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RubyTS
05-26-2009, 03:58 AM
But people are always looking in the wrong places @ the wrong time

Guys calling from escort ads saying "Do u have a man? I think ur hot and i really wanna get to know u...." :roll:

Then guys on myspace and other community non x-rated sites: "OMG i wanna fuck u!" :evil:

Am i advertising in the wrong places??? :lol:

T-girl hound
05-26-2009, 04:03 AM
Ruby with your looks it comes with the territory

Ryz
05-26-2009, 04:43 AM
its possible

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 04:50 AM
the only man youll ever need...

BlkJewels
05-26-2009, 04:54 AM
Treat it as u would treat a dude on the street who said it. :)

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
05-26-2009, 04:55 AM
it's the equivalent of almost any (keyword: almost) man on this forum walking into a gay bar because he knows that's where some of the trannies he's interested in go.....

and while he's there looking at some trannies he gets approached by some dude(s) who have issues with him being there solely for the girls and not having the slightest interest in them..........

my point: no matter where you are you're bound to be annoyed by an idiot

JWBL

BlkJewels
05-26-2009, 04:57 AM
the only man youll ever need...

That reminds me, everytime I see a picture of Blk jesus, it more or less look like Prince. :?:

MarkD
05-26-2009, 05:01 AM
Well you are extremely georgous and think it would be a lot of fun to get to know you, but I would come up with a much better way of trying to get your attention.

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 05:02 AM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent.....

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 05:05 AM
its possible

ok so imma go on eros and advertise im just looking for friends
then go on myspace and post my rates and website info
this could be a fun experiment

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 05:05 AM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent.....

he gets millions in tithes every week.

trust in the lord with all thy heart...

sucka4chix
05-26-2009, 05:08 AM
For the most part guys have no clue where to find a TS, much less find one who is not "working". So, the guys who want to be serious end up asking an escort or whatever because they don't know how else to find you.
Myspace is a social network, so you're gonna get people who want to fuck (that's pretty social), AND many people on Myspace may not be into escorts and escorting websites, hence they're on Myspace instead of xpeeps or something.

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 05:13 AM
u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes

TsJANIRA
05-26-2009, 05:17 AM
It depends what your looking for. I actually don't look , and dont expect anything! That way you'll be surprised .

Floyd R
05-26-2009, 05:20 AM
Ruby, what's the funniest or strangest response you have gotten?


u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 05:23 AM
Ruby, what's the funniest or strangest response you have gotten?


u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes

"How can u not remember me, i have 10 inches"

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 05:26 AM
Ruby, what's the funniest or strangest response you have gotten?


u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes

"How can u not remember me, i have 10 inches"

... and no job.

Floyd R
05-26-2009, 05:28 AM
Alyssa, I think you have what it takes to become the first female Ts televangelist. I will follow your advise in trusting in the lord with all my heart.




the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent.....

he gets millions in tithes every week.

trust in the lord with all thy heart...

sucka4chix
05-26-2009, 05:29 AM
u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes
So how should a guy who might have seen you on Yum, maybe saw you outside Nowbar years ago, subscribed to your videos, bought a clip on niteflirt etc. step to you? I know lying's never a good step, but if he only has your work number, does he get points for being confident enough to use it?

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 05:30 AM
I would fit the bill.

Money hungry and hypocritical (as an undercover atheist)

Ruby, i'd be sure to pay your rent in that case ma sista.
These folks on TBN make a killing.

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 05:38 AM
u know what i find even more hilarious? That i have 2 seperate cell phones, one for business and one for personal. I get guys ALL the time who call my work # saying they met me on the street or i gave them my # on myspace.... IF I HAD i would have given them my personal line. I like to play along with them when im bored and ask them stuff like "Oh really, where did we meet?" After a while i call them out on it. Their responses r so funny sometimes
So how should a guy who might have seen you on Yum, maybe saw you outside Nowbar years ago, subscribed to your videos, bought a clip on niteflirt etc. step to you? I know lying's never a good step, but if he only has your work number, does he get points for being confident enough to use it?

i guess it all depends on the situation, but usually im more insulted than anything else. If a guy wants to speak to me respectfully and i met him somewhere outside of work mode then i dont mind giving him the time of day, but when my work phone rings i see money signs! I mean, imagine how many phone calls i recieve on a daily basis and u want to frustrate me more by calling me trying to get free ass?

I even had a guy a couple of weeks back, texting me on my work number and i entertained him for a while, then told him im an escort and he kept annoying me asking retarted questions. Then i get a phone call and i knew the voice sounded fishy, i usually go with my gut but sometimes i like to take chances. So this hot guy walks in my hotel room after a while and i greet him with a sweet kiss, and he practically tries to inhale my cock. Once i see he is comfortable and i feel "ok he's not LE" i ask for my donation and he looks at me like im crazy! Thats when i put 2 and 2 together and realized it was the SAME guy trying to play me for a fool. I told him its not nice to play games with a girls time like that, especially someone like me who is sweet. If i were anyone else i would have beat him up and robbed him and jumped to the next location... but thats just not my style lol

(EDIT ADD}

some guys think that being hot is all it takes, of ourse he left without any nookie but i was so upset @ him thinking i was dumb enuf to fall for it. I guess some girls allow this type of behavior if the guy is cute enuf, but its just like a smack in the face insult to me.

Solitary Brother
05-26-2009, 05:57 AM
This thread is a very good one...I have always wanted to know what some transexuals go through with guys.
Very interesting stuff.
I cant believe guys say those things.......men are so rude and unthoughtful at times! :roll:

sucka4chix
05-26-2009, 05:59 AM
I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 06:15 AM
I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 06:37 AM
i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

did you hear that?

the sound of dreams everywhere, shattering.

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 06:42 AM
i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

did you hear that?

the sound of dreams everywhere, shattering.

lmfao ur too much :lol:

scroller
05-26-2009, 06:45 AM
Guys calling from escort ads saying "Do u have a man? I think ur hot and i really wanna get to know u...." :roll:

Then guys on myspace and other community non x-rated sites: "OMG i wanna fuck u!" :evil:

They're both trying to stand out and grab your attention with (what they think are) unique proposals. Little do they know that they're accidentally all creating the same repetitive pattern.

That's sort of an interesting experiment in "game theory" right there.


.... ah, shit, now I just did it myself, posting all smart on a tranny board. >(

Floyd R
05-26-2009, 06:57 AM
Do you show your appreciation to the guy you are romantically involved with by doing things outside of having sex? I'm referring to things like cooking the guy a nice meal, writing a poem, or buying him an inexpensive thoughtful gift. Women sometimes fail to realize that men that want to have a serious relationship value the small acts of appreciation and kindness more than just sex.






I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 07:05 AM
Do you show your appreciation to the guy you are romantically involved with by doing things outside of having sex? I'm referring to things like cooking the guy a nice meal, writing a poem, or buying him an inexpensive thoughtful gift. Women sometimes fail to realize that men that want to have a serious relationship value the small acts of appreciation and kindness more than just sex.






I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

well i have trust issues with people and im always expecting the worst. I don't go all out for anyone until they have proven to me that they're worth it, because i dont want to nit-pick later and be angry at myself for being so nice to them. But i will offer my time and give them the opportunity to get to know me on a more personal level. I dont mind cooking a meal, even preparing it together is fun, but buying gifts is a big no no in my book. Too often there are guys trying to work a girl and often times being to sweet is a setup for disaster. Next thing u know he's asking for the new Jordans or a $1000 loan

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 07:09 AM
This thread is a very good one...I have always wanted to know what some transexuals go through with guys.
Very interesting stuff.
I cant believe guys say those things.......men are so rude and unthoughtful at times! :roll:

would u mind resizing ur avatar?

BLKGSXR
05-26-2009, 08:13 AM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent..... pray then bitch lol nah in all seriousness Rubes why not be flattered I mean many men like you..knowing even though if they were to even be close to you they would get their arse raped But that make only you happy lol.
sidenote-Myspace-I want to fuck you's can only make me chuckle I mean its fucking myspace.

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 08:52 AM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent..... pray then bitch lol nah in all seriousness Rubes why not be flattered I mean many men like you..knowing even though if they were to even be close to you they would get their arse raped But that make only you happy lol.
sidenote-Myspace-I want to fuck you's can only make me chuckle I mean its fucking myspace.

how on earth is that flatterring? Many men don't "like" me, many men wanna fuck me, big difference. And its not because of who i am, its because of what i am. Frankly its an insult! Im not human enough to be treated or talked to with respect? Guys think that because im a ts and escort that im some type of dumb horny slut, and because ur hot and/or have a big dick im supposed to be flattered that u want me? Please :roll:

Solitary Brother
05-26-2009, 08:58 AM
This thread is a very good one...I have always wanted to know what some transexuals go through with guys.
Very interesting stuff.
I cant believe guys say those things.......men are so rude and unthoughtful at times! :roll:

would u mind resizing ur avatar?

I like it big like that....I am SURE a sizequeen like yourself would understand that.
:oops:

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 09:07 AM
This thread is a very good one...I have always wanted to know what some transexuals go through with guys.
Very interesting stuff.
I cant believe guys say those things.......men are so rude and unthoughtful at times! :roll:

would u mind resizing ur avatar?

I like it big like that....I am SURE a sizequeen like yourself would understand that.
:oops:

touche
but bigger isn't ALWAYS better

barefootjoe69
05-26-2009, 09:52 AM
I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

Ruby
I understand that sex for you can be a turnoff because it is what you do for work. But on the other hand do you think its fair to a boyfriend to not have sex? I mean if I really like someone or even love them I want to show them and be intimate with them. I want to ravish their body and give them pleasure like they have never had before. I'm not just talking about raw sex but truly making love! I know I would be disappointed if I had A beautiful girlfriend like you and she didn't want to be intimate with me in the bedroom. I understand that there is more to a relationship, but intimacy is a big part in a relationship also. I think it forms a bond between people.
Just my 2 cents

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 10:24 AM
I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

Ruby
I understand that sex for you can be a turnoff because it is what you do for work. But on the other hand do you think its fair to a boyfriend to not have sex? I mean if I really like someone or even love them I want to show them and be intimate with them. I want to ravish their body and give them pleasure like they have never had before. I'm not just talking about raw sex but truly making love! I know I would be disappointed if I had A beautiful girlfriend like you and she didn't want to be intimate with me in the bedroom. I understand that there is more to a relationship, but intimacy is a big part in a relationship also. I think it forms a bond between people.
Just my 2 cents

I dont know about fair, but i firmly believe that a relationship should be much much more than physical, and if a guy can deal with a girl like me NOT putting out, then he MUST really like me.

Im very big on reading into people's actions. People can say anything to get what they want.

"I can't see what u say, i can only see what u do. How can i believe what u say is tru when ur actions make me question ur words valiidity" -Ruby (Words to live by)

In a relationship, i can be very affectionate, and i can get pretty wild in the bedroom, but thats once i get passed my trust issues. But i do tend to make people work to show me they deserve a place in my life

(Edit ADD) another thing i'll do after they pass the first "gate" and i think they have potential for either a gr8 friendship or relationship is put them throught a series of tests ie: Having a girlfriend flirt with them to see what they do, testing their loyalty and honesty, affection in public... etc.

Im actually seeing someone now. We have incredible sex, and there's something strange about him that i dont quite get yet, which would normally cause me to stay far away, but i've decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and hope to not be disappointed in the long run. Normally im very quarded. With him i feel quite comfortable, to a degree. I still dont completely trust him, but after years of dealing with idiots, 2 faced ppl, and game players, it's understandable.

barefootjoe69
05-26-2009, 06:29 PM
I've found it hard to change your status... I mean if you start out as a John, your chances of being a BF are basically gone! My best friend started out as just someone I wanked to on Ifriends. Then we did the escort/John thing 3 times, but somehow we became friends. Now she wonders why I never want to "play" anymore. Well it's because you let me in. Now I don't want that anymore. (She still won't fuck me for free though, 'cause she equates sex with $$$). So I guess financially it's best for you girls to keep business business, but you never know--- prince charming isn't always who you think he is!

i've become friends with a few of my clients. I wont say that i'll never do it again because u can never say never, but i can say that the times that i have, i've regretted it. They tend to become verrrry clingy and overbearing sometimes, which is nice to a certain degree, but they take it to the extreme. Then they want to have sex all the tme.... When im in a relationship with someone, sex is SO not a factor, being that its what i do for work, my relationships are more emotionally based than physical. i like to know that a person is with me because they like me, and not just because of what i am or what i can do in the bedroom. I've been told i put people through some serious hoops to prove their loyalty. But if u want real... this is the real me. What u had before was just a performace i was getting paid for. Now im not obligated to satisfy u, u have to prove you have earned a place in my life beyond the bedroom. Being a friend to me doesnt mean free sex with a hot tranny

Ruby
I understand that sex for you can be a turnoff because it is what you do for work. But on the other hand do you think its fair to a boyfriend to not have sex? I mean if I really like someone or even love them I want to show them and be intimate with them. I want to ravish their body and give them pleasure like they have never had before. I'm not just talking about raw sex but truly making love! I know I would be disappointed if I had A beautiful girlfriend like you and she didn't want to be intimate with me in the bedroom. I understand that there is more to a relationship, but intimacy is a big part in a relationship also. I think it forms a bond between people.
Just my 2 cents

I dont know about fair, but i firmly believe that a relationship should be much much more than physical, and if a guy can deal with a girl like me NOT putting out, then he MUST really like me.

Im very big on reading into people's actions. People can say anything to get what they want.

"I can't see what u say, i can only see what u do. How can i believe what u say is tru when ur actions make me question ur words valiidity" -Ruby (Words to live by)

In a relationship, i can be very affectionate, and i can get pretty wild in the bedroom, but thats once i get passed my trust issues. But i do tend to make people work to show me they deserve a place in my life

(Edit ADD) another thing i'll do after they pass the first "gate" and i think they have potential for either a gr8 friendship or relationship is put them throught a series of tests ie: Having a girlfriend flirt with them to see what they do, testing their loyalty and honesty, affection in public... etc.

Im actually seeing someone now. We have incredible sex, and there's something strange about him that i dont quite get yet, which would normally cause me to stay far away, but i've decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and hope to not be disappointed in the long run. Normally im very quarded. With him i feel quite comfortable, to a degree. I still dont completely trust him, but after years of dealing with idiots, 2 faced ppl, and game players, it's understandable.

Well I understand the trust issue. I have been burned by a few GG girlfriends in the past. But I try not to let it effect my next relationship. I feel its not fair to the next person to pay for the mistakes of someone else. It took a long time for me to get to this point but now I just accept people for who they are at the time and if they Do me wrong then it is their loss and I'll move on.

"It is better to have loved and lost, Then to never have loved at all"

P.S.
I hope your new relationship works out. Everyone deserves to be happy!

RubyTS
05-26-2009, 07:09 PM
while that may work for some people it wont for me. i've had way too many people who i valued in my life betray me in one way or another. And when u have a constant flux of people trying to work their way in, i find it much easier to think logically before allowing emotions to get the better of me. There are way to many people out there who will try to sell you a dream in order to get what they want.

barefootjoe69
05-26-2009, 08:15 PM
while that may work for some people it wont for me. i've had way too many people who i valued in my life betray me in one way or another. And when u have a constant flux of people trying to work their way in, i find it much easier to think logically before allowing emotions to get the better of me. There are way to many people out there who will try to sell you a dream in order to get what they want.

Well you have to go with what works for you!
And I agree you have to be logical but at the same time you cant totally shut people out of your life in fear of getting hurt. And I'm not saying trust everyone, cause I sure don't ,but sometimes if it feels right you have to go with your gut instinct and take a chance. With that being said I'm sure I'll be hurt again sometime in my life. Its just a part of life I think.

BLKGSXR
05-26-2009, 08:49 PM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent..... pray then bitch lol nah in all seriousness Rubes why not be flattered I mean many men like you..knowing even though if they were to even be close to you they would get their arse raped But that make only you happy lol.
sidenote-Myspace-I want to fuck you's can only make me chuckle I mean its fucking myspace.

how on earth is that flatterring? Many men don't "like" me, many men wanna fuck me, big difference. And its not because of who i am, its because of what i am. Frankly its an insult! Im not human enough to be treated or talked to with respect? Guys think that because im a ts and escort that im some type of dumb horny slut, and because ur hot and/or have a big dick im supposed to be flattered that u want me? Please :roll:to be honest your right-Last night when posting with a UBER migrane. I understand what you mean rubes and more power to ya with that shit....Hope it ends soon. :D

SarahG
05-26-2009, 09:02 PM
the only man youll ever need...

lmao

now 8) lets ask him to pay my rent..... pray then bitch lol nah in all seriousness Rubes why not be flattered I mean many men like you..knowing even though if they were to even be close to you they would get their arse raped But that make only you happy lol.
sidenote-Myspace-I want to fuck you's can only make me chuckle I mean its fucking myspace.

how on earth is that flatterring? Many men don't "like" me, many men wanna fuck me, big difference. And its not because of who i am, its because of what i am. Frankly its an insult! Im not human enough to be treated or talked to with respect? Guys think that because im a ts and escort that im some type of dumb horny slut, and because ur hot and/or have a big dick im supposed to be flattered that u want me? Please :roll:

That's a very good point. And there are guys out there that treat all girls (trans or GG) like that. Guys seeing trans girls as just normal girls is a double edged sword, it can mean guys treating trans girls as good as they treat GGs, but it can also mean guys treating trans girls as badly as they treat GGs. And there's no shortages of rude, abusive pigs out there. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those guys would be as forward when talking to GG escorts. Either its part of the thrill for them, or it's why they're needing to pay for sex, or both.

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 09:03 PM
Do you want to try being gay for eachother Rubz?

SarahG
05-26-2009, 09:09 PM
Do you want to try being gay for eachother Rubz?

You recall all those dreams you heard shattering last night?

If you keep talking like that they'll just form new ones.

Jericho
05-26-2009, 09:12 PM
Do you want to try being gay for eachother Rubz?

You recall all those dreams you heard shattering last night?

If you keep talking like that they'll just form new ones.


So long as you take pictures, it's kewl!
:lol:

Alyssa87
05-26-2009, 09:14 PM
Do you want to try being gay for eachother Rubz?

You recall all those dreams you heard shattering last night?

If you keep talking like that they'll just form new ones.


its only fair.

BeardedOne
05-26-2009, 11:07 PM
"It is better to have loved and lost, Then to never have loved at all"

Of course, there is a corollary to that which I have subscribed to since the bloodbath of my final relationship in 1998:

"It is better to have loved and lost, than to spend the rest of your life living with a psycho"


Alyssa87 wrote:
Do you want to try being gay for eachother Rubz?


You recall all those dreams you heard shattering last night?

If you keep talking like that they'll just form new ones.

Oooh, tranny lesbians on parade! :hitit



I always like reading/hearing the gurls views on relationships and particularly as concerns client-turned-friend-turned-lover scenarios. It gives a lot of insight into the gurl as well as shows how much many of the guys either understand or ignore where they are coming from.

Having met Ruby I know what a treasure she is and know that whoever lands her in an LTR is going to be the envy of us all. Besides being a 'hot tranny' of many talents, she is also sharp-witted and very pleasant company. To those of you that declare this ass-kissing, take note: If I wanted to play kiss-ass with Ruby, I would pay the freight and smooch the real deal. :wink:

Though we get along wonderfully, saying that we are 'friends' could stretch the definition some. In my view, she treats anyone that treats her with dignity, respect, and decent manners in kind. She gives as good as she gets in social transactions so, if you aren't a twat or a dick, she won't treat you like one.

Speaking for myself, I'd never pass her muster as far as an LTR were concerned, nor would many of the men on these forums. For one, I am of a bi/poly mindset and my head can be turned by any number of combinations of human lust. Ruby wants her man to be =HER= man, and I know that I'd never qualify for that. As to the rest of the guys here, c'mon, get fucking real. How many loyal, monogamous, trustworthy guys do you know that shop on Eros?

C'mon. Show of hands... <Looking> I thought not. :roll:

There are always exceptions to the rule. We've all seen "Pretty Woman" and even Xaviera Hollander and Sally Stanford landed the men of their dreams at the end of the rocky road of the sex trade.

Though, I s'pose, somewhere in the wash of dweebs that troll for free ass with their 'ten inches' of macho personality, there are a few that dream of finding the perfect gurl via frequent visits to the Eros Town Centre, with holiday specials and a variety of comestibles at the busy food court.

Only the gurls know for sure if that sale is the best and final one.

RubyTS
05-27-2009, 01:17 AM
Beardedone.. u sOOO get me! And while u can be quite the chatterbox, i enjoy your rantings as im sure u enjoy mine. You're a very sweet man and thank u 4 the kind words!

Alyssa... *wink* How YOU dooooinn?

yodajazz
05-27-2009, 12:09 PM
.........

my point: no matter where you are you're bound to be annoyed by an idiot.
JWBL

Actually, I have found my visits to cemetaries to be very peaceful. I don't get there very often, though.