random rant

[amberskyi]

so this is kinda random but im so tired of this happening to me.i hate when i meet a guy and he's really cool,chill,down to earth.we'll have like a million things in common and the vibe between us would be crazy.
i just meet this guy and he was so awsome.i mean he was funny as hell,great to be around,and he seemed to really take me seriously.so we were hanging out and he made a joke about me secretly having kids,apparently when ever he's into a chick she ends up having kids lol.i just kinda assumed he knew what was going on as far as my gender.so of course i told him even if if it was to just reaffirm everything.well to my surprise he had no idea.he was very surprised but he seemed to be cool with everything.he's a pretty intellectual guy so we talked about it and what not.i did notice he was kind of less flirty and physical but i just figured he was still processing.so here it is like a day later and he hasnt called me or answered my texts :(.
i feel like i just cant win.if i dont tell a guy right away there always the high chance ill face disappointment when i do.if i do date guys who know most of them are so akward and filled with insecurities that its hard to really connect.
i should just give up on dating and turn into a uber whore or something lol

[phobun]

He'll be calling you in a week if he has any brains, once he works through his insecurities.

[JoePitt]

Eh, he's a guy. It takes us more than 24 hours to process anything more complicated than what we're going to eat that day.

[scroller]

Suggest using an online dating service where that is communicated in advance.

[runround04]

Eh, he's a guy. It takes us more than 24 hours to process anything more complicated than what we're going to eat that day.

Thats true.

Dont worry about it, he may seem great, but if he cant accept you for you, then what good is he? Dont get down on yourself about it, it his stupid ass thats missing out on you, not the other way around.

[amberskyi]

Suggest using an online dating service where that is communicated in advance.

"if i do date guys who know most of them are so akward and filled with insecurities that its hard to really connect."

[amberskyi]

He'll be calling you in a week if he has any brains, once he works through his insecurities.

i doubt it.ive been through this several times.to jaded to hope

[giovanni_hotel]

IMO, all girls would increase their odds of finding significant others by pursuing those men who openly express their desire for transgendered women.

Shooting in the dark and more often than not, you're likely to miss your target.
Sorry to hear about you and dude, but trust there are DOZENS of chill, normal guys who never would have left you hanging, Amber.

[JoePitt]

so here it is like a day later and he hasnt called me or answered my texts :(

You probably shouldn't have sent him any texts and/or calls right away.

[amberskyi]

You probably shouldn't have sent him any texts and/or calls right away.

its been like two days.we chillled on saturday.i only sent him like two texts.im not the type to blow a guys phone up.after being ignored twice i get the message and move on

[amberskyi]

IMO, all girls would increase their odds of finding significant others by pursuing those men who openly express their desire for transgendered women.

Shooting in the dark and more often than not, you're likely to miss your target.
Sorry to hear about you and dude, but trust there are DOZENS of chill, normal guys who never would have left you hanging, Amber.

yea,the dozens of guys are called my uncles and cousins lol.ive been in new york for four years and been a full blown woman for 3.in that time ive only meet three guys worth anything and i one of them i didnt date

[phobun]

IMO, all girls would increase their odds of finding significant others by pursuing those men who openly express their desire for transgendered women.




Well that's the problem in itself. Men who "openly express their desire for transgendered women" are generally creepers who are actually either:

1) perpetually expressing their desire for transgendered women on forums but not succeeding short of 200 roses (because something is wrong)
2) into cock, but not into the essence of her as a girl
3) into themselves (i.e., STF)
4) bombastic internet blowhards with wives who are asleep upstairs
5) bottoms trying to fly under the radar

[blckhaze]

Could abeen worse
He coulda been extra chasery and asked to see it

[phobun]

Could abeen worse
He coulda been extra chasery and asked to see it


LOL. Good point. Maybe he was thinking that, but decided to play his cards more wisely, pretending to be so naive.

[amberskyi]

Could abeen worse
He coulda been extra chasery and asked to see it

true.ugh.but i usually have good radar when it comes to those types

[goku]

so this is kinda random but im so tired of this happening to me.i hate when i meet a guy and he's really cool,chill,down to earth.we'll have like a million things in common and the vibe between us would be crazy.
i just meet this guy and he was so awsome.i mean he was funny as hell,great to be around,and he seemed to really take me seriously.so we were hanging out and he made a joke about me secretly having kids,apparently when ever he's into a chick she ends up having kids lol.i just kinda assumed he knew what was going on as far as my gender.so of course i told him even if if it was to just reaffirm everything.well to my surprise he had no idea.he was very surprised but he seemed to be cool with everything.he's a pretty intellectual guy so we talked about it and what not.i did notice he was kind of less flirty and physical but i just figured he was still processing.so here it is like a day later and he hasnt called me or answered my texts :(.
i feel like i just cant win.if i dont tell a guy right away there always the high chance ill face disappointment when i do.if i do date guys who know most of them are so akward and filled with insecurities that its hard to really connect.
i should just give up on dating and turn into a uber whore or something lol



I can't figure you girls out.


You will run right past guys who know, and try with futility to get a guy who isn't into it to look your way. Why not just stick with someone who accepts you for who you are?

[blckhaze]

I can't figure you girls out.


You will run right past guys who know, and try with futility to get a guy who isn't into it to look your way. Why not just stick with someone who accepts you for who you are?


Because some are a little too into the idea, not the person.
Seriously.....if u had a trans sister or close freind......how many of us would u introduce her to? lol

[amberskyi]

I can't figure you girls out.


You will run right past guys who know, and try with futility to get a guy who isn't into it to look your way. Why not just stick with someone who accepts you for who you are?

im not opposed to dating guys who know and are in ts.maybe you should reread what i wrote.i was saying how hard it is to date sometimes when your trans regardless of if the guy knows or not.
and just because someone may know im trans from the beginning and/or be into ts women doesnt mean that person is free of insecurity and issues.

[Odelay]

Because some are a little too into the idea, not the person.
Seriously.....if u had a trans sister or close freind......how many of us would u introduce her to? lol

If I had a trans sister, there would be a few on this forum I'd introduce her to... Haze in btwn relationships would be one. But then again, not all that many in total.

[partlycloudy]

text him that pic in your avatar.

:idea:

[tsparisangelline]

IMO, all girls would increase their odds of finding significant others by pursuing those men who openly express their desire for transgendered women.

Shooting in the dark and more often than not, you're likely to miss your target.
Sorry to hear about you and dude, but trust there are DOZENS of chill, normal guys who never would have left you hanging, Amber.

umm no


You probably shouldn't have sent him any texts and/or calls right away.

cosign


I can't figure you girls out.


You will run right past guys who know, and try with futility to get a guy who isn't into it to look your way. Why not just stick with someone who accepts you for who you are?

ewww


Because some are a little too into the idea, not the person.
Seriously.....if u had a trans sister or close freind......how many of us would u introduce her to? lol

lol


text him that pic in your avatar.

:idea:

cosign