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qwerty59
07-03-2009, 06:18 PM
why do some people on here chose to ignore your pm's when you pay the a nice compliment?

i just think the least they could do is reply.


dont you think?

2009AD
07-03-2009, 06:24 PM
why do some people on here chose to ignore your pm's when you pay the a nice compliment?

i just think the least they could do is reply.


dont you think?

Get over it. In real life, has someone not returned your phone call? It's called life.

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 06:34 PM
Most of the ladies have very busy lives and must receive tons of PMs. So dont take it personally.

qwerty59
07-03-2009, 06:38 PM
yeah i guess so just would have been nice if people would reply. if you have time to read it you could reply in my mind but i guess if you're that busy then oh well.

The Hierophant
07-03-2009, 06:43 PM
Maybe you're just creepy.

Ironically, I think it's rude when people post this sort of thing in a forum. ;-)

qwerty59
07-03-2009, 06:44 PM
how am i creepy ?

LibertyHarkness
07-03-2009, 06:46 PM
i reply to all my pms eventually :)

JeniferTS
07-03-2009, 06:48 PM
i usually only respond to questions..if someone pays me a compliment i don't really think it's necessary to reply with a thank you, but sometimes i do..depends on however i feel at the moment..to those who sent me compliments and never got a response from me, THANK YOU :wink:

AmyDaly
07-03-2009, 07:08 PM
why do some people on here chose to ignore your pm's when you pay the a nice compliment?

i just think the least they could do is reply.


dont you think?

Don't take it personally. Some of us get a ton of PMs, emails, myspace messages, etc...

Personally, I usually reply to every email or PM That I get, but it might take a week sometimes or so depending on how busy I am. Some times I even miss something and don't reply for like a month. Its not on purpose though.

The Hierophant
07-03-2009, 07:24 PM
how am i creepy ?

Hey, no offense, I said maybe.

But as many other have pointed out, sometimes people are just busy. Not to mention, you have no clue how many PM's someone has. They may have 1, they may have 100.

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
07-03-2009, 08:19 PM
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3325/3409510944_5a3b2e679f.jpg

sucka4chix
07-03-2009, 08:46 PM
I'm not semi-famous, or a hot tranny but I hardly ever pay attention to PMs on HA. Maybe they just haven't gotten to it yet. Either way, doesn't necessarily make them rude. Some if the girls here really are stars, on some level, so personally I wouldn't expect a PM response. Then if they do answer, it's so much sweeter!

qwerty59
07-03-2009, 08:50 PM
yeah i should have guessed that the certain person i wrote wouldnt reply. shame as ive always thought she was a good person but seems like i was wrong yeah they are busy i do understand but i feel with out websites like this and people on here then some people wouldnt have had the success they have had.

i was always brought up wth be polite to people even people i dont even know.

ill stop ranting as its not like me to go on like this.

LibertyHarkness
07-03-2009, 08:51 PM
Awww Amy you replied to me quickly :) does that mean you going to me stalker or i can be yours :) get in!!!

hehe..

Libb xx

the_bo
07-03-2009, 08:51 PM
Unless invited to PM someone I dont bother people with unwanted pm's.
I answer all of mine though....which is easy cause I never get any lol ! :roll:

Suckalot1
07-03-2009, 09:01 PM
you sound real lonely man, they can't reply to all the crazed guys on the internet that want to marry them.

stillies77
07-03-2009, 09:15 PM
Heal the worrrrrrrrrrld...make it a better place...

RubyTS
07-03-2009, 09:32 PM
i usually only respond to questions..if someone pays me a compliment i don't really think it's necessary to reply with a thank you, but sometimes i do..depends on however i feel at the moment..to those who sent me compliments and never got a response from me, THANK YOU :wink:

+1

qwerty59
07-03-2009, 09:55 PM
not lonely just crappy day stressed and needed to vent.

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 10:17 PM
Dude i can relate ... crappy month , well june was ... at least a tree didn't fall on your house.

qwerty59
07-03-2009, 10:41 PM
now that is unlucky i hope it wasnt to much damage

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 10:48 PM
Living room and kitchen caved in, but i had it fixed in under a week. Spent the rest of the time cleaning up . But all is well , at least the house.

AmyDaly
07-03-2009, 10:51 PM
Awww Amy you replied to me quickly :) does that mean you going to me stalker or i can be yours :) get in!!!

hehe..

Libb xx
hehe usually I do reply to people right away, but sometimes I don't have the time :lol:

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 10:56 PM
Amy responded pretty quickly to my PM ... She must have been drawn to my emo typing skills ... or a boring night.

Silcc69
07-03-2009, 11:45 PM
I have PM'd Jennifer, Alyssa87, and Ruby and gotten responses back from all of them. Even Jen Justice PM and helped me with how to put an icon on here. Now Myspace and BP are completely different scenario's in which I think my answer rate hover's in 60% and drops dramtically when I send a local chic a message. :lol:

AmyDaly
07-03-2009, 11:47 PM
Amy responded pretty quickly to my PM ... She must have been drawn to my emo typing skills ... or a boring night.
lol... what can I say, I like guys with emotion :lol:

Felicia Katt
07-03-2009, 11:52 PM
As soon as I get a compliment on here, I promise to say thank you LOL

FK

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 11:57 PM
To Amy ... If only

rockabilly
07-03-2009, 11:59 PM
And Felicia , You have a great smile, you always seem so peppy in all your pics.

trish
07-04-2009, 12:09 AM
I answer pm's almost immediately. But sometimes, for one reason or another, I don't. Unfortunately, if I don't answer a pm right away, it kind of goes stale with time and finally I resolve to forget about it. Sorry.

BeardedOne
07-04-2009, 01:34 AM
dont you think?

Of course I think! Every Sunday, need it or not! :D

Don't fret the non-response to PM/IM messages, especially from the gurls. Some of them get lost on the desktop as they pour in. More often than not, the gurls aren't even at the keyboard, perhaps entertaining a client while catching posts and IMs at the 12 and 30.

I've gotten up to the morning alarm to find the screen covered with IM windows posted hours earlier with jewels like "Hey! Fuckwad! Why aren't you answering me?" and "Beuller? Beuller? Bueller?", so sleep schedules can be a factor as well.