For Girls: Have you given up on love?

[evilernie]

Do you picture yourself growing old with a partner beside you and live happily ever after?

[MrsKellyPierce]

I have always hoped for this.

I have been in commited relationships. I have been in open relationships. For years at a time and what not. I am dating a guy now that I have been thoroughly commited to even by doing just solo scenes for porn.

I have made the commitment and have tried to move forward from my past. But what I find most men wont forget your past, and wont let you become the woman who you have always desired of yourself. I see myself as a lady and classy at the end of the day. Yes I did porn, but I don't sleep around. With my recent boyfriend I waited a month to have sex with him. I think if the guy is really into you, he will wait. Otherwise he is like most just there for the fantasy aspect.

But again most can't get past the career and my escorting past. Even though I never did it professionally. I did it several times, didn't enjoy it. Paid for certain enhancements and that was that. I also did strip teasing for money where no sex was involved, but even then a lot of men that I am interested in have issue with that.

Furthermore, I like the fact the guy I am dating doesn't support my porn career. That he prefers me to do solos. It says he cared about me. Least thats my opinion.

But as I said most men don't deserve me........point blank.

But I still hold out hope that I will find that soulmate....

[rockabilly]

I always say that loving someone is about acceptance. You dont have to like her past ... but if she chooses a future w/ you , then learn from it and be happy together.


But i'm a naive idealist , so just my 2¢

[BellaBellucci]

I have always hoped for this.

I have been in commited relationships. I have been in open relationships. For years at a time and what not. I am dating a guy now that I have been thoroughly commited to even by doing just solo scenes for porn.

I have made the commitment and try to move forward. But what I find most men wont forget your past, and wont let you become the woman who you have always desired of yourself. I see myself as a lady and classy at the end of the day. Yes I did porn, but I don't sleep around. With my recent boyfriend I waited a month to have sex with him. I think if the guy is really into you, he will wait. Otherwise he is like most just there for the fantasy aspect.

But again most can't get past of what I have as a career and past escorting. Even though I never did it professionally. I did it several times, didn't enjoy it. Paid for certain enhancements and that was that. I also did strip teasing for money where no sex was involved, but even then a lot of men that I am interested in have issue with that.

Furthermore, I like the fact the guy I am dating doesn't support my porn career. That he prefers me to do solos. It says he cared about me. Least thats my opinion.

But as I said most men don't deserve me........point blank.

But I still hold out hope that I will find that soulmate....

Personally I'm the opposite. I think whomever loves me will support whatever it is that I'm doing - as long as it doesn't adversely affect him or her of course. Plenty of people have polyamorous relationships so I would prefer someone who supports my career because they agree that it's just business.

On the other hand. I don't know if I could be with someone who gets off on watching me fuck other people either unless they're directly involved... which in my case is a definite possibility since I love threesomes. :P

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

I have always hoped for this.

I have been in commited relationships. I have been in open relationships. For years at a time and what not. I am dating a guy now that I have been thoroughly commited to even by doing just solo scenes for porn.

I have made the commitment and try to move forward. But what I find most men wont forget your past, and wont let you become the woman who you have always desired of yourself. I see myself as a lady and classy at the end of the day. Yes I did porn, but I don't sleep around. With my recent boyfriend I waited a month to have sex with him. I think if the guy is really into you, he will wait. Otherwise he is like most just there for the fantasy aspect.

But again most can't get past of what I have as a career and past escorting. Even though I never did it professionally. I did it several times, didn't enjoy it. Paid for certain enhancements and that was that. I also did strip teasing for money where no sex was involved, but even then a lot of men that I am interested in have issue with that.

Furthermore, I like the fact the guy I am dating doesn't support my porn career. That he prefers me to do solos. It says he cared about me. Least thats my opinion.

But as I said most men don't deserve me........point blank.

But I still hold out hope that I will find that soulmate....

Personally I'm the opposite. I think whomever loves me will support whatever it is that I'm doing - as long as it doesn't adversely affect him or her of course. Plenty of people have polyamorous relationships so I would prefer someone who supports my career because they agree that it's just business.

On the other hand. I don't know if I could be with someone who gets off on watching me fuck other people either unless they're directly involved... which in my case is a definite possibility since I love threesomes. :P

~BB~I enjoy threesomes and foursomes too with other couples! But again I like when he is involved of course. But I think it does adversely affect them, he has to worry about if you are enjoying it , if there is chemistry between you and the performer and what not. But again just my opinion!

Rockabilly very well said!

[rockabilly]

Thanks Kelly.

[BellaBellucci]

I enjoy threesomes and foursomes too with other couples! But again I like when he is involved of course. But I think it does adversely affect them, he has to worry about if you are enjoying it , if there is chemistry between you and the performer and what not. But again just my opinion!

Rockabilly very well said!

I would have a threesome with you and your boyfriend. :oops:

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

I enjoy threesomes and foursomes too with other couples! But again I like when he is involved of course. But I think it does adversely affect them, he has to worry about if you are enjoying it , if there is chemistry between you and the performer and what not. But again just my opinion!

Rockabilly very well said!

I would have a threesome with you and your boyfriend. :oops:

~BB~ lol aww what a compliment, but I am really only into woman and men :)

[BellaBellucci]

I enjoy threesomes and foursomes too with other couples! But again I like when he is involved of course. But I think it does adversely affect them, he has to worry about if you are enjoying it , if there is chemistry between you and the performer and what not. But again just my opinion!

Rockabilly very well said!

I would have a threesome with you and your boyfriend. :oops:

~BB~ lol aww what a compliment, but I am really only into woman and men :)

So I've heard. lol

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

I enjoy threesomes and foursomes too with other couples! But again I like when he is involved of course. But I think it does adversely affect them, he has to worry about if you are enjoying it , if there is chemistry between you and the performer and what not. But again just my opinion!

Rockabilly very well said!

I would have a threesome with you and your boyfriend. :oops:

~BB~ lol aww what a compliment, but I am really only into woman and men :)

So I've heard. lol

~BB~ lol

[MiaIsabella1985]

I think it is very sad to give up on the idea of love. There is someone for everyone and its when your not looking that it usually finds you.

[blonde_sweetheart]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

[nicoleneuman24]

I really do hope to find someone I can be with. I have had great boyfriends in the past so I do have some hope to hold onto that there is one guy out there for me. Hope I find him soon, but im not holding my breath!

Love you guys!

xoxo
Nikki

[LibertyHarkness]

been and got the tshirt :) had a partner for 10years ..

I now enjoy immensely being single as its enabled me to learn about me and move on with my own life...

Yes i get lonely sometimes when my mates are all cosied up with their partners etc.. but hell i have my family, and my big fluffy dog to keep my company... Though i tend to just work if bored ...

MAybe one day i would like a partner, my problem is I think the type of person i want dont exist...

I know i wouldnt have a female girlfriend again though ever ..think a boy or ts next ..though i am favouring a guy i think .

[evilernie]

Some might might already know that there is a sister thread for the guys.
http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48782

So don't be too pessimistic, they're out there. And 17 is a decent sample size.

[jcinva]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

[Silcc69]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

Hookup with rockabilly!

[Alyssa87]

oh. he's out there.
i just gotta get myself ready for him.

[SarahG]

Some might might already know that there is a sister thread for the guys.
http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48782

So don't be too pessimistic, they're out there. And 17 is a decent sample size.

That's assuming no guys posted in the poll, deluding the results.

[blonde_sweetheart]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???

[BLKGSXR]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???I think he means your still YOUNG and have a lot to see and learn in life-lots of experiences you havent had but can/will have in time.

[Alyssa87]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???I think he means your still YOUNG and have a lot to see and learn in life-lots of experiences you havent had but can/will have in time.

Yeah. even @ 21 im not even close to throwing in the towel.

Do like me...
Work on becoming your ideal self, and it only makes sense that you'll find your ideal man.
something that great is gonna take some serious effort though. imo.


Surgery, beauty, education, independence-- make it happen :!:

[jcinva]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???I think he means your still YOUNG and have a lot to see and learn in life-lots of experiences you havent had but can/will have in time.

That, of course. You have an entire lifetime of having love hand you your ass on a plate ahead of you, still. There's falling in love with insensitive assholes, with people already involved with someone else, betrayals, infidelities, venereal diseases, finding yourself so hung up on someone you realize you've been acting like a complete douche for months, getting manipulated into being someone you aren't as the price for holding it all together, as well as the aforementioned bankrupting yourself.

Ah. Good times. Good times.

My other point is - at what point, exactly, in your life did you give up?

18 - [long since] = what? 12? 13?

You closed the door on love when Skip didn't ask you to the Sock Hop? Tom sat next to someone else in study hall? You found out Keanu made a mix tape for Vanessa, too?

[bte]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???I think he means your still YOUNG and have a lot to see and learn in life-lots of experiences you havent had but can/will have in time.

That, of course. You have an entire lifetime of having love hand you your ass on a plate ahead of you, still. There's falling in love with insensitive assholes, with people already involved with someone else, betrayals, infidelities, venereal diseases, finding yourself so hung up on someone you realize you've been acting like a complete douche for months, getting manipulated into being someone you aren't as the price for holding it all together, as well as the aforementioned bankrupting yourself.

Ah. Good times. Good times.

My other point is - at what point, exactly, in your life did you give up?

18 - [long since] = what? 12? 13?

You closed the door on love when Skip didn't ask you to the Sock Hop? Tom sat next to someone else in study hall? You found out Keanu made a mix tape for Vanessa, too?

Schools still do sock hops? I don't know why Ashley has given up on love considering that by her own admission she has never been in a relationship or even have her first kiss. Perhaps she just needs to move to another city where not everyone knows her as "The guy who transitioned into a girl" but as the new girl.

[blonde_sweetheart]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???I think he means your still YOUNG and have a lot to see and learn in life-lots of experiences you havent had but can/will have in time.

That, of course. You have an entire lifetime of having love hand you your ass on a plate ahead of you, still. There's falling in love with insensitive assholes, with people already involved with someone else, betrayals, infidelities, venereal diseases, finding yourself so hung up on someone you realize you've been acting like a complete douche for months, getting manipulated into being someone you aren't as the price for holding it all together, as well as the aforementioned bankrupting yourself.

Ah. Good times. Good times.

My other point is - at what point, exactly, in your life did you give up?

18 - [long since] = what? 12? 13?

You closed the door on love when Skip didn't ask you to the Sock Hop? Tom sat next to someone else in study hall? You found out Keanu made a mix tape for Vanessa, too?


I gave up on October 11th 2006 . . .I don't remember exactly when but it has been a long time.I think there's no use even explaining myself because this topic is just getting tiresome and repetitive.
I'm just sick of everyone saying "you'll meet the right person eventually!"
Well I'm not looking for "the right person" just yet!! Maybe just someone to hookup with or FWB...I'm not out to find the love of my life.I'm just so so done I don't even want to discuss this further.I feel how I feel and your all wrong because I'm never going to find anyone.ITs just the way it is!!!!!!!!!!!!



Yeah. even @ 21 im not even close to throwing in the towel.

Do like me...
Work on becoming your ideal self, and it only makes sense that you'll find your ideal man.
something that great is gonna take some serious effort though. imo.


Surgery, beauty, education, independence-- make it happen :!:

While I appreciate your advice I disagree...how come my GG friends don't have to have plastic surgery to be loved and validated by men??
How come many transgirls don't??Why can't I find someone who accepts me as I am right now...without implants or a nosejob or pumped lips...sure I want implants but I don't think theyre gonna help me find the man of my dreams. :roll: :roll:

[Alyssa87]

thats fine ash.


everything aint for everybody.
its just my love mantra. works for me for now.

[BrendaQG]

I voted no. My reason for hope will sound corny to some here. Religion. While I personally don't think I'll meet a truly compatible guy with whom I could be serious. I have faith that god will provide one.

I have had boyfriends as a male and as a TG. There is a world of difference between a boyfriend and a potential husband.

[buckjohnson]

I just discovered my high school sweetheart on Facebook...and i think we are going to hookup. She lives in TX though....We know what goes on in Texas.

We spilt up right before high school grad over some bullshit i was going through but I always knew she was the one for me.

[whatthehell]

brenda youre gorgeous!

[whatthehell]

femqueen FACE!

[buckjohnson]

I guess maybe I should have not resp, since it was for the girls.. Sorry.

[muhmuh]

Why can't I find someone who accepts me as I am right now...without implants or a nosejob or pumped lips...sure I want implants but I don't think theyre gonna help me find the man of my dreams. :roll: :roll:

because you seem have troubles accepting yourself
lack of self confidence doesnt exactly increase your sex appeal

[Teydyn]

your all wrong because I'm never going to find anyone. ITs just the way it is!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thats closing the eyes to possibilities. As bad as going "i need to find someone, i NEED". One makes you miss chances, the other scares chances away.


Why can't I find someone who accepts me as I am right now...without implants or a nosejob or pumped lips
Because society sucks? Most people who dont know you will still see you as a man?

[Nicole Dupre]

I've given up on most guys even knowing what the hell love is. lol But not on love itself. ;-)

[BrendaQG]

femqueen FACE!

I'll take that as a complement.

Love would be thinking that even when I am not wearing makeup, under hard light, from a bad angle (among other things).

[brockley23]

While I appreciate your advice I disagree...how come my GG friends don't have to have plastic surgery to be loved and validated by men??
How come many transgirls don't??Why can't I find someone who accepts me as I am right now...without implants or a nosejob or pumped lips...sure I want implants but I don't think theyre gonna help me find the man of my dreams. Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes


There are plenty of us out here who would accept you as you are right now without any changes, except it seems you arent willing to let us accept you for whatever reason. I think that is what guys find most frustrating about this, there are guys who are willing to accept but it seems a lot of the girls on here have it set in their minds that because some twerp in school picked on them for their choice to transition, that all guys in the future will act the same upon finding out.

But if its something you really dont want to talk about, then we wont beat it into the ground. We just hope or your sake that sometime in the future you find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve and that you are open to them doing that.

[giovanni_hotel]

I've long given up...I think theres something wrong with me!!

You've "long" given up?

You're 18, for fuck's sake!

Whats your point???

You haven't even really taken off from the starting line yet.

18 years old who's said a big 'fuck you' to love!!!???

Get the fuck outta here, Blondie!! :lol:

[TSMissJasmine]

Do you picture yourself growing old with a partner beside you and live happily ever after?

I always believe in love. I fall in love several times per week but my love last only for 1-2 hours. Does that count?

[Nicole Dupre]

I always believe in love. I fall in love several times per week but my love last only for 1-2 hours. Does that count?

I'm not really a clock-watcher, but that sounds about right to me. ;-) lol

[AngelinaTorres]

Do you picture yourself growing old with a partner beside you and live happily ever after?

I would love it ! My Ex BF said that i believe in fairy tales lol when i'm with someone it's because i really love him i don't play with hearts,i'm very romantic, but it's hard for me to be with someone in relation to my Job (escorting) when i come back home he will ask me "how was your day baby", "cool thanks i had 5 clients today" Ah ! i don't think it's compatible and it's dangerous for him to be with me here in France cause it's not legal.
I had a friend who is escort and her boyfriend came to visit her from the U.S. is staying with her for 2 months and is caught by the police because they thought it was pimp and he stayed 4 months in jail in France, i don't know how is it in U.S.... and if it happened things like this there.
Unlike this I am in porn movies because it's a legal job and it's recognized and i would prefer to be in porn only to be escort and i hope to stop doing escorting soon and like u all know i did it to pay my surgeries but France is very very bad for work and it takes too much time to save money so i hope to travel in other countries to work and save money for that. or find a generous gentleman ahahahah
Anyway i believe in love and i know that there is someone in this earth for me i don't care where he will be cause i will be there for him :)

[peggygee]

Do you picture yourself growing old with a partner beside you and live happily ever after?

Without a doubt, I see us growing older together, sitting in rocking
chairs in the shade, occasionally playfully fussing at one another.

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/skd174071sdc1.jpg

I've been in LTRs before, I'm not jaded or bitter, got my head on straight,
it's not just a possibility it's an inevitability. :wink:

[evilernie]

Well, ladies. There are lot of willing guys for LTR.

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48782&start=0&postdays=0&postorder=desc

[AngelinaTorres]

Sounds good :D

[buckjohnson]

I plan on growing old with with someone. Someone who is drunk enough to drop her panties, a panty dropper galore

[alyssats]

Im looking for a boyfriend even for husband anyone?

call me 1800 ALYSSA - 4 - LOVE

Ill be waiting baby ;)

[AngelinaTorres]

I plan on growing old with with someone. Someone who is drunk enough to drop her panties, a panty dropper galore

LOL

[AngelinaTorres]

Alyssa baby i miss u

U GO GIRL !!!

[Distance]

Interesting thread. So love is all about acceptance, right? Well, if the person I loved was to be in porn, escorting, and had ptotentially so many more chances to get an std, let alone give me one,...yeah, sure, you bet I would not bear this too long.



To pay for surgery and so doing escorting, I sure would understand... but reading some saying they would not find love or do not believe in it after all this, being complete as a woman, and still being prostitutes by choice. Yep love is a no go. :roll:

[alyssats]

Alyssa baby i miss u

U GO GIRL !!!

hi sweety Angelina miss you too girl

your getting beautiful and blossoming

love you girl

kisses! Alyssa