Inviting a Tranny to a family dinner

[MajorHardOn26]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

[melissacarter]

How was your day at the office pass the astroglide

[bellamy]

Just my 2 cents here, but if you're still refering to her a "tranny" I'm not sure you're ready to taking her home to meet the parents..... just a thought

[EyeCumInPiece]

Doesnt sound like much of a problem. Looking 100% GG certainly helps. Nothing can be more priceless than the expression on grandma's face when she sees your date has a five o'clock shadow on her face.

[MajorHardOn26]

Just my 2 cents here, but if you're still refering to her a "tranny" I'm not sure you're ready to taking her home to meet the parents..... just a thought

I consider her a woman. I treat her like a woman, and talk to her like a woman. Because to me she is a woman.
Just had to clarify it to the forum readers.

[phobun]

Just my 2 cents here, but if you're still refering to her a "tranny" I'm not sure you're ready to taking her home to meet the parents..... just a thought

I consider her a woman. I treat her like a woman, and talk to her like a woman. Because to me she is a woman.
Just had to clarify it to the forum readers.
Yeah but when your family hears the voice they will probably know. The little girls at the table will point and think they are whispering, "Mommy is that a man?"

[MajorHardOn26]

Just my 2 cents here, but if you're still refering to her a "tranny" I'm not sure you're ready to taking her home to meet the parents..... just a thought

I consider her a woman. I treat her like a woman, and talk to her like a woman. Because to me she is a woman.
Just had to clarify it to the forum readers.
Yeah but when your family hears the voice they will probably know. The little girls at the table will point and think they are whispering, "Mommy is that a man?"

Sounds 100% girl

[ottorocket]

Make sure you have a giant Kielbasa sausage for dinner.

[Coroner]

Promise your parents some grandchildren!

[dan_drade]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

I think you should do it. I have introduced my GF to my family and they all love her. We are all having Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house next week and I think they would be really pissed off at me if I did not bring her.

The only down side to introducing her to your family will be that if they really like her, you won't be able to break up with her very easy because your parents will hate you if you do. LOL But if you love your girl and really want her to stay with you for a looooooong time, then introducing her to your family (especially your parents) is definatley the right choice.

[menacingmethods86]

If she's 100% passable i don't see the problem?

[dan_drade]

Even if she is not 100% passable you will still have to introduce her at some point in time. If you don't, she will leave you. Nobody is willing to have a LTR and be in the closet about it.

[blckhaze]

Even if she is not 100% passable you will still have to introduce her at some point in time. If you don't, she will leave you. Nobody is willing to have a LTR and be in the closet about it.


pretty much.

[wankmaster]

You better be sure you can trust her. She might get pissed off and out you just to spite you.

[Bostonsub]

I am not sure why you would post this. Are you just making a statement?

Are you just bringing her over to see if you can pass it by your family?

Why are you bringing her to your house...Is this a new girlfriend for you?






What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

[dan_drade]

You better be sure you can trust her. She might get pissed off and out you just to spite you.

Thats just being paranoid and crazy.

[tsntx]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

I think you should do it. I have introduced my GF to my family and they all love her. We are all having Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house next week and I think they would be really pissed off at me if I did not bring her.

The only down side to introducing her to your family will be that if they really like her, you won't be able to break up with her very easy because your parents will hate you if you do. LOL But if you love your girl and really want her to stay with you for a looooooong time, then introducing her to your family (especially your parents) is definatley the right choice.


this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.

[alyssats]

wow guys who invite trannys to meet their family are one of a kind

hope ill have that kind of guys someday ;)

[Ts CinthyaNY]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

I think you should do it. I have introduced my GF to my family and they all love her. We are all having Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house next week and I think they would be really pissed off at me if I did not bring her.

The only down side to introducing her to your family will be that if they really like her, you won't be able to break up with her very easy because your parents will hate you if you do. LOL But if you love your girl and really want her to stay with you for a looooooong time, then introducing her to your family (especially your parents) is definatley the right choice.


this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.



Yes , she is right, if you are not ready to be questioned by your family do not put her to this situation or otherwise you'll see your relationship shaking.

There is no such thing like a 100% passable, to your eyes she is but for your parents. Remember that when you introduce someone new to your family she will be the focus of the attention so every little detail it counts.

I been there and it's so much pressure , ask her if she is ready and go for it.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

I think you should do it. I have introduced my GF to my family and they all love her. We are all having Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house next week and I think they would be really pissed off at me if I did not bring her.

The only down side to introducing her to your family will be that if they really like her, you won't be able to break up with her very easy because your parents will hate you if you do. LOL But if you love your girl and really want her to stay with you for a looooooong time, then introducing her to your family (especially your parents) is definatley the right choice.


this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.



Yes , she is right, if you are not ready to be questioned by your family do not put her to this situation or otherwise you'll see your relationship shaking.

There is no such thing like a 100% passable, to your eyes she is but for your parents. Remember that when you introduce someone new to your family she will be the focus of the attention so every little detail it counts.

I been there and it's so much pressure , ask her if she is ready and go for it.

[msbhaven]

How was your day at the office pass the astroglide

LMAO that was funny!

How about we call the evening, "Guess who came at dinner?"

[ARMANIXXX]

this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.


Not necessarily. She might be passable. There are lots of girls who've got the voice and the look of a GG without over doing it with the big tits, big ass, big lips, etc.

She might just be a regular looking girl who no one would suspect.........maybe.

[tsntx]

this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.


Not necessarily. She might be passable. There are lots of girls who've got the voice and the look of a GG without over doing it with the big tits, big ass, big lips, etc.

She might just be a regular looking girl who no one would suspect.........maybe.

wrong
anyone can do the voice if they want ... its not hard just commitment

show me a girl u think is fully passable and ill show u a man the way ur friends and family will

this will be loads of fun... for me

[ARMANIXXX]

this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.


Not necessarily. She might be passable. There are lots of girls who've got the voice and the look of a GG without over doing it with the big tits, big ass, big lips, etc.

She might just be a regular looking girl who no one would suspect.........maybe.

wrong
anyone can do the voice if they want ... its not hard just commitment

show me a girl u think is fully passable and ill show u a man the way ur friends and family will

this will be loads of fun... for me


I don't have any pics atm, but obviously here, there's lots of Asians....Fillipina TS's in fact, and they can sometimes be hard to spot.

Not all....not even most....but some.

[trannybanger]

this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.


Not necessarily. She might be passable. There are lots of girls who've got the voice and the look of a GG without over doing it with the big tits, big ass, big lips, etc.

She might just be a regular looking girl who no one would suspect.........maybe.

wrong
anyone can do the voice if they want ... its not hard just commitment

show me a girl u think is fully passable and ill show u a man the way ur friends and family will

this will be loads of fun... for me


I don't have any pics atm, but obviously here, there's lots of Asians....Fillipina TS's in fact, and they can sometimes be hard to spot.

Not all....not even most....but some.

Go to Macy's

[tsmandy]

I met my partners family about a month into my relationship with her, and have continued to visit with them regularly for the last 4 years.

My girlfriend told her family that I'm a sex-worker before she told them that I was trans. Some people just don't dig too deeply and take the world at face value. If they thought I might be a trans girl, they never once pried, and have still never asked any questions or treated me any differently. But by the time they had met me, they were ready for anything since my partner was already out as being bi-sexual to them, and had brought home her partners for years.

I've met, and visited many of my friends and lovers families over the years, and its been a long time since anyone has asked if I'm a TS.

Act like you belong, and people will believe you. Act like a freak and you are going to scare people.

[tsntx]

this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.


Not necessarily. She might be passable. There are lots of girls who've got the voice and the look of a GG without over doing it with the big tits, big ass, big lips, etc.

She might just be a regular looking girl who no one would suspect.........maybe.

wrong
anyone can do the voice if they want ... its not hard just commitment

show me a girl u think is fully passable and ill show u a man the way ur friends and family will

this will be loads of fun... for me


I don't have any pics atm, but obviously here, there's lots of Asians....Fillipina TS's in fact, and they can sometimes be hard to spot.

Not all....not even most....but some.


like i said... u show me a girl from your pov of an affectionado *sp* and ill show u a pov of someone who isnt

[dan_drade]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

I think you should do it. I have introduced my GF to my family and they all love her. We are all having Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts house next week and I think they would be really pissed off at me if I did not bring her.

The only down side to introducing her to your family will be that if they really like her, you won't be able to break up with her very easy because your parents will hate you if you do. LOL But if you love your girl and really want her to stay with you for a looooooong time, then introducing her to your family (especially your parents) is definatley the right choice.


this is what ure suppossed to do when ure serious about ur relationship period

heres the simplest answer bc its the only answer coming from someone who knows the situation

if youre not ready to face the questions youll get from your family about her *ie: are you gay? does she have a penis? what about kids? * then DONT take her

bc they WILL ask you. girls are never 100% passing in this situation. they may not say anything about it right away... but your family WILL know.

if ure not ready for them to know... dont put ur gf through the hassle.

Very well said. If you are going to intrduce her to your family, you have to be prpared for what might happen. But you have to ask yourself, would you prefer that someone in your family think you are gay, or have your GF leave you. I prefer the former.

[urscapegoat]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

Whats wrong with talking to your family beforehand and being upfront? Iv never met a tranny and dont consider myself gay and dont think my family would care anyway...As an adult it shouldnt matter what others think of you and if your family loves you, it wont matter to them either.

[dan_drade]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

Whats wrong with talking to your family beforehand and being upfront? Iv never met a tranny and dont consider myself gay and dont think my family would care anyway...As an adult it shouldnt matter what others think of you and if your family loves you, it wont matter to them either.

Thats true, but there are some girls that don't want to be outed to your parents, so you have to think of that as well before you go telling everyone that your gf is Transgendered.

[HP1000]

My Mother from California would have no objections with that, on the other hand my Father would not like the idea at all since he lives in the South.
I'm just being honest

[BeardedOne]

Act like a freak and you are going to scare people.

Hmm...Mayhaps that's why I'm such lousy date material. :roll:

In real life, it's unlikely that I'd ever be faced with this situation as I'm pretty much of a hermit and not attuned to the concept of 'relationship' at this point in my life. 'Rents are long since passed and I am so estranged from my family that it's not an issue.

I've been out (Quite literally, 'OUT') with gurls from time to time. I have fielded a few queries from friends and associates (One actually asked "Is that 'gurl' with an 'I' or a 'U'?", based on my online spellings). I always answer honestly and within etiquette parameters out of respect for my date.

If I were to attend a family function, I'd have no problem dragging along a T date. But even then, I don't think I'm =THAT= cruel to my dates.

[urscapegoat]

What do you guys think????
I already have it planned out for tonight.
But they'd have no idea about her gender. She looks 100% woman

Whats wrong with talking to your family beforehand and being upfront? Iv never met a tranny and dont consider myself gay and dont think my family would care anyway...As an adult it shouldnt matter what others think of you and if your family loves you, it wont matter to them either.

Thats true, but there are some girls that don't want to be outed to your parents, so you have to think of that as well before you go telling everyone that your gf is Transgendered.

I can imagine they would not want to end up at an event where they have to discuss their lifestory especially to people they dont know...Thats why I dont ask anyone any personal questions about themselves. Its understandable many/most would maybe never want to be outed and thats fine...In fact, thats even better.

[wombat33]

How was your day at the office pass the astroglide


Talk about LEGENDARY Quotes!!!!!!!!!!

[phobun]

I don't have any pics atm, but obviously here, there's lots of Asians....Fillipina TS's in fact, and they can sometimes be hard to spot.

Not all....not even most....but some.
I agree, if his parents are not Asian. Asian parents can spot Asian transsexuals better than non-Asian.

But if your SO is a white, black of hispanic transsexual it's virtually hopeless, especially if she's over 5'8"...

[JanetElise]

Get us some pics. Let us be the
judge if she's passable or not.

[PrinceVince99]

Lol this is one of my incentives to have a ts girlfriend so i can introduce her to my far right shelterd relatives

[phobun]

Lol this is one of my incentives to have a ts girlfriend so i can introduce her to my far right shelterd relatives
You should not use someone to make others feel uncomfortable. No good will come of a motivation so infantile and idiotic.

[ARMANIXXX]

like i said... u show me a girl from your pov of an affectionado *sp* and ill show u a pov of someone who isnt


I wish I did have a pic of 1 particular girl I know. She's a friend of my friend (used to date), to which I somewhat accidentally hooked up with on CL... lol

She's a Fillipina, late 20's, good C size breasts, not tall, lasered, hips decent size but not over done,......She's both hawt and passable.

I called her last night cause I left my shit over there the last time I saw her. Her voice is completely passable with a Phillipine accent.

She holds a regular job (hight end make up specialist) at a dept. store, and no one knows she's a TS unless she tells them.

VERY hard to spot. I guess nothings impossible, but difficult...yes....very.



Fuck.....ok

Your getting a PM. lol

[artemis2085]

wrong
anyone can do the voice if they want ... its not hard just commitment

show me a girl u think is fully passable and ill show u a man the way ur friends and family will

this will be loads of fun... for me

As usual, Jen tells it like it should be. This is the God's honest truth.

My most recent TS GF (few years ago) took me to meet her family and they were amazing people. Her brother certainly razzed me but once I showed I could have a sense of humor about it and jab back, I earned his and everyone else's respect.

Its just another one of those things that all of the "White knights" around here should think about. Never promise things you can't deliver on. When it comes to family, that seperates the men from the boys...

[TomSelis]

Your own fear is the biggest hump you'll have to get over.

Here's what's likely to happen, if you have a semi-normal family and she's passable as you say she is.

You'll take her over the parent's house. Your mom will give her the once over, your dad might hit on her a little bit. She'll chat with the rest of your family. Here's where you really need to relax and act normal. If you start giving off awkward vibes, people will start poking. You'll eat, you'll talk some more. She'll offer to do the dishes or some shit...help put the food away. Your pop or brothers will give you the nod. You'll go home. People will ask "How's so and so?"

If someone figures her out best case scenario, they'll pull you or her aside and say something. Worst case scenario, your drunk uncle or drunk grandpa or loud aunt will say something right at the table.

Dude, my family are card carrying catholics from africa, where anything having to do with an alternative lifestyles is evil. I am the seventh of eight children, so I have a pretty huge family with a huge turnout. Since they're kind of British style, no one would make a scene. Nobody ever said shit to me or the girl I took.

It'll be fine.