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urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 08:11 AM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

altarica
11-15-2008, 09:01 AM
No you are wrong there.I go with quite a few trannies who would be mortally offended if asked to top a guy.In fact it is often one of the stipulations of hooking up with them in the first place that you don't ask or want them to fuck you.They are girls so why would they be doing the fucking.Catch my drift.

urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 09:06 AM
They are girls so why would they be doing the fucking.Catch my drift.

Because they have a genetic penis?

urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 09:08 AM
[quote="braveman"]I agree, but our views are in the minority on HA. I would guess that 70% of the guys here love to bottom. Nothing wrong with being a bottom, I'm just saying.

Totally agree. Nothing wrong with bottoming if thats ur thing...No offense meant, just asking.

MajorHardOn26
11-15-2008, 09:09 AM
I love getting bottomed any day

NYBURBS
11-15-2008, 09:14 AM
They are girls so why would they be doing the fucking.Catch my drift.

Because they have a genetic penis?

Oh lord this has the potential to be one of those long threads lol. Like everything else in life there are all sorts of trends. Transsexuals feel as if they were born with the wrong physical gender, and so generally they strive to live the role of what they feel emotionally (i.e., a MTF will strive to be feminine). This usually translates into how they conduct themselves sexually, and so they will want to take a passive role in sex.

Of course as I mentioned earlier you will find some that do not fit into the typical group and prefer to penetrate their partners for whatever their reasons. There are also ones that like both roles sexually and seek the same in a partner.

What you see in porn is more about entertainment and appealing to certain fantasy elements, it's not really representative of what you find in reality. So I hope that answers your question for you.

urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 09:19 AM
Gotchya...That answers my question. Thanks

Bob's Tgirls
11-15-2008, 10:11 AM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

I think a lot of men and genetic women tend to assume transsexuals are all alike. But they come in as many different personality types as anyone else. Some are straight (only have sex with men), or gay or bi. Some prefer to top, bottom or are versatile. Some are dominant; others are submissive. Some are very girly. Others are like tomboys. And on and on. Think of all the combinations you can come up with just from the traits I listed. Of course there are many other traits such as fetishes and so forth.

So girls like Khloe Hart and Celeste prefer to be on the bottom whereas a girl like Nia Lee loves to pound guys hard. Then you have girls like Vaniity who love sex any which way.

And for the tgirls who like to stereotype us guys who prefer them, we have all those different personality types as well. I'm one of those guys who likes it in all kinds of ways. :)

sockmonkey
11-15-2008, 12:30 PM
Look, mate... does the average GG want to strap one on and fuck a bloke in the ass? No, generally speaking, she doesn't. Same with 90% of transsexuals, I'd wager. Rule of thumb: if you can't see your genetic girlfriend doing it, you shouldn't expect a TS chick to do it. Or at least, not for the sake of their pleasure alone.

T-Girls like the dick in their butt. And their mouth. The reverse is only true if you pay them exorbitant sums of cash. And more power to them when they collect. But if you're talking strictly about their pleasure, then no, you shouldn't expect to be topped.

Not that there's anything wrong with that; I'm just saying. A dude is a dude and a chick is a chick.

wombat33
11-15-2008, 04:08 PM
No you are wrong there.I go with quite a few trannies who would be mortally offended if asked to top a guy.In fact it is often one of the stipulations of hooking up with them in the first place that you don't ask or want them to fuck you.They are girls so why would they be doing the fucking.Catch my drift.


I agree too...............to a point.............I am not a TS,, but in talknig to many of them........some.....not all........told me they would never do that with thier man, but every once in a while they need a guy to bend over and top. One told me she can not sleep if she does not cum at least once a day

Nowhere
11-15-2008, 04:31 PM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

Generally speaking no. Also, I do still think the majority of guys do want to top their girls and that it is this loud tiny group of guys who are the opposite that you hear posting about it (and who are the majority of Johns).

Must I remind people, yet again, how crazy everyone has gotten over Kimber, and she has been bottom-only in every single thing she's done (and I hope she keeps it that way)? The sales on that alone prove my point.

All of the reasons for this have already been stated in this thread.

artemis2085
11-15-2008, 04:32 PM
For most straight men who date TS this is a definite plus and adds a perk to the relationship.

A lot of girls will do this for photo shoots or what have you, but would never do it within their relationship.

At the end of the day it just comes down to the two people involved, and how comfortable they are and what they want out of each other...

Solitary Brother
11-15-2008, 04:35 PM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

Thats not a problem around here as most guys do bottom and are bottoms.

envivision
11-15-2008, 04:42 PM
.....HE SHOULD BE SHOT !!!

AND YOU CALL YOURSELVES SHEMALE LOVERS. BUNCH OF PANSIES.

blckhaze
11-15-2008, 10:53 PM
Short answer no

Long answer: Depends. Some girls are flat out against it, other only get the itch once in a while, other will dump you in the gutter if you dont. _Always better to let her bring up any and all sexual activities, and adapt rather than force.

urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 11:01 PM
Short answer no
_Always better to let her bring up any and all sexual activities, and adapt rather than force.

Gotchya. Thanks.

urscapegoat
11-15-2008, 11:01 PM
Short answer no
_Always better to let her bring up any and all sexual activities, and adapt rather than force.

Gotchya. Thanks.

tsluva
11-17-2008, 01:51 AM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

I think a lot of men and genetic women tend to assume transsexuals are all alike. But they come in as many different personality types as anyone else. Some are straight (only have sex with men), or gay or bi. Some prefer to top, bottom or are versatile. Some are dominant; others are submissive. Some are very girly. Others are like tomboys. And on and on. Think of all the combinations you can come up with just from the traits I listed. Of course there are many other traits such as fetishes and so forth.

So girls like Khloe Hart and Celeste prefer to be on the bottom whereas a girl like Nia Lee loves to pound guys hard. Then you have girls like Vaniity who love sex any which way.

And for the tgirls who like to stereotype us guys who prefer them, we have all those different personality types as well. I'm one of those guys who likes it in all kinds of ways. :)

great point, Bob.
This is the most interesting one that stands out among the others here.
Before i read Bob's post, my initial thought was to make a call out
to the Tgirls that post here regularly and ask them how they feel
about this thread question. And i hope they still do give their
input opinion.

Makes sense that just as men, GGs have their preferences
and likes, so will tgirls.
The men on HA board can't make assumptions and generalizations
based on our own preferences. i could be wrong, but that's the
impression i got once i read all the posted threads.

canihavu
11-17-2008, 01:57 AM
Can he truly sexually please a tranny? A tranny may have a gg mindset, but dont they also want to bottom their chaser?

In my experiences, I have met trannys who do not like to top at all (not even get their dick sucked) and some who love to have their dicks sucked. I even know one who told me she loves to top guys because likes to be in control. I mean everyone has things they like to do sexually...

bellamy
11-17-2008, 02:54 AM
Though this has been well said above I'll put my 2 cents in as well.

The best way to think about this situation is just like every other general question of transsexual woman, or anyone really. You can't expect everyone of one group to think, act, or want the same thing. Just because all transsexual woman were born as genetic males does not make them behave the same. Just as all genetic males don't want the same thing sexually. To make sweeping asessmaent about trans woman is as foolish as it is any other group. The amswer to this type of question is alway "some do...some don't".

bellamy
11-17-2008, 02:58 AM
Though this has been well said above I'll put my 2 cents in as well.

The best way to think about this situation is just like every other general question of transsexual woman, or anyone really. You can't expect everyone of one group to think, act, or want the same thing. Just because all transsexual woman were born as genetic males does not make them behave the same. Just as all genetic males don't want the same thing sexually. To make sweeping asessmaent about trans woman is as foolish as it is any other group. The amswer to this type of question is alway "some do...some don't".

Jane Marie
11-17-2008, 04:37 AM
Hello all well It has been the case that yes 70-80 % of men that get with me want to be the bottom as its what they have fantasized about but after I see them for a few time we are very versatile. I can only simply say I am versatile I am bi but feel more complete with a man. I do have alot of fun with couples and helping cuckolds. Though at any given moment I can bottom I have to have some energy to top. With the hormones I am on I prefer to take a viagra or cialis if I am going to top. Ive bottomed to more than Ive topped I spose me being comfortable enough with a guy to top him I like to know he still views me as very much a woman. Its kind of like belly buttons some have innies and some have outties lol This is a subject different for every guy and girl but men more often want me to top. And since my fantasy is to be someones fantasy then that is what I like to do. Bottom or top be honest and passionate and you have fun Mwah-Janey

ARMANIXXX
11-17-2008, 01:14 PM
Been said plenty already,

Some girls like it, some don't. Some like it every so often. Additionally, I've only been with one TS girl that didn't like her dick sucked...cute Arab girl....she's probably gonna have SRS soon.

Celeste
11-18-2008, 01:46 PM
In my personal life, I like guys who arent into sucking and getting fucked. So yeah, Im still pleased :wink:

DC
11-18-2008, 02:28 PM
Celeste,
Just want to say your a hottie, a question for you.
What about getting you ass licked??

Because Id love to lick then stick it..