You can always come to Canada. :)

is too cold boo lol

[FreddieGomez]

u need to find a better class of dudes....ya'll always wantin the hoodrats but u get nuttin but drama wit them....

[MrsKellyPierce]

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/
I don't know Facebook isn't a bad place to meet someone..I met my husband there.

[amberskyi]

The only long lasting relationships I see in ltr are ones with open relationships in this community.....its why I stopped bothering....I know a girl is going to want to sleep with other guys and I am going to most likely want to do the same with other girls . ...its not my personal choice but its the way of the world esp in the ts community.....well like the saying goes if u can't beat em join em....well I have been a card carrying member for like 4 years now...people need to stop fronting and be more honest with their feelings...

i disagree strongly but than again i dont date guys that are involved in the ts community (thats not saying i dont date guys who've dated other ts women).

[hwbs]

well i have been around over ten years ...and its a small community...even if the girl doesn't admit to sleeping with other guys u always find out...when i mean ltr ..i mean yearsssssss not like 6 or 7 months ....i cant count the times that i would leave other girls alone when my exes were banging other guys or girls...these days i see girls with the same attitude and as upfront as myself...that way no ones feelings are hurt ...another hint..these couples aren't going to come and admit to u that they are in open ltr ....u kind of have to fill in the blanks like the game Clue !!!

[dolce__vita]

I don't consider it fair to generalize so blatantly....we're not all bad.

If that's the case then why are girls so pessimistic about me? If that's the case wouldn't we all have happy relationships? All of the guys I've encountered have turned out to be liars and scumbags. I'm sure the ones I continue to meet will be too but I have no hope anyways so it doesn't mattaaa

[FreddieGomez]

relationships werent meant to last anyway...whether with a trannie or a gg

[amberskyi]

well i have been around over ten years ...and its a small community...even if the girl doesn't admit to sleeping with other guys u always find out...when i mean ltr ..i mean yearsssssss not like 6 or 7 months ....i cant count the times that i would leave other girls alone when my exes were banging other guys or girls...these days i see girls with the same attitude and as upfront as myself...that way no ones feelings are hurt ...another hint..these couples aren't going to come and admit to u that they are in open ltr ....u kind of have to fill in the blanks like the game Clue !!!

ive been in long term relationships(a year or more) that we're exclusive.than again im sure some of you guys would consider what i do to get money cheating lol.

[bridgetbbyxo]

well i have been around over ten years ...and its a small community...even if the girl doesn't admit to sleeping with other guys u always find out...when i mean ltr ..i mean yearsssssss not like 6 or 7 months ....i cant count the times that i would leave other girls alone when my exes were banging other guys or girls...these days i see girls with the same attitude and as upfront as myself...that way no ones feelings are hurt ...another hint..these couples aren't going to come and admit to u that they are in open ltr ....u kind of have to fill in the blanks like the game Clue !!!


i really dont see the point of fukin around on the side if your with someone... then why not just stay single?

[rockabilly]

i really dont see the point of fukin around on the side if your with someone... then why not just stay single?

Thank you.

Monogamy is the it.

[FreddieGomez]

Thank you.

Monogamy is the it.

for u maybe. but i'll consider monogamy when i'm in my 50's

[rockabilly]

relationships werent meant to last anyway...whether with a trannie or a gg

I don't agree.

[Caff_Racer]

i really dont see the point of fukin around on the side if your with someone... then why not just stay single?

Agreed.

[dolce__vita]

for u maybe. but i'll consider monogamy when i'm in my 50's

Will you still be sucking dick then?

[amberskyi]

for u maybe. but i'll consider monogamy when i'm in my 50's

by than no one would wanna be with you lol

[FreddieGomez]

by than no one would wanna be with you lol

alot of chicks wanna be wit me, but i get bored after awhile....then my eye starts to wonder....

[amberskyi]

alot of chicks wanna be wit me, but i get bored after awhile....then my eye starts to wonder....

thats cause your young now.trust that when im in my 50's im not going to be looking for any dudes my age.i doubt that ill be single than tho

[hwbs]

i really dont see the point of fukin around on the side if your with someone... then why not just stay single?


thats exactly what i am doing....and on the escorting thing someone stated above...i have dated a few escorts in the past ...and a couple really try to blurr the lines from work and personal life ....i just look at who people are for face value...i am honest with other girls and very upfront....trust me they prefer that over six pack abs and 9 inch cocks that just try to be all slick on the side...i used to be frustrated like u bridget...i got smart and skip the bs...

[rockabilly]

by than no one would wanna be with you lol

I can picture a 50yr old Freddy hangin outside a bodega ... "Lemme holla atcha , hollahollaholla."

[dogsandcats]

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/

You are probably just attracted to the wrong guys too. Not trying to sound rude, but I was like that with girls and ts too. Sometimes we are the most intrigued by the unhealthy relationships.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

If that's the case then why are girls so pessimistic about me? If that's the case wouldn't we all have happy relationships? All of the guys I've encountered have turned out to be liars and scumbags. I'm sure the ones I continue to meet will be too but I have no hope anyways so it doesn't mattaaa

Apparently they (we) are already guilty before you get started. That's very sad and I feel sorry for you.

[Ryz]

is too cold boo lol

I'll keep you warm <3

[TsVanessa69]

I don't agree.
i wanna kill myself after I type this but I agree.

[TsVanessa69]

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/
Totally momma.
I got dudes who have been hitting me up online for the last 10 years, and STILL have not come to see me. Online guys front like they have the balls to be with a ts or be in a serious relationship with one.
Get them in REALTIME and its not what they claim.
So I use Niteflirt and Im LIVE as ways of talking to men online. THATS IT!
So that way they can tell any lie they want, as its their dime not mine.
REALITY is offline. Thats why I pay men online no mind unless the pay.

[onmyknees]

Unfortunately guys who come to these sites to actually meet girls are almost uniformly self-centered and insincere chasers. And generally speaking, the ones looking to meet up and saying "give me a chance" are undesirable losers and latent chasers who haven't had the chance to prove themselves otherwise.



LMAO !!!!!!!!!! What????? a post from Phobun that only contains the word chaser one time. Can't be !:screwy:screwy

[MrsKellyPierce]

I think you need to say in the beginning FLAT OUT WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT.

Talk about what you like sexually DON'T HOLD BACK

Talk about what you expect in a relationship DON'T HOLD BACK

If the person doesn't accept it then you know they aren't the ones..

If they fuck up along the way you can either scold them or move on...

If they aren't ready to admit their faults - those faults will surely show in time..

I think you should say this is what is FUCKED UP ABOUT ME...

The mistakes you made, the kind of sex you are in SO YOU AREN'T REPRESSED or feel the need to CHEAT!

I don't get the hiding stuff about yourself..it's just a waste of time...BE YOU........

[onmyknees]

i can picture a 50yr old freddy hangin outside a bodega ... "lemme holla atcha , hollahollaholla."


lmfao....

[MrsKellyPierce]

And what about the women???

Who lie to guys to get money?

Things like I'm being evicted and I need money.....

The girls that cheat on the guys that are trying to be serious or escort secretly...

There is plenty of that too..That girls aren't mentioning..

And if you going to allow that man to get to Third base before he sees you as a woman and not a fetish...and treat you with respect and normal....then you are going to always end up disappointed. 9/10 times if you give it up too fast...you are a booty call..when it comes to a TS

They act like you are boyfriend and girlfriend...but then has a real girlfriend and a whole life you don't know about...

[blckhaze]

Agrees with kelly
damn when u get all smart and shit?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Agrees with kelly
damn when u get all smart and shit?
I was hiding it..guys like dumb naked women lol

[rockabilly]

i wanna kill myself after I type this but I agree.

...wow... thanks Nessa , I think.

[onmyknees]

Kelly's right. The shit flows both ways. I had more girls lie to me about being pregnant than I can count.

Bridgett...you sound and look sweet, but life is about living and learning, and that can only happen through experience. If someone keeps making the same mistakes, well then they deserve what they get.
Take it from someone who's been around a little longer than you.... 9 times out of 10 that online shit is just going to turn out badly. That's the nature of the Internet. Yea, the guys a dick, but the next guy might not be....but you'll never know if you close your mind and your opportunities. Just be smarter about what you do, how you do it, and who you choose to share intimate details with. I have a lady friend who's 40 and still makes bad decisions about dudes, so age has something to do with it, but it's more about bad choices. Doesn't sound like all that much drama occurred..kick the dude in the nuts if you ever run into him, and move on !! Don't get jaded like some of the girls on here. Nothing more unattractive than an unabashed man hater.

[JoePitt]

If that's the case then why are girls so pessimistic about me? If that's the case wouldn't we all have happy relationships? All of the guys I've encountered have turned out to be liars and scumbags. I'm sure the ones I continue to meet will be too but I have no hope anyways so it doesn't mattaaa

Did you get banned AGAIN? I swear you've had more screennames than relationships.

[T$420]

ok this guy i was talkin to for a min online. we was gettin real close and becomin real good friends , or so i thought... so school starts i get busy an i assume he gets busy too... he tells me that he's been busy with school work, im like ok, thats understandable..
LORD BEHOLD i just happen to stumble into bgc chat one day... n he was in there talkin about how he made this trannie nut yesterday on her sisters sheets... i was just sittin there lookin at that stunned thinkin whats this all about. i send him a message in bgc chat sayin "ur a mess" then he starts spillin these excuses , i didnt even wait to see what else he had to say.. i just logged outta bgc...
sooo i ended up sending him a text " i was dam fool to think of your differntly"
then he sends me some texts sayin how he dont know why i was mad bc if he was to have a relationship with somegirl across the country she would leave him for some one close to her. i mean first of all i wasnt even considering us like that but ok. so sent him this text
"Yo real talk that not even what it is. I jus didnt kno you was trifflin lik that, talkin bout your sexcapdes on a chat room... Seriously who does that. You didnt have to lie and pretend to be someone u wasnt when u was talkin to me. I jus thought of you differntly. I wouldnt have been sittin here think why u playin games nd whats this all about. But it is what it is matt... Have a good life."
all he had to say to that was" oh wow"

so thats where this thread came from... im sorry i just had to vent , thats the tea..

So let me ask you, did you hook up with any other dudes since you started talking to this guy?

[SirCumsAlot]

alot of chicks wanna be wit me, but i get bored after awhile....then my eye starts to wonder....

yo thats scary man... you look just like my cousin in your profile picture :shock:

[SirCumsAlot]

yea im beginning to see that now... online is only good for sugardaddys and money...

oh well you live and learn...=/

I meant my ts online a few yrs ago. We had a successful relationship until I had to come back to ny :shrug...

[SirCumsAlot]

a man is only as good as the pipe he lays and the money he leaves when he leaves.
When will you ladies listen to me? daymn.

I'm guessing you're single??? Just a guess

[bte]

As Dr. House would say, "Everybody lies."

[ILoveGG&TS]

I think you need to say in the beginning FLAT OUT WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT.

Talk about what you like sexually DON'T HOLD BACK

Talk about what you expect in a relationship DON'T HOLD BACK

If the person doesn't accept it then you know they aren't the ones..

If they fuck up along the way you can either scold them or move on...

If they aren't ready to admit their faults - those faults will surely show in time..

I think you should say this is what is FUCKED UP ABOUT ME...

The mistakes you made, the kind of sex you are in SO YOU AREN'T REPRESSED or feel the need to CHEAT!

I don't get the hiding stuff about yourself..it's just a waste of time...BE YOU........

:iagree:

[CORVETTEDUDE]

i think you need to say in the beginning flat out what you are about.

Talk about what you like sexually don't hold back

talk about what you expect in a relationship don't hold back

if the person doesn't accept it then you know they aren't the ones..

If they fuck up along the way you can either scold them or move on...

If they aren't ready to admit their faults - those faults will surely show in time..

I think you should say this is what is fucked up about me...

The mistakes you made, the kind of sex you are in so you aren't repressed or feel the need to cheat!

I don't get the hiding stuff about yourself..it's just a waste of time...be you........

like!!!

[bridgetbbyxo]

So let me ask you, did you hook up with any other dudes since you started talking to this guy?


nope

[T$420]

nope

Well, obviously, you two just weren't on the same page, fuck that douchebag, but just because of what he did, you can't categorize all guys in his category...

[DL_NL]

Sorry to hear about your experience. Don't lose heart, there are good guys around, it might just take another couple of bad experiences to find one.

Same goes for a guy finding a girl.