Would you be seen in Public with a TS?

[Ineeda SM]

^^^^^^ Of course I would. They are women, human beings. They're not rabid pit bulls for fuck sake. Anyone who says NO doesn't deserve the honor of their company in the first place.


@YVONNE: I would be proud to walk down the street with you, no matter what happens.

[runningdownthatdream]

No man would want to be seen with me, I'm not normal. If I was to walk with a guy, i might do something crazy and have us both arrested

Also if a guy was to walk down the street with me, there's a chance some biker would recognize me and they might kicked the guys ass that was with me at the time.

Anyways,, I mostly walk alone.

Walking with you sounds complicated but if two people walk on the same path while alone - does it count as walking together?

[Murderous-marge]

Hell no.

[EvonRose]

Well the question really is, Why would I want to walk down with you? lol...

[Prospero]

Well put Evon... and welcome back.

[Tyler___Durden]

Trannys are just sexual play things,so hell no
The trans I had the unfortunate experience of talking to,turned out to be the most vile ppl I've came across in my entire life(I've talked to serial killers with better personality's).I tried to view transwomen in a positive light....fuck that..... they're just fuck-dolls.

Just threw-up the tranny kool-aid,and I'm no longer blind


Trans appreciation exam

Please switch off your phones and any electronic devices you have.
Please remain seated if you finish before the allocated time.

Now, please turn your papers over.
You have 45 minutes, starting.....now.
Starter for 10 points (no conferring)


Doctor Screw's Shitty attitude
(Make reference to the highlighted comments in your answers)
Does doctor screw's attitude towards transsexual women, explain why those same women were vile to him?
Will he ever get laid again? Seriously, will he?
Does he hide behind a fake picture because he is just that, a fake?
Is it at all possible for his comments, in some circumstances, not to offend any transsexual woman reading them. (Give examples)
Do you think that 50 years ago, he was the sort of 'man' who would call a black person a nigger?



{If you need to use the bathroom, please raise your hand} :yayo:

[doctor screw]

Trans appreciation exam

Please switch off your phones and any electronic devices you have.
Please remain seated if you finish before the allocated time.

Now, please turn your papers over.
You have 45 minutes, starting.....now.
Starter for 10 points (no conferring)


Doctor Screw's Shitty attitude
(Make reference to the highlighted comments in your answers)
Does doctor screw's attitude towards transsexual women, explain why those same women were vile to him?
Will he ever get laid again? Seriously, will he?
Does he hide behind a fake picture because he is just that, a fake?
Is it at all possible for his comments, in some circumstances, not to offend any transsexual woman reading them. (Give examples)
Do you think that 50 years ago, he was the sort of 'man' who would call a black person a nigger?



{If you need to use the bathroom, please raise your hand} :yayo:

No,their vileness is a part of their natural character.They were never vile to me...I just observed it.

Yes,I get bunz when I feel like it......never from anyone on this site(would rather blow my own brains out)

You have a fake picture,pointing out a fake picture...lmao

I only offend assholes,may they be transwomen/men/transmen/etc.

A spastic chav is trying to call me a nigger , indirectly.......don't be scared friend,lol

If you're really a transwoman....YOU'RE THE VILENESS THAT I'M TALKING ABOUT

None of your rambling changes my opinion about trannys.....they're bat-shit crazy,and only good for fucking

[Mike11]

Would you hold her hand and kiss her in public? Or keep it a secret? I would only date a TS if she is confidential...

I have been out with to TS' both of whom were rather good looking and quite passable. The only attention I received was other guys trying to hit on them. I would have no reservation going out with a good looking TS. However I am not really into dating TS. I like sex with TS girls from time to time but for dating and relationships I am only into organic girls.

[Tyler___Durden]

You have a fake picture,pointing out a fake picture...lmao
If you're really a transwoman....YOU'RE THE VILENESS THAT I'M TALKING ABOUT
None of your rambling changes my opinion about trannys.....they're bat-shit crazy,and only good for fucking
Er, that is me in the photo,
but the important question is how did you get on with the test?

ps, we should be together.

[doctor screw]

Er, that is me in the photo,
but the important question is how did you get on with the test?

ps, we should be together.

????????? lmao
Wow,they're very strange ppl on this site

Hows the UK chapter of the Hell's Angels doing...lol

[Tyler___Durden]

Hows the UK chapter of the Hell's Angels doing...lol
I think they moved on.
It's all SoA over here these days.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOD26Q0EvMk

[Yvonne183]

Hey,,, Where I live Pagans Rule.

[doctor screw]

I think they moved on.
It's all SoA over here these days.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOD26Q0EvMk

Worrrrrd

I heard Peggy was a total slut on that show

[jerseyboy72]

Hey,,, Where I live Pagans Rule.

My area too. Philly- Jersey.

[onmyknees]

????????? lmao
Wow,they're very strange ppl on this site

Hows the UK chapter of the Hell's Angels doing...lol

They're alive and doing well here on the East Coast. Was just at a party with charters from Boston, NYC, and Philly, and Prov RI....in fact they could be right behind you Dr. Screwy....lol

[jerseyboy72]

They're alive and doing well here on the East Coast. Was just at a party with charters from Boston, NYC, and Philly, and Prov RI....in fact they could be right behind you Dr. Screwy....lol

They still in Philly? The Pagans took care of them in Philly.

[Tyler___Durden]

Yep.
Totally hot, very sexy, very tough.http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV5BNDU0ODA0NjMzMF5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMjYyMTk3MQ@@._ V1._SX214_CR0,0,214,314_.jpg
I've got S1 & 2 and a friend's just burnt S3 & S4 onto disc for me. :-)

[onmyknees]

They still in Philly? The Pagans took care of them in Philly.

Actually the remaining members of the charter are in York

[jerseyboy72]

Actually the remaining members of the charter are in York

OK, thanks. There a was pretty big war maybe 10 years ago, when the Hells open a chapter in Philly and a high ranking pagan switch to the Hells to run it. I think he name was Eddie Wood. The Pagans killed him on I-95 drive by.

[onmyknees]

I-95 drive bys seem to be a favorite of the Pagans. I had a friend shot on I-95 in Connecticut about 5 years ago. Here today...gone tomorrow.

[jerseyboy72]

I-95 drive bys seem to be a favorite of the Pagans. I had a friend shot on I-95 in Connecticut about 5 years ago. Here today...gone tomorrow.

Sorry to hear that.

[slingblade]

If she's super-passable, you'll never know.... ;-)

those are the best kind there. :)

[LatinLover]

Yes sure , no problem

[IHEARTKALENA]

Why not? I find most T-Girls from Brasil more attractive than regular girls these days

[Kevin Dong]

I'm out every day with passable and non passable tgirls. At 6'4 and 280lbs I really could give a fuck. People stare at me like I'm from another planet anyways. I figure I make a living with these girls so I will hang out and be friends and I have nothing to be ashamed of!!! Baaaaam!!! You jealous?

[LibertyHarkness]

i wouldnt be seen out with a non passable male :)

[beaufont]

i wouldnt be seen out with a non passable male :)

Good answer lol

[StinkyPete1000]

I sure have. I'm a grown man I dont care what other closed minded people think

[mrtrebus]

YES! Now form an orderly queue ladies x

[martin48]

Went out with one for 6 years so no problem. Still miss her

[SammiValentine]

i wouldnt be seen out with a non passable male :)

giggle.

[RallyCola]

any dude that needs to be on the down low is just using tgirls...if you can get it up to have sex or fap off to them...you should be man enough to be seen with one of them...if you could be so lucky and they want to be seen in public with you

[Tyler___Durden]

Would you be seen in Public with a TS?
Honestly, and totally truthful answer:
It depends.
If she looks just like any other woman, sure.
Anywhere at all.

Yesterday I was out clothes shopping in Welwyn Garden city, with a ts friend.
Later we went to a cafe and finished off by visiting the Porsche official dealership,
which is located on the edge of the estate where I live. She wants a Boxter. http://ucl.porsche.de/ucl/graph/cars/WP0ZZZ98ZCS720260_1.jpg
So all places I regularly go. {Apart from the Dealership...http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-basic/rolleyes.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)}

If a ts friend was unable to so represent so?
Well I do, on occasion. But I feel a little uncomfortable.
Which is pretty crappy of me.

Quickest way to be recognised to be a transsexual woman?
Hang out with a load of other ts women. :?

I just asked my man. His answer:
"If I was out with a transsexual woman, I'd hide in a shoe shop"
Oh that time...
When we first arranged to meet, I'd gone down to the coast with two other ts women.
I'd arranged for him to meet up and for us all go for a coffee*.
Anyway, when I directed him to the small square where we were
he saw the other two but not me.
I came out from a shoe shop. I was partly looking at shoes
and partly keeping out of the cold wind.
Which he didn't believe.
I'm insecure and just didn't wanna be "ID'ed as trans" by the world at large.

*That was 3 years ago. Longest fucking coffee I ever had.
(luv him really)

[Willie Escalade]

Selina Malone and I hit a restaurant after clubbing one Saturday with some other folks; the look on the faces of the guys in the restaurant was one of "holy shit, she's hot". There were other Tgirls with us as well; no problems whatsoever. Unlike many cats I can, will, and have been seen with the girls in public.

[tsmandy]

Only if she's taller than me. Or has bigger boobs. Otherwise no way.

[Transgirls.de]

I Love it!!!!

Why not??????

Also you can say:
Would you be seen in Public with a Man or a girl or a black or a white or a yellow


I Love to be seen in public with nice human beeings of all kind but not with idiots :loser:

[AlwaysAda]

if a guy doesn't ask me to go out.. i don't deal with him. every guy i have dated was proud to be with me. even some of my gay friends try to claim me when guys check me out..

[jerseyboy72]

Yes, I only really date Tg's in this point of my life. Its a ego boost when you have a beautiful transwoman on your arm.

But I have to say it is a real ego boost for all the tg's i have dated, for them to be with me also.

[robertlouis]

Would you be seen in Public with a TS?
Honestly, and totally truthful answer:
It depends.
If she looks just like any other woman, sure.
Anywhere at all.

Yesterday I was out clothes shopping in Welwyn Garden city, with a ts friend.
Later we went to a cafe and finished off by visiting the Porsche official dealership,
which is located on the edge of the estate where I live. She wants a Boxter. http://ucl.porsche.de/ucl/graph/cars/WP0ZZZ98ZCS720260_1.jpg
So all places I regularly go. {Apart from the Dealership...http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-basic/rolleyes.gif (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php)}

If a ts friend was unable to so represent so?
Well I do, on occasion. But I feel a little uncomfortable.
Which is pretty crappy of me.

Quickest way to be recognised to be a transsexual woman?
Hang out with a load of other ts women. :?

I just asked my man. His answer:
"If I was out with a transsexual woman, I'd hide in a shoe shop"
Oh that time...
When we first arranged to meet, I'd gone down to the coast with two other ts women.
I'd arranged for him to meet up and for us all go for a coffee*.
Anyway, when I directed him to the small square where we were
he saw the other two but not me.
I came out from a shoe shop. I was partly looking at shoes
and partly keeping out of the cold wind.
Which he didn't believe.
I'm insecure and just didn't wanna be "ID'ed as trans" by the world at large.

*That was 3 years ago. Longest fucking coffee I ever had.
(luv him really)


Great post, Tyler. I can see myself making that short hop down the A1 before too long.

[tommy001]

If she was my gf of course i'd kiss and hold hands in public! There's nothing wrong with that!
I'd rather have a TS girlfriend than a Porsche any day!

[russtafa]

My area too. Philly- Jersey.
In Sydney all the bikie gangs are always shooting at each other

[KittyPride]

I Love to be seen in public with nice human beeings of all kind but not with idiots :loser:

Same here, that's what counts.

[IHEARTKALENA]

In Sydney all the bikie gangs are always shooting at each other

Hi fellow Sydney poster! :)

[Tyler___Durden]

Great post, Tyler. I can see myself making that short hop down the A1 before too long.
Well, if we go for a drive, I don't wish to mislead you.
I only went into the Porsche showroom; I didn't buy a Boxster or anything. :roll:
I've only a humble Mazda MX-5.
http://i307.photobucket.com/albums/nn296/mishaland/DSC00019LargeMedium.jpg
I love my car!

[Tyler___Durden]

If she was my gf of course i'd kiss and hold hands in public! There's nothing wrong with that!
I'd rather have a TS girlfriend than a Porsche any day!
Just as well as the money she has spent on surgery stuff,
is probably about the same as the cost of a rather nice Porsche!!!

[MrsKellyPierce]

I lead a very normal life and have never been clocked...

I do normal every day things with no make up on etc

Never had someone look at me funny or go that's a man

or use sir or whatever lol

I think guys put too much weight on pics and videos and less on what the person looks like in person

Tons of girls look better in person and tons of girls who look good in pics and videos look worst in person...

This is me with my mother-in-law and step-daughter the other day when we went to go see Joyful Noise..my husband took the pics on his cell phone

And this is me what I look like when I go grocery shopping or to run errands with no make up on

[TRANSEXUAL TOP BELICE]

I lead a very normal life and have never been clocked...

I do normal every day things with no make up on etc

Never had someone look at me funny or go that's a man

or use sir or whatever lol

I think guys put too much weight on pics and videos and less on what the person looks like in person

Tons of girls look better in person and tons of girls who look good in pics and videos look worst in person...

This is me with my mother-in-law and step-daughter the other day when we went to go see Joyful Noise..my husband took the pics on his cell phone

And this is me what I look like when I go grocery shopping or to run errands with no make up on



very nice pictures

but does your mom know her pictures of her daughter took it are on a porn site?
i think the question was mean to be the
no show off family stuff
just my opinion

[fla_funmeister2]

I took a TS to the beach in LA once. What a great time we had. Lunch, sun bathing, shopping, etc.

[alyssaluxor]

:)

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[phillyguy21]

I have been in the public eye with tgirls. My type of tgirl is passable and square (i.e., not in the escort or porn industry). These girls are out here (in metropolitan areas at least), but hard to find. I have been blessed to encounter a few of them. I've been out in public with a couple of these girls, but haven't run into colleagues, family, or friends. That aspect is for another thread, but as for the original question, the answer is yes.

[FreddieGomez]

say what!

[amberskyi]

i always say...how many tgirls would be seen in public with you?

[bluesoul]

I have been out with to TS' both of whom were rather good looking and quite passable. The only attention I received was other guys trying to hit on them. I would have no reservation going out with a good looking TS. However I am not really into dating TS. I like sex with TS girls from time to time but for dating and relationships I am only into organic girls.

real talk right here. where do you get your organic girls- farmers market or whole foods?

[MdR Dave]

real talk right here. where do you get your organic girls- farmers market or whole foods?

I hear that their implants are made of hummus.

[buttslinger]

i always say...how many tgirls would be seen in public with you?

It's been said many ways here, but if you're young and handsome, or rich and friendly, or you go to the gym, corvette dealer, and plastic surgeon.........women are just as shallow as men when it comes to sex.

[bluesoul]

I hear that their implants are made of hummus.

ummm we're talking about organic girls- which means they grow their own boobs

[MdR Dave]

ummm we're talking about organic girls- which means they grow their own boobs

They'd never get certified in California.

U.S. producers are turning to certified organic farming systems as a potential way to lower input costs, decrease reliance on nonrenewable resources, capture high-value markets and premium prices, and boost farm income. Organic farming systems rely on ecologically based practices such as cultural and biological pest management, exclusion of all synthetic chemicals, antibiotics, and hormones in crop and livestock production.

[Cecil Rhodes]

giggle.

would you go out with me sammi ?

[msharrow]

yes of course, and I have been inAsia and in Europe. Whats the problem ? They are girls in all ways but one.

[GrimFusion]

Would I be seen in public with a transsexual? I guess. That's a weird question. I mean, if I trust a chick well enough to offer to hang out, then no; of course I wouldn't mind. I don't see why that should bother me. That's other people's problems.

[bte]

Never responded to this thread, although it amazes me that a question like this is posed on a transsexual forum.

So my answer is yes. I have been seen in public with TS. Its really no big deal. Also I find it find it odd that guys will jack off TS, but being seen in public is a no no.

[bluesoul]

Also I find it find it odd that guys will jack off TS, but being seen in public is a no no.

maybe it's because jerking off doesn't require you make a donation- unless it's your bandwidth :)

[freedom]

yes i would, yes i have, yes i will again (god willing).

If you're too ashamed to be with her in public, stop kidding yourself and just visit hookers. Cause you AIN'T in a relationship if she's locked in your closet!

[TSJulieLove]

Everyday I'm in public and am proud!! My Man is unbothered. I don't usually get clocked

[GurlyCockLover]

i have done and would do again!

[TatianaSummer]

Let me think... mmm HELL YEAH! why not?

[theoryman]

I've had my gurl as my wife for 6 years now...

Sure would be hard NOT to be seen with her.

[allurstouse]

No I am an emasculated heenunuch I have testicles but society has my balls. I would never pursue anything that made me happy if others might disaprove...I have a therapist appointment now and then need to go pick up my xanax and anti depressants ttyl

[talldudeil]

Do it all the time

[Nicole Dupre]

No. What if the neighbors talk? lol

[bart87]

yea i wouldnt mind being seen with a tgirl in publici was the other day n it was awesome fuck what ppl say

[lifeisfiction]

I would like to be seen in public with anyone, but I am too hideous to be seen. I do hope I can find a person who would be willing to go out in public with me and not be embarrased.

[LeatherTGirlLover]

Done it loads of times.

[Ilovetranny]

If i believe that she's my soul, I would do everything with my soul mate. It's a matter of choices. Society or anything cant judge me with my shemale lover.

[Richctdude]

yes i would!!!

[blackshemalelove]

where i come from, not really...but if she passes for a girl, heall yea, and offcourse if she wouldnt get angry and scream it out

[nsagent]

I think I speak for many on here when I say yes as long as she's attractive and passible. Now if only I could find one like that where I live.......

[dunkiex]

My gf is a transsexual, so I am seen with her all the time...she is beautiful, and I am proud..

[Switchnyc2011]

I have been out with one of my friends and she likes to push the limits a bit. Still I have no issue with being out in public with her

[peter_tsfan]

yes!

[RadiusDark]

With this one? Hell yea I would.

[Spanishgirillover]

I would and have.

[theoryman]

I am most every day.

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[transeeker]

Some seem to be misinterpreting this question, which was not whether you would be seen in public with a TS date - but with a TS - full stop - i.e. she could be a working girl. I suspect most contributors here keep their admiration of T girls to themselves. Of course if you are on a date with anyone, then you should be proud to be so, no matter where or with who. I personally enjoy sex and relationships with GGs. Although I am very attracted to TS girls too, there is a stigma attached to it for most guys - let's get real here. That said I was in one of the pavement bars that exists in Bangkok last year and I was happily kissing with a ladyboy. There was only a small risk that someone I knew would see me - but even so, at that time I didn't really care - I was just lost in the moment.

[suttonporksword]

i have booked a ts girl, been to see her, got on well then took her out on a date in the middle of a city centre, visiting shops, bars and restaurants. i didnt bat an eyelid, neither did she, or anyone else so whats your point??

[Token Williams-Black]

Yes and I have. It's not a big deal to me.

[Willie Escalade]

I happened to be out with a TS Saturday afternoon. Those that know me know I don't care...

[eccentricBlue]

Been there, done that....

[MHarrigan82]

My girlfriend is transexual so of course I have been out in public with a transexual woman. I am secure in my sexuality and don't care what people think.

[RallyCola]

i would like to see the reverse asked....ask how many girls on this site would be seen in public with some of the guys from this site..

it is an unremarkable question to ask a site full of lustful men if they would be seen in public with a tgirl...there are those of us that are actively involved in the tg scene and those of us that it is pure fantasy and who may or may not have the balls to actually indulge.

[MdR Dave]

i would like to see the reverse asked....ask how many girls on this site would be seen in public with some of the guys from this site..

It happened soon after this thread was opened.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=63526&highlight=Public+chaser&page=6

[eccentricBlue]

It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

[Dino Velvet]

Also a big difference standing next to a gal who's 5'3'' as opposed to 6'3''. I don't feel too brave taking out tiny ladyboys.

[amberskyi]

Also a big difference standing next to a gal who's 5'3'' as opposed to 6'3''. I don't feel too brave taking out tiny ladyboys.

The guy I went out with last night was 5'9 (i'm 6'2).dudes were giving him props and compliments

[Silcc69]

The guy I went out with last night was 5'9 (i'm 6'2).dudes were giving him props and compliments

Bring your tall azz back down to Nashvile :D

[oneinsandiego]

...dated my last girlfriend for over two years, we lived a normal life like everyone else... wait why is this even a question?? If you like somebody, you like somebody and will want to be with them no matter what, and that means in public too!

[Jay6966]

No, I wouldn't have an issue with dating and meeting up in public.

End of the day people are people.

It's intresting this topic came up now, as I am dying to take this 1 praticular girl out for a while but she keeps putting it off. I even asked her again today but she is out of town haha.

[kmersh]

I can only speak for myself, but I could care less if one is TS or not, people are people (as another poster wrote) and that is all that matter to me.

So, to answer the question, YES!

Dan

[Deepdarkfucker]

Yes I would.

[Dino Velvet]

The guy I went out with last night was 5'9 (i'm 6'2).dudes were giving him props and compliments

Your face is very pretty so everybody thought he was out with a fashion model. I'd wonder who the tall hot chick was also. I mean the poor gals who look like Pat Ewing "all dolled-up".

Pat Ewing from Exorcist 3 was the best I could do.

http://brianorndorf.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ee7b64288330134865f721f970c-500wi

[danthepoetman]

I haven’t read the inconceivable 35 pages or so of this thread. I suppose many of you have said exactly what I’m going to say but I guess it’s worth repeating. I don’t want to come out as some moralistic clown, but I humbly find the very question exceedingly insulting in itself. It’s as if we were talking about some kind of weird ignominy sweating animals nobody should be found with not to be soiled or something. It’s utterly ridiculous ! I admit I’m totally baffled by this thread. It seems to me anyone on this sites who answers “no” to such a question is nothing more than a coward.

[rydermorrison]

I haven’t read the inconceivable 35 pages or so of this thread. I suppose many of you have said exactly what I’m going to say but I guess it’s worth repeating. I don’t want to come out as some moralistic clown, but I humbly find the very question exceedingly insulting in itself. It’s as if we were talking about some kind of weird ignominy sweating animals nobody should be found with not to be soiled or something. It’s utterly ridiculous ! I admit I’m totally baffled by this thread. It seems to me anyone on this sites who answers “no” to such a question is nothing more than a coward.

^^^this

[danthepoetman]

if a guy is too bitchmade to be seen in public with a t-girl then he doesnt deserve to date one.. pay ur money and find an escort..


Took a while but I found it, Ryder.
Can’t imagine who thought about such a question and why…

[rydermorrison]

Took a while but I found it, Ryder.
Can’t imagine who thought about such a question and why…

lol i forgot i had posted that.

[NJfan]

I'm just waiting for someone to make a thread of 'Would you tell your friends you post on a TS message board?' or something else as lame.

[sabre666]

Sure! Been there, Done that. Went for a ride on my Hog & then had lunch @ Hooters.

[jjharden]

Good luck even finding a girl to date who you are ashamed of and treat like they are some kind of side show freak.What kind of girl would even date a guy like that.

Poetman

This was like the second response on the thread and I think it sums up the absurdity of the person asking the original question.

[danthepoetman]

Poetman

This was like the second response on the thread and I think it sums up the absurdity of the person asking the original question.

Thank you for pointing that one out. I didn’t go that far myself in the thread. You’re right: it sums it up well enough. Still a tiny bit puzzling, no offence intended to anyone (to everyone who by the way almost all answered the question positively), that we got 35 pages after that one indeed. But I suppose I have been a bit harsh in my previous post (#351): it’s much better to see most people answer properly such a stupid question rather than leave it unanswered and thus in some kind of silent doubt…
Thanx, jj.

[beatlephil]

I have been out in public with a transsexual a number of times although the first time we went out I didn't know she was a post-op transsexual. She was nice enough to tell me later that evening, but if she hadn't chose to do so I probably wouldn't have known because it never crossed my mind that she was anything but a beautiful young woman who had attracted my attention. I was a college student at the time and so was she although she was an older woman. While together I didn't feel the least bit uncomfortable being with her, holding her hand everywhere we went and cuddling in movie theaters. It was in the mid-70s and we didn't kiss in public although had we stayed together long enough we might have thrown caution to the wind. But it was nice while it lasted.

[Chiba5]

Of course I would be seen with a ts and it doesn't matter if she's a pre-op or post-op

[saifan]

I'm sure I piped in here at some point but posting again since I have an interesting event coming up. I have been seeing a girl for a little over 3 years. We hang out in public often and I can't see why anyone wouldn't.

She has avoided meeting my friends and family though but I finally convinced her to go to a wedding with me next month. She is worried that my friends will clock her. I said I didn't care but i also think she is extremely passable.

Looking forward to getting this next step out of the way for her.

[JayR80]

Sure. If I was attracted to her and vice versa then I would yes.

[Willie Escalade]

I can't believe this has gone 37 pages...

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Just like with genetic girls the answer would be some but not all.

[danthepoetman]

I'm sure I piped in here at some point but posting again since I have an interesting event coming up. I have been seeing a girl for a little over 3 years. We hang out in public often and I can't see why anyone wouldn't.

She has avoided meeting my friends and family though but I finally convinced her to go to a wedding with me next month. She is worried that my friends will clock her. I said I didn't care but i also think she is extremely passable.

Looking forward to getting this next step out of the way for her.

Good for you, man ! go for it ! don’t care for what anybody say if anything. Stand up for her as you would for any girl. I wish you both the best ! :)

[danthepoetman]

I can't believe this has gone 37 pages...

I feel the exact same way !

[dominic.perron]

Yes. I'd be seen in public with a TS. I'd also be seen in public with a genetic woman. I'm man enough not to give a fuck about what people think when they see me in public. If would take a refined TS woman on a date a classy restaurant and I'd take a genetic woman on a date in a tough, active environment. Otherwise, who gives a shit?

[robotop]

Absolutely....but of course this is the hungangels forum so we are the 'converted'. But it depends where you love if being realistic. NYC no problem. Small-town USA it might be trouble and easier said than done.

[bimale69]

Damn right i'll go out in public with my tg girl, i wasnt afaid to do that with my ex, and with my current girl, we go out all the time. If people dont like who i'm with, fuck'em, and if some a-hole wants to go after her for being ts, they'll have to go through me first.

[bluesoul]

I can't believe this has gone 37 pages...

the problem is that everyone is assuming the context of the question has to do with dating.


Would you hold her hand and kiss her in public? Or keep it a secret? I would only date a TS if she is confidential...

those seem like separate questions to me. also, too many "positive" answers seem to be for the wrong reasons. anyway, just my opinion :kiss:

[BellaBellucci]

I can't believe this has gone 37 pages...

Why not? :?

~BB~

[danthepoetman]

Why not? :?

~BB~


I think Willie is just sharing my view on the topic, Bella. See my posts #351 and 358 and what follows. Personally, I just feel that the question in itself is not only weird, but insulting.
But hey! that’s just my opinion…

[saifan]

Thanks, Dan.

[MesaRidge]

Why wouldn't one be willing to be seen in public with a TS? It's one of the reasons we are all here. We all have some desire or admiration for them.

I live in a small conservative town in Colorado. Back in 1999 or 2000 I chatted online with a cute TS that was a student at DU in Denver. She wanted to meet but like a dumb-ass I let my environment convince me that it wasn't appropriate.

I will never have that opportunity again and I regret not going for that cup of coffee.

[oxsbig_mike]

I went out with a very well know TS woman, to a popular restaurant her in St. Louis. No one had any idea, guys and girls gawked at her all night...Turned me on knowing what i knew!

[BigPaulie]

Of course - have done in the past, will do again (I hope!).

[aboutthezote]

Yep, same here. Recently had a fabulous yum cha with my ts friend and I spent the whole lunch rock hard because I knew afterwards she'd want to go back to hers and fuck me.

Who gives a shit what anyone thinks.

[Rabbiteyes]

I'll just say...

Trans people are human. Even if you are hiring them for their company, they are still human with feelings.

They actually have lives too. They go to the grocery store, they grab food from their favorite hole in the wall places... and they have to deal with a lot of looks and confusion (especially if they don't pass).

Why wouldn't you been seen in public with one?

[nysprod]

The guy I went out with last night was 5'9 (i'm 6'2).dudes were giving him props and compliments

Where did you go?

[smoothboi]

Like I've said on another thread about dating, it's more like would they be seen with me?

[cockstrong1]

I would go out and have I used to go out with a t-girl she is no longer with us but she was italian and very hot. I miss her so; we would go every were together and she was so passable that it was very comfortable to do. It was great to go out with her knowing that she had a little something special under her cloths.

[Kire89]

Not if I lived in some highly religious community, town or country. In Norway or other Western countries? Sure, I no longer care about what others suggest or allege to be the most praiseworthy social conventions applicable to life. I prefer TS/TV over GG, such is the love/relationship paradigm of my life. :)

I'm with smoothboi on this though, I think the pertinent factor is whether anyone wants to be seen in a lovey-dovey situation with me.

[nysprod]

It's more a question of whether a TS would be seen in public with me...

[MHarrigan82]

Not if I lived in some highly religious community, town or country. In Norway or other Western countries? Sure, I no longer care about what others suggest or allege to be the most praiseworthy social conventions applicable to life. I prefer TS/TV over GG, such is the love/relationship paradigm of my life. :)

I'm with smoothboi on this though, I think the pertinent factor is whether anyone wants to be seen in a lovey-dovey situation with me.

That is being a coward bro. I live in Texas a very conservative state in the United States and date a transwoman. I have gotten a few funny looks from people that have clocked my girl when she is just wearing sweat pants and tank top going to the grocery store or a ball game. I just kiss her and look back at there direction and they stop staring and look the other way. I use to care what people think but with me being 30 years old now, I live my life the way I want to and don't give a fuck.

[RallyCola]

It's more a question of whether a TS would be seen in public with me...

now that is an excellent question...

[amberskyi]

fuck no,why would i want to be scene with a tranny..gosh thats embarrassing

[dc_guy_75]

In SF, I haven't had even one awkward glance when I'm out with a lady, this city seems to be the most tolerant place on earth.

[Kire89]

That is being a coward bro. I live in Texas a very conservative state in the United States and date a transwoman. I have gotten a few funny looks from people that have clocked my girl when she is just wearing sweat pants and tank top going to the grocery store or a ball game. I just kiss her and look back at there direction and they stop staring and look the other way. I use to care what people think but with me being 30 years old now, I live my life the way I want to and don't give a fuck.

I was thinking more along the lines of Turkey, Iran, Iraq. Texas would be no problem at all I surmise.

Either way, it's not like I have any chance of engaging in a relationship with a TS/TV, so it's all hypothetical. :)

[MHarrigan82]

In SF, I haven't had even one awkward glance when I'm out with a lady, this city seems to be the most tolerant place on earth.

Yeah SF is probably the most liberal city in the United States. I live in Dallas which is very conservative George Bush JR lives here that ought to tell you how red we are. I wish me.and my girl was in SF would not have to worry about people comments or looks.

[be2378]

Seeing how I want to find and date someone, I would have no problem going to places. I dont really care what people I never seen or talked to before in my life, and be all worried why me and my date where we go.

[fivekatz]

Would you hold her hand and kiss her in public? Or keep it a secret? I would only date a TS if she is confidential...If I were out in public with a TS depending on the circumstances YES.

Let's assume for starters that it is just the two of us and we have gone out for drinks, to see a movie or dinner. We may just be acquaintances or maybe friends with deeper bounds. With that setting in mind now here is why I say yes:

First of all, I accept her and therefore I don't really give a shit what other people think.

Second, this is my friend or acquaintance and I would want to assure her that I accept her without limitations set by society. I would be with her because I like her and would be glad to make a public display that would let everyone around us know that.

This gets back to this whole "passable" thing, which is based on others opinions of a persons sexuality. That is just BS, other people do not determine that.

[jamesb121]

now that is an excellent question...

Nail. Head.

[MDinMD]

I was thinking more along the lines of Turkey, Iran, Iraq. Texas would be no problem at all I surmise.:)

Turkey? No, you're not thinking of Turkey, trust me.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=41748

[TSCURIOUS]

Why not?

[BellaBellucci]

Would you be seen in Public with a Chaser?

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=74366

~BB~

[fivekatz]

Would you be seen in Public with a Chaser?

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=74366

~BB~Touche

[wiltthestilt]

Sure. But I never meet transgendered women in my regular life, so its a moot point.

[Thor57]

yes i have been in public with t-girls....no problem

[nysprod]

To be honest, if it's a place where no one knows me, yes, and I do it...Bringing her to dinner with a friend and his GF/Wife? Not now, maybe in the future...Introducing a TS GF to my kid? That's not happening...ever...

[south ov da border]

I would. Period. I have no issues with society and such anymore. I miss living in L.A. and being able to go to Blacklight or Peanuts. Orlando just doesn't have that umph for me...

[navyjeff]

absolutely, i have and still will

[BellaBellucci]

I would. Period. I have no issues with society and such anymore. I miss living in L.A. and being able to go to Blacklight or Peanuts. Orlando just doesn't have that umph for me...

You do realize that both of those places are closed? :lol:

~BB~

[jordyd19]

have n will in the future

[Banty]

If she was my gf of course i'd kiss and hold hands in public! There's nothing wrong with that!
I'd rather have a TS girlfriend than a Porsche any day!

There is no question, and the thought that this question needs to be asked really makes me think the problems that society has these days...

Who cares ...fuck 'em

That said....I have always wanted a Posche:rolleyes:

Can I choose the model?........

[south ov da border]

You do realize that both of those places are closed? :lol:

~BB~


I'm well aware, L.A. was a long time ago, was just having a nostalgia moment. I'm sure that the stroll on Santa Monica is dead as well... I miss that Donut shop and the random guy asking if I wanted bud or had any...

[the_conqueror]

I went on a few dates with a ts a few years ago.

I wont lie, even though she was fairly passable I was still a bit nervous about getting looks from other people. In the end things were fine and got next to no looks or at least I didn't notice anyone watching us. That's the benefit of going out with a ts in a bigger city, you can blend right in no matter what.

[shemalelvr]

Did and would again

[terrygrooby]

If you're "scared" to be seen by strangers with someone you are attracted to/dating/ or even friend, it means that you are scared to look at yourself, period.

[Amoore]

did and will again

[frilli_grll]

Of course I would, love to!

[kmersh]

Oddly I do not think of Dallas,Houston, Austin as conservative, Texas as a whole without a question is conservative, but the major metropolitan ares seem more advanced (to me)than the smaller TX cities/towns.

Dallas is fun city with great restaurants, one of the best Japanese restaurants I have ever had the pleasure of eating in (outside of Japan) and one of the more interesting art collections the Tammel Crow Asian Art Collection.

Houston has a great foodie culture with a very liberal view of food (underbelly was one of my top 10 meals of 2012), especially for a state that is as RED as Rick Perry.

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[bluesoul]

Would you be seen in Public with a Chaser?

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?t=74366

~BB~

it's worth noting that almost all the trannies wouldn't be seen with a chaser, but all the chasers would proudly be seen with the trannies :yayo:

[fivekatz]

it's worth noting that almost all the trannies wouldn't be seen with a chaser, but all the chasers would proudly be seen with the trannies :yayo:LOL.

On a more serious note I sort of get a rush out being out with my girl, treating her like a girl and not giving a shit what other people think.

Whether it is the feeling that I am making my companion feel "normal/social equal" or just the joy of telling other people I am confident enough in who I am as man that your opinion does not mean shit to me.

As for your post bluesoul the reaction to the chasers in the current threads IMHO is that of repulsion to the idea that a man would be intimate with a transgendered woman behind closed doors, yet ashamed to show ant affection in public.

Just my take, as these two dueling threads honestly have kind of taken me back a biyt.

[amberskyi]

LOL.

On a more serious note I sort of get a rush out being out with my girl, treating her like a girl and not giving a shit what other people think.

Whether it is the feeling that I am making my companion feel "normal/social equal" or just the joy of telling other people I am confident enough in who I am as man that your opinion does not mean shit to me.

As for your post bluesoul the reaction to the chasers in the current threads IMHO is that of repulsion to the idea that a man would be intimate with a transgendered woman behind closed doors, yet ashamed to show ant affection in public.

Just my take, as these two dueling threads honestly have kind of taken me back a biyt.

And that for me is the definition of a chaser.someone who has no problem having sex with a ts girl but would never consider a relationship with a ts

[fivekatz]

And that for me is the definition of a chaser.someone who has no problem having sex with a ts girl but would never consider a relationship with a tsAnd that is more than fair, it is no different than Senator Larry Craig trying to get BJ in the men's bathroom at an airport but voting on the senate floor as a total anti-gay rights senator.

Now the question is amberskyi, do pity that fellow or hold them in disdain OR both? They are after all having a rather hypocritical moral battle within themselves.

[amberskyi]

And that is more than fair, it is no different than Senator Larry Craig trying to get BJ in the men's bathroom at an airport but voting on the senate floor as a total anti-gay rights senator.

Now the question is amberskyi, do pity that fellow or hold them in disdain OR both? They are after all having a rather hypocritical moral battle within themselves.

Depends on the situation.if it's a client i could care less.if it's a guy trying to approach me "socially" than it's def disdain.i think it's very selfish and inconsiderate to try to get involved with a trans woman knowing that you have such issues.if you know your not comfortable than just see an escort instead of hurting a girl and making her feel less than.

[MrT23]

I have multiple times and as recently as a couple of weeks ago

I dont see what the big deal is? Stop being pussies

Then again I'm not one to pay for sex and dont see girls as a client like most of the dudes here

[bluesoul]

As for your post bluesoul the reaction to the chasers in the current threads IMHO is that of repulsion to the idea that a man would be intimate with a transgendered woman behind closed doors, yet ashamed to show ant affection in public.

in many cases, that transgendered woman would not be intimate with that man if he wasn't paying for that service. there is also the social stigma, but the relationship is already made superficial from the payment involved.

[amberskyi]

in many cases, that transgendered woman would not be intimate with that man if he wasn't paying for that service. there is also the social stigma, but the relationship is already made superficial from the payment involved.

Lol yes cause that's the only time we have sex or interact with the opposite gender, when there's cash involved

[BrendaTG]

such a tragic topic...sometimes i get suicidal thoughts still because of this shit.

like i am any less human then anyone else...
so fucking stupid.

we are in fact stronger then most men...sad but true...

[BrendaTG]

Depends on the situation.if it's a client i could care less.if it's a guy trying to approach me "socially" than it's def disdain.i think it's very selfish and inconsiderate to try to get involved with a trans woman knowing that you have such issues.if you know your not comfortable than just see an escort instead of hurting a girl and making her feel less than.

very true

[amberskyi]

such a tragic topic...sometimes i get suicidal thoughts still because of this shit.

like i am any less human then anyone else...
so fucking stupid.

we are in fact stronger then most men...sad but true...

I don't feel suicidal...closeted homo men aren't worth that much emotion.i do understand tho why some girls write men off all together and just focus on getting money.
However there are some secure, well adjusted men out there.just hold out for those and don't pay the losers any mind.

[MrT23]

I don't feel suicidal...closeted homo men aren't worth that much emotion.i do understand tho why some girls write men off all together and just focus on getting money.
However there are some secure, well adjusted men out there.just hold out for those and don't pay the losers any mind.

Word

[SXFX]

She's a beautiful smart woman...who cares?

[nysprod]

I don't feel suicidal...closeted homo men aren't worth that much emotion.i do understand tho why some girls write men off all together and just focus on getting money.
However there are some secure, well adjusted men out there.just hold out for those and don't pay the losers any mind.

Right Amber...if someone has difficulty dealing with issues that don't meet with your approval, they're losers...like you're so well balanced and have no issues of your own...

[amberskyi]

Right Amber...if someone has difficulty dealing with issues that don't meet with your approval, they're losers...like you're so well balanced and have no issues of your own...

Of course i have issues (and demons lol) but i try to avoid hurting people because of them.

[nysprod]

Of course i have issues (and demons lol) but i try to avoid hurting people because of them.

It's all how they see it in the first place...

[amberskyi]

I don't follow....

[nysprod]

I don't follow....

You said you try not to hurt people with your issues...fine...but (for example) if those people didn't take your issue as something personal in the first place, there wouldn't be anything to get hurt by...or to paraphrase from the Godfather, "it my issue, don't take it personal."

[sophiebendable]

Interesting thread to come into at this point...

I think it's a real shame so-called "chasers" and trans women can't show some solidarity and learn from each other given certain similarities in our lives. I mean, I was once an awkward bisexual boy totally self-conscious and closeted about being submissive and liking it in the butt. This experience helps me to empathize with many men who are attracted to me now. It's sad that many trans women just look at them with disgust and feed their shame.

On the other hand, it is very rare I see a trans-amorous man acknowledge how we've embraced vulnerability in deciding to transition and try to learn from this in regard to their own insecurities. Because I can tell you that with the perspective of coming out to everyone in my life and having to live my identity wherever I go, I certainly no longer see a man who likes it in the butt as a big deal at all

[amberskyi]

You said you try not to hurt people with your issues...fine...but (for example) if those people didn't take your issue as something personal in the first place, there wouldn't be anything to get hurt by...or to paraphrase from the Godfather, "it my issue, don't take it personal."

i think in this case most girls (heck most people) would be hurt by the knowledge that their lover is ashamed to be seen with them or to be known dating/sleeping with them

[amberskyi]

Interesting thread to come into at this point...

I think it's a real shame so-called "chasers" and trans women can't show some solidarity and learn from each other given certain similarities in our lives. I mean, I was once an awkward bisexual boy totally self-conscious and closeted about being submissive and liking it in the butt. This experience helps me to empathize with many men who are attracted to me now. It's sad that many trans women just look at them with disgust and feed their shame.

On the other hand, it is very rare I see a trans-amorous man acknowledge how we've embraced vulnerability in deciding to transition and try to learn from this in regard to their own insecurities. Because I can tell you that with the perspective of coming out to everyone in my life and having to live my identity wherever I go, I certainly no longer see a man who likes it in the butt as a big deal at all

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!

[sophiebendable]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!

Well, while I understand these guys' shame I'm not saying it justifies that sort of behavior. The ones who don't deal with their issues first instead of being selfish and hurting people clearly suffer from a certain narcissism as if they're unable to consider someone else's feelings. And the second half of what I was saying is that those guys should realize the way they feel being seen with us is like 1% of what we experience all the time and yet we have managed to handle it with grace.

[nysprod]

i think in this case most girls (heck most people) would be hurt by the knowledge that their lover is ashamed to be seen with them or to be known dating/sleeping with them

Perhaps...a lot of people think Elvis is still alive too...

[amberskyi]

Perhaps...a lot of people think Elvis is still alive too...

and i think i just realized that trying to have a thoughtful,insightful conversation might be lost on ya

[nysprod]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!

Amber, I feel you, really...but in the end it's you who lose out if you won't open yourself up...

[robertlouis]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!

If there's no emotional maturity, respect or trust in a relationship, it's never going to last. If I'm with a person I love and respect I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks. It's their problem, not mine.

And Amber, can you be a luv please and turn that gorgeous new avatar pic through ninety degrees? I'm getting a crick in the neck. Thanks. :wink:

[wiltthestilt]

Being seen in public is no big deal. Especially in a big city. Ive been seen in public with all sorts of people, most of whom I was not even having sex with.The more difficult question is whether you would introduce a TS to parents, friends, coworkers; put a couples pic on facebook, ect. I dont know if I would do those things or not. But the type of TSs Im attracted to would be unlikely to want to date me either; so its a moot point.

[amberskyi]

Amber, I feel you, really...but in the end it's you who lose out if you won't open yourself up...

im not jaded by the experience at all.ive just learned to open up to the right person and the right person is a guy who is free or has already dealt with whatever insecurities he has about dating ts woman.

[amberskyi]

If there's no emotional maturity, respect or trust in a relationship, it's never going to last. If I'm with a person I love and respect I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks. It's their problem, not mine.

And Amber, can you be a luv please and turn that gorgeous new avatar pic through ninety degrees? I'm getting a crick in the neck. Thanks. :wink:

its totally awesome to hear that.im really glad when a guy speaks up on this board about his acceptance of self and his partner.
about the pic hats going to have to wait until tomorrow cause i just took the dildo of doom up my bum on cam and now need to nurse my sore/burning hole lol

[MrT23]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!

sorry to hear that and hopefully you never have to go through an experience like that again

[fivekatz]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?
i have and its a pain that i never want to experience again.it ripped my self esteem apart in ways that still arent fully repaired.
im not dealing with it anymore and i dont care if it isnt understanding or insensitive because at some point in life you have to learn to put your mental/emotional health first!Not that would make the girlfriend in feel any better about it or should she, but that boyfriend first and foremost has his own unresolved shit, he is ashamed of himself and unable to accept who is without the affirmation of others. That is why he is ashamed of being seen with the girlfriend, the fear that he won't be approved of by others, it's his shit not yours.

Matters very little in many ways, it still is a flaw and one that is most painful to the girlfriend but the boyfriend has the pain of not being able to just be himself. In the long run the girlfriend has the comfort of have confronted inconformity and herself. Meanwhile the boyfriend is living lies and can only find discomfort in his inability to either truly conform to what others think he should be or what he wants to be.

This bit of rant isn't designed to make you less hurt but maybe feel that the one that hurt you is hurting in his own way more because it is you who knows who you are and are not in fear of others knowing. That's a much better place to be than to be a guy who is crazy about a transgender woman but fearful of the dispproval of others.

Cheers

[BrendaTG]

no he is not in place worse...he is just weak.

thats all there is to it...he is weak.

he rather choses the easy way out...
he is not in a bad place...

he is a sissy.

[elchingon8]

Of course. I don't care if people judge us.

[Roberto27]

Being in London it poses little problem to be out with a TS girl and I love to feel relaxed. The problem lies in other attitudes to be honest. I've been out with TS girls before and they have had people stare at them too much at which point it becomes rude. I hate this type of scenario and have often confronted other guys because of it. Sometimes I think they look so much because they are interested and just scared to admit it.

Anyway me personally I love to be with a TS girl that makes me feel relaxed and so if I have to put up with some silly attitudes of others so be it.

If I had a work function I would take a TS girl with me if I were in the position to. My parents wouldn't really be so surprised so that wouldn't bother me either. I prefer to give a real picture of myself and then you find out what the people around you are really like.

[riggo44]

I'd not only be seen with her in public but would happily, live with her, marry her and be totally committed to her, given the right TS of course.

[NYBURBS]

Wanna take a wager on how many pages this bad boy is gonna go?

LOL over 4 years and 45 pages later :party:

[BrendaTG]

Being in London it poses little problem to be out with a TS girl and I love to feel relaxed. The problem lies in other attitudes to be honest. I've been out with TS girls before and they have had people stare at them too much at which point it becomes rude. I hate this type of scenario and have often confronted other guys because of it. Sometimes I think they look so much because they are interested and just scared to admit it.

Anyway me personally I love to be with a TS girl that makes me feel relaxed and so if I have to put up with some silly attitudes of others so be it.

If I had a work function I would take a TS girl with me if I were in the position to. My parents wouldn't really be so surprised so that wouldn't bother me either. I prefer to give a real picture of myself and then you find out what the people around you are really like.

you are great ...! xx

[MrsKellyPierce]

I wouldn't be seen in public with most of the fan boys that wouldn't be seen with a transsexual lol just saying :)

Like girls who hang out with old guys at clubs cause they have money or fat boys cause they have money..

Umm no thanks..people are either thinking "gold digger" or "prostitute"

[Willie Escalade]

have you had a boyfriend that you loved and he claimed to love you but you later found out he was ashamed to be seen with you? to have him say that if you were a gg then yall would still be together? that the man that you spent so much time loving cant fully accept you because of something you cant change (gender)?

My ex did, in fact. Needless to say, he wanted to try it again with her, so she left me and went back to him. Didn't work out the second time either. I could accept her; he couldn't; she made her choice.

I know I'M having fun with my friends...whether they're TS or not; whether we're in public or not...

[amberskyi]

My ex did, in fact. Needless to say, he wanted to try it again with her, so she left me and went back to him. Didn't work out the second time either. I could accept her; he couldn't; she made her choice.

I know I'M having fun with my friends...whether they're TS or not; whether we're in public or not...

a part of her probably craved that validation and acceptance that he didnt give her.there are times when my ex calls me to see how im doing and i wonder if maybe he could grow to be more accepting of me and his sexuality.however i realize that if it was going to happen than it would of happen with me someone he loved.he rather hurt me and himself than face whatever issues he has.
this was years ago and while it still does hurt sometimes i have meet a few guys (one who became a boyfriend) who had no issues being with me in public or around friends/family.i only deal with these kind of guys now and ignore the rest lol

[sophiebendable]

no he is not in place worse...he is just weak.

thats all there is to it...he is weak.

he rather choses the easy way out...
he is not in a bad place...

he is a sissy.

Not at all to justify the behavior you're referring to, but don't you see the irony in a transsexual insulting men by calling them sissies?

[amberskyi]

Not at all to justify the behavior you're referring to, but don't you see the irony in a transsexual insulting men by calling them sissies?

Um not really.i think they meant it to convey that he was a coward and soft.
I'm a ts but I've never been a coward or soft.life doesn't allow me to be lol

[sophiebendable]

Um not really.i think they meant it to convey that he was a coward and soft.
I'm a ts but I've never been a coward or soft.life doesn't allow me to be lol

Exactly. I don't think there's a connection between being a sissy (feminine man, which I sort of used to be and I'm sure some ignorant people still think of me that way) and being a coward, but it's reinforced by using language like that. Anyway, I don't want to derail this thread.

[nysprod]

I wouldn't be seen in public with most of the fan boys that wouldn't be seen with a transsexual lol just saying :)

Like girls who hang out with old guys at clubs cause they have money or fat boys cause they have money..

Umm no thanks..people are either thinking "gold digger" or "prostitute"

I'm an older guy, nice looking, in shape sophisticated type, get called "sir" a lot (not sure I really like it but wth)...I don't hang out with a lot of girls at clubs.

I have one TS GF, she's way younger than me. She's the same type of girl I've been attracted to my whole life.

I take her out all over the city and we always have a good time...we get looks sometimes but I really don't care, I'm doing what I want...so if people think gold digger or prostitute it's like whatever, there's no such thing as free women anyway...men are gonna pay one way or the other...ask any guy who's been married...or divorced...lol.

[keed444]

yes l would and l have

[robertlouis]

Most of the TS girls I know have never escorted or done porn. They're friends to whom life has given more kicks than most folks experience and have come through, though not without their fair share of physical and psychological bruising. Friendship counts for more than what the ignorant might think. These girls deserve our love, respect and applause. I revel in their company - they are genuinely inspirational.

Christ, it shouldn't be that difficult. If friends of yours had a child with serious disabilities, mental or physical, would you avoid that family or that child? If you would, then shame on you. It's not that different if you feel the same way about a ts girl. Fuck the world and be true to yourself.

[Willie Escalade]

a part of her probably craved that validation and acceptance that he didnt give her.
I cared for her no matter what. I wasn't validation then because I'm friends with lots in the community?

[amberskyi]

I cared for her no matter what. I wasn't validation then because I'm friends with lots in the community?

Your not the guy who wounded her and I'm betting she hadn't let go of that pain while she was with you

[Willie Escalade]

Your not the guy who wounded her and I'm betting she hadn't let go of that pain while she was with you
True that...but then she went BACK to him after the fact...and it didn't work out AGAIN. Sucks for her...

Back on topic, I really shouldn't have to answer. Those that know me KNOW me.

[fivekatz]

I am not a saint by any means. Most of the TS girls I have known have either been escorts or their friends. I live in compartments of my own choosing and really don't apologize for it. My wife is inflicted with health issues that make a full marriage impossible. So I will remain her faithful care giver and love her but I am to selfish not to explore my sexual and amourous interests with vigor. This background may be excessive but I hope it perspective to what I am going to say.

I have become friends with many of the escorts (TS and GG) because we found each other interesting and enjoyable. I must admit that the TS girls when they open up are very interesting people.

While I had text and lunch relationships with a couple of the girls there was one that I dated more seriously. Not for a moment did I worry about showing affection to her or being seen in public anymore than I would be as as non-mongomous male if I had been with a GG. In other words I went places where I thought I would not run into neighbors but went to clubs and places where you can have a good date.

In fact I got a rush off of showing my TS date that I did not give a shit what anybody else thought and got a buzz off of the idea that if there was some homophobic jerk out there that saw my date as a TS that I might just fuck up his narrow minded day. Holding hands, frenching, it was natural to me.

In the end as often is the case with escort - client relationships this did not work out because I don't think either one of us could quite figure out when we weren't on the "clock" and when it was just to be possessive of the other.

From these experiences I can honestly say, if you care about a person, fuck what anyone else thinks. I never had to face the tough choices of "Guess Who's Cumming To Dinner" but as far as dating went I found if like your girl screw what kind of girl she is.

And if it is just a fetish you have, call an escort. Most if you any selectivity will be witty and enjoyable companions and you will have no issues with exposing your fetish.

But if you care for girl, by all means to hell with everybody else, it will not only make her feel like a million bucks but it will liberate you too.

[Flaco]

I've been seen in public twice with a TS. The chick I was with was very passable, she's an escort but I think of her as a very good friend. She wanted me to be like her No.1 client but our friendship became really strong so I don't go to see her for sex anymore. Just to talk and hangout. Anyway, you would never know she was a TS but her voice gives her away. She's my good friend and all but I must admit that she sounds like a gay boy. The first time me and her were taking a stroll, we were just getting to know each other on a personal level. She was telling me all about herself and she was kinda loud. Before I knew it, folks started staring. I could just tell you folks what you wanna hear which is probably "People stared but I didn't give a fuck! Who are they to judge me?". But that's not how it went down. I felt pretty bad. It was basically my first time being seen as gay in public. Sure, some of you TS don't think of the men who like you as gay but there are still numerous people who would disagree with that notion. I had old women giving me dirty looks, some black chick looked at me in disbelief. Some hood dudes looked over at me like they were gunna kill me. So I thought in my head "Wow, so this is how it feels like...". All the nasty looks hurt, but what really hurt is when I saw how younger kids (I assume they were around my age) who were passing by looked at us. That really hurt. It made me feel like a Fag. And I think my TS friend realized cause she started asking me if everything was okay, I was just like "Yeah, I guess". Anyway, we walked to my train station. And then I hugged her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. (I'll totally understand if after reading this you feel as if I need to STFU and man up)

Second time was with the same chick again, about a month later. We were taking another stroll. She was all dolled up, so she looked even more passable. But once again, once she started talking people started staring. I felt kinda nervous, but not as nervous as last time. This is my friend, and I support her through whatever she does but idk I'm just not fully comfortable being seen that way. Sure, you can be mad at me and say I'm a coward, but I'm not afraid. I just didn't feel right. Anyway we kept walking and having a convo about college and stuff, the stares continued. I did a pretty good job not focusing on anyone but just her, but then I heard a comment that broke my concentration. Some girl we had just walk passed said "Doesn't he know that's a MAN?!" really loudly. Then everyone was staring after that point. That shit sucked. Anyway, we kept walking till we got to my train station and said our goodbyes.

She's still my good friend but I've been busy with school and work lately so I haven't gotten the chance to chill with her, however we still text daily. The biggest issue is I just feel like no matter how hard I try, deep down I won't ever be fully comfortable with my attraction to Tgirls. I try my hardest to be comfortable with it, but it's like my mind just continues to reject it. Every single time I watch tgirl porn, I have two feelings. Arousal and fear. Which is exactly why my orgasms are so intense. Every time I've been with a Tgirl sexually I'm always horny but deep down inside I'm scared. There's still that voice inside of me begging me and telling me that I don't have to do this. Telling me not to go down this road. Telling me not to choose this path. It's so frustrating...argh makes me just wanna scream! OK, lemme calm down. It wears me down knowing I have no one to talk to about this (Apart from this forum, of course).

I had a great session with a girl sometime in November. The best (Or was it the worst?) part of being with her was that she had a mirror very close to her bed. So I could watch myself as I transgressed. I could feel my body telling me "This is so HOT!!" as I fucked her. But when I looked into that mirror when I was doing it, the voice in my head was telling me "OMG, you're a fucking a chick with a dick, what are you doing?!" I'm gunna just end this post here. This is just another rant from a confused individual who wonders if he's just a horny guy or a sick fuck. I mean goodness gracious, what the fuck happened to me in my childhood that I turned out like this? I'm sorry if I've offended anyone I really don't mean to.

[amberskyi]

True that...but then she went BACK to him after the fact...and it didn't work out AGAIN. Sucks for her...

Back on topic, I really shouldn't have to answer. Those that know me KNOW me.

What can i say, people are stupid lol.
hopefully your going to be at the awards and i can get to know you.you seem like a really chill guy and it's awesome that your so comfortable with yourself and the community.some girl is going to be crazy lucky :)

[robertlouis]

Hi Amber. I've still got that crick in my neck so........ :crap:wink:

[amberskyi]

Hi Amber. I've still got that crick in my neck so........ :crap:wink:

Was that a private message thing? I'm horrible at jerking up with correspondences and massages lol.i am great at being a drinking buddy, raising hell, and fucking lol

[robertlouis]

Was that a private message thing? I'm horrible at jerking up with correspondences and massages lol.i am great at being a drinking buddy, raising hell, and fucking lol

Nope, just swing your avatar pic through 90 degrees please and then I can stop having to rub deep heat into my neck..... :whistle:

And I would be proud to have a girl like you on my arm in any social or public setting, not only for your glorious looks but also for your sharp intelligence and moral instinct.

[MHarrigan82]

I've been seen in public twice with a TS. The chick I was with was very passable, she's an escort but I think of her as a very good friend. She wanted me to be like her No.1 client but our friendship became really strong so I don't go to see her for sex anymore. Just to talk and hangout. Anyway, you would never know she was a TS but her voice gives her away. She's my good friend and all but I must admit that she sounds like a gay boy. The first time me and her were taking a stroll, we were just getting to know each other on a personal level. She was telling me all about herself and she was kinda loud. Before I knew it, folks started staring. I could just tell you folks what you wanna hear which is probably "People stared but I didn't give a fuck! Who are they to judge me?". But that's not how it went down. I felt pretty bad. It was basically my first time being seen as gay in public. Sure, some of you TS don't think of the men who like you as gay but there are still numerous people who would disagree with that notion. I had old women giving me dirty looks, some black chick looked at me in disbelief. Some hood dudes looked over at me like they were gunna kill me. So I thought in my head "Wow, so this is how it feels like...". All the nasty looks hurt, but what really hurt is when I saw how younger kids (I assume they were around my age) who were passing by looked at us. That really hurt. It made me feel like a Fag. And I think my TS friend realized cause she started asking me if everything was okay, I was just like "Yeah, I guess". Anyway, we walked to my train station. And then I hugged her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. (I'll totally understand if after reading this you feel as if I need to STFU and man up)

Second time was with the same chick again, about a month later. We were taking another stroll. She was all dolled up, so she looked even more passable. But once again, once she started talking people started staring. I felt kinda nervous, but not as nervous as last time. This is my friend, and I support her through whatever she does but idk I'm just not fully comfortable being seen that way. Sure, you can be mad at me and say I'm a coward, but I'm not afraid. I just didn't feel right. Anyway we kept walking and having a convo about college and stuff, the stares continued. I did a pretty good job not focusing on anyone but just her, but then I heard a comment that broke my concentration. Some girl we had just walk passed said "Doesn't he know that's a MAN?!" really loudly. Then everyone was staring after that point. That shit sucked. Anyway, we kept walking till we got to my train station and said our goodbyes.

She's still my good friend but I've been busy with school and work lately so I haven't gotten the chance to chill with her, however we still text daily. The biggest issue is I just feel like no matter how hard I try, deep down I won't ever be fully comfortable with my attraction to Tgirls. I try my hardest to be comfortable with it, but it's like my mind just continues to reject it. Every single time I watch tgirl porn, I have two feelings. Arousal and fear. Which is exactly why my orgasms are so intense. Every time I've been with a Tgirl sexually I'm always horny but deep down inside I'm scared. There's still that voice inside of me begging me and telling me that I don't have to do this. Telling me not to go down this road. Telling me not to choose this path. It's so frustrating...argh makes me just wanna scream! OK, lemme calm down. It wears me down knowing I have no one to talk to about this (Apart from this forum, of course).

I had a great session with a girl sometime in November. The best (Or was it the worst?) part of being with her was that she had a mirror very close to her bed. So I could watch myself as I transgressed. I could feel my body telling me "This is so HOT!!" as I fucked her. But when I looked into that mirror when I was doing it, the voice in my head was telling me "OMG, you're a fucking a chick with a dick, what are you doing?!" I'm gunna just end this post here. This is just another rant from a confused individual who wonders if he's just a horny guy or a sick fuck. I mean goodness gracious, what the fuck happened to me in my childhood that I turned out like this? I'm sorry if I've offended anyone I really don't mean to.

Bro if your feelings are like that you should just stick with genetic girls. I have had the same feelings you have being out with a transgirls. My current girlfriend is transsexual and I go out with her all the time. I get a few stares when people clock her but I don't give a fuck anymore.

[nysprod]

Bro if your feelings are like that you should just stick with genetic girls. I have had the same feelings you have being out with a transgirls. My current girlfriend is transsexual and I go out with her all the time. I get a few stares when people clock her but I don't give a fuck anymore.

Flaco's a young guy, he's going thru some ch ch ch changes...he'll figure it out...

[BrendaTG]

I find being a TS to be complicated because of other people.

I want to be out in the open...but even I choose not to expose myself to muslim fundamentalists in my area.

Also, when you have a bf...it just hurts when you see him go through the insults you had to go through when you were young.

I just dont want to put the man i love through this. Yet at the same time...it sometimes really makes me feel like the situations hopeless and I am forever stuck in this twilight zone where in the end...I live alone.

I am not TS first or womam first or man first...I reduce all this to just my name and being myself...

Its a take it or leave it situation.

[StinkyPete1000]

I've been seen in public twice with a TS. The chick I was with was very passable, she's an escort but I think of her as a very good friend. She wanted me to be like her No.1 client but our friendship became really strong so I don't go to see her for sex anymore. Just to talk and hangout. Anyway, you would never know she was a TS but her voice gives her away. She's my good friend and all but I must admit that she sounds like a gay boy. The first time me and her were taking a stroll, we were just getting to know each other on a personal level. She was telling me all about herself and she was kinda loud. Before I knew it, folks started staring. I could just tell you folks what you wanna hear which is probably "People stared but I didn't give a fuck! Who are they to judge me?". But that's not how it went down. I felt pretty bad. It was basically my first time being seen as gay in public. Sure, some of you TS don't think of the men who like you as gay but there are still numerous people who would disagree with that notion. I had old women giving me dirty looks, some black chick looked at me in disbelief. Some hood dudes looked over at me like they were gunna kill me. So I thought in my head "Wow, so this is how it feels like...". All the nasty looks hurt, but what really hurt is when I saw how younger kids (I assume they were around my age) who were passing by looked at us. That really hurt. It made me feel like a Fag. And I think my TS friend realized cause she started asking me if everything was okay, I was just like "Yeah, I guess". Anyway, we walked to my train station. And then I hugged her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. (I'll totally understand if after reading this you feel as if I need to STFU and man up)

Second time was with the same chick again, about a month later. We were taking another stroll. She was all dolled up, so she looked even more passable. But once again, once she started talking people started staring. I felt kinda nervous, but not as nervous as last time. This is my friend, and I support her through whatever she does but idk I'm just not fully comfortable being seen that way. Sure, you can be mad at me and say I'm a coward, but I'm not afraid. I just didn't feel right. Anyway we kept walking and having a convo about college and stuff, the stares continued. I did a pretty good job not focusing on anyone but just her, but then I heard a comment that broke my concentration. Some girl we had just walk passed said "Doesn't he know that's a MAN?!" really loudly. Then everyone was staring after that point. That shit sucked. Anyway, we kept walking till we got to my train station and said our goodbyes.

She's still my good friend but I've been busy with school and work lately so I haven't gotten the chance to chill with her, however we still text daily. The biggest issue is I just feel like no matter how hard I try, deep down I won't ever be fully comfortable with my attraction to Tgirls. I try my hardest to be comfortable with it, but it's like my mind just continues to reject it. Every single time I watch tgirl porn, I have two feelings. Arousal and fear. Which is exactly why my orgasms are so intense. Every time I've been with a Tgirl sexually I'm always horny but deep down inside I'm scared. There's still that voice inside of me begging me and telling me that I don't have to do this. Telling me not to go down this road. Telling me not to choose this path. It's so frustrating...argh makes me just wanna scream! OK, lemme calm down. It wears me down knowing I have no one to talk to about this (Apart from this forum, of course).

I had a great session with a girl sometime in November. The best (Or was it the worst?) part of being with her was that she had a mirror very close to her bed. So I could watch myself as I transgressed. I could feel my body telling me "This is so HOT!!" as I fucked her. But when I looked into that mirror when I was doing it, the voice in my head was telling me "OMG, you're a fucking a chick with a dick, what are you doing?!" I'm gunna just end this post here. This is just another rant from a confused individual who wonders if he's just a horny guy or a sick fuck. I mean goodness gracious, what the fuck happened to me in my childhood that I turned out like this? I'm sorry if I've offended anyone I really don't mean to.
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Just because you like tgirls doesn't mean something traumatic happened to you in your childhood. I have a great family and I had a great childhood and here I am. I think part of the problem (a large part of it) is that we've been taught that (1) gender roles are clearly defined and any transgressions are not only wrong but evidence of some deeper, emotional/mental problem; and (2) morality and sexuality go hand-in-hand (by this I mean specifically with respect to the sex/gender of your sexual partner).

However, when one really takes a step back and thinks about either one of these baseless, yet widely accepted, "lessons" you'll quickly see that they are wholly illogical, incorrect and capable of doing more harm than good to those who give them value (which seems to be what's happening in your case). Gender roles aren't finite and there's certainly nothing wrong with your personal preferences. There's nothing immoral about your attraction to transwomen and its certainly not something to be ashamed of.

Let people look. Let them make dumb comments. But don't lose a good friend (or question yourself) because of a few outdated and foundationless assumptions about gender and sexuality.

[Wordzy]

If I'm going out with a girl she's lucky to be let out the kitchen. TS or not!

Yeah!

[BrendaTG]

If I'm going out with a girl she's lucky to be let out the kitchen. TS or not!

Yeah!

:tongue:

[RallyCola]

i would have thought the bedroom...some girls just have a clue in the kitchen

[be2378]

Why not, if people don't know, go anywhere you want.

[nycsal]

Would and have!

[T$420]

I have a twice-a-week only policy...

[Misterman1993]

Yes I would. I'd even make out with a TS just to piss people off.

[Catalyst]

I would have to say yes... Since ive already been there.
If its someone that I care about then world be damned.
If anyone wants to hurt them or look down on them they will have to go through me first :)

[THEbottom]

Why would you want to be with a TS if you were too ashamed to be seen in public with her ? Of course I'd be seen in public with her and proud to be seen with her.

[Jack8941]

I have and I do and I will

[Burnbabyburn]

If someone is important enough in your life for you to fuck, you should be comfortable being seen with them wherever. Haters gonna hate, but fuck them anyway.

[SXFX]

And this ladies and boys is the catch 22 of dating TS women.......
good luck finding a very cute one who is not "working"
and second if you do find her...good luck trying to convince her that you like her for who she is and that you are not a chaser.......

[unstoppable69]

I would love to have a ts bird.

[unstoppable69]

Yes I would love a ts girlfriend.

[unstoppable69]

I would love it.

[helovestransfeet]

Yes. My best friend is ts :-)

[stephenward]

Yes, and I have.

[Luce_Moonbeam]

On the off chance it ever happens, yeah, I wouldn't mind.

[wiltthestilt]

I'd be seen with a TS, totally passable or no. I don't give a fuck. I got ripped a few years ago when I said I was interested in TS's only for sex. And that's true. I'm satisfied with GG's and they are abundant. I find TS's to be a turn on only occasionally. But not because I give a shit what people think. If i met a TS and there was chemistry so be it. I'm not bad looking, but I wouldn't expect a TS near the top of the attractiveness curve to want me and those are generally the ones who interest me.

[DegenerateLibertine]

Hell, she can sit atop my shoulders as we we're out in public.

There'd be no shame or fear felt.

[BellaBellucci]

I don't remember if I've made this obvious sarcastic comment yet, but no, I would not be seen in public with a TS. :lol:

~BB~

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

I have on multiple occasions, so yes.

[Skye]

Me neither, BB, me neither :p

[Caleigh]

I don't think any guy ever should be out in public with a TS. I think that TS should be confined indoors all the time so that they don't embarrass anyone. They can get stuff delivered if they need some food or something. Why should they feel ok making us regular people interact with them? We are supposed to treat them as if they are normal or something? That's ridiculous.

[runningdownthatdream]

I don't think any guy ever should be out in public with a TS. I think that TS should be confined indoors all the time so that they don't embarrass anyone. They can get stuff delivered if they need some food or something. Why should they feel ok making us regular people interact with them? We are supposed to treat them as if they are normal or something? That's ridiculous.

Agreed...................and let's not forget that during their confinement they should be filming themselves doing 'normal' things that the rest of us 'normal people do and posting those pics for the masturbatory pleasure of anonymous creeps. 'Normal' things like peeing, eating cupcakes, wearing tight underwear displaying bulges, walking, talking, and even sleeping. I mean we train dogs to be what we want them to be so why should TS be exempt? Maybe once properly trained to meet our respective fetish then they MAY be discretely taken out and about so that we may indulge our voyeuristic fantasies.

[Caleigh]

Hey! Where did you get that photo of me?

[Caleigh]

Ooops! I realize I used my flat name on this site and not my homonym.


Hey! Where did you get that photo of me?

[runningdownthatdream]

Ooops! I realize I used my flat name on this site and not my homonym.

I never put Kali and Caleigh together but now I know!

[Caleigh]

Yes, that photo was taken during my summer vacation. :)

[runningdownthatdream]

Yes, that photo was taken during my summer vacation. :)

surrounded by Thugs probably ;)