Broken heart :(

[IMISSHER]

I know many of u will bash me for this but it has to be said. i made the mistake of falling in love with a working tgirl. i have never experienced pain like this before. circumstances that are beyond both of our control we cant be together. knowing when she is with a guy makes me feel physically sick. due to the pain that this is causing i have to move on for my own sanity. i thought i could somehow handle this, i was so wrong. i know that it causes her severe stress and agony. i have seen it first hand. i know now i can not save her. please dont tell me this is a victimless crime. we all know it is not.
i just dont know how anyone can handle this. everything about it is so wrong and the lifestyle is so fucking erratic and blocks any form of a healthy relationship from developing. i was not a client and did not know she was working when i met her. i never encountered this before due to never seeking a callgirl before. im not judging, but please tell me girls how the fuck do i forget her and move on. im dieing inside a little each day. do i stay in contact to help her if she wants it? she has options but continues to do this even though she does not want to. any advice would be greatly appreciated from anybody. or maybe some insight from working girls here on the forum. god does this suck. i just want to feel whole again. thanx for listeneing.

[Fox]

I can't help on this one, sorry. Good luck. =/

[Dino Velvet]

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[Quiet Reflections]

Think With Your Dipstick Jimmy!

[LilWyte]

pussy

[2009AD]

i know that it causes her severe stress and agony. i have seen it first hand.

Bullshit. If it caused her real stress and agony, she'd quit.


please tell me girls how the fuck do i forget her and move on. do i stay in contact to help her if she wants it?

No. Cut off all contact, for your own good.


she has options but continues to do this even though she does not want to.

Again, that's bullshit. If she did not want to continue the lifestyle, she'd avail herself of those options.

Bottom line is the girl likes hooking. Sorry to be so harsh, but you need to drop her, forget her, and move on with your life.

[MarkD]

I am so sorry to read your pain, and the only way to make it go away is a clean break. She is not going to change and if you allow yourself any sort of relationship with her you are just going to draw the pain out.

Best of luck!

[tsntx]

that shitting gif is crazy like a train wreck

and the think w/ ur dipstick is hillarious

[JeniferTS]

like 2009AD said, cut off all contact..it will be hard but it's for your own good..once you do that you'll see that time will heal your pain.

sometimes things aren't meant to be.

[TheLongChodeAhead]

you'll get over it, eventually the novelty of her will wear off and she'll be just another ho

[JeniferTS]

you'll get over it, eventually the novelty of her will wear off and she'll be just another ho

wow :shock:

[IMISSHER]

you'll get over it, eventually the novelty of her will wear off and she'll be just another ho

thats harsh. i wish it was that simple. shes a human being worthy of love and a full life. "novelty", not in a million years.

[SXFX]

Does she have a younger friend?
Go bang her.....you'll get even!
Chicks hate it when they dump your sorry ass only to find out you are banging their hotter younger friend!

[JeniferTS]

Does she have a younger friend?
Go bang her.....you'll get even!
Chicks hate it when they dump your sorry ass only to find out you are banging their hotter younger friend!

typical "man".

[MacShreach]

Does she have a younger friend?
Go bang her.....you'll get even!
Chicks hate it when they dump your sorry ass only to find out you are banging their hotter younger friend!

typical "man".

LOL yup. Some strong locker-room bonding going on there. I can almost smell the liniment.

You were right before though.....The OP has to move on. Some things are just not meant to be. Sad but true.

[SXFX]

What she broke his heart.
Women don't have hearts.....hence why you buy shoes and hand bags.....
you just have egos.
So for him to even have her understand the pain he feels either he has to find the shoes or hand bag she's always wanted and put them in the wood chipper or......bang her hotter younger friend and treat her like she were the best ice cream in the world.

[MacShreach]

What she broke his heart.
Women don't have hearts.....hence why you buy shoes and hand bags.....
you just have egos.


Nah, that's just misogynist bullshit.

[SXFX]

Prove me wrong.

[RubyTS]

pussy

nice 2 c where ur head is @ :?

[RubyTS]

nice way to balance out the sentiment of the OP with all the testosterone in here omg...

[yodajazz]

I know many of u will bash me for this but it has to be said. i made the mistake of falling in love with a working tgirl. i have never experienced pain like this before. circumstances that are beyond both of our control we cant be together. knowing when she is with a guy makes me feel physically sick. due to the pain that this is causing i have to move on for my own sanity. i thought i could somehow handle this, i was so wrong. i know that it causes her severe stress and agony. i have seen it first hand. i know now i can not save her. please dont tell me this is a victimless crime. we all know it is not.
i just dont know how anyone can handle this. everything about it is so wrong and the lifestyle is so fucking erratic and blocks any form of a healthy relationship from developing. i was not a client and did not know she was working when i met her. i never encountered this before due to never seeking a callgirl before. im not judging, but please tell me girls how the fuck do i forget her and move on. im dieing inside a little each day. do i stay in contact to help her if she wants it? she has options but continues to do this even though she does not want to. any advice would be greatly appreciated from anybody. or maybe some insight from working girls here on the forum. god does this suck. i just want to feel whole again. thanx for listeneing.

Welcome to the human race. That is why millions of songs have been written. I wrote my own song called, "Love is It's Own Reward". You grow through such experiences. Now you know better of what you like and what you don't. All wounds take time to heal, but we should come out stronger. Once you know exactly what you want, you will draw it to you, if it was meant for you. It's out there somewhere. Just do things that will make you happy and productive, and don't judge others, including her. One day you understand that this needed to happen to you for you to grow to greater awareness. Once you come to that point, the door for new positive experiences will be completely open. Because actually, it already is.

[Helvis2012]

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Pretty gross. Demented, too. Well done.

[Helvis2012]

Anyway......you may have to cut off all contact with this person so you get some space and perspective. If you keep in contact, the wounds won't be able to heal.
Hang in there. Give it some time. You'll get over it.

[celticgrafix]

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[rockabilly]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Give it time and you will come out of it a stronger person.

[Helvis2012]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Give it time and you will come out of it a stronger person.


Well said. :wink:

[JeniferTS]

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Give it time and you will come out of it a stronger person.

looks like u got an admirer ^ :lol:

[rockabilly]

:? Huhh ?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Sorry to hear..I'm pretty sure you'll get over her! FOCUS on the BAD things (such as lying to you etc.) and you'll soon forget the cunt! ;)

It worked for me. I write down bad things my ex has done to me and scattered 'em post it notes all over my apt. - the bathroom mirror, the fridge, room etc. haha

~Kisses.

HTG

[IMISSHER]

Sorry to hear..I'm pretty sure you'll get over her! FOCUS on the BAD things (such as lying to you etc.) and you'll soon forget the cunt! ;)

It worked for me. I write down bad things my ex has done to me and scattered 'em post it notes all over my apt. - the bathroom mirror, the fridge, room etc. haha

~Kisses.

HTG
i will try this. want to say thanx to all who have offered their support and compassion.
update she contacted me with another series of lies, wished her the best and walked away. that was hard. tears running down her face, its becoming like a movie. thanx to all.

[jjhill]

Listen to rap music you'll be fine lol in the words of layzie bone "gotta take control and roll roll roll on..."

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Sorry to hear..I'm pretty sure you'll get over her! FOCUS on the BAD things (such as lying to you etc.) and you'll soon forget the cunt! ;)

It worked for me. I write down bad things my ex has done to me and scattered 'em post it notes all over my apt. - the bathroom mirror, the fridge, room etc. haha

~Kisses.

HTG
i will try this. want to say thanx to all who have offered their support and compassion.
update she contacted me with another series of lies, wished her the best and walked away. that was hard. tears running down her face, its becoming like a movie. thanx to all.

You're welcome! :P Imagine my disgust and frustration finding out my ex was a recurring alcoholic and kept it from me while dating (wine/beer and dining). He drank his way back and has to start back to zero. It was tough. After 3 years of dating, I never thought I would have the strength to get away from him much less get over him. I cried gallons leaving him with a heavy heart in his sleep and on my way to the eastcoast. But I did it 2 years later!

~Kisses.

HTG

[droog]

how the fuck do i forget her and move on.

i think it's time you took your half of the sunshine acid. eat it!

[The Unit]

Get away from her and stay away. I have walked in your shoes. The only reason she says she doesn't want to be a hooker is to suck you in. If you're not careful she will try to take everything you've got. If I told you my story you wouldn't think twice about ever wanting to see her again. She's a user and will truly hurt someone some day. Don't let it be you!

[hotvegasguy26]

just put your ad on eros.com and try to outwhore her....that outta teach her a lesson

[IMISSHER]

just put your ad on eros.com and try to outwhore her....that outta teach her a lesson

:) u think ill get any takers. or how about this. her best friend wants to sleep with me. should i? no i cant. then i would be no better then a lot of the others
in the end all we have is are self respect, right?

[celticgrafix]

haha

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

If you're that vicious..go ahead and sleep with her bestfriend. Be ready though about the repercussions. A friend of mine who wants to sleep with my man or ex bf isn't a REAL friend of mine! I prefer knowing if any of my girl friends made a pass at my man/ex bf w/e and vice versa. I'll dump them both! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[rockabilly]

Take the high road my friend. Get back at her by living well, get a new haircut , new clothes. Go out and have fun and make sure she knows about it.

[hotvegasguy26]

yeah what rockabilly said.....and THEN fuck the friend

[jaycanuck]

how the fuck do i forget her and move on.

i think it's time you took your half of the sunshine acid. eat it!

awesome movie.

[Alyssa87]

this is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YcqXLOoRZ4

:(

[Dirky]

I've been in a similar situation . The only difference was, I knew she was escorting before becoming friends. I thought I could handle it and I really liked her but deep down it was eating me away. Funny thing is, I didn't mind her quickie blowjob sessions with her 'daddies' but when she did more with her dates I couldn't deal with it. I also didn't like when she had to go out of town. To her it was just work and she assured me over and over that she felt nothing for her clients and in a lot of cases, she downright hated them. The money she could make in one day was astonishing so much so that I could almost understand why she did it. But in the end, I guess I was too jealous and possessive. It was either me or escorting. Last I heard, she's still an escort so you know how the story ended. lol.

My advice, drop her and don't fall in love with working girls. Or at least wait until they 'retire' from the business.

[IMISSHER]

this is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YcqXLOoRZ4

:(

thanx sweetie ill be ok, it just hurst so much right now. took that big first step deleted all the numbers and contact info. its a start.

[Alyssa87]

this is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YcqXLOoRZ4

:(

thanx sweetie ill be ok, it just hurst so much right now. took that big first step deleted all the numbers and contact info. its a start.

good idea.

He dumped me for doing cam.
No connection is for the best. the few times we spoke or saw eachother after the breakup was kinda weird, and left me feeling like crap.

[IMISSHER]

this is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YcqXLOoRZ4

:(

thanx sweetie ill be ok, it just hurst so much right now. took that big first step deleted all the numbers and contact info. its a start.

good idea.

He dumped me for doing cam.
No connection is for the best. the few times we spoke or saw eachother after the breakup was kinda weird, and left me feeling like crap.

yep we hang out at some of the same clubs. its likley i will see her. but when u know that when your doing the right thing it makes it a little easier. im not going to hide. i need to have fun and i like clubbing. just gona stay sober so no stupid moves.

[IMISSHER]

this is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YcqXLOoRZ4

:(

thanx sweetie ill be ok, it just hurst so much right now. took that big first step deleted all the numbers and contact info. its a start.

good idea.

He dumped me for doing cam.
No connection is for the best. the few times we spoke or saw eachother after the breakup was kinda weird, and left me feeling like crap.

yep we hang out at some of the same clubs. its likley i will see her. but when u know that when your doing the right thing it makes it a little easier. im not going to hide. i need to have fun and i like clubbing. just gona stay sober so no stupid moves.

[jjhill]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lol

[BLKGSXR]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck

[jjhill]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck


oh yea fo sho, thanks GSXR. I got her number and imma be out there the next couple weekends so i'll see whats up. I think she was feeling me too, cuz my ass was stumbling and speechless for the first time and she kept asking open ended questions. I'll keep ya posted , but yea as for the original poster keep your head up man 8)

[BLKGSXR]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck


oh yea fo sho, thanks GSXR. I got her number and imma be out there the next couple weekends so i'll see whats up. I think she was feeling me too, cuz my ass was stumbling and speechless for the first time and she kept asking open ended questions. I'll keep ya posted , but yea as for the original poster keep your head up man 8)shes from cali?
O I can tell you already shes stuck up lol jk
Nah depends some girls get real snooty when they got no place to be(talk)
IMO dont press it so much at first..seem interested but not too interested..past experience will help ya ass out at times 8)

[tstv_lover]

I've been in a similar situation . The only difference was, I knew she was escorting before becoming friends. I thought I could handle it and I really liked her but deep down it was eating me away. Funny thing is, I didn't mind her quickie blowjob sessions with her 'daddies' but when she did more with her dates I couldn't deal with it. I also didn't like when she had to go out of town. To her it was just work and she assured me over and over that she felt nothing for her clients and in a lot of cases, she downright hated them. The money she could make in one day was astonishing so much so that I could almost understand why she did it. But in the end, I guess I was too jealous and possessive. It was either me or escorting. Last I heard, she's still an escort so you know how the story ended. lol.

My advice, drop her and don't fall in love with working girls. Or at least wait until they 'retire' from the business.

Sounds like good advice from someone who's walked in your shoes.

[jjhill]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck


oh yea fo sho, thanks GSXR. I got her number and imma be out there the next couple weekends so i'll see whats up. I think she was feeling me too, cuz my ass was stumbling and speechless for the first time and she kept asking open ended questions. I'll keep ya posted , but yea as for the original poster keep your head up man 8)shes from cali?
O I can tell you already shes stuck up lol jk
Nah depends some girls get real snooty when they got no place to be(talk)
IMO dont press it so much at first..seem interested but not too interested..past experience will help ya ass out at times 8)

Naw she from Atlantic City, she cool as hell too. i was just to tired to walk around board walk at 4 thirty a.m to get to know her better lol

[BLKGSXR]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck


oh yea fo sho, thanks GSXR. I got her number and imma be out there the next couple weekends so i'll see whats up. I think she was feeling me too, cuz my ass was stumbling and speechless for the first time and she kept asking open ended questions. I'll keep ya posted , but yea as for the original poster keep your head up man 8)shes from cali?
O I can tell you already shes stuck up lol jk
Nah depends some girls get real snooty when they got no place to be(talk)
IMO dont press it so much at first..seem interested but not too interested..past experience will help ya ass out at times 8)

Naw she from Atlantic City, she cool as hell too. i was just to tired to walk around board walk at 4 thirty a.m to get to know her better lolwhats going thru my mind is wtf you doing on a board walk @ 430 am muthafucka.. lol werent you freezing.I mean srsly.

[jjhill]

dude i feel your pain, last night i met the most awesome girl in atlantic city. We flirted for a good min, talked for a while. The exchanged numbers, hell I even got nervous trying to holla at her. She then told me she was gonna hit me up after her shift so we could hang and get to know each other better. I didn't answer the call tho, oh well lol There was a few drunk frat guys laughing at me, trying to tell me she was a man. But it's all good, I still hollered lolTo me thats all that does count JJ...you had the initiative to try,If you didnt try you would never know what happened, I mean people know me to act a damn fool but I can be serious so some know.
Check this there are a whole lot of fish in the sea, its just not yall time yet. for the young guy who made this thread keep ya head high man, My 2cents is that you need to move on if it wasnt meant to be you know,good luck dealing with the confrontations...My personal advice would be cruel and punishfull to the girl..try and get with her best friend infiltrate that shit from inside :twisted: but thats just me-a evil caniving basterd :lol:

But none the less again man good luck


oh yea fo sho, thanks GSXR. I got her number and imma be out there the next couple weekends so i'll see whats up. I think she was feeling me too, cuz my ass was stumbling and speechless for the first time and she kept asking open ended questions. I'll keep ya posted , but yea as for the original poster keep your head up man 8)shes from cali?
O I can tell you already shes stuck up lol jk
Nah depends some girls get real snooty when they got no place to be(talk)
IMO dont press it so much at first..seem interested but not too interested..past experience will help ya ass out at times 8)

Naw she from Atlantic City, she cool as hell too. i was just to tired to walk around board walk at 4 thirty a.m to get to know her better lolwhats going thru my mind is wtf you doing on a board walk @ 430 am muthafucka.. lol werent you freezing.I mean srsly.

lol gambling and what not. It was still nice out too, like 60 degrees.