Wonder how many TS women have Kids?

[bat1]

I heard Mia Fever fathered a son. I wonder how many Tgirls are in
the closet about being a dad...:ignore:

[lisaparadise]

I heard Mia Fever fathered a son. I wonder how many Tgirls are in
the closet about being a dad...:ignore:first off i am a mom but was a dad at one point and ive raised 2 beautifull kids on my own as a single mom and if you ask them they will both tell you without a doubt im the best mom in the world.

[BellaBellucci]

<--- Happy Mom of an 8 year old 3rd grader. Everything I do is to help provide him a better world than was handed to me. :)

~BB~

[DaveinBoston]

Clearly that would qualify you as a MILF.... :dancing:



first off i am a mom but was a dad at one point and ive raised 2 beautifull kids on my own as a single mom and if you ask them they will both tell you without a doubt im the best mom in the world.

[Merkurie]

Congrats to you both.

[nevada64]

The hot and horny Moo claimed she had a child when I was with her in Bangkok. I think it was the first time I ever saw pics of a Tgirls kid. She was so cool, a parent, proud of her baby. I miss our afternoon rendezvous...

[uchetal]

"Teach your children well,
Their father's hell did slowly go by,
And feed them on your dreams
The one they picks, the one you'll know by". --CSN

I can sense you are very good parents. It can be a cruel world. With your love, support and guidance they get through it.

[Coroner]

Wow, I´m (positively) shocked.

[Richctdude]

I know Mia fever has a kid

[BrendaQG]

I may have a son. The boy looks like me quite a bit, but the mother does not claim me. I tried to get involved in his life but she would not have it. It would ruin her appearance of a heterosexual life (She's bi and in the closet). He's about 8 and at this point I hope I am not the one.

I cannot bear to think I have so failed to be there for him....and I feel somewhat used...just a source of some smart sperm for her to make herself a child. She even gave the boy her own last name.

[lisaparadise]

I may have a son. The boy looks like me quite a bit, but the mother does not claim me. I tried to get involved in his life but she would not have it. It would ruin her appearance of a heterosexual life (She's bi and in the closet). He's about 8 and at this point I hope I am not the one.

I cannot bear to think I have so failed to be there for him....and I feel somewhat used...just a source of some smart sperm for her to make herself a child. She even gave the boy her own last name.in the united states its near impossable to win custody when your a trans so i feel for you and the rest of my sisters who got cheated out of a life happiness because the courts have failed them.

[BrendaQG]

in the united states its near impossable to win custody when your a trans so i feel for you and the rest of my sisters who got cheated out of a life happiness because the courts have failed them.

Yeah it's like folks assume we are all perverts who will do whatever sexually. When the more likely abusers are going to be "normal" looking tough guy types.

[lisaparadise]

Yeah it's like folks assume we are all perverts who will do whatever sexually. When the more likely abusers are going to be "normal" looking tough guy types.it really is amazing how different canada is to the U.S. thinking wise as most people know im the first girl in ontario to win full custody in the court of law a battle that took almost 2 years and alot of heartache on both sides.my ex had pix vids of my cloths heels etc horomones you name it i was so embarraced but i knew i had to be strong because i knew in my heart that the only reason i was born was to raise my 2 beautifull kids.so in the end we all agreed that in the best interest of the kids they would live with me 24/7 my son was 12 and my daughter was 10 months old at the time and now after all this time has passes my daughter is 13 and my son 23 and my ex well we became very good friends now to be fair i didnt fully transition untill my daughter was old enough to understand as agreed apon by all parties involved.my kids they love me unconditionally as i them and they will never be homophobic they will never be mean and most of all like there mom they always see the good in people so to sum it all up i am very very lucky to have what i have and my kids have never been without anything.to them im just mom and thats ok with me.

[BrendaQG]

Wow that's soo much to have had to deal with. I don't think I could go through with that based on the information I have. Had I hard evidence that I was not mistaken, that his resemblance to me was not a mere coincidence, I would.

Illinois, and the US in general could make that a very hard thing to do. Here in the states a case like yours would have become a political issue. That's the difference between the US and Canada. We rarely hear about a child custody case, or a particularly nasty divorce becoming national news. Soon what's right and what's best matter far less than what's politically expedient here in the US.

[lisaparadise]

Wow that's soo much to have had to deal with. I don't think I could go through with that based on the information I have. Had I hard evidence that I was not mistaken, that his resemblance to me was not a mere coincidence, I would.

Illinois, and the US in general could make that a very hard thing to do. Here in the states a case like yours would have become a political issue. That's the difference between the US and Canada. We rarely hear about a child custody case, or a particularly nasty divorce becoming national news. Soon what's right and what's best matter far less than what's politically expedient here in the US.here in canada a seperate lawyer is appointed to the children so there is no brain washing from any party and thats how it should be

[BellaBellucci]

I had a court battle to keep my son too. And I won sans attorney. There is hope. In my case it came in the form of the fact that she was a selfish raving lunatic who had a criminal record a mile long and a history of avoiding responsibility, including her first child of whom she gave up custody. When all was said and done the court had nothing to say about her except that she should get into therapy. However, she's his biological mom so we ended up splitting custody.

Good times. :roll:

~BB~

[BrendaQG]

Well I'm definitely going to look into the matter after hearing your stories. What have I got to loose?

I don't know why this should surprise anyone that some of us would have kids. For that matter why would it surprise people that transwomen would have some experience with the opposite biological sex. Between Lesbian, bissexual women , transmen, and women who are straight but attracted to feminine males their are allot of women who might try us.

[BellaBellucci]

Between Lesbian, bissexual women , transmen, and women who are straight but attracted to feminine males their are allot of women who might try us.

Be careful with that. As you know, GG's are usually attracted to our feminine traits but then use them against us when they change their minds and decide they actually do want a man. My ex was incredibly abusive during our breakup, even telling me how I should kill myself. She hired a lawyer to come into court and say the same kinds of things, even insisting on referring to me as 'this person.' Well, it backfired.

My son saw and heard most of the abuse, and when she wasn't abusing me she was out 'daddy shopping' (she has serious daddy issues), so my son had to be brought in to speak to court officials, which sucks, but the cool thing is that he's a bright kid who knows right from wrong and he knows she was definitely wrong. So did the court, and even though she married a guy whom I don't think she loves, and for the stability that he's yet to provide her (she was mortified that she had to work towards the end of our marriage after I supported her for 5 years), she still thinks she did the right thing. Talk about denial. She destroyed both of our lives on a hunch that she could 'do better.'

I guess I spoiled her and then took it away, but she acts like I did it just to hurt her or something. What a counter-productive, incorrect, and obviously destructive point of view. :roll:

~BB~

[BrendaQG]

Be careful with that. As you know, GG's are usually attracted to our feminine traits but then use them against us when they change their minds and decide they actually do want a man. ....

~BB~


I hear where you are coming from. It's really not so different from what attracts men to us. We offer a social and sexual experience that very few others can. If nothing else they see us as a way to experiment with alternate sexuality without it feeling totally gay.

The woman in my case has her own issues with her own identity that need to be sorted. We were good friends for a while before we did the deed. I asked her straight up is he my child and she gave a cryptic answer "a real father would know his son on sight".

I approached her brother to see if he would help me to test the boy without her knowledge he refused. Then he assured me they knew who the daddy was and that I should not worry. :-/

It feels like the kind of thing where if I won a big lotto jackpot suddenly I would be good enough. In the meantime I was a way for her to get a kid, without having to share any of the rights or responsibilities. Know what I mean?

[BellaBellucci]

It feels like the kind of thing where if I won a big lotto jackpot suddenly I would be good enough. In the meantime I was a way for her to get a kid, without having to share any of the rights or responsibilities. Know what I mean?

Yup. Like I said, my ex didn't leave until the recession started. Ironically though, she made the same accusation to me: that I used her for a kid. Sure, in the end I got my own way: son, yes, crazy bitch, no, but that doesn't mean I planned it. I mean, yeah I've always been a long-term strategist, so I guess how I can see how she came to her conclusion, but it's still not true.

~BB~

[KirstenH]

First of all i'm a female and nope, no kiddies here..

[eddymunster90]

I hear where you are coming from. It's really not so different from what attracts men to us. We offer a social and sexual experience that very few others can. If nothing else they see us as a way to experiment with alternate sexuality without it feeling totally gay.

The woman in my case has her own issues with her own identity that need to be sorted. We were good friends for a while before we did the deed. I asked her straight up is he my child and she gave a cryptic answer "a real father would know his son on sight".

I approached her brother to see if he would help me to test the boy without her knowledge he refused. Then he assured me they knew who the daddy was and that I should not worry. :-/

It feels like the kind of thing where if I won a big lotto jackpot suddenly I would be good enough. In the meantime I was a way for her to get a kid, without having to share any of the rights or responsibilities. Know what I mean?

Wow, you did eveything but the right thing. Trying to get proof of DNA using the kids uncle behind the moms back? That would of gone over like a lead ballon to the courts. A rather simple petition to request the DNA test with an afidavit from you of your relationship to the mom would of gotten the ball rolling. It probably wouldn't of lead to you having custody, but at least some visitation. Granted that would of opened the door to support from you to the mom.

Granted some of the women here have their kids for some extrenuous reasons for the most part it ain't going to work out in your favor. You can't be off trying to be a trans woman becoming the 'woman' you've always wanted to be while your kids are spending most of their lives with the other parent.

[BellaBellucci]

Granted some of the women here have their kids for some extrenuous reasons for the most part it ain't going to work out in your favor. You can't be off trying to be a trans woman becoming the 'woman' you've always wanted to be while your kids are spending most of their lives with the other parent.

You mean 'extenuating,' right? In my case I got my child because his other parent was off trying to find a new daddy, but even still, that only solidified my mother/child relationship with my son. I'd hardly say it was an extenuating circumstance at all. The court decided that it was healthy for me to work out my issues and unhealthy for her not to and also that my relationship with my son was too important to his development to disrupt. And yes, they knew about the porn because it's not like he's around it or anything. My investigating social worker was very understanding about the lack of jobs here in SoCal.

I'm just putting that out there. :geek:

~BB~

[BrendaQG]

Wow, you did eveything but the right thing. Trying to get proof of DNA using the kids uncle behind the moms back? That would of gone over like a lead ballon to the courts. A rather simple petition to request the DNA test with an afidavit from you of your relationship to the mom would of gotten the ball rolling. It probably wouldn't of lead to you having custody, but at least some visitation. Granted that would of opened the door to support from you to the mom.

In this state to get that DNA test one needs to have proof of a substantial and ongoing sexual relationship with the mother to get that petition. I had no such relationship. We were just good friends who did it one night. I don't think I would have gotten that petition.



Granted some of the women here have their kids for some extrenuous reasons for the most part it ain't going to work out in your favor. You can't be off trying to be a trans woman becoming the 'woman' you've always wanted to be while your kids are spending most of their lives with the other parent.

Again you don't seem to have paid attention. In all of our cases the woman decided to try and cut us out of our children's lives. Bella and Lisa had more of a relationship with their children's mothers that I did. That is what really makes the difference in my case.

Consider that the woman gave the kid her own last name....not of whoever the father was. Think about that, what type of woman does that?

One cannot sue in court and get action based on a resemblance alone. The family court would not set such a precedent.

[lisaparadise]

Lisa had more of a relationship with their children's mothers that I did. That is what really makes the difference in my case.

.you are correct my dear i was married for 17 years

[BellaBellucci]

Consider that the woman gave the kid her own last name....not of whoever the father was. Think about that, what type of woman does that?

My ex named her children after their *ahem* fathers, hence my son has my last name. Since we weren't married though, I was confused why she would do that. Isn't it really a judgement call?

I mean in your case it sounds like she used you for your seed and the name seems to point to that, but on the whole I don't think it's that unusual, is it?

~BB~

[BrendaQG]

@Lisa
Yeah and you know how hard your case was. I woldn't stand a chance in hades without some form of hard evidence going in.

@Bella I don't know. Every single mom I have ever known has given her children last name as that of their likely father.

[lisaparadise]

@Lisa
Yeah and you know how hard your case was. I woldn't stand a chance in hades without some form of hard evidence going in.
.yes my case was extremely difficult though i had many x factorys in my favour aka my whole family was my support system my son told his lawyer that he wouldnt never live without me and no court would even think about splitting up the kids unless your proven unfit,my past was raked over with a fine tooth combe but i was very well known as an athlete in my youth i never drank much never did drugs never been in any kind of trouble owned my own house worked in a 5 star dealership making close to 100 000 gs a year and a doctor who was also trans as well as a shrink court ordered but i wouldnt give up i met my demonds head on simply because i couldnt ever not wake up without seeing my childrens faces period.

[BrendaQG]

Have you ever thought of writing a book about your life? I think allot of people would buy it.

[BellaBellucci]

I think a group of us should put a book together about trans-parenting and/or life stories.

~BB~

[lisaparadise]

Have you ever thought of writing a book about your life? I think allot of people would buy it.ive though very hard about it but if i ever did id want the proceeds to go to a place that supports trans kids for sure