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Quiet Reflections
03-11-2009, 09:28 AM
i know most people say they don't have any and up until 3 hours ago i would have said the same thing but i have to ask what are your biggest regrets in life and why.
Self_jones
03-11-2009, 09:44 AM
taking out my 80.000 thousand dollar student loan!!!!
Jim Brown
03-11-2009, 11:06 AM
in life? No major life regrets but last week I pick up two street walkers to have a threesome in my hotel room. Oh it was horrible...they didnt shave their balls (hairy balls don't go over well with black girls) OMG I was traumatize. BuT i learn something from my experience...street walkers are just for sucking dicks in cars not for spidermonkey loving in hotel rooms.
barefootjoe69
03-11-2009, 11:18 AM
Joining this website!
I really thought I was straight until then :shock:
goliath_91710
03-11-2009, 11:34 AM
i know most people say they don't have any and up until 3 hours ago i would have said the same thing but i have to ask what are your biggest regrets in life and why.

You're gonna tell us what your regret is, right?
baileyandkc
03-11-2009, 12:40 PM
Hope it wasn"t any of the following:

1. the new job you took 3 months ago

2. marrying the love of your life a few months back

3. getting a new pit bull

4. buying General Motors at 50.00 a share

5. doing it bareback!
jjhill
03-11-2009, 02:30 PM
taking out my 80.000 thousand dollar student loan!!!!

I'm in the same boat, but I dont regret. It'll pay off soon in the future. The only way I would regret it is if I didn't finish school
Fox
03-11-2009, 02:43 PM
My only real regret is not letting my feelings be known sooner to a close friend of mine back in high school. By the time I did it was kinda too late. She moved away and we lost contact and now she's engaged or maybe even married. It wasn't a simple crush, though, much more serious which is why I regret it.

Now I get to live with "What if..." lol. :shrug
Blazr63
03-11-2009, 04:09 PM
Getting the clap from an escort who gave me a BBBJ. Until then I didn't know you could get a STD from someone sucking your dick. Live and learn. :?
TsJANIRA
03-11-2009, 04:35 PM
Usually i don't have any, But this one always comes back to haunt me:


When i was middle School I was offered a scholarship to a Prestigious Art school , and at that time Art was my life , but I was also going through my early steps of my transition and thought that Art would get me no where , and being that i was soo eager to be my true self, i was blinded by only that , and failed to think what would come with the territory . My mother to this day always mentions it to me and i basicly feel this harsh regret in me .
trannybanger
03-11-2009, 04:42 PM
Getting the clap from an escort who gave me a BBBJ. Until then I didn't know you could get a STD from someone sucking your dick. Live and learn. :?

Sometimes I fucking love this board.
Ts CinthyaNY
03-11-2009, 04:52 PM
I don't really have a major regret in life ... Bad things happens so really new future come to you .

My biggest regret in life it was to be so naive and messed with the wrong man back in my country, that changed my whole life... but for good. Now I am here and being the woman always want to be which I wouldn't if I stood there with him.

So no , no regret on that but just for all the really bad moments I had with him at such a young age (16).

Love...
Cinthya.
Sunny Dee-lite
03-11-2009, 05:39 PM
MY BIGGEST REGRET COMES FROM LOVE....I WISH I DIDN'T LET MYSELF GO SO MUCH IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP....MY HEART IS BROKEN AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO MEND IT.... I STILL LOVE HIM ALTHOUGH I KNOW IT IS OVER FOR US....AND WISH I HAD MORE RESERVATION BEFORE GIVING HIM MY HEART AND SOUL... :(
Ts CinthyaNY
03-11-2009, 05:41 PM
MY BIGGEST REGRET COMES FROM LOVE....I WISH I DIDN'T LET MYSELF GO SO MUCH IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP....MY HEART IS BROKEN AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO MEND IT.... I STILL LOVE HIM ALTHOUGH I KNOW IT IS OVER FOR US....AND WISH I HAD MORE RESERVATION BEFORE GIVING HIM MY HEART AND SOUL... :(

Poor girl... we should burn all them guys who break our heart ... :twisted: .

Love...
Cinthya.
baileyandkc
03-11-2009, 06:58 PM
You can talk about it but kinda hard to control your heart most times!

Way of the world..

Its either that or join a monastery :whoa
justatransgirl
03-12-2009, 07:01 AM
I have a couple.

1) That I didn't learn to fly 20 years ago. I'm still a couple of months away from my license, but I can already see the difference having a plane will make in our lives. It's like having your own private flying car. If anyone on here can learn anything from me - get your pilots license, it will change your life. I promise.

2) That I didn't transition when I first wanted to. My life would have been much different. Hopefully it would have been better. But I might not have met my partner, so who knows.

3) That I ever found this site. But that's one mistake I can correct... :-)

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)
justatransgirl
03-12-2009, 07:09 AM
MY BIGGEST REGRET COMES FROM LOVE....I WISH I DIDN'T LET MYSELF GO SO MUCH IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP....MY HEART IS BROKEN AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO MEND IT.... I STILL LOVE HIM ALTHOUGH I KNOW IT IS OVER FOR US....AND WISH I HAD MORE RESERVATION BEFORE GIVING HIM MY HEART AND SOUL... :(

Aww sweetie. I think we've all been there. You HAVE to move on. I know, it's easy to say.

I read someplace that we can have more than one soul mate. So it's time to start looking. Get out, get busy. Get some new friends. Volunteer someplace. Get a second job. Get a cat.

Get a rebound BF or GF.

Or read my post above and go learn to fly. I'm serious. You will meet some nice people, and who knows, one day you may find that ending that relationship was the best thing that ever happened to you.

Hugs to you,
TS Jamie :-)
NYBURBS
03-12-2009, 08:54 AM
MY BIGGEST REGRET COMES FROM LOVE....I WISH I DIDN'T LET MYSELF GO SO MUCH IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP....MY HEART IS BROKEN AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO MEND IT.... I STILL LOVE HIM ALTHOUGH I KNOW IT IS OVER FOR US....AND WISH I HAD MORE RESERVATION BEFORE GIVING HIM MY HEART AND SOUL... :(

Yea nothing compares to heartache. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders though, so with time I'm sure you'll make the new start work for you. Until then just try to focus on your other passions.
LibertyHarkness
03-12-2009, 10:52 AM
That i didnt start my transitioning much earlier :( oh well life is for living and learning :)
altarica
03-12-2009, 11:51 AM
I used to have regrets about things I did and choices I made, but when I look back I realise that going left when I could have gone right has brought me to where I am today and knowing the people that I know.
Since I am very happy with my life, there is no need to regret things at all, for me at least.
Just remember, the things you do today affect the rest of your life in some way, no matter how small.