"All this trickin'"

[mac.B]

When it comes to transsexuals, why do we have to do all this trickin and junk? Why cant we just meet like normal people and let me run my game and hook you like I do ggs? It'd be cool if I could spot a transsexual in public and get her like that. Even if I did that tho, theyd probably be all insulted that I could tell and also by the fact that I'd want to be with a ts in the first place, like theres something wrong with me. But I like what I like, and what I like are ggs and Transsexuals who are confident and like who they are. If there was enough of that out there then I wouldnt need to play with these escorts for some sex. But then again, I do keep in touch with a couple on a personal level and we do talk like that. nut still yall, put yourselves out there girls.

[TsVanessa69]

99.9 percent of the men we meet see us and treat us as ts.
I am only ts for the money, or the label society puts on me.
In MY real life I'm a woman and I live as such.
Now that means dinner and a movie, a night at the club or a walk in the park. You NEVER refer to me as anything but your girl.
REAL TALK most men are NOT man enough to do that.
So hell yea pay me to be ts.
Date me as a woman? 1 in every 1000 men who approach me are man enough. Funny story, I was just in NYC Thanksgiving week.
That Tuesday I went to Sunny's party, had a blast and decided it was a beautiful night so I decided to walk back to my room.
I was walking down 8th Ave and saw a cute guy out of the corner of my eye, he spoke and I nodded and kept walking.
5 minutes later he came behind me and introduced himself.
I instantly told him I was ts and he said its ok ma, I see a woman and nothing else. He walked me to my hotel and ask for my number.
The next day Wensday he called me to see if I was ok and if I wanted to get something to eat and hang out.
We went out, he was comfortable walking and talking to me.
Mind you, he is only about 5'7 and I'm 6ft even.
We had a wonderful lunch and he had things to do, but ask if we could get a drink later.
That was great, we went to a bar close to the hotel, on Broadway, PACKED. he didn't flinch! he passed every test imaginable. A guy who wanted to get to know ME before he slept with me, imagine that! needless to say I saw him every day until I check out the hotel that next Tuesday, and we talk on the phone EVERY day at least once. Just for him to see how I am.
I don't know where it will lead, but it put my faith in the fact that I found that 1 in 1000.

[mac.B]

Thass cool, I need balance tho. If I'm with a ts then she is my girl. At the same time tho, she offers some things that ggs dont and vice versa. Im just saying that more ts girls need to put themselves out there as ts girls. Believe me, I would not have a problem flauting my bad-bitch ts girl just at i dont have a problem with flaunting my bad-bitch ggs. She has to keep up appearance and her performance (personality) I must like. But I would like to get with a ts on that level. Again, I need balance. Some ts women dont like the idea of me wanting a ts women would you agree to that?

[TsVanessa69]

Thass cool, I need balance tho. If I'm with a ts then she is my girl. At the same time tho, she offers some things that ggs dont and vice versa. Im just saying that more ts girls need to put themselves out there as ts girls. Believe me, I would not have a problem flauting my bad-bitch ts girl just at i dont have a problem with flaunting my bad-bitch ggs. She has to keep up appearance and her performance (personality) I must like. But I would like to get with a ts on that level. Again, I need balance. Some ts women dont like the idea of me wanting a ts women would you agree to that?I can only speak for myself.
Men treat ts differently than they do woman.
So I prefer men who date woman. The men I dated who saw me as ts, they didnt work out. BUT thats just ME and MY expierences!

[mac.B]

Thass cool, I need balance tho. If I'm with a ts then she is my girl. At the same time tho, she offers some things that ggs dont and vice versa. Im just saying that more ts girls need to put themselves out there as ts girls. Believe me, I would not have a problem flauting my bad-bitch ts girl just at i dont have a problem with flaunting my bad-bitch ggs. She has to keep up appearance and her performance (personality) I must like. But I would like to get with a ts on that level. Again, I need balance. Some ts women dont like the idea of me wanting a ts women would you agree to that?I can only speak for myself.
Men treat ts differently than they do woman.
So I prefer men who date woman. The men I dated who saw me as ts, they didnt work out. BUT thats just ME and MY expierences!

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl. Stop (not you specifically) trying to make me feel bad just because for a certain period of time, I may prefer ts's to gg's. Understand that it fluxtuates. I like ice-cream and cake, sometimes at the same time sometimes by themselves.

[sugdaddie69]

lets be real...from transitioning..and the cost of it..to the difficulty of getting a good paying main stream job...even if a man came correct to you,and you dated,or started a relationship,if he couldn't match the dollars from escorting,most ts would continue to escort.Most men trick cause they like variety even in TS,or what they feel is the taboo excitement of something different.I love TS women,date them openly,have been in relationships
and escort,pay to play...it is what it is...

[cadcad]

If you want to find and meet a TS girl that isn't an escort I would suggest a gay bar.

[TsVanessa69]

If you want to find and meet a TS girl that isn't an escort I would suggest a gay bar.
What ts goes to a gay bar???
thats pretty stupid.
What the fuck is in a gay bar for a ts?
We date and deal with straight men.

[cadcad]

If you want to find and meet a TS girl that isn't an escort I would suggest a gay bar.
What ts goes to a gay bar???
thats pretty stupid.
What the fuck is in a gay bar for a ts?
We date and deal with straight men.

transgirls that are into girls go to gay bars

transgirls that are bi go to gay bars

transgirls that don't want to worry about a guy flipping out that they have a penis go to gay bars

not everyone who goes to a gay bar is a flaming limp wristed faggot.

[bte]

I never been with a TS escort but I have dated TS who wasn't in the escorting business. I met some at a regular club designed for straight, bisexaul, gay, and TS. My last TS girlfriend I actually met through my sister. She wanted to be treated like a girl and not a TS. I can't speak for every TS girl, but the girl that I was with didn't want to be reminded that she was TS. She wanted to be treated like a GG and I think thats the key to finding and clicking with a TS girl.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Vanessa

in all fairness you love to be treated like a little slut at times.....................

dontcha peek a booty?!?

[looks at Vivi and chuckles]

thread jack

JWBL

[BellaBellucci]

She has to keep up appearance and her performance (personality) I must like.

Personality = 'performance?'

Oh yeah, you figured us out: it's all an act. :P

~BB~

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

dudes bald spot is distracting in your avatar B

JWBL

[BellaBellucci]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me.

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world.

~BB~
I'll get back to you in a second blondie


I like ice-cream and cake, sometimes at the same time sometimes by themselves.

I like cheesecake, but I would never eat it with Ice Cream..........well maybe Oreo Cheesecake from the factory but only with Vanilla ice cream, because I love that combo..............

Bella, dudes head looks like a hairy vagina in your avatar, I keep expecting you to mount him and pound his brains out, literally, hehe

every dude plays a game
every woman plays a game
every transsexual plays a game

no one is without some level of gaming expertise in this world

some of the best gamers are the ones who you'd never expect

these dudes on here aren't those types of players, they just want you chicks to release the secrets in your heads, lol like that will ever happen

thread jack
JWBL

[BellaBellucci]

these dudes on here aren't those types of players, they just want you chicks to release the secrets in your heads, lol like that will ever happen

thread jack
JWBL

Oh come on. Every girl and their sister now has a 'Ask Me Anything' thread, me included. Ask the right questions and you'll get the right answers. :P

~BB~

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I disagree vagina on a old man's head foot teaser..........

these Ask me anything threads ala the ladies are a scam

they tell you all the right things to make a sale but when you leave the store it's back to life, back to reality

;)

[dan_drade]

When it comes to transsexuals, why do we have to do all this trickin and junk? Why cant we just meet like normal people and let me run my game and hook you like I do ggs? It'd be cool if I could spot a transsexual in public and get her like that. Even if I did that tho, theyd probably be all insulted that I could tell and also by the fact that I'd want to be with a ts in the first place, like theres something wrong with me. But I like what I like, and what I like are ggs and Transsexuals who are confident and like who they are. If there was enough of that out there then I wouldnt need to play with these escorts for some sex. But then again, I do keep in touch with a couple on a personal level and we do talk like that. nut still yall, put yourselves out there girls.

There are many other ways to meet TS girls other than trickin. The best way to meet a girl is go where you will be more likely find her. The only problem with that is you have to go where she goes, not where you usually go. The odds of you finding a girl at the local pub after work would probably net you no results. However, just about every major metropolitan city has a GLBT community. In those communities there are clubs, stores, bars, laundry mats, movie theatres, so on and so on. Your odds of meeting a girl there will be quite a bit better than anything else.

I have dated several TS girls and not one of them did I meet through trickin, or anything else that would be considered diviant. Well maybe my plans were diviant, but the places I went to were not. lol.

I met my current girlfriend via Craigslist. I know, so a lot of you are saying "Oh ya right, you were doing t4m searches". That is totally not the case. It was actually me that was placing ads trying to generate some new business offering my services (not sexual services). Anyway, as I was doing my calls to the clients that had responded to me, I serviced one particular lady that I had an interesting conversation with while I was doing some work for her. I though she was absolutley stunning and while I was not totally sure, I thought she might possibly be a TS woman (I guess I just have good T-dar). Anyway, when I was done working she asked me how much she owed me. So I gathered up the courage to tell her that if she would go out on a date with me, the service call would be free. She laughed at first, and I thought she was just going to say "No really, how much do I owe you" and hope I would leave. But low and behold, she said she would be happy to go on a date with me.

I was pretty happy about it and told her I would pick her up that saturday afternoon. I really had no idea that she was a TS, but I was hoping that my t-dar was working properly. Heck, even if she was a GG, I would have been happy to have a date with her and if things worked out, even a ltr.

We ended up going to an amusement park for our date and had a really good time there. Then I took her to a nice seafood place for dinner. The whole time we were together, we just talked and talked almost nonstop. Eventually I took her home, gave her a kiss and told her I had a great time. I asked her to go out with me again and she said yes. Then she gave me the old "I have to tell you something" line. I had a feeling what she was going to say, but I was not really sure. Then she told me that she was a Transsexual. I was like "BOOOOOOYAHHHHHH, JACKPOT, DING, DING, DING!!!!" That was exactly what I wanted to hear. I did my best to stay cool and play it off like it was no big deal, but I was happier than a pig in shit. lol.

Anyway, I picked her up the next day and we went out again. Only this time the topic of the day had changed to the whole TS kind of conversation. We ended up having another great day, and the rest is history.

So, the bottom line is you can find a nice girl by means other than prostitution, of trolling for sex on the internet. You just have to know where to look, or get extremley lucky like me.

[TsVanessa69]

If you want to find and meet a TS girl that isn't an escort I would suggest a gay bar.
What ts goes to a gay bar???
thats pretty stupid.
What the fuck is in a gay bar for a ts?
We date and deal with straight men.

transgirls that are into girls go to gay bars

transgirls that are bi go to gay bars

transgirls that don't want to worry about a guy flipping out that they have a penis go to gay bars

not everyone who goes to a gay bar is a flaming limp wristed faggot.
I see, thats new to me.

[TsVanessa69]

Vanessa

in all fairness you love to be treated like a little slut at times.....................

dontcha peek a booty?!?

[looks at Vivi and chuckles]

thread jack

JWBL
Yea but thats behind closed doors!
SHHH!

I just cant deal with these paranoid dudes that worry about who see's them
who gonna think they are gay
Don't wanna see my cock at all
All they wanna see is my cock
Get mad because it didnt get hard enough fast enough.
Yea its cute to make money, but come on now, when work is over and its time for some snuggles and cuddles, I like my nigga to see me as his woman.

[TsVanessa69]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~
I dunno now.
I present myself as ts, don't really give a fuck because I am comfortable with being ts, and I think people should know we are out there in the world.
I'm not trying to be something I'm not, and at the same time I'm not hiding under a rock.
Now because I am open about being ts to everybody, I'm still gonna be his girl or his woman.
The guy I'm dealing with now told his mom I was this girl he met from Chicago.
Thats all moms needed to know. Penis or vagina, I'm still his girl.
(yea Johnny when we close that door I'm his lil slut :wink: but he is one of few that can handle and tame all this)

[BrendaQG]

lets be real...from transitioning..and the cost of it..to the difficulty of getting a good paying main stream job...even if a man came correct to you,and you dated,or started a relationship,if he couldn't match the dollars from escorting,most ts would continue to escort.Most men trick cause they like variety even in TS,or what they feel is the taboo excitement of something different.I love TS women,date them openly,have been in relationships
and escort,pay to play...it is what it is...

Just gotta take issue with that. Most TS's don't escort. The looks of those of us you see on HA are not average for transsexuals. Some are even above average for genetic women. On top of that it takes a certain mentality. It's not for everyone.

[dan_drade]

lets be real...from transitioning..and the cost of it..to the difficulty of getting a good paying main stream job...even if a man came correct to you,and you dated,or started a relationship,if he couldn't match the dollars from escorting,most ts would continue to escort.Most men trick cause they like variety even in TS,or what they feel is the taboo excitement of something different.I love TS women,date them openly,have been in relationships
and escort,pay to play...it is what it is...

Just gotta take issue with that. Most TS's don't escort. The looks of those of us you see on HA are not average for transsexuals. Some are even above average for genetic women. On top of that it takes a certain mentality. It's not for everyone.

Thats very true. I have dated several TS's and none of them were escorts. It's just too bad that most people think thats all they could do. One of the girls I dated was actually a scientific programmer as well as a member of the US Olympic Rifle Team. Thats a far cry from an escort.

[BellaBellucci]

I disagree vagina on a old man's head foot teaser..........

these Ask me anything threads ala the ladies are a scam

they tell you all the right things to make a sale but when you leave the store it's back to life, back to reality

;)

Oh really? You think that's what *MY* thread is about? You really find me that fake? OK then. That actually kinda stings a little. :shock: :lol:

~BB~

[BellaBellucci]

Thats all moms needed to know. Penis or vagina, I'm still his girl.
(yea Johnny when we close that door I'm his lil slut :wink: but he is one of few that can handle and tame all this)

That's adorable! I hope you two are happy together. :)

~BB~

[mac.B]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

Ol' paranoid ass bih...

[sugdaddie69]

lets be real...from transitioning..and the cost of it..to the difficulty of getting a good paying main stream job...even if a man came correct to you,and you dated,or started a relationship,if he couldn't match the dollars from escorting,most ts would continue to escort.Most men trick cause they like variety even in TS,or what they feel is the taboo excitement of something different.I love TS women,date them openly,have been in relationships
and escort,pay to play...it is what it is...

Just gotta take issue with that. Most TS's don't escort. The looks of those of us you see on HA are not average for transsexuals. Some are even above average for genetic women. On top of that it takes a certain mentality. It's not for everyone.

While you're taking issue with it...do you escort..yes or no question,not necessary to tell me bout school...do u escort?????

[BellaBellucci]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

Ol' paranoid ass bih...

Oh yeah, because you guys would never DREAM of setting a bitch up, would ya?! Paranoia: always the very first accusation made by the guilty. :roll:

~BB~

[AmyDaly]

I always suggest attending community events and such.

[rockabilly]

What if there is no community?
:shrug:

[TsVanessa69]

What if there is no community?
:shrug:
I cam out in no community.
And I did ok.
I can out as ts in a gang infested ghetto on the south side of Chicago becasue I ran away from home because I couldnt take it anymore.
And I dated a guy who called me a faggot in school.
Imagine that.
Yea it was awkward with people until they actually got to know me on a personal level, then I was going to the laundry mat with the woman in the building and walking to the store with no problem, except for the usual macho papi calling me a faggot real loud and hiding the hard on in his joggers.
But if you are a woman on the inside, even mens clothes cant make you into a man, so I just stopped wearing them all together.

[mac.B]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

Ol' paranoid ass bih...

Oh yeah, because you guys would never DREAM of setting a bitch up, would ya?! Paranoia: always the very first accusation made by the guilty. :roll:

~BB~

Her being open about her status marginalizes her in what way? Like thats all she is. I dont need anyone wanting to be anything other than what they are. No disrespect, but you need to ask yourself if you are even ready for a man yet. Real wrap, If you feel that theres a problem with a man wanting to be with you to the point that he'll spend time and money on you and think that your bad-bitch enough for him to show you off, then youve got some shit to check.

And set her up how? So I'm going to spend time, money, and effort to get you to chill with me, bring you around my friends to...throw an egg in your face? Call you a faggot? If I did, what would that make me? A trick-ass faggot. So what are you talkin about? not a goddamn thing.

Damn...its too many insecure-ass transsexuals out here, I cant deal with this. Ill be in Thailand in a couple weeks. Trick my whole damn sexuality away.

Ol' paranoid ass, infiriority complex ass bih...

[BellaBellucci]

I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

Ol' paranoid ass bih...

Oh yeah, because you guys would never DREAM of setting a bitch up, would ya?! Paranoia: always the very first accusation made by the guilty. :roll:

~BB~

Her being open about her status marginalizes her in what way? Like thats all she is. I dont need anyone wanting to be anything other than what they are. No disrespect, but you need to ask yourself if you are even ready for a man yet. Real wrap, If you feel that theres a problem with a man wanting to be with you to the point that he'll spend time and money on you and think that your bad-bitch enough for him to show you off, then youve got some shit to check.

And set her up how? So I'm going to spend time, money, and effort to get you to chill with me, bring you around my friends to...throw an egg in your face? Call you a faggot? If I did, what would that make me? A trick-ass faggot. So what are you talkin about? not a goddamn thing.

Damn...its too many insecure-ass transsexuals out here, I cant deal with this. Ill be in Thailand in a couple weeks. Trick my whole damn sexuality away.

Ol' paranoid ass, infiriority complex ass bih...

Now who's being paranoid and insecure? I'm not talking about an actual situation into which you yourself have invested time, money, or emotional energy, but instead talking about the much more common situation in which a man finds a TS attractive, makes her a bunch of promises, and then eventually wimps out because he can't come to terms with his own sexuality. Your posts indicate that you don't agree that that ever happens. Well, you're wrong. If your girl comes out you damn well better protect her and represent her.

And apparently you don't know me if you think I have an inferiority complex. You want to have a round of competitive psychology to prove it? Let's play - you obvious momma's boy, you! When you talk about your ability to show off a TS girlfriend without pause I personally believe you overstate it in an attempt to overcompensate for the fact that the opposite is true, but even if I'm wrong you still can't project your seemingly good intentions onto every other man to claim as their own because frankly they are hardly ever strong enough to handle it. Why should we trust them?

So as well as men who are stable, grounded, and at peace with themselves, do you also believe in the Tooth Fairy? Santa Claus perhaps? Maybe the Easter Bunny? I may be cynical but I consider myself a realist and therefore the natural enemy of someone who is as optimistic as you, although that doesn't necessarily mean we need to start flinging insults at each other either. Case in point: I'm not 'ready for a man?' That's laughable. The truth is that I've yet to meet a man who's ready for me. Believe that.

~BB~

[mac.B]

[quote=mac.B]
I dont. But I would like to meet a ts girl who presents herself as that, is comfortable with her status and with me wanting her while knowing that she IS my girl.

Wow, now THAT is a recipe for disaster! You want a girl who's open about being TS and 'presents' herself as such? Does that have anything to do with the fact that once you've marginalized her amongst your friends by outing her it becomes easier for you to break up with her by citing peer pressure? Sounds like a setup to me. Would you be 'representing' this girl or just introducing her as a 'friend?'

You guys play more games than any of the girls here sometimes. If your girl needs to be comfortable with being TS then you need to be comfortable with her not wanting to announce that fact to the world. I don't understand why you would ever even want her to.

~BB~

Ol' paranoid ass bih...

Oh yeah, because you guys would never DREAM of setting a bitch up, would ya?! Paranoia: always the very first accusation made by the guilty. :roll:

~BB~

Her being open about her status marginalizes her in what way? Like thats all she is. I dont need anyone wanting to be anything other than what they are. No disrespect, but you need to ask yourself if you are even ready for a man yet. Real wrap, If you feel that theres a problem with a man wanting to be with you to the point that he'll spend time and money on you and think that your bad-bitch enough for him to show you off, then youve got some shit to check.

And set her up how? So I'm going to spend time, money, and effort to get you to chill with me, bring you around my friends to...throw an egg in your face? Call you a faggot? If I did, what would that make me? A trick-ass faggot. So what are you talkin about? not a goddamn thing.

Damn...its too many insecure-ass transsexuals out here, I cant deal with this. Ill be in Thailand in a couple weeks. Trick my whole damn sexuality away.

Ol' paranoid ass, infiriority complex ass bih...

Now who's being paranoid and insecure? I'm not talking about an actual situation into which you yourself have invested time, money, or emotional energy, but instead talking about the much more common situation in which a man finds a TS attractive, makes her a bunch of promises, and then eventually wimps out because he can't come to terms with his own sexuality. Your posts indicate that you don't agree that that ever happens. Well, you're wrong. If your girl comes out you damn well better protect her and represent her.
Noone was dealing with specifics, I'm telling you what I would do. Everyone I know knows that I like transsexuals. Everyone; and I came to grips with my sexuality gaddamn 7000 years ago. My posts tho, indicate that that would never happen with me. i dont speak for these other niccas.

And apparently you don't know me if you think I have an inferiority complex. You want to have a round of competitive psychology to prove it? Let's play - you obvious momma's boy, you! When you talk about your ability to show off a TS girlfriend without pause I personally believe you overstate it in an attempt to overcompensate for the fact that the opposite is true, but even if I'm wrong you still can't project your seemingly good intentions onto every other man to claim as their own because frankly they are hardly ever strong enough to handle it. Why should we trust them?
Ive been oversexualized since I was a kid. Addicted to porn and all of that. i slipped up and forgot to erase some things. My friends saw what I was looking at. All of my friends know what i'm in to. theyre my friends, they should. if the transsexual that I'm messing with is a bad-bitch, then shes getting flaunted. I dont mess with ducks and my friends know that. And again, I dont speak for these other dudes.

So as well as men who are stable, grounded, and at peace with themselves, do you also believe in the Tooth Fairy? Santa Claus perhaps? Maybe the Easter Bunny? I may be cynical but I consider myself a realist and therefore the natural enemy of someone who is as optimistic as you, although that doesn't necessarily mean we need to start flinging insults at each other either. Case in point: I'm not 'ready for a man?' That's laughable. The truth is that I've yet to meet a man who's ready for me. Believe that.

Maybe they arent, I dont know.I dont care. All I'm saying is that I want to meet a ts girl the normal way. And if we were to chill, she has to be comfortable in her own skin. I really dont know what the fuck is so mystical about that. Transsexual girls like that do exist.My homegurl Ash is like that, her friends, TS Vanessa is too. So what are we talking about?

A round of competative psychology tho? Calm yo ass down!

Ol' roto-rooter-ass bih.

[dan_drade]

I always suggest attending community events and such.

Thats a great way to meet a girl!!

[dan_drade]

What if there is no community?
:shrug:
There is always a community.

[bte]

What if there is no community?
:shrug:

There is always a community. That's no excuse. I lived in a small town after I got out of the military and I am talking small. The town was only 4200 people and there was still a trans-community there. Granted it was small but there was a community there. You could always go to a city if there is one next to where you live.

[bte]

double post

[BrendaQG]

lets be real...from transitioning..and the cost of it..to the difficulty of getting a good paying main stream job...even if a man came correct to you,and you dated,or started a relationship,if he couldn't match the dollars from escorting,most ts would continue to escort.Most men trick cause they like variety even in TS,or what they feel is the taboo excitement of something different.I love TS women,date them openly,have been in relationships
and escort,pay to play...it is what it is...

Just gotta take issue with that. Most TS's don't escort. The looks of those of us you see on HA are not average for transsexuals. Some are even above average for genetic women. On top of that it takes a certain mentality. It's not for everyone.

While you're taking issue with it...do you escort..yes or no question,not necessary to tell me bout school...do u escort?????

I have to plead the 5th about any escorting activity, I have, or will engage in.

Did you know that LE does look at what is said here?

Let me make it perfectly clear I don't judge anyone for escorting. It's a way to make money. To be frank most of the TS community is just not right for this business. They don't have the looks, mentality, or need to escort.

[BellaBellucci]

My friends saw what I was looking at. All of my friends know what i'm in to. theyre my friends, they should. if the transsexual that I'm messing with is a bad-bitch, then shes getting flaunted. I dont mess with ducks and my friends know that. And again, I dont speak for these other dudes.

Well then it sounds like you're blessed with real, true friends. Good for you. Those are very rare these days.



Maybe they arent, I dont know.I dont care. All I'm saying is that I want to meet a ts girl the normal way. And if we were to chill, she has to be comfortable in her own skin. I really dont know what the fuck is so mystical about that. Transsexual girls like that do exist.My homegurl Ash is like that, her friends, TS Vanessa is too. So what are we talking about?

I think you're confusing a girl's comfort level with her body with her desire to spread her truth around is if everybody else was just as comfortable. The two are far from mutually exclusive. Most people aren't as accepting of trans issues as those of us here are. This isn't about a girl being insecure - it's about her being safe - only disclosing what she herself wants to and only when she is ready. Pardon my presumption I think we can all agree that a girl's business is her own.


A round of competative psychology tho? Calm yo ass down!

Ol' roto-rooter-ass bih.

You're too funny. You sound just like Jix. :P

~BB~

[mac.B]

My friends saw what I was looking at. All of my friends know what i'm in to. theyre my friends, they should. if the transsexual that I'm messing with is a bad-bitch, then shes getting flaunted. I dont mess with ducks and my friends know that. And again, I dont speak for these other dudes.

Well then it sounds like you're blessed with real, true friends. Good for you. Those are very rare these days.



Maybe they arent, I dont know.I dont care. All I'm saying is that I want to meet a ts girl the normal way. And if we were to chill, she has to be comfortable in her own skin. I really dont know what the fuck is so mystical about that. Transsexual girls like that do exist.My homegurl Ash is like that, her friends, TS Vanessa is too. So what are we talking about?

I think you're confusing a girl's comfort level with her body with her desire to spread her truth around is if everybody else was just as comfortable. The two are far from mutually exclusive. Most people aren't as accepting of trans issues as those of us here are. This isn't about a girl being insecure - it's about her being safe - only disclosing what she herself wants to and only when she is ready. Pardon my presumption I think we can all agree that a girl's business is her own.

A round of competative psychology tho? Calm yo ass down!

Ol' roto-rooter-ass bih.

You're too funny. You sound just like Jix. :P

~BB~

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something. Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.


Wtf is a jix?

[peggygee]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

[BellaBellucci]

My friends saw what I was looking at. All of my friends know what i'm in to. theyre my friends, they should. if the transsexual that I'm messing with is a bad-bitch, then shes getting flaunted. I dont mess with ducks and my friends know that. And again, I dont speak for these other dudes.

Well then it sounds like you're blessed with real, true friends. Good for you. Those are very rare these days.



Maybe they arent, I dont know.I dont care. All I'm saying is that I want to meet a ts girl the normal way. And if we were to chill, she has to be comfortable in her own skin. I really dont know what the fuck is so mystical about that. Transsexual girls like that do exist.My homegurl Ash is like that, her friends, TS Vanessa is too. So what are we talking about?

I think you're confusing a girl's comfort level with her body with her desire to spread her truth around is if everybody else was just as comfortable. The two are far from mutually exclusive. Most people aren't as accepting of trans issues as those of us here are. This isn't about a girl being insecure - it's about her being safe - only disclosing what she herself wants to and only when she is ready. Pardon my presumption I think we can all agree that a girl's business is her own.

A round of competative psychology tho? Calm yo ass down!

Ol' roto-rooter-ass bih.

You're too funny. You sound just like Jix. :P

~BB~

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something. Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.


Wtf is a jix?

I think of us put ourselves out there whenever we feel it's safe to do so. I mean it's so much easier to spend time with people who know the situation than those who don't. It's just a matter of making sure you trust the right people.

And Jix is BLKGSXR, a user here.

~BB~

[mac.B]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.

[TsVanessa69]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.
I think the whole pourpose of transitiong would be to live a normal straight life.
My real life and my ts life are VERY different.
I'n my ts life, I'm constantly critiqued and made fun of by other ts for no reason, I'm judged by the size of my cock and the size of my load.
In my REAL life, I'm jus a cool bitch thats not scared to be herself, and I enjoy and am apreciated by straight men who see the woman in me.
More and more I am heading that way. Where I will just be a normal woman, who to show off my wild excentric side will do shows and hostess partys and such and enjoy that side of me.
Its time for Reina the woman to live her life, and let Vanessa the TS do her thing as a job until I get to NYC where I have dreamed of living and working as a show girl since I was a child.
I read alot when I was younger and NYC just seemed the spot for everybody who was somebody in show biz.
I remember reading the story of Josephine Baker and how she did shows in NYC and rode the subway to her show.
She died a showgirl, glamourous, strong woman with a story.
I think thats how I want to go.
Older, refined, doing what I love to do, and enjoying my life.

[youshouldtrythislol]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.
I think the whole pourpose of transitiong would be to live a normal straight life.
My real life and my ts life are VERY different.
I'n my ts life, I'm constantly critiqued and made fun of by other ts for no reason, I'm judged by the size of my cock and the size of my load.
In my REAL life, I'm jus a cool bitch thats not scared to be herself, and I enjoy and am apreciated by straight men who see the woman in me.
More and more I am heading that way. Where I will just be a normal woman, who to show off my wild excentric side will do shows and hostess partys and such and enjoy that side of me.
Its time for Reina the woman to live her life, and let Vanessa the TS do her thing as a job until I get to NYC where I have dreamed of living and working as a show girl since I was a child.
I read alot when I was younger and NYC just seemed the spot for everybody who was somebody in show biz.
I remember reading the story of Josephine Baker and how she did shows in NYC and rode the subway to her show.
She died a showgirl, glamourous, strong woman with a story.
I think thats how I want to go.
Older, refined, doing what I love to do, and enjoying my life.

your real life sounds much more preferable to your 'ts' life. i dont understand why you have to be 2 people? could you not be 'cool and not be scared to be yourself'?


and best of luck to you in your goal to go to nyc and be a showgirl, from what ive seen of you posting on here, you seem to have a level head, and i believe you will achieve this goal, and even surpass it.

[TsVanessa69]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.
I think the whole pourpose of transitiong would be to live a normal straight life.
My real life and my ts life are VERY different.
I'n my ts life, I'm constantly critiqued and made fun of by other ts for no reason, I'm judged by the size of my cock and the size of my load.
In my REAL life, I'm jus a cool bitch thats not scared to be herself, and I enjoy and am apreciated by straight men who see the woman in me.
More and more I am heading that way. Where I will just be a normal woman, who to show off my wild excentric side will do shows and hostess partys and such and enjoy that side of me.
Its time for Reina the woman to live her life, and let Vanessa the TS do her thing as a job until I get to NYC where I have dreamed of living and working as a show girl since I was a child.
I read alot when I was younger and NYC just seemed the spot for everybody who was somebody in show biz.
I remember reading the story of Josephine Baker and how she did shows in NYC and rode the subway to her show.
She died a showgirl, glamourous, strong woman with a story.
I think thats how I want to go.
Older, refined, doing what I love to do, and enjoying my life.

your real life sounds much more preferable to your 'ts' life. i dont understand why you have to be 2 people? could you not be 'cool and not be scared to be yourself'?


and best of luck to you in your goal to go to nyc and be a showgirl, from what ive seen of you posting on here, you seem to have a level head, and i believe you will achieve this goal, and even surpass it.
Wel see being ts is a label society puts on us.
Then there are men who use that label against us
but yet will pay us to be a dirty secret, a freakazoid in the bedroom and juge us on dick size and how hard we fuck.
In my real life, I like being appreciated for the softness of my skin, the femininity of my body and the focus is on me the woman.
See there are guys out there, far and few who see me for ME.
Being TS is a job to me.
Being a woman is my reality.
Sometimes I look back and see how the ts part fucked me up mentally more than living as a woman and getting thru in life.
Funny, I never had an issue dealing with straight people and being accepted as a woman. yea, as tall as I am, as old as I am, as yada, yada, I have always been abled to be accepted in straight society for ME.
Ts society has been the problem with me.
I'm never gonna fit in and really I no longer care if I do or not.
Those blessed to know ME, know that my main concern in life now is to just be comfortable being a ts and helping educate other people to the fact that ts are human as well.

[youshouldtrythislol]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.
I think the whole pourpose of transitiong would be to live a normal straight life.
My real life and my ts life are VERY different.
I'n my ts life, I'm constantly critiqued and made fun of by other ts for no reason, I'm judged by the size of my cock and the size of my load.
In my REAL life, I'm jus a cool bitch thats not scared to be herself, and I enjoy and am apreciated by straight men who see the woman in me.
More and more I am heading that way. Where I will just be a normal woman, who to show off my wild excentric side will do shows and hostess partys and such and enjoy that side of me.
Its time for Reina the woman to live her life, and let Vanessa the TS do her thing as a job until I get to NYC where I have dreamed of living and working as a show girl since I was a child.
I read alot when I was younger and NYC just seemed the spot for everybody who was somebody in show biz.
I remember reading the story of Josephine Baker and how she did shows in NYC and rode the subway to her show.
She died a showgirl, glamourous, strong woman with a story.
I think thats how I want to go.
Older, refined, doing what I love to do, and enjoying my life.

your real life sounds much more preferable to your 'ts' life. i dont understand why you have to be 2 people? could you not be 'cool and not be scared to be yourself'?


and best of luck to you in your goal to go to nyc and be a showgirl, from what ive seen of you posting on here, you seem to have a level head, and i believe you will achieve this goal, and even surpass it.
Wel see being ts is a label society puts on us.
Then there are men who use that label against us
but yet will pay us to be a dirty secret, a freakazoid in the bedroom and juge us on dick size and how hard we fuck.
In my real life, I like being appreciated for the softness of my skin, the femininity of my body and the focus is on me the woman.
See there are giys out there, far and few who see me for ME.
Being TS is a job to me.
Being a woman is my reality.
Sometimes I look back and see how the ts part fucked me up mentally more than living as a woman and getting thru in life.
Funny, I never had an issue dealing with straight people and being accepted as a woman. yea, as tall as I am, as old as I am, as yada, yada, I have always been abled to be accepted in straight society for ME.
Ts society has been the problem with me.
I'm never gonna fit in and really I no longer care if I do or not.
Those blessed to know ME, know that my main concern in life now is to just be comfortable being a ts and helping educate other people to the fact that ts are human as well.
i never understood the point of labels. just another way for humanity to judge and condem people who they precieve as 'different'.
it is good that you dont care about 'fitting in'. who would want to 'fit in' with people who are willing to condem someone before they even know them.
i guess i can see why you would have to be 2 people, though i think you should not have to do that.

anyways, thanks for answering my ramblings, and i hope i have not offended you in any way.

[mac.B]

You make it sound like Im telling them to advertise or something.

Thats too extreme, just put yorselves out there.




Hi Mac, I read a few of the posts, but I'm confused as to what
"just put yorselves out there" means.

Shed some light, por favor.

:?

Hell...wear a special belt or something. You got me, I guess. I just want to go to a club or something and i.d a transsexual so I can hook her like that instead of paying for sex with a ts like Im some lame or something. But I guess thare really is no way to do that so nvm.

but dont lesbiand wear special colors tho? Thats a good way. Yall should think of a way to i.d yourselves like that for us guys. Itll work out.
I think the whole pourpose of transitiong would be to live a normal straight life.
My real life and my ts life are VERY different.
I'n my ts life, I'm constantly critiqued and made fun of by other ts for no reason, I'm judged by the size of my cock and the size of my load.
In my REAL life, I'm jus a cool bitch thats not scared to be herself, and I enjoy and am apreciated by straight men who see the woman in me.
More and more I am heading that way. Where I will just be a normal woman, who to show off my wild excentric side will do shows and hostess partys and such and enjoy that side of me.
Its time for Reina the woman to live her life, and let Vanessa the TS do her thing as a job until I get to NYC where I have dreamed of living and working as a show girl since I was a child.
I read alot when I was younger and NYC just seemed the spot for everybody who was somebody in show biz.
I remember reading the story of Josephine Baker and how she did shows in NYC and rode the subway to her show.
She died a showgirl, glamourous, strong woman with a story.
I think thats how I want to go.
Older, refined, doing what I love to do, and enjoying my life.

Your right. Thats just wishful thinking for me though...the shit just sounded good you know?. If I meet one I meet one I guess; but I wasnt talking about just for sex though. Thats not what its about, lets be clear.