Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it

[MidnightKat]

Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?

[95racer]

Being raised in a very religious family they would flip-out if I told them.

[LOS4ME]

Completely and totally hidden.

[mac.B]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.

[nicebrn]

Immediate family knows, but they're having a hard time dealing (my family is very religious too). My ex-wife knew from before we were married. Some close friends know too, and I never really tried to hide it from the outside world. In the past I was conflicted and confused, but never ashamed.

[Ryz]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.

This........

[jedimaster]

Nice avatar, nicebrn.

For me it's a total secret. Though i think if i were a wiser person i would just be open about it and what the hell probably be a happier man in the end. In a sense i envy those who are fully open about it just because of the notion of freedom and peace that supposedly comes with being "honest" to the world, but at this point in my life and all things considered, i'd say it's not worth it to tell people about it, so it'll remain a secret until further notice.

[drock]

It's something that I jus keep to myself...

[FreddieGomez]

i wouldnt tell anyone i know personally

[bat1]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.

SAME here...

[amberskyi]

SAME here...

you should hide it considering your married lol

[rwerfet]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.

same here.

[blckhaze]

Family and friends know


I wont wear the shemale yum t shirt i got, but if i deem u intelligent and ur close enough to me, youll figure it out and understand why.

[dc_guy_75]

My sister and brother (and their so's) know, and my good friends suspect, but its not something we talk about.

My sister even set me up with a tgirl she worked with... it didn't work out.

[jasonb523]

i wouldnt tell anyone i know personally

I feel bad for the persons pictures ur stealing then

cuz i person who wants no one to kno wouldnt jus post pics of themselves every other day on hungangels.com

[flabbybody]

I won't be bringing it up with my aunt at Thansksgiving dinner but people close to me know who I hang with

[drock]

LOl you think he's jacking someone pics?

[bte]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.

Same here....

[Bobzz]

My wife knows (and is ok with it and no, it doesn't threaten her) ... some of my friends know because I have used T-gals as models for photography.

[lisaparadise]

:jerkoff
Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?no way in hell whould i ever let people know im attracted to tgirls now thats just plain wrong lol

[Willfromengland]

nobody knows and i couldnt imaging my friends and family knowing to me its a perfectly normal thing, my family would be unhappy but understand and my friends would not understand at all they are all very hetro and hate anything gay and they would consider a ts as a man.This does upset me because its such a burdon having to hide who you really are.

[DL_NL]

Not keeping it a secret, not telling it to the world. Those who really matter know, because if they're too narrow-minded they don't matter.

[JackBeLittle]

I advertise to the whole world! John Fleckenstein loves TS women!

[flabbybody]

nobody knows and i couldnt imaging my friends and family knowing to me its a perfectly normal thing, my family would be unhappy but understand and my friends would not understand at all they are all very hetro and hate anything gay and they would consider a ts as a man.This does upset me because its such a burdon having to hide who you really are.
"they hate anything gay" ?

sounds like your choice of friends is much more an issue than your preference for tgirls

[giovanni_hotel]

I've got 'I LUV TGs' silk-screened on a lavender t-shirt I wear at the gym.

[Willfromengland]

my friends are my friends we all have alot in common except one thing and mabye hate was to much of a strong word

[MrsKellyPierce]

I hide it - I fuck them in the ass...and then hours later have to find a woman to fuck so I feel like I'm not gay.

[Mari_Mar]

I hide it - I fuck them in the ass...and then hours later have to find a woman to fuck so I feel like I'm not gay.

Hahahahaha!

I want to get a t-shirt that has "Tranny Chaser" printed on it, and wear it when I play shows. :)

[TSCURIOUS]

Totally hidden-
Some of my gay friends may suspect, but that's it.

[Johnny O]

Unfortunately most people would not understand or accept it, so I htink the only person I have told was a gay male friend years ago. It's too bad even in the gay world it is rather unacceptable.

[traLika]

Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?


A couple of close friends know but that’s about it. I’m a private person so I’m hardly going to shout from the rooftops that I’m into tgirls when I don’t talk much about my private life in general. However, if I was in a meaningful LTR with a ts I wouldn’t try to conceal it from anybody.

[BeardedOne]

Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?

It's realtive, as it were.

Though my relatives have little or no idea as to what's up in my personal life, I really don't give a shit. I can't let my family rule my life (And, having not spoken to many of them in decades - Not because I don't get on with them, but just that I'm antisocial at the core - It's not that much of an issue) and therefore tend to roam freely.

Elsewise, it's mixed really. People at work kind of guess at it and I drop the occasional seed of knowledge, but my interests, desires, outside life aren't that open there. That's not unusual. The people you work with are not always that up into what you are, by your own choice.

Elsewise, I am fairly open about it. All of my friends, biz associates, etc. know or suspect. If they ask, I am honest. I've been out and about with some of our ladies and have been proud to be seen on their arm.

In the end, it is relative, really. The world, as a whole, isn't quite ready to recognize our special ladies and their relationships. Whether or not someone is willing, and has the strength to show that desire and/or love to the world is subjective.

[south ov da border]

my girlfriends know but that's about it, maybe a few close friends, mosly females...

[BeardedOne]

I hide it - I fuck them in the ass...and then hours later have to find a woman to fuck so I feel like I'm not gay.

OK, Kelly, that's just wrong. Funny as shit, but wrong. :D

[flabbybody]

Unfortunately most people would not understand or accept it, so I htink the only person I have told was a gay male friend years ago. It's too bad even in the gay world it is rather unacceptable.

One time I told a gay friend at work that I liked trannys and he said I was suppressing my gayness and should quit being in the closet. I find older gay men can be very bigoted in their own way.

[drock]

I hide it - I fuck them in the ass...and then hours later have to find a woman to fuck so I feel like I'm not gay.


hahahaha......:)

[melbourne1]

I dont freely express it but dont completely hide it either, I dont delete my internet history before a mate comes round for example.

Its a shame the stigma that is attached to it, its not fair on girls being someones "secret" or the guys and girls having to put up with snide comments from other people, for that reason I dont bother telling friends and family my true feelings, I just cant be bothered with the hassle.

If I met a girl and really liked em I'd have no problem introducing them to my friends and family straight away though, I dont think im a coward in that respect and any friend or family member who didnt approve can fuck right off. But girls have probably heard all this before and been bullshitted so I realise this doesnt mean much!

[zorga]

also this talking/not talking varies from palce to place. I mean, people will more tolerate about this in Brasil rather than in small bulgarian village [no offense to any bulgarians in villages here] - somewhere to be honest about things will leave much more impact on your everyday life than other places.

[mikey_stl]

I hide it -- of course, I've never been public about anything I do sexually, including when dating GGs. I prefer to keep my sexual attractions or activities a private matter.

I would never openly date a TS who wasn't totally passable and living in stealth. Now, if I were dating such a person, and someone discovered she was a t-girl I wouldn't break up with her. If I truly loved her, I would continue to date her. If anyone confronted me about it, I would either deny it or say that my girlfriend's sexuality or past or anything about her is none of their business.

[Johnny O]

One time I told a gay friend at work that I liked trannys and he said I was suppressing my gayness and should quit being in the closet. I find older gay men can be very bigoted in their own way.

I had a very similiar experience but my gay male friend said "No I wont grow boobs for you" I didnt ask him to.

[rockabilly]

It's known by my family , and now i don't have family anymore.

[natina]

If you tell the majority of friends and family with see you as

1.) a flaming faggot

2.) confused

3.)gay

4.)a perv

5.) a sinner

6.) antifamily

7.)a sodomite

.....................................

[runround04]

nobody ever asked....

[amberskyi]

If you tell the majority of friends and family with see you as

1.) a flaming faggot

2.) confused

3.)gay

4.)a perv

5.) a sinner

6.) antifamily

7.)a sodomite

.....................................

wow...it must really suck to have such close-minded,ignorant,and unloving people in your life..smh..

[Ryz]

wow...it must really suck to have such close-minded,ignorant,and unloving people in your life..smh..

It's true though. My mom thinks I'm gay/confused, and some how god is punishing her because I was in a relationship with a Tgirl. :smh:
Jamaicans are very close-minded and homophobic

[rockabilly]

It's true though. My mom thinks I'm gay/confused, and some how god is punishing her because I was in a relationship with a Tgirl. :smh:
Jamaicans are very close-minded and homophobic

So are southerners.

[amberskyi]

It's true though. My mom thinks I'm gay/confused, and some how god is punishing her because I was in a relationship with a Tgirl. :smh:
Jamaicans are very close-minded and homophobic

my dad is west african and i was pretty much raised with his side of the family.even though they come from a very traditional and old culture they still love an accept me.thats what real family is supposed to do.

[rockabilly]

Must be nice.

[speedstick112]

Anyone that I let know, can't wrap their head around it.

[NYBURBS]

I've been out to TS clubs, I've been out on dates with trans girls, and I've also just been out to hang with TS friends of mine. All of those instances have elicited some degree of stares of whispers from passerby, but tbh I don't care. However, to reveal it to friends or family would probably mean altering life long relationships, and I'd be OK with that for the right gal, but I'm not going to turn my life upside down for just some random person.

[loveburst]

Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?

I'd like to be able to express it freely. But so far the company has not been that accepting (or this is what I have been feeling..)... Now starting (..and I'm hoping..) to spend time with more like minded people though..

It's good to be able to express onesself.

[loveburst]

Anyone that I let know, can't wrap their head around it.

(..same here..)

I guess it is a thing that needs to be felt - so that one can fully comprehend it.

[DarylWashington]

Tell the world!

[dderek123]

Well maybe your life was already turned upside down when you started admiring TS. Blaming someone else for whatever happens after you come out about it is weak. edit: TBH I have only been open about it for the past several months or so. I understand where you're coming from. So far so good for me. But I'm on the other side of the world in the LOS. So it's not like I am being open about it while surrounded by the people I grew up with. I noticed that most people didn't seem to care that much. My folks didn't really understand (most don't) but they just expressed that they wanted me to be happy and healthy.

[BlkJewels]

I have a homey who was open with his. Now a lot a gay guys are always tryn to get wit him. He hates that shit. Sounds silly, but thats the reason I'll keep mine to m'self.

[FIRSTTIMER]

I don't hide it but i don't exactly advertise it either.
This one is popular.


Unfortunately most people would not understand or accept it, so I htink the only person I have told was a gay male friend years ago. It's too bad even in the gay world it is rather unacceptable.
Funny and a shame how even in the gay world T-GIRLS are looked at as nobody.



One friend kinda knows.There is no real reason why I would have to tell anybody.I don't have any friends who are T-GIRLS and I am not dating a T-GIRL.Until one of those happen,no reason to bring it up.

[bassman2546]

I just tell my wife and that's all. We're both cool with it.

[giveittou]

If I had a tgirl as a girlfriend I would express it freely otherwise I have no reason to tell people about it.

[GrimFusion]

Two of my ex GG's knew (one was interested), my parents know, a few of my buds and I end up in conversations about it like they're into it, too. It's still a bit of a taboo deal and I'll only fess if I'm caught with a porn file here or there. I like porn, but 80% of it's GG stuff. My parents went through my computer when I was 17 and found three tranny files in a 30 file collection I downloaded, and guess which ones they chose to play when they gave me the whole "I didn't raise you to be a fuckin' faggot" talk. There was no saying anything about it, but I couldn't take either of them real seriously. The issue just kinda disappeared after that, though. They never raided my porn stash again.

[CaptainPlanet]

My parents went through my computer when I was 17 and found three tranny files in a 30 file collection I downloaded, and guess which ones they chose to play when they gave me the whole "I didn't raise you to be a fuckin' faggot" talk.


I had a few of those talks with my father growing up as well, and the funny part is he owned TS porn, so i never took him serious either.

[drock]

I have a homey who was open with his. Now a lot a gay guys are always tryn to get wit him. He hates that shit. Sounds silly, but thats the reason I'll keep mine to m'self.


That's the absolute worst to me when gays assume cause you like trannys that you like them too.. It pisses me off..

[anonymoussonny]

My wife knows (and is ok with it and no, it doesn't threaten her) ... some of my friends know because I have used T-gals as models for photography.


I just tell my wife and that's all. We're both cool with it.


You are two lucky Sons Of Bitches!!!!! :Bowdown:I am not so lucky!!!!! :fc

[iputinwork]

Define open about it, for me who I'm doin is my biz, but if I go out in public with a ts or gg, its all the same to me, if people are whispering to each other that I'm with a ts, that's their problem not mine. I'm comfortable with who I go out with and sleep with, but I don't put my biz out there like that regardless. I guess it all depends on how comfortable an individual is with himself.

[ed_jaxon]

I have had some pretty ignorant encounters beyond just getting the stares and smirks.

The whole "You know that's a dude, right?" thing grates on my nerves and really steels me to be even more adamant to not give a fuck.

Some close to me know and others don't, but those don't know shit about what I do because we don't have that type of relationship.

Then again I definitely ain't one of them LOOK AT MEEEEEE dudes either.

[Star Angel 86]

Where I'm at 45 years age just about every knows by now.

[iputinwork]

I've never had anyone come up to me and say anything like that, maybe they'd be afraid of getting hit by me or her lol, but if it does ever happen I probably wouldn't give two thoughts about it. Now I HAVE had gg's come up to me and say stuff like "you should be with a real woman" and snide remarks like that...I just tell them I am with a real woman, and to piss off lol

[Willie Escalade]

I've been out to TS clubs, I've been out on dates with trans girls, and I've also just been out to hang with TS friends of mine. All of those instances have elicited some degree of stares of whispers from passerby, but tbh I don't care. However, to reveal it to friends or family would probably mean altering life long relationships, and I'd be OK with that for the right gal, but I'm not going to turn my life upside down for just some random person.
Pretty much the same here. I was willing to do that with one girl (let family and friends know she's a T-girl; they had already met her)...but let's just say I won't be crossing that bridge anytime soon.

[evilernie]

I hope this doesn't offend, but I consider this attraction as just a phase. It will eventually pass.

[jniowa]

I don't tell any of my friends about it but then again I don't tell them everything single thing about my life so its not a big deal to me.

[traLika]

The OP's being mighty quiet on this thread...

Hey Kat - are our replies the answers you expected?

BTW, love the Yum shots - very sexy!

[MidnightKat]

Holy crap, I completely forgot about this thread. The answers are pretty what I expected. I find it incredible that many wives/gf are into transwoman as well or at least cool with it. As for the "this is just a phase" answer, I find it honest but odd.

[audifan]

Is being attracted to tgirls a thing you keep to yourself or do you freely express it?

Answer; Getting freer. It's not just a phase.

And +1 on the Yum shoot. Just beautiful, Kat :)