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d
10-22-2005, 09:19 AM
i haven't been a fan of madonna (the musical artist and i use artist loosely) since her very early stuff...i'm not a big fan of people who jack other people's styles for profit..yet almost every tranny or gay man ive ever met loves madonna even to levels of extremes (getting tattoos, etc). why?

NYCe
10-22-2005, 09:24 AM
Maybe its something about her constantly reinventing herself? I don't know. That American Life cd was very bad and she really shouldn't be rapping. Her new cd is supposedly closer to her older dance style so maybe its good?

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2005, 10:07 AM
transsexuals & gay mens luv of madonna: please explain?

Madonna is simply adored by TS women and gay men because each and everyone of them see's her as their reincarnation. People tend to IDOLIZE someone who's influenced their lives as awhole.

First ofcourse for her fashion style/self image. Remember how she swept the globe with her "boytoy" trademark..tight leggings, sweats, midrif, fancy scarves on her hair, crucifixes etc. That made a strong fashion statement when she first hit it big. Its how she always keeps her legion of fans worldwide guessing on her constant image reinventions.

Second, was her style in music..she always never fails to amaze people with her upbeat songs which are always a "big club favorites". And how she takes alot of time perfecting her craft with voice lessons for Evita. Where she won Best actress at the golden globe following Nicole Kidman.

Third, is for her guts of being controversial and always in the news. How she learned to manipulate the media to her advantage. Keeping and holding people's interested in almost everything she does.. from her concerts, her provocative videos..burning crosses in "Like a Prayer" which was banned, her introduction of the BDSM lifestyle to the mainstream in "Justify My Love", her scandalous coffee table book "SEX" to name a few.

And overall, Her reign, contribution, influences and presence in the music industry spans 2 decades. And that she is still very much around. I saw her last concert at MSG last year and it was simply breathtakingly spectacular! Her American Life cd not only had a different sound and feel but it also comes with strong political statements againts WAR and OPPRESSION. Songs she wrote and colaborated with brilliant people through the years and her practice of Kabalah clearly showed how she grew and matured as an artist and an ICON. Tho I do agree she should have hired someone for the rap part..maybe Missy or Eminem. LOL.

Who knows? Maybe her new CD which is slated for release this November and was said to have a feel of her earlier music might be better than her last record. :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
10-22-2005, 11:49 AM
She is the reincarnation of Marilyn Monroe
nuff said

TomSelis
10-22-2005, 03:10 PM
Ray of Light was a tight album

Spiderman
10-22-2005, 04:02 PM
Dude if your not a fan, then why the hell do you even care?

Quinn
10-22-2005, 04:53 PM
Her ability to take control of her own career early on and stay at the top of the entertainment industry for some two decades is truly impressive. She is as close to being self-made as is possible in the music industry and is nothing short of a phenomenal business woman. Conversely, though I have enjoyed some of her stuff throughout the years, I think she is a mediocre artist who has never done anything groundbreaking from a purely musical standpoint. Her true talent is marketing herself and her sexuality, which, in turn, markets her music, etc. Now that she is getting long in the tooth, and it is clear that she is not aging as well as say a Sophia Lauren, I question whether or not she will be able to remain at the top of the industry. Still, I would never bet against her.

-Quinn

brickcitybrother
10-22-2005, 06:22 PM
Madonna is able to TRANSFORM herself over and over again. That is appreciated by anyone who wishes they could do the same.

AllanahStarrNYC
10-22-2005, 06:45 PM
When i was growing up- I was a HUGE fan of Mandonna. Probably a sign of things to come! But she is probably the once singer I idolized the most in my youth. I was obssesed with her. I wanted to see every magazine, every record, everything! She was like a god to me. I even remember forcing my mom to go see thruth or dare with me because I could not get in because I was under 17. Though I still enjoy her music and I think she as an amazing business woman and extremely intelligent- and a great performer- I am obviously not as fanatical.

My one dreeam when I was younger was to meet her. I finally got to in the early 90s. When I used to live in Miami Beach in the early 90's was the time that club kids and drag queens very very popular- the era of RuPaul, etc. It was very envougue for celibreties to have homes in Miami and to usually have drag queens at their party. Back th en- I was like a club kid/drag queen in a vey experimental phase. But I was a performer and straight out of school I began to work at night clubd almost seven nights a wewk. Madonna had a house in Miami then, and her brother Christopher Ciccone used to hang out alot and he would come to a place then called The Mulberry Street Cafe, that had shows on Monday nights, He befriended a lot of us including the dl who he was close friends with. I guess he set the whole thing up but one day I got a call and was told that they wanted to hire 10 girls to go to the party as entertainment and wanted 4 to perform- and I was one of them. I think the dj had made that decision so I was very excited. I mean here I was at 21 or so going to meet my childhood ideos home to work at her party. It was almost surreal from when the limo came to pick ups up and when we got there and then she came down stairs to say hello. I could not tell you what I was expecting to see when I mett her- almost like I was going to be transformed. But I was rather dissapointed because she was very small in person, looked a bit older than I though- but she was very cool. We had a small talk about her eyebrows and then she said something like give them hell. That was pretty much it- lol. Of course she was there the whole night and she saw the shows, and jumped in the pool at one pint-and at the end she said good bye as we left. I almost left there empty because that is when I realize t hat meeting a famous person- is just that a meeting. I was younge and naive- but I am very glad to have had that experience. It was great to meet one of your idols as a child .

AND she had us sign a confidentially agreement before we left adn got paid lol- well her assistant- not her. But it was lots of fun.

Vicki Richter
10-22-2005, 10:19 PM
I've always hated Madonna. She's has a horse face and didn't shave her armpits for her shoot in Playboy. I admit to liking some of her music, but not enough to buy it. I would have a hard time picking between Rosy O'Donnel, Oprah, and Madonna for who I like the most.

Overlord Abomination
10-22-2005, 10:26 PM
She is the reincarnation of Marilyn Monroe
nuff said

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I'd give a left testicle to go back in time and fuck the shit out of Monroe. I would give madonna braces.

The only reason I can think of liking her is because she deepthroated a bottle. Other than that, She can rot in hell.

joyboy123
10-22-2005, 11:08 PM
I've always hated Madonna. She's has a horse face and didn't shave her armpits for her shoot in Playboy. I admit to liking some of her music, but not enough to buy it. I would have a hard time picking between Rosy O'Donnel, Oprah, and Madonna for who I like the most.

Madonna has a horse face? I'm not a Madonna fan and I admit that I'm not too picky sometimes but I don't think she has a horse face. Hillary Swank, Carly Simon, Alanis Morissette and Suzzana Holmes. Those girls could be accused of having a "horse face".

Actually, I can't believe I just took your post seriously at all.

Damn, I thought I was immune to the Vicki BS factor. Now everybody is going to start calling me "Ossumpei". :? :shock:

Vicki Richter
10-22-2005, 11:37 PM
No more like these type of photos without the airbrushing.

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I mean Madonna is nothing like Marilyn Monroe... That is ridiculous. The sex symbol of our time, like her or not, is Pamela Anderson. She has had more Playboy covers than any other woman period. Madonna can bleach her hair and paint moles, but she's about 1/100th as sexy as Pam or Marilyn.

Please.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 12:03 AM
I've always hated Madonna. She's has a horse face and didn't shave her armpits for her shoot in Playboy. I admit to liking some of her music, but not enough to buy it. I would have a hard time picking between Rosy O'Donnel, Oprah, and Madonna for who I like the most.

My Dad has that playboy issue and those pics were taken back when she was a struggling artist out in Manhattan. It wasnt a photo shoot for playboy but playboy was publishing earlier pics of her. Gees. LOL. Dont talk if you dont have your facts straight. I didnt like what I saw..but I still like her regardless. With fame, Im sure she doesnt grow 'em armpit hairs like she used to. Heck, maybe she got them all lasered! LOL.

I mean, That was her look back then..Come On, as TS women, we all started out as crossdressers..and eventually being a transvestite at one point and to where and who we are now.

To parallel and to IMPLY that you dont dig her because of her armpit hair etc or that people shouldnt like her..Its like as saying..

As a perfect example: People shouldnt like us (TS women) cos back then were merely crossdressers/transvestites and now with the help of a few surgery enhancements our looks have improved is laughable and a joke. Afterall, we all strive to look better and to better ourselves. Dont be so judgemental.

Airbrushing, as Allanah stated is part or one's publicity machine. To market yourself. She even posted a link about celebrity photos being enhanced. Everyone in any business industry..porn, entertainment etc is guilty of doing. Heck even regular folks gets their images retouched. So I dont see whats the big fuss is about. I really dont.

As for Madonna not being as sexy as Pam Anderson. All I can say is atleast Madonna didnt pay for her big boosoms like Pam did. She was born with it. Im not saying Madonna is better looking physically than Pam. But these two ladies totally got different looks. One is more "Porn" looking hence she started out on playboy (After being discovered on a beer commercial out in Canada) and graced its pages time and time again. Madonna on the otherhand is in the music business not porn business. To even compare Pam with Madonna and what she has achieved is simply preposterous. They both got different achievements out in their own respective fields/departments.

Bottomline, Madonna is a PHENOMENON just like Marilyn Monroe and will go down our history books. Speaking of her..Has anyone here seen the new documentary MTV did on her (Madonna)? I saw it and it was really eerie and touching. Doing her recent concert/tour..performing amidst the rain on a full moon in Ireland etc. Her HUMANITRIAN work, She even went as far as visiting Israel to spread words of peace is commendable.

~Kisses.

HTG

joyboy123
10-23-2005, 12:52 AM
No more like these type of photos without the airbrushing.

I mean Madonna is nothing like Marilyn Monroe... That is ridiculous. The sex symbol of our time, like her or not, is Pamela Anderson. She has had more Playboy covers than any other woman period. Madonna can bleach her hair and paint moles, but she's about 1/100th as sexy as Pam or Marilyn.

Please.
I agree. No, she isn't in a the same class as Pam. However, Pam isn't in the same class as Marilyn either (nobody is).

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 01:09 AM
No more like these type of photos without the airbrushing.

I mean Madonna is nothing like Marilyn Monroe... That is ridiculous. The sex symbol of our time, like her or not, is Pamela Anderson. She has had more Playboy covers than any other woman period. Madonna can bleach her hair and paint moles, but she's about 1/100th as sexy as Pam or Marilyn.

Please.
I agree. No, she isn't in a the same class as Pam. However, Pam isn't in the same class as Marilyn either (nobody is).

LOL@joyboy123..You hit it right on! I couldnt agree more. LOL.

~Kisses.

HTG

joyboy123
10-23-2005, 01:15 AM
No more like these type of photos without the airbrushing.

I mean Madonna is nothing like Marilyn Monroe... That is ridiculous. The sex symbol of our time, like her or not, is Pamela Anderson. She has had more Playboy covers than any other woman period. Madonna can bleach her hair and paint moles, but she's about 1/100th as sexy as Pam or Marilyn.

Please.
I agree. No, she isn't in a the same class as Pam. However, Pam isn't in the same class as Marilyn either (nobody is).

LOL@joyboy123..You hit it right on! I couldnt agree more. LOL.

~Kisses.

HTG

I'm not a fan of Madonna but I agree with some of your comments about her. One thing she does have over Marilyn is that she is in control of her life and nobody could ever accuse her of being a victim.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 01:28 AM
No more like these type of photos without the airbrushing.

I mean Madonna is nothing like Marilyn Monroe... That is ridiculous. The sex symbol of our time, like her or not, is Pamela Anderson. She has had more Playboy covers than any other woman period. Madonna can bleach her hair and paint moles, but she's about 1/100th as sexy as Pam or Marilyn.

Please.
I agree. No, she isn't in a the same class as Pam. However, Pam isn't in the same class as Marilyn either (nobody is).

LOL@joyboy123..You hit it right on! I couldnt agree more. LOL.

~Kisses.

HTG

I'm not a fan of Madonna but I agree with some of your comments about her. One thing she does have over Marilyn is that she is in control of her life and nobody could ever accuse her of being a victim.

Thanks joyboy123. I mean, realistically..what has or is Marilyn ever known or famous for? Aside from her outstanding looks in her days? Its banging a president and his brother. Thats it! LOL. Its sad, but true.

Has Marilyn ever won a best actress award? No. Has she ever advocated or done charity works like Madonna (since Live Aid)? No..I havent heard of any humanitarian works Marilyn has done except entertaining out troups back then at the USO (Is that what its called?) LOL.

Marilyns beauty is what she was famous for. Even though she was sexy for that time/era..she's got some pudginess around the waist like most women in a renaissance painting/s before her time. That was what is considered sexy then and regardless after years that gone by is still thought of as an ICON.

~Kisses.

HTG

chefmike
10-23-2005, 02:21 AM
the only time madonna's acting ever got a decent review was for Evita...maybe cause it was a musical...she 's pratically ruined her husband's directing career with the flops he's featured her in...Marilyn Monroe's acting abilities were not even near their peak when she died...she studied with Stanislavsky, the famous method acting coach who taught many of the greats...

madonna's "humanitarian" work in Israel...LMAO...she is another hollywood devotee of kabballah...the trendy bastardized version of a serious part of judaism that only scholars with years of study claim understanding of...the version that she and other trendy, shallow celebrities embrace has no more credibility than scientology...

http://usera.imagecave.com/chefmike/thmpson-never-weird-enough.jpg

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 02:41 AM
the only time madonna's acting ever got a decent review was for Evita...maybe cause it was a musical...she 's pratically ruined her husband's directing career with the flops he's featured her in...Marilyn Monroe's acting abilities were not even near their peak when she died...she studied with Stanislavsky, the famous method acting coach who taught many of the greats...

madonna's "humanitarian" work in Israel...LMAO...she is another hollywood devotee of kabballah...the trendy bastardized version of a serious part of judaism that only scholars with years of study claim understanding of...the version that she and other trendy, shallow celebrities embrace has no more credibility than scientology...

I agree in part chefmike. Madonna aint no actress but she did justified her role as Evita in said movie which was a musical. And you cant blame a gurl for trying making a movie under her husband helm..afterall, he is a noted director. And as with anything, Its called Nepotism. All of us are guilty of it. People we know or people who knows us tries to get ahead thru connections even if say we lack skills and talent for a job. LOL. Its human nature.

And about her "Humanitarian" works..Well atleast she has taken "issues" as opposed to people who's all caught up within themselves and doesnt even care about what's going in or around them. Terrorist bombings here, in London, the war in Iraq, Israel and Palestine etc.

What's funnier about kaballah as awhole is that even the jewish community isnt as keen on their own Faith/religion as recent converts who atleast tries to understand the teachings and spreads the good word with such PASSION. Now to me thats ODD. We only can speak Illy and talk down of people like her..Because Its easier tearing people up than giving them praise instead. That again is a sad trait of us all as human beings. We're all quick to pass on judgement to others and cannot look ourselves in the mirror for flaws we have within ourselves. Its better to believe in something than not have any belief about anything.

Should we ridicule men who likes transexual women? NO, We shouldnt! Have they always loved transexual women growing up? NO. Most guys just found it mistakenly erotic at certain stages of their lives. Do we frown at married men or guys with gf's who sleeps with transexuals behind their wives or gf's back? NO we dont. At one point or another, everyone of us started out somewhere in anything. "Judge not lest not be judged".

And chefmike, for the record..So you know clearly, I am not . nor am I affiliated with her in anyway. And that you dont need to ridicule what I say or write. Im sure your buddy here hollywoodbuckstrap (To name one)can attest to that (We met at myspace) and he even posted a comment on myspace group thread. Seanchai and Allanah knows me from another forum (I wont mention it here) which I dont go anymore.

Incase you're wondering and wanted to catch up on some reading..Though this Issue had long been dead to me. Read this link about the person your much hating on (As you will find we are kinda in the same boat.):

http://forum.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=messageboard.viewThread&entryID=7334427&groupID=101127239&adTopicID=23&Mytoken=C8B80F4F-444A-431A-8BB89AE3B29D019F697454906

~Kisses.

HTG

chefmike
10-23-2005, 02:55 AM
hey, I got no beef with you, or madonna...I just think she's overrated...and comparing her movies with marilyn's...well...

your reply was very diplomatic...and sorry about that earlier misunderstanding...but we know how devious she is...

yeah...I heard from someone about the matters you're referring to...I heard that when the results of this voting didn't suit certain people, the site would go down...and when it re-appeared...the votes had changed...LMAO...there's a shocker...

and on a lighter note...you got sexy eyes...

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 03:15 AM
hey, I got no beef with you, or madonna...I just think she's overrated...and comparing her movies with marilyn's...well...

your reply was very diplomatic...and sorry about that earlier misunderstanding...but we know how devious she is...

yeah...I heard from someone about the matters you're referring to...I heard that when the results of this voting didn't suit certain people, the site would go down...and when it re-appeared...the votes had changed...LMAO...there's a shocker...

and on a lighter note...you got sexy eyes...

Hey its all good chefmike. I read the whole thread. None was saying or even comparing Madonna's movies of Marilyn's. I think you misread it. I got no beef with you either though dont try talking down people as quick as we swat flies.. LOL. 8)

~Kisses.

HTG

chefmike
10-23-2005, 03:20 AM
cool...I just read the rest of the link that you posted re "the queen of the damned" as someone put it...out there...WAY out there...all I can think of is joan crawford shrieking "no more wire hangers, no more wire hangers!!!"

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 03:23 AM
cool...I just read the rest of the link that you posted re "the queen of the damned" as someone put it...out there...WAY out there...all I can think of is joan crawford shrieking "no more wire hangers, no more wire hangers!!!"

LMAO@chefmike..Oh I love that movie! LOL.
~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2005, 08:19 PM
Oh and BTW chefmike..thanks for the compliment. :oops: I did missed reading that! LOL. I thought that was part of your signature. Doh! Lmao.

~Kisses.

HTG

cheribaum
10-24-2005, 12:22 AM
If there was one woman in the world I woulda fucked back when I was growing up a young impressionable gay boy, It woluda been MADONNA. Now I dont think so, so much. But she's still fabulous and I'd still consider letting her be the first woman I had sex with. Im still a virgin with the genetic girls.. :D

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