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BlackAdder
10-24-2005, 06:06 AM
How come if a GG or TS posts a personal she get 1000's of replies, but if a male posts a personal all he gets is crickets....Last time I checked, men were outnumbered by women almost 2 to 1 in the US.....so WTF lol???
tsntx
10-24-2005, 06:12 AM
posted a personals and got 0 u hear that ZERO replys i guess my pics rnt airbrushed enough, my tits arent tissue paper, my hair is too real and my voice is too fem to get a man from this site... or at least the pics of what is considered "hot" around here makes me think that
BlackAdder
10-24-2005, 06:15 AM
This site has relatively few readers....Post a profile on Match.com and If you dont have more replies then you can read in a week let me know and ill eat my socks....
Ive talked about this with some other girls and the whole personals experience must be VERY different for them from what ive gathered :evil:
underdog6
10-24-2005, 06:17 AM
Don't worry about it tsntx you look wonderful. Most of these people on this board are posers. I think you look great. :D
underdog6
10-24-2005, 06:18 AM
Don't worry about it tsntx you look wonderful. Most of these people on this board are posers. I think you look great. :D
Vicki Richter
10-24-2005, 06:19 AM
How come if a GG or TS posts a personal she get 1000's of replies, but if a male posts a personal all he gets is crickets....Last time I checked, men were outnumbered by women almost 2 to 1 in the US.....so WTF lol???
I think it's about the hunter and the hunted.
tsntx
10-24-2005, 06:25 AM
This site has relatively few readers....Post a profile on Match.com and If you dont have more replies then you can read in a week let me know and ill eat my socks....
Ive talked about this with some other girls and the whole personals experience must be VERY different for them from what ive gathered :evil:
my profile as im sure men on this site have seen.. is on NORMAL dating sites.. its also very VERY clear to my profile that im a ts so when the guys do reply *and they do hundreds* they almost always say "ill be in ur area on such and such day can i book a meeting w/ you and if so how much" its ridiculous .... then the few that do sweep me off my feet pursue me and talk to me i finally meet them we hit it off go on a few dates i have sex and BAM never hear from the asshole again... its ridiculous the things guys will do ... and all j/k aside i know its not b/c i wasnt good in bed... and no i wont try and prove that w/ you
bartholomeus
10-24-2005, 06:25 AM
com on this is a easy one girls get offered d*ck since they are say 15 and they live brushing off men till they have one they like. Men on the other hand never get offered pussy( theres exceptions). So its always been like that men are the chasers and girls just decided. I mean at least we dont have to go hunting like neanderthals to show somoene we are alpha, least we can do is be the ones to hunt for the girls. Thats why i girl wont normally consider a personal for a man unless shes desperate otherwise she would be able to meet men literaly everywere read-->read the 1st sentence.
tsntx
10-24-2005, 06:28 AM
thnx under dog but im still single... any guys interested go to my site and if u can fit the things im looking for plz say so ... if not thnx for the compliments boys
bartholomeus
10-24-2005, 06:31 AM
do i really have to go to the website?
tsntx
10-24-2005, 06:32 AM
what do u think?
bartholomeus
10-24-2005, 06:40 AM
OUch that list is very long.... how demanding... i'll just say im overqualified for the job ;)
Felicia Katt
10-24-2005, 06:59 AM
if you are counting on their being twice as many women as men, you may need to take your mittens off and recalculate. The breakdown by gender for the US population is 51% female and 49% male. Thats as a whole. For this small part of that whole, there are probably 10 or more men on this board for every girl and probably a similar ratio for elsewhere online as well. I'm not one of the "ubergirls" here by any means, but I get dozens of IM's and emails and friend requests and such every week so I never ever even check the personals.
FK
bartholomeus
10-24-2005, 07:00 AM
proves my point... why would you go looking for guys when you they come to you.
tsntx
10-24-2005, 08:04 AM
proves my point... why would you go looking for guys when you they come to you.
b/c the ones that do come in all honesty really havent been even close to what im wanting...
to mr. over qualified.... u go my attention prove it
1. where do you live
2. how old r you
3. do you have a pic
4. are you single
5. how tall are you
those were on the list and pretty much the must haves... im waiting :D -j
tsntx
10-24-2005, 08:07 AM
wow its late i thought i was responding to the same person
tsntx
10-24-2005, 08:09 AM
lmao um again its late
*wasnt referring
bartholomeus
10-24-2005, 09:49 AM
its really late yes... im up because of this hurricane passing over me. hmm interesting i have the honor.... wats your age? hieght etc?
Hugh Jarrod
10-24-2005, 09:49 AM
How come if a GG or TS posts a personal she get 1000's of replies, but if a male posts a personal all he gets is crickets....Last time I checked, men were outnumbered by women almost 2 to 1 in the US.....so WTF lol???
I think it's about the hunter and the hunted.
The prey allways outnumber the hunter, by many.
Hugh Jarrod
10-24-2005, 09:51 AM
proves my point... why would you go looking for guys when you they come to you.
b/c the ones that do come in all honesty really havent been even close to what im wanting...
to mr. over qualified.... u go my attention prove it
1. where do you live
2. how old r you
3. do you have a pic
4. are you single
5. how tall are you
those were on the list and pretty much the must haves... im waiting :D -j
LOL! Let's see....
1.Bay Area Ca. -- San Jose
2.34 pass for mid 20's easy.
3.One of these days.
4.Yes
5.6'4" + 220lbs athletic build, dark hair with hazel eyes.
BlackAdder
10-24-2005, 03:06 PM
Jen, ive read your list of qualifications....31 I believe lol? Remember I said thats being a little bit picky??.....Again, Ill state that most girls focus in on looking for perfection and wind up alone because of it...then they complain they can never find someone that fits there unrealistic script theyve written for prince charming..
Ecstatic
10-24-2005, 04:31 PM
if you are counting on their being twice as many women as men, you may need to take your mittens off and recalculate. The breakdown by gender for the US population is 51% female and 49% male. Thats as a whole. For this small part of that whole, there are probably 10 or more men on this board for every girl and probably a similar ratio for elsewhere online as well. I'm not one of the "ubergirls" here by any means, but I get dozens of IM's and emails and friend requests and such every week so I never ever even check the personals.
FK
Hi Felicia! I was about to respond to this when I read your post (great to see you posting here again!). To break it down a little more:
Age structure:
0-14 years: 21.12% (male 30,034,674; female 28,681,253)
15-64 years: 66.27% (male 91,371,753; female 92,907,199)
65 years and over: 12.61% (male 14,608,948; female 20,455,054)
(2001 est.)
Sex ratio:
at birth: 1.05 male(s)/female
under 15 years: 1.05 male(s)/female
15-64 years: 0.98 male(s)/female
65 years and over: 0.71 male(s)/female
total population: 0.96 male(s)/female (2001 est.)
(CIA World Factbook - quoted on http://www.worldpress.org/profiles/United_states.cfm)
Between ages 15 and 64, the ratio is virtually 1:1; the biggest discrepancy follows in the elderly, then children under 15.
Now, TS to M ratio? Hmmm.....
Hugh Jarrod
10-24-2005, 09:28 PM
Jen, ive read your list of qualifications....31 I believe lol? Remember I said thats being a little bit picky??.....Again, Ill state that most girls focus in on looking for perfection and wind up alone because of it...then they complain they can never find someone that fits there unrealistic script theyve written for prince charming..
It's women's magazines that put unrealistic images out there that men can't possibly live up to. Hey wait a minute..............................j/k
tsntx
10-25-2005, 12:39 AM
Jen, ive read your list of qualifications....31 I believe lol? Remember I said thats being a little bit picky??.....Again, Ill state that most girls focus in on looking for perfection and wind up alone because of it...then they complain they can never find someone that fits there unrealistic script theyve written for prince charming..
my 31 qualifications are almost all about personality and character not about what color hair you have or anything else thats physical... also whats the #31 quality say "if you dont meet all these and you still wouldnt try to hit me up then youre not my kind of guy either" now as the author of said list i realize thats not word per word but its the same point... if you dont have the balls or confidence to intro yourself even tho you dont fit the first #30 things then youre not my kind of guy period b/c the guy id date HAS to be confident
BoNBoN
10-25-2005, 12:43 AM
I dont know too many guys who can meet your standards....
If you looking to date me
Category: Love and Relationships
Don't even think about it if.....
1. You are or have ever been married
2. You have never finished at least high school
3. You are younger then 21
4. You weigh less then 165
5. Your height is not near 6'2
6. You are not romantic
7. You have bad breath
8. You have a psycho ex-girlfriend
9. You are just looking for a booty call
10.You are not open to getting married in the next 3-4 years
11.You live with your parents
12. You are not spontaneous
13.You are not talented in any way
14. You don't look hot naked :)
15. You are on the rebound
16. You can't sweep me off my feet
17. You are no fun
18. You do drugs
19. You can't call me every day even just to say hello
20. You're not good in communicating
21. You like threesomes
22. You don't like to surprise women with cute little romatic stuff or little gifts
23. You are not a great kisser
24. You don't like my hair color...I will go back brunette when I'm ready.
26. You don't believe in unconditional love!
27. You have issues w/ monogomy
28. You don't live at least NEAR me or plan on it
29. You don't have a job... Doesn't mean it's so you can buy me everything I want.. just so as I don't have to buy you everything you want
30. Are over the age of 35
last but not least...
31. Don't have the balls to try even if you're the opposite of all 30 point
MacShreach
10-25-2005, 01:00 AM
I dont know too many guys who can meet your standards....
If you looking to date me
Category: Love and Relationships
Don't even think about it if.....
1. You are or have ever been married
<snip>
31. Don't have the balls to try even if you're the opposite of all 30 point
You don't get it. She is really, really, really funny. I mean I think I can be funny. Some people even tell me I'm funny. But that chick is just hilarious, and you know what, it's great. I hear plenty stories about t-girls that get so fucked up it's a tragedy, and here we have one who a) is pretty hot b) has a sense of humour c) has a realism about herself. I get the impression Jen is going to be just fine. Just God help any pore sucker gets in her way.
Jen, you definitely have a potential career as the first t-girl stand-up (comedian, you jerks). Just think Rich Hall for the delivery and you'll kill 'em. You really will. R.
BlackAdder
10-25-2005, 03:50 AM
Confidence has nothing to do with it. I close real estate deals, so I dont have any problems with confidence, but when I read a list like that no im not even going to try because if that list is for real, Ill never be able to come close to satisfying it and trying to would only be an exercise in sado-masochism.... Or stupidity...neither of which I am prone to..
In short, whenever I see a girl lay out a list like that, I avoid her like the plague because she most likely has fairy-tale ending issues. I already know this from experience. If its meant as a joke, you cant tell because this is the internet...which really bad at implying connotation.
tsntx
10-25-2005, 03:58 AM
I dont know too many guys who can meet your standards....
If you looking to date me
Category: Love and Relationships
Don't even think about it if.....
1. You are or have ever been married
<snip>
31. Don't have the balls to try even if you're the opposite of all 30 point
You don't get it. She is really, really, really funny. I mean I think I can be funny. Some people even tell me I'm funny. But that chick is just hilarious, and you know what, it's great. I hear plenty stories about t-girls that get so fucked up it's a tragedy, and here we have one who a) is pretty hot b) has a sense of humour c) has a realism about herself. I get the impression Jen is going to be just fine. Just God help any pore sucker gets in her way.
Jen, you definitely have a potential career as the first t-girl stand-up (comedian, you jerks). Just think Rich Hall for the delivery and you'll kill 'em. You really will. R.
at least some ppl get it... ive done stand up its great but i prefer it on my back w/ my legs on ur sholders
tsntx
10-25-2005, 04:00 AM
Confidence has nothing to do with it. I close real estate deals, so I dont have any problems with confidence, but when I read a list like that no im not even going to try because if that list is for real, Ill never be able to come close to satisfying it and trying to would only be an exercise in sado-masochism.... Or stupidity...neither of which I am prone to..
In short, whenever I see a girl lay out a list like that, I avoid her like the plague because she most likely has fairy-tale ending issues. I already know this from experience. If its meant as a joke, you cant tell because this is the internet...which really bad at implying connotation.
baby its ok by me that you dont fit what i'm looking for... theres no law that says you have to be everything i want just b/c im everything you want
and just in case youre thinking ... " lmao bitch youre not what i want!" then ask yourself this ... "why are you concerned w/ what my list says?"
TomSelis
10-25-2005, 04:04 AM
#31 says it all
chefmike
10-25-2005, 04:09 AM
so... one-night stands are out of the question? :lol:
ARMANIXXX
10-25-2005, 04:24 AM
21. You like threesomes
__________________________________________________ ________________________________________
:lol:
LOL...you realize you just cut like 90% of the ENTIRE male gene pool
:lol:
Vicki Richter
10-25-2005, 04:34 AM
I was thinking and I figured this out... OK... So there are say 1000 girls and 1000 guys. 667 of those people are married... and 333 are single of each gender. However, 60%+ of men cheat, and only somewhere around 40% of women cheat... So 266 women and 400 guys are still looking while married... That makes 733 men and 600 women out there looking for some.
Now, all guys prefer attractive women, even if they will settle for some fat "BBW" who is giving it up if they can't get a hot girl. So say 25% of those 600 looking women are attractive. So now you have 125 women getting emails from all 733 looking guys. We get so many emails that we don't have time to go search the Men Seeking personals ourselves.
Math comes in very handy sometimes.
Ecstatic
10-25-2005, 05:42 AM
at least some ppl get it... ive done stand up its great but i prefer it on my back w/ my legs on ur sholders
:lol: :lol: :lol:
go 31!
Ecstatic
10-25-2005, 05:44 AM
Math comes in very handy sometimes.
As do statistics, which are definitely stacked in your favor, Vicki!
Hugh Jarrod
10-25-2005, 09:45 AM
Math comes in very handy sometimes.
...and knowledge is power.
MacShreach
10-25-2005, 09:54 AM
at least some ppl get it... ive done stand up its great but i prefer it on my back w/ my legs on ur sholders
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Vicki said:
I was thinking and I figured this out... OK... So there are say 1000 girls and 1000 guys. 667 of those people are married... and 333 are single of each gender. However, 60%+ of men cheat, and only somewhere around 40% of women cheat... So 266 women and 400 guys are still looking while married... That makes 733 men and 600 women out there looking for some.
Now, all guys prefer attractive women, even if they will settle for some fat "BBW" who is giving it up if they can't get a hot girl. So say 25% of those 600 looking women are attractive. So now you have 125 women getting emails from all 733 looking guys. We get so many emails that we don't have time to go search the Men Seeking personals ourselves.
Math comes in very handy sometimes.
Very good Vicki, but can you solve quadratic equations? :)
But really, you have a point, although I think that saying 60% of all married men cheat on their wives is an exaggeration. Also, you forgot gay guys, lesbians and bisexuals.
But it's true that all men would rather be with attractive women (that is to say: women that they find attractive- beauty is, to some extent, in the eye of the beholder). So, if your assumptions are anything to go by, a quarter of the women, or 150, will be chased by all of the guys.
And the lesson to guys is this: Your chances of nailing a hot babe are, according to Vicki, just 20%. Your chances of nailing an average girl are several times higher. It's just a question of either maximising your chances or taking a risk for a (seemingly) bigger reward.
Isn't maths too cold a science to use when shedding light on human relationships?
tsntx
10-25-2005, 11:02 AM
i once had a barbie that said 'math class is hard, lets go to the mall!" i loved that doll i wish i had it still... it got recalled and is worth some money now
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