Do working post-op girls enjoy the work more?

[cantos03]

Something I found from browsing escort ads (not first-hand experience) is that post-op girls seem to enjoy sex work more. For a lot of pre-op girls, it's clearly a means to an end, but for post-op girl, I just get the impression that they really enjoy what they do. The seem to be more active in the sex worker community, and more open about themselves. Even talking to a gg friend, I mentioned a girl (who has since moved away) in an ad I saw, and she actually enjoyed the work (and that she thinks we would have gotten along).

Does anyone else get that impression?

[tsntx]

being post op has nothing to do w/ enjoying your job

[dgs925]

Something I found from browsing escort ads (not first-hand experience) is that post-op girls seem to enjoy sex work more. For a lot of pre-op girls, it's clearly a means to an end, but for post-op girl, I just get the impression that they really enjoy what they do. The seem to be more active in the sex worker community, and more open about themselves. Even talking to a gg friend, I mentioned a girl (who has since moved away) in an ad I saw, and she actually enjoyed the work (and that she thinks we would have gotten along).

Does anyone else get that impression?

You get this impression just from reading the ads?

I imagine that the percentage of prostitutes that enjoy their work is very very small.

I know, it sounds like a dream job, having sex with strangers who can't get laid without paying for it.

In all seriousness, if it was an enjoyable job more people would do it and it wouldn't pay nearly as well.

ETA: I am under the impression that so many pre-op TS's work as escorts because transitioning is very very expensive. Then if they go on to have SRS they would rather just "blend in" and live as a woman, dropping the "pre-op/post-op" from their public identity completely.

[saifan]

Something I found from browsing escort ads (not first-hand experience) is that post-op girls seem to enjoy sex work more. For a lot of pre-op girls, it's clearly a means to an end, but for post-op girl, I just get the impression that they really enjoy what they do. The seem to be more active in the sex worker community, and more open about themselves. Even talking to a gg friend, I mentioned a girl (who has since moved away) in an ad I saw, and she actually enjoyed the work (and that she thinks we would have gotten along).

Does anyone else get that impression?

You get this impression just from reading the ads?

I imagine that the percentage of prostitutes that enjoy their work is very very small.

I know, it sounds like a dream job, having sex with strangers who can't get laid without paying for it.

In all seriousness, if it was an enjoyable job more people would do it and it wouldn't pay nearly as well.

(shakes head)
At least you didn't include a story about pulling girls that most guys pay for.

[phobun]

Something I found from browsing escort ads (not first-hand experience) is that post-op girls seem to enjoy sex work more. For a lot of pre-op girls, it's clearly a means to an end, but for post-op girl, I just get the impression that they really enjoy what they do. The seem to be more active in the sex worker community, and more open about themselves. Even talking to a gg friend, I mentioned a girl (who has since moved away) in an ad I saw, and she actually enjoyed the work (and that she thinks we would have gotten along).

Does anyone else get that impression?

You get this impression just from reading the ads?

I imagine that the percentage of prostitutes that enjoy their work is very very small.

I know, it sounds like a dream job, having sex with strangers who can't get laid without paying for it.

In all seriousness, if it was an enjoyable job more people would do it and it wouldn't pay nearly as well.
Exactly. Well said.

[phobun]

Does anyone else get that impression?
Prostitution is unfortunately a potentially hazardous line of work (risk of infections, violence, emotional trauma, etc.). It also objectifies the woman and thus reduces and demeans her. So why become a prostitute?

My impression is that many prostitutes, whether pre, post or GG, have deep-rooted identity and self-confidence issues. It is somewhat of the easy way out to open every orifice to strangers for money. For many prostitutes, finding intimacy with strangers and the danger that brings ultimately requires considerable self-loathing (whether people want to admit this or not).

[tsntx]

i love how dumbasses always think that most clients are old, fat, ugly, etc etc


huge misconseption

and even if it was true.... those guys are getting all the pussy youre sitting at home wishing you could get

[phobun]

i love how dumbasses always think that most clients are old, fat, ugly, etc etc


huge misconseption

and even if it was true.... those guys are getting all the pussy youre sitting at home wishing you could get
It is myopic to assume that those who decline to go for a spin in a used cadillac can't get anywhere.

[cantos03]

being post op has nothing to do w/ enjoying your job

If sex work is a means to an end for a girl, there isn't a reason to stay in the business after the operation unless she either enjoys it or can't find something else to do. The number of pre-op vs. post-op girls on, say, eros, backs me up on this, too.

Also funny to see you replying and not someone with experience there (Danielle Foxxx).

[justatransgirl]

Prostitution is unfortunately a potentially hazardous line of work (risk of infections, violence, emotional trauma, etc.). It also objectifies the woman and thus reduces and demeans her. So why become a prostitute?

My impression is that many prostitutes, whether pre, post or GG, have deep-rooted identity and self-confidence issues. It is somewhat of the easy way out to open every orifice to strangers for money. For many prostitutes, finding intimacy with strangers and the danger that brings ultimately requires considerable self-loathing (whether people want to admit this or not).

Actually prostitution is really a whole lot of fun and the power over men is really good for the ego.

It's the men one encounters that give the girls the diseases, that steal their self esteem by posting shit on the internet about them. It's the psychotic homophobes and po-po that makes it dangerous.

It's the men who are jealous. They want to build up their own fragile male egos up by keeping the girls down in "relationships," where the girl is dependent on the man for money, housing and identity.

Oh, oh... now I'm gonna get pounded by the boys...

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)

[JelenaCD]

there is no market for post op girls point blank ! guys want cock or just get a genetic girl much better then post op , just my limited take !

[Teydyn]

I know, it sounds like a dream job, having sex with strangers who can't get laid without paying for it.

i love how dumbasses always think that most clients are old, fat, ugly, etc etc
huge misconseption
Why pay money for drinks, movies and waste time doing it, if all you have to do is put some money on the table, if all you want to do is to fuck?


In all seriousness, if it was an enjoyable job more people would do it and it wouldn't pay nearly as well.
1) Its socially unaccepted (in most places)
2) They dont have a clue?

[Teydyn]

For many prostitutes, finding intimacy with strangers and the danger that brings ultimately requires considerable self-loathing
How to you come to the delusion of intimacy? Just because they rub bodies and moan "you are soooo good"?

They get paid money for their service of acting their joy and use of their body-parts. They dont "fall in love" with every client...

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Hehehehe :lol:

How can any prostitute enjoy their job?

The reality check =

Get made up and have to take viagra pills to get hard to please their client who is coming in to worship the part of their body that shouldnt even be there.

Have to suck/fuck/get sucked or fucked by an old ugly fat dirty man. Having to use intoxicating drugs because of it.

Get paid only 2-300 for this.

Lol, how anyone can 'enjoy' this is beyond me. Its a nasty job and if ts women had brains (not always their fault due to bullying in school or harrassment in workplace etc) then they might be able to get a proper job instead of being a whore.

How many female whores do you think 'enjoy' their job?

Dont you think theyd much rather live a normal life in a normal job earning around $50k per year whilst maintaining a loving relationship with a husband (and soul mate) that they really fancy and possibility of having children (adopted or surrogate). Its not exactly your fault chap because ive seen it many times on this forum, but please, get with the real world.

We are talking real world, not 'porn world', real world is not make believe.

Lets reverse the roles, how many gorgeous looking men would want to have to lick out and fuck 60 year old fat ugly women or transexuals?

How many good looking guys with brains do you know that would do that?

None, they will have respectable jobs that earn them $100 per hour for 40 hours per week and a nice steady pension fund to pay into as well.

[justatransgirl]

Lets reverse the roles, how many gorgeous looking men would want to have to lick out and fuck 60 year old fat ugly women or transexuals?

How many good looking guys with brains do you know that would do that?

None, they will have respectable jobs that earn them $100 per hour f or 40 hours per week and a nice steady pension fund to pay into as well.

Yeah and then those guys will take part of their $16,000+ a month income, drive to a date in their Mercedes, and complain about paying some t-girl $200 to fuck their gay ass.

After which they will deny any contact with said trans girl and go home to their wife and children and homophobic friends, and sneak onto HA to find acceptance.

:-)

And FYI less than 4% of the TS population earns over $65,000 a year. In San Diego where I live the current median income is $72,000 a year. Over 38% of TS's earn less than $15,000 a year.

GG's might get a 50K a year job, get married and live happy ever after. But VERY FEW t-girls will ever attain that dream. Because while guys like to use t-girls for fetish sex, very few will compromise their position in life to publicly date a t-girl. A few do, and I've found them to be really great guys.

And all the overweight men I've ever knoiwn have been really nice gentlemen. It's the skinny, young disrespectful ones that take the fun out.

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)

[slinky]

Considering the majority of TS girls lose many clients and get paid less after transitioning, I would think they would "enjoy" (ahem) it less, not more.

[saifan]

[quote=igotmacedbymimi:(]
But VERY FEW t-girls will ever attain that dream. Because while guys like to use t-girls for fetish sex, very few will compromise their position in life to publicly date a t-girl. A few do, and I've found them to be really great guys.

Raises hand. Ready to compromise.

[Teydyn]

Have to suck/fuck/get sucked or fucked by an old ugly fat dirty man.
As many others have already said, thats not all, not even the majority of clients.


Having to use intoxicating drugs because of it.
"Having"? Some might do it, but please dont generalise...


Get paid only 2-300 for this.
Only "only" in your view. And often its way less then an hour.
300 bucks for 10-15 mins work?


if ts women had brains (not always their fault due to bullying in school or harrassment in workplace etc) then they might be able to get a proper job instead of being a whore.
HOW can a TS earn that much money to achieve her dream of becoming a woman? In less then 20 years?


Dont you think theyd much rather live a normal life in a normal job earning around $50k per year whilst maintaining a loving relationship with a husband (and soul mate) that they really fancy and possibility of having children (adopted or surrogate).
Yes, i think many(all) would.
BUT:
-Normal job:
many get fired once they start transitioning, get harrassed
-50k:
Good paid jobs sadly seem to be less friendly towards TS
-loving relationship with husband:
How many man are willing to risk to loose their job/friends/lifestyle/money because they are with a TS?


but please, get with the real world.
You mean the one were TS are discriminated against, fired from their jobs, have to pay for hormones, breast implant, facial surgery, SRS by themselves?


Lets reverse the roles, how many gorgeous looking men would want to have to lick out and fuck 60 year old fat ugly women or transexuals?

How many good looking guys with brains do you know that would do that?
If these good looking guys would have no/small chance for a good paying job, would have no other choice if they want to reach their dream within a practical timeframe? Many


None, they will have respectable jobs that earn them $100 per hour for 40 hours per week and a nice steady pension fund to pay into as well.
They wouldnt if they face the same problems TS have.

[cantos03]

there is no market for post op girls point blank ! guys want cock or just get a genetic girl much better then post op , just my limited take !

I wouldn't say no market. Danielle seems to be dabbling in it, and the post-op sites that are popping up seem to support the idea that some guys are into that.

But there is some truth in what you said. Clients pay generally premiums on pre-op girls because, well, yeah, the post-op girls are mostly competing with genetic girls.

[cantos03]

Hehehehe :lol:
How many female whores do you think 'enjoy' their job?


The one I know does, but that's hardly a scientific survey.

She really does hate viagra, though.

[alyssats]

I have many post op friends whom i also met when they are still pre op

according to them:
-yes they do enjoy having sex now that they have a pussy and like enjoying escorting work much more
-they do earn more compared when they are still a pre op especially if theres no way for a client to know thats shes a boy before. all of them advertise themselves as a girl especially inside clubs and bars

[drock]

there is no market for post op girls point blank ! guys want cock or just get a genetic girl much better then post op , just my limited take !

you know I think you're right.

[RubyTS]

I love what i do. Shit, the majority of my clients treat me better than guys i've dated! They appreciate the value of a beautiful woman much more, and a lot of them are pretty hott too. I do find it odd that a lot of girls say that they escort towards their transition but then once they are complete, they continue This lifestyle is easy to get sucked up into. Especially with society being so judgemental, it can be hard to re learn how to interract with people outside of sex work. I mean what can u really talk about when all you really know is sex, men and money?

[peggygee]

ETA: I am under the impression that so many pre-op TS's work as escorts because transitioning is very very expensive. Then if they go on to have SRS they would rather just "blend in" and live as a woman, dropping the "pre-op/post-op" from their public identity completely.




being post op has nothing to do w/ enjoying your job

If sex work is a means to an end for a girl, there isn't a reason to stay in the business after the operation unless she either enjoys it or can't find something else to do. The number of pre-op vs. post-op girls on, say, eros, backs me up on this, too.





I have many post op friends whom i also met when they are still pre op

according to them:
-yes they do enjoy having sex now that they have a pussy and like enjoying escorting work much more
-they do earn more compared when they are still a pre op especially if theres no way for a client to know thats shes a boy before. all of them advertise themselves as a girl especially inside clubs and bars

As a woman who has had GRS, I did whatever was necessary to get
myself on the operating table and finish my transition. Some of those
things were legal, some were not.

At the same time that I was working on my transition, I was furthering
my education, working a regular job, so that I could blend in, and
assilimate into mainstream society, and insure myself a livelihood.

As a post op, I can say that I enjoy sex much more than when I was a
pre op, as my body is in congruence with itself, it is complete.

Would I have sex for money now?

No.

I have a career that compensates me quite well.

If I were to have sex for money though, I would do it as the woman I am.

I wouldn't advertise as post op.