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Human-After-All
09-09-2008, 08:32 PM
I know a lot of people are going to say, "Because I'm/you're/we're all closet case gays, but I disagree. I've never really been attracted to anybody that looks like a man. I think my reasons are a mixture of a couple of things,

First of all, my love of anal sex leads me to believe that I like to feel sexually superior to those I fuck. I'm not interested in S and M or anything, but the more I think about it, the more it makes sense to me that, for me at least, the appealing thing about anal is that it's dirty, and that it's disrespectful to the person you're fucking, (although I always try to be as nice as possible to girls and can even be a bit of a sap, sexually, I like to be dominant).

Secondly, the fact that I like trannies, I think, is an extension of this. I don't find men attractive, but a man who looks like a gorgeous girl, yes. Why not simply fuck a girl? I think it's the idea of feminising a man, (albeit a man who looks like a girl). Taking a man, who in my mind is a sissy, so much so that he/she looks like a girl, having him/her suck my dick and then bumfucking him/her, to me, makes me seem even more dominant and even more in control sexually.

I have been thinking this for the last few days and I wonder if this makes sense to anyone else?

I have been unable to find any official psychological articles on the attraction of heterosexual men, (or homosexual men for that matter), to transsexuals, so anyone who can point me in any direction, please do!

gorra
09-09-2008, 08:54 PM
i didnt think i was gonna post, just fap... but im gonna tell my story

I think i like trannies because they have dicks. i just like good looking cocks, thats all, i dont like men like that or anything. its just the fact that i like a good cock even though i still am very much attracted to women. and pussy. i think i wouldnt be interested in trannies much in real life, but masturbating is just masturbating, whatever floats your boat you know... and this does it for me right now.

honestly i think of my self as a heterosexual... but i dont wanna lie either, i mean im not totally disgusted by the idea of having sex with a man. i guess thats being bisexual then.

Azrial
09-09-2008, 09:23 PM
your take on yourself is interesting. i have a few theories on myself:

from a purely physical standpoint, i am attracted to women....and cock, so trannys are the perfect combo of the two. i really don't find men attractive(though given my attractions i'd say i have to be at the very least bisexual), but i've always been attracted to cock (dating back to my first masturbatory experiences with porn and watching blow jobs) and consequently, there's simply so much you can do...gender lines are completely crossed and the girl AND the guy can be both the top and the bottom, it creates the most physical possibilities, moreso than can be made with a gg.

in addition to this, there's the taboo aspect that it's forbidden, that i can't reveal how i feel to my friends/family, and it's not socially acceptable on a wide level.

getting more in depth and psychological, sometimes i contemplate whether or not my affinity for trannys comes from my disdain for biological women. don't get me wrong, i don't hate women. But every female i've ever dated including my current girlfriend was the same...completely illogical, irrational, grudgeholding, vindictive, and FAR too jealous for me to stand. So i've contemplated the idea that because i have this bitterness towards women, essentially for stressing me out for years on end, the idea of a man who looks like a women intrigues me because they might not have all those negative aspects that all those bio-women have. this my contradict the very idea of a transexual itself though, which i guess in that case i'm interested in something that doesn't even really exist since most trannys feel like women trapped in male bodies. so if that's the case, all women AND trannies fit under the cynical idea i have.

as you can see i'm greatly conflicted by this

BeardedOne
09-09-2008, 09:57 PM
This is a new and different twist to the omnipresent 'amigay' threads on the T forums. I never looked at the attraction from a Dom/sub point of view, though I'm sure there are a number of admirers/relationships that come from that corner of the spectrum. Interestingly, in the porn industry, it is the T-gurl who is more often depicted in the Dominant role, taking down and 'sissyfying' her male partners. Go figure.

As for me, I'm genuinely bi and have had male, female, intersexed, and trans lovers in my life. T-gurls have welcome bonus parts ( :) ), tend to be more anally inclined (Top and/or bottom), and don't seem to have that same psychoses as GGs (Or, at least, have a lesser variant) that makes them so insufferably unpleasant to be around.

It certainly doesn't hurt that some of them are drop-dead, muthahfuggin' =GORGEOUS=! :D

blckhaze
09-09-2008, 11:19 PM
depends on what physically attract you to another person.

In this case, if the person who the penis is attached to doesnt matter, then you might just be gay. If you feel that you like dick, but arent attracted to CDs or guys, but to women and femininity, then you freaky like me.

It's not a matter of favorite position (bottom, top, vers) but a matter of what attracts you to another person.

Legend
09-10-2008, 12:09 AM
I like transgender women for the same reason i would like any girl which only has to do with the qualities of that person or common interested shared.Honestly i really do not give a shit about the sexually aspect of things so i do not have to ask myself questions like "i'm i gay" or try to get into to the reason why i like them.

JusticeIsBlind
09-10-2008, 12:51 AM
I'll start by saying I'm attracted only to women and femininity. I'm not attracted in the least bit to men. Sometimes I wish this wasn't the case and I was at least bisexual because it would be so much easier to just go to the local gay bar and get some cock.

In addition to my love for women, I always had a fascination with the penis. Cumshots and blowjob pictures where it was just a woman's face and a hard cock were my favorite when I first found out internet porn. I like stories about girl's first experiences seeing/feeling a penis. I like roleplaying-type porn where the girls are intrigued by and explore the penis (CNFM stuff). And I just love the visual aspect of the penis. The fact that you can see it get hard. You can see it spurt as it orgasms. Oral sex seems like it would be more fun on a penis that on a vagina (and I love eating out women, so that is a big statement). To feel a cock get from soft to hard and then spurt in your hands seems like it would be such an arousing experience. (Maybe I envy girls because they get to perform on what seems like the more fun sexual organ?).

When you add the fact that I'm fascinated by the penis with the fact that I don't find men the least bit physically or sexually attractive, transsexuals seem like the perfect solution.

jeromes
09-10-2008, 01:47 AM
getting more in depth and psychological, sometimes i contemplate whether or not my affinity for trannys comes from my disdain for biological women. don't get me wrong, i don't hate women. But every female i've ever dated including my current girlfriend was the same...completely illogical, irrational, grudgeholding, vindictive, and FAR too jealous for me to stand. So i've contemplated the idea that because i have this bitterness towards women, essentially for stressing me out for years on end, the idea of a man who looks like a women intrigues me because they might not have all those negative aspects that all those bio-women have. this my contradict the very idea of a transexual itself though, which i guess in that case i'm interested in something that doesn't even really exist since most trannys feel like women trapped in male bodies. so if that's the case, all women AND trannies fit under the cynical idea i have.


This is something that I can truly relate to and it explains many of my personal experiences with women.

Kudos to the OP for starting this thread. This is a subject that I've been mentally wrestling with myself for years.

BlkJewels
09-10-2008, 01:59 AM
If I felt sumthing was wrong with my feelings I would explore it. But I don't. I like what I like. When I see SexxyJade, I get the same feelin I get when a see Rhianna. I see Tgirls as females (with dicks).
Big ups to the thread starter, good question, but I have no answer.

anonymoussonny
09-10-2008, 07:36 AM
When I see SexxyJade, I get the same feelin I get when a see Rhianna. I see Tgirls as females...

DITTO!

qeuqheeg222
09-10-2008, 08:00 AM
interestin thread...when people watch porn they are watchin people and acts which stimulate thru a visual symbolic language...i can see in the OP premise certain aspects of the power dynamic which many find "hot"about sex..some just like cock or an object up the ass regardless of the participant on the other end of the "phallus/penetrator"..this relate more to anatomy and how one feels they reach orgasm better...some are closet homo's...cock lovers who haven't come to grips with it...others bend over with the breeze...for myself as a top i think the turn on to t-girls lies in the visual signifier of the hard cock-something i know and feel onto myself but see in how the acts occuring are stimulating the other to the same extent is the turn on...the ts sex experience for me isn't as great if the girl cant get hard and cum while i fuck her...

RatedR69
09-10-2008, 08:12 AM
I feel pretty much the same way most here do. I have no attraction to men or the male masculine "bear" form--if you look, act, and emote the femininity and female form, and I'm turned on, odds are I want to get to know you and if we end up fucking, hey that's cool too. lol.

Some guys here are just all about the cock, (and to each their own), but for me, it's not on the top of the list. If it's there, it's there, if not, so what. A woman is a woman, one just happens to have a slightly bigger clit than the other.

ted naves
09-10-2008, 09:21 AM
I've only watched vidoes but,Transexual women seem to engage in sex more than most GG's I see.

I seems that most GG videos that I see containing women have women in the videos that are almost completely faking their experience and thus aren't very interactional.

TS girls seem to really want it.

south09
09-10-2008, 09:50 AM
I'll start by saying I'm attracted only to women and femininity. I'm not attracted in the least bit to men. ... I just love the visual aspect of the penis. The fact that you can see it get hard. You can see it spurt as it orgasms. Oral sex seems like it would be more fun on a penis that on a vagina (and I love eating out women, so that is a big statement). To feel a cock get from soft to hard and then spurt in your hands seems like it would be such an arousing experience.

When you add the fact that I'm fascinated by the penis with the fact that I don't find men the least bit physically or sexually attractive, transsexuals seem like the perfect solution.

With the appropriate changes made, this is spot-on for me.

One of my biggest turn-ons is holding a girl's hips and feeling as she orgasms, as she writhes about, shuddering and arching her back. With pre-op TS women comes the visual and more prominent physical reaction as a result of ejaculation & the penis rapidly expanding/contracting.

brickcitybrother
09-10-2008, 10:09 AM
I think you're analysis is interesting as well. I empathize with some of your views - especially the enjoyment of domination. I think you're ignoring more of your on psyche than you let on ... but its all good.

jessytv20
09-10-2008, 04:51 PM
Could be simply a fetish I think.

sheyum
09-10-2008, 05:54 PM
I'll start by saying I'm attracted only to women and femininity. I'm not attracted in the least bit to men. ... I just love the visual aspect of the penis. The fact that you can see it get hard. You can see it spurt as it orgasms. Oral sex seems like it would be more fun on a penis that on a vagina (and I love eating out women, so that is a big statement). To feel a cock get from soft to hard and then spurt in your hands seems like it would be such an arousing experience.

When you add the fact that I'm fascinated by the penis with the fact that I don't find men the least bit physically or sexually attractive, transsexuals seem like the perfect solution.

With the appropriate changes made, this is spot-on for me.

One of my biggest turn-ons is holding a girl's hips and feeling as she orgasms, as she writhes about, shuddering and arching her back. With pre-op TS women comes the visual and more prominent physical reaction as a result of ejaculation & the penis rapidly expanding/contracting.


right on!!!
all this in-depth stuff people get into--which may be their reality of course....doesnt hold true for me..Im TOTALLY with Blind justice...I LOVE women--plain and simple..but am fascinated witht he cock...its a fun organ..looks sexy--gets hard--which is sexy--comes--which is very sexy--AND--iif i may add one thing --is a symbol of power...and i love the fantasy--or reality--of women being in control--overpowering me sexually..hence--finding Trannies hot....
its just a woman--with a sexy cock.....nothing more complicated than that

lahabra1976
09-10-2008, 09:54 PM
Interesting thing than cause based off your descriptions, most of you wouldn't be into post-op tg than? Or that isn't true?

Quiet Reflections
09-11-2008, 04:49 AM
The heart wants what the heart wants

peggygee
09-11-2008, 05:32 AM
but a man who looks like a gorgeous girl, yes.

Why not simply fuck a girl? I think it's the idea of feminising a man, (albeit a man who looks like a girl).

Taking a man, who in my mind is a sissy, so much so that he/she looks like a girl, having him/her suck my dick and then bumfucking him/her, to me, makes me seem even more dominant and even more in control sexually.

Am I the only woman on this forum that takes offense and umbrage at
the OPs statement above; "a man that looks like a girl", "a man who is
a sissy", "he/she looks like a girl", "him/her suck my dick, "bumfuck
him/her"......

Others may have given you kudos for your opinion and post, but one will
not be coming from this post op woman. :smh

DC
09-11-2008, 05:53 AM
Ive stated this before, I like hot femine chicks wether they are GG or TG.. I have no attraction to men whatsoever.

Human-After-All
09-12-2008, 01:40 AM
Am I the only woman on this forum that takes offense and umbrage at
the OPs statement above; "a man that looks like a girl", "a man who is
a sissy", "he/she looks like a girl", "him/her suck my dick, "bumfuck
him/her"......

Others may have given you kudos for your opinion and post, but one will
not be coming from this post op woman. :smh

Well, I'm sorry for offending you, but that's honestly how I feel, and how I think most of the guys on this forum feel. Now I respect your right to be a woman or whatever, but I like girls, and I like girls with dicks, but I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings for post-op tgirls...honestly, and I'm sorry, but my honest feelings are that I do not see the point in post-op girls. If I want a girl, I will get a girl, if I want a t-girl, I will find one, I simply don't see any point in t-girls without dicks, I'm sorry!

youcancallmeclaire
09-12-2008, 02:31 AM
Well, I'm sorry for offending you, but that's honestly how I feel, and how I think most of the guys on this forum feel. Now I respect your right to be a woman or whatever, but I like girls, and I like girls with dicks, but I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings for post-op tgirls...honestly, and I'm sorry, but my honest feelings are that I do not see the point in post-op girls. If I want a girl, I will get a girl, if I want a t-girl, I will find one, I simply don't see any point in t-girls without dicks, I'm sorry!

Yeah, let's just throw them away. They're pointless anyway. Stupid worthless little things. What do they think they are, human beings or something?

peggygee
09-12-2008, 03:16 AM
Am I the only woman on this forum that takes offense and umbrage at
the OPs statement above; "a man that looks like a girl", "a man who is
a sissy", "he/she looks like a girl", "him/her suck my dick, "bumfuck
him/her"......

Others may have given you kudos for your opinion and post, but one will
not be coming from this post op woman. :smh

Well, I'm sorry for offending you, but that's honestly how I feel, and how I think most of the guys on this forum feel. Now I respect your right to be a woman or whatever, but I like girls, and I like girls with dicks, but I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings for post-op tgirls...honestly, and I'm sorry, but my honest feelings are that I do not see the point in post-op girls. If I want a girl, I will get a girl, if I want a t-girl, I will find one, I simply don't see any point in t-girls without dicks, I'm sorry!

My response is not in regard to whether you like dick or post op pussy.

It is about you using terms like "sissy, he/she, him/her", basically the
terms that I quoted above.

Human-After-All
09-12-2008, 03:45 AM
Yeah, let's just throw them away. They're pointless anyway. Stupid worthless little things. What do they think they are, human beings or something?

Yeah, that's exactly what I said, a master of the fine art of rhetoric you are, a true master to rival the likes of Pericles.

Maybe if you had paid attention to what I said, you wouldn't have taken what I said so personally. I don't see the point in post-ops, that's not to say there isn't one. They are not to my taste.

If a lesbian were to say to me that she had no sexual interest in men I wouldn't take offence, I'm simply saying I don't see the point in post-ops just as a lesbian might mot see any point in men.

Human-After-All
09-12-2008, 03:47 AM
My response is not in regard to whether you like dick or post op pussy.

It is about you using terms like "sissy, he/she, him/her", basically the
terms that I quoted above.

Well, I'm being honest, those are the terms I use when considering transsexuals, I don't think of them as 100% female, would you rather I lied?

youcancallmeclaire
09-12-2008, 04:16 AM
Lay down on knives please.

peggygee
09-12-2008, 04:34 AM
My response is not in regard to whether you like dick or post op pussy.

It is about you using terms like "sissy, he/she, him/her", basically the
terms that I quoted above.

Well, I'm being honest, those are the terms I use when considering transsexuals, I don't think of them as 100% female, would you rather I lied?

Well, fortunately I am too much of lady to say the term that I use when considering guys like you.

Human-After-All
09-12-2008, 04:03 PM
Well, fortunately I am too much of lady to say the term that I use when considering guys like you.

First of all, you're being sexist now. You're insinuating that women have to fulfil certain roles, like biting their tongue instead of speaking their mind. Feel free to tell me what you think of what I said, (although this is not the purpose of this thread), but, (and this is my second point), if most of the guys on this site were to be honest, they would admit that they draw a HUGE distinction between girls and t-girls.

There's really no need to get angry with me, I'm being honest with you. I think the ones that lie to you are the ones you should be angry at. I'm being considerate enough to speak my mind, whereas most admirers would claim that they accept t-girls simply as girls, but an awful lot of them would be lying.

lahabra1976
09-12-2008, 05:59 PM
Well I can see the point of view of the "dick" thing, but my question about post-op tgs are there are guys out there that are into them. So I wonder eventhrough we may think we are interested in the idea of a girl with a dick, I think deeper down it might be we like the idea of being with a woman who used to be a man and that dual nature attracts us?

There are certain studies to indicate our attraction to someone is from emotions/thoughts deeper down and things we may not even realize. So eventhrough our thoughts tell us its about the penis, perhaps its really more than that?

DarkReaver
09-12-2008, 07:08 PM
My thought process has always been they are exactly like girls. The only difference is you can see if you doing a good job and they can't really fake a boner.

Azrial
09-12-2008, 08:30 PM
Well I can see the point of view of the "dick" thing, but my question about post-op tgs are there are guys out there that are into them. So I wonder eventhrough we may think we are interested in the idea of a girl with a dick, I think deeper down it might be we like the idea of being with a woman who used to be a man and that dual nature attracts us?

There are certain studies to indicate our attraction to someone is from emotions/thoughts deeper down and things we may not even realize. So eventhrough our thoughts tell us its about the penis, perhaps its really more than that?

this is right along the lines of what I was touching on. to me there is certanly more to it than just the physica attraction. that is obviously there but I think my frustrations with genetically born women has driven me in a way to favor tgirls over ggs.

lahabra1976
09-12-2008, 09:41 PM
My thought process has always been they are exactly like girls. The only difference is you can see if you doing a good job and they can't really fake a boner.

LOL amen to this

michneo
09-12-2008, 11:54 PM
Cuz they cum the same way i cum

tslvrnyc
09-13-2008, 01:17 AM
Seriously, if you viewed transsexuals the same way you viewed women, why are you on a board on a site called Hung Angels? Why continue this crypto homosexuality and not acknowledge it? Having sex with a human with a penis is a homosexual act. Jeez, grow up and deal with it.

I like transsexuals because I like them. I like females because I like them.

Men on this site are just plain weird. It's probably why I rarely post.

hugochavez
09-13-2008, 01:52 AM
I like trannys because I love women and dick at the same time.

rico87
09-13-2008, 10:26 AM
Sexy,Hott and better looking than most GFE. I find them to care more about their appearance, also most are friendly minus the attitude.

Surkis
09-13-2008, 02:44 PM
Seriously, if you viewed transsexuals the same way you viewed women, why are you on a board on a site called Hung Angels? Why continue this crypto homosexuality and not acknowledge it? Having sex with a human with a penis is a homosexual act. Jeez, grow up and deal with it.

I like transsexuals because I like them. I like females because I like them.

Men on this site are just plain weird. It's probably why I rarely post.

People are dealing with it; Its intolerant asses like you who can't help but label it as a black or white thing. I'm sorry, but liking trannies doesn't automatically make you gay. There are a myriad of factors involved. Yeah, a lot of guys are just closet gays, but there are a lot of guys who aren't, so why should I accept the title as gay when I know for a fact that the only "guys" i can be with HAVE to look like women before i'm attracted to them? I mean it doesn't make any sense.

I figure it this way: Why can't it just be your sexuality + Transexuals? Like a straight guy who likes trannies would be just that, a straight guy who likes trannies, and a gay guy who likes trannies would be a gay guy who likes trannies.

I mean its not that difficult and I don't see what's so "crypto" about it. Things aren't as cut and dry as they used to be. I don't see why i'm gay if I really just don't like guys in general at all unless like I said they look like women, which kind of defeats the purpose altogether.

dvp27
09-13-2008, 06:10 PM
GAY ST8 BI...whatever.....Love the idea that they suck a cock so much better than any gg could. I have been with multiple women and tgirls and i will say the sex is so much more intense and erotic. I consider myself St8 b/c I primarily fuck gg's but I dont give it a label b/c we are all here for the love of these beautiful women..... again it is what it is....GREAT ANGLE FOR "AMIGAY".....

JusticeIsBlind
09-14-2008, 08:20 AM
Interesting thing than cause based off your descriptions, most of you wouldn't be into post-op tg than? Or that isn't true?

Not really interested in post-op. In that case, I'd rather have the "real thing".

JerseyMike
09-14-2008, 08:39 AM
The main reason why I like transsexuals is because they enjoy being feminine, looking feminine, and acting feminine. There are too many born women out there in my opinion who are just really poor crossdressers and this is the norm for them to walk around in hoodie and crapy jeans looking like crap. I like the fact the transsexuals work hard to look good and enjoying looking. Also the idea of femininity for transsexuals also seem to be in the older sense which might explain why some guys like that. Also vagina's are freaky looking and men are sometimes more used to deal with equipment that they use on a regular basis.

mtbazz
09-14-2008, 12:50 PM
First, like other Im not attracted to men. Dont get turned on by them at all.

I do however like a dick on a tgirl.

Psychologically, I also seem to connect better with a tgirl better than a GG for whatever reason.

Dont know what all that means..dont give a fuck either. I just know what I like.

lupinIII
09-14-2008, 04:57 PM
Boobs are fun, booty is fun, pussy is fun but wang is much much more fun.

Now I could try and pathologise my feelings as 'I'm suffering from a phallus fixation stemming from repressed memories' or 'I suffer a deep rooted phobia of women but didn't have the kind of upbringing that may have led to me being gay', whatever, I like girls, not guys, but I do like cock. I guess I've gotten the post-modern inculcation that genitalia doesn't equate one's gender.

igotalongleg
09-14-2008, 05:17 PM
i like'em cause it's the best of both worlds

Nikephoros
09-18-2008, 06:28 AM
See, I'm just as interested in post-ops as I am in pre-ops. What I find so erotic is the idea that this person wanted to be a woman badly enough to subject herself to years of transition. Making love to a transsexual woman is the ultimate acknowledgment of their femininity, and I am transitively aroused by their arousal.

Solitary Brother
09-18-2008, 06:35 AM
Ive said it over and over again.
The femininity is MORE.
More more more.
Just being around a good one is intense watching her mannerism,ect....
Maybe because they are more feminine you feel more masculine.
I dont know.
If women were this way it would be a rap but they just wont do it.
Remember the show with Pamela anderson where she was a detective with those other girls?
Thats what the fuck I want.
Or remember clueless with Stacy Dash?
Give me that.....I want the girliness,the femininity in women....its so attractive.

Nikephoros
09-18-2008, 06:42 AM
I remember reading one girl's transition journal. She said that when she first started living full-time, the idea of being accepted as female turned her on. Whenever someone would call her "Miss" or hold a door for her or something like that, she would have to fight to not get an erection. The idea of someone being that turned on just being a woman is insanely erotic to me.

qeuqheeg222
09-18-2008, 07:37 AM
i dont know if ALL trannies suck cock better than gg's.................

tgirlzoe
09-18-2008, 08:14 AM
I remember reading one girl's transition journal. She said that when she first started living full-time, the idea of being accepted as female turned her on. Whenever someone would call her "Miss" or hold a door for her or something like that, she would have to fight to not get an erection. The idea of someone being that turned on just being a woman is insanely erotic to me.

That is the definition of autogynephilia (a male's attraction to himself as a female) , this condition that so many transsexuals claim doesn't exist. It obviously exists for some people, even to the extent that they would transition for it because when they are being honest, they admit to it.

Personally, I hated being told I was a boy because I never saw myself that way and I had a strong dislike for boys at the time (elementary school). Come puberty (aka. Hell), I somehow got over my disgust with guys (or rather, perhaps, my attraction to them and repulsion exists simultaneously -- leading me to find that "perfect man" who is both attractive and not too repulsive). However, this meant I was labeled "gay". Call it "internalized homophobia" or whatever, but I hated this designation because it suggested that I wasn't unique in being, to be cliche, "trapped" but rather that I was "just" a gay man. This greatly troubled me.

Luckily, in high school, I discovered transsexuals -- other people who were like me. It's almost freaky sometimes how our experiences are similar even when we didn't know there was anyone else like us in the world. I felt validated in my feelings, that there was precedence for this and that it was possible to "transition" and still have a half-decent looking body despite having been ravaged by testosterone (though I was luckily never very physically masculine). The idea of being able to be "normal", to live seamlessly, to get the guys I wanted, to be fully female became my strong desire.

These days I try to distance myself as much as possible from any connection to my "old life". My parents finally took down the photos of me throughout my childhood. I mean, it's sad to not have that, but it's very troubling to remember having to look like that. Most people have some sort of embarrassing, awkward stage, perhaps with coke bottle glasses, headgear and a horse shirt in junior high. For me though, it's a bit more disturbing remembering that misery.

I don't find it erotic being female. I mean, I love my body, I love my breasts, I love my soft skin, I love it when I clean up and feel beautiful and it's not like I don't masturbate. (and yes, most of the time I do love my cock too! ^_^) But getting horny when someone calls you "Miss"? That's just weird.

Does it happen? Obviously it does because people have been honest about it. I mean, this is what makes crossdressers -- both of the older, very frumpy/creepy type and the younger, more attractive, type (e.g. Jamie Coxx). There are transsexuals who start out this way. But I believe that the majority of girls on this board would have stories closer to mine than your friend's.

To me, I don't like the phrases "a boy who wants to be a girl", "a girl who used to be a boy", "a girl with a penis" (descriptive, but I don't think that should be a defining characteristic) and of course I agree with Peggygee regarding the OP who used phrases like "sissy", "she/he" and "a man who looks like a gorgeous girl" and again calling us "men". To me, I'm a woman with a struggle in life. I like going after normal straight guys who've never thought about TS and convincing them to want me anyway (and yes, it works). I like just living my life like any other girl, I have a real job that doesn't involve lying on my back (though I might make more money if I did).

I think it's very interesting that we have women who have to struggle to correct physical issues, hormonal issues, psychological issues, and social mess and then we have guys who are into the byproduct of that condition. Just never forget that we're real people. My boy has struggled with trying to figure out how to relate to me (and yes, if this means he's still straight) and one time after a tiff regarding his blunt phrasing of the issue, I spilled a lot of my history to him. That this same struggle has been going on for over 15 years with my parents (who are finally slowly accepting) and just how huge this is and how much it does suck. So I know this board is oriented towards the adult industry side of transsexualism, but it doesn't matter whether it's an escort, porn star, club girl or girl next door -- everybody has a story and a real life.

tgirlzoe
09-18-2008, 08:17 AM
i dont know if ALL trannies suck cock better than gg's.................

I kept trying to teach my ex-tgf but she just couldn't get it. Probably the best BJ I've had was in an experimental lesbian foray with my roommate at the time (whose boyfriend was totally turned on by the idea and totally not invited ^_^). So I don't think it has to do with whether the giver has a penis or not, there's a lot of learning involved.

slinky
09-18-2008, 09:25 AM
I've had a lot of really great BJ's from lesbians.

slinky
09-18-2008, 09:30 AM
And I have to say that by and large, the sex I've had with TS's isn't as good as the sex with TG's. One of the reasons is I enjoy when my partner gets off. If I'm with a GG, she's gets of... and gets off... and gets off. If I fuck a GG for 2 hours, she can cum a dozen times or more. But my experience with TS's is that if I'm fucking her and make her cum..... it's pretty much over (and I'm not talking paid for).

Nikephoros
09-20-2008, 06:21 AM
That was an incredible post, Zoe. All the best to you.

qeuqheeg222
09-20-2008, 09:23 AM
one thing i wonder about the cock hungry bottoms who are married...why dont you just get your wife or gfriend to strap one on????

ottorocket
09-20-2008, 09:26 AM
I think it was Hillary Clinton type pant suits that attracted me to HA's. Seriously, nothing is less attractive than an aqua colored polyester matching pantsuit.

chishy
09-20-2008, 10:04 AM
The simple reasons why I adore transsexuals? on a psychological level? They are the most sexy, exotic, erotic, glamorous, ultra feminine females in all the universe. A pleasure to behold, a most once in a lifetime unique experience; all that coupled with a male's brain: the sensation that I derive from the above is extremely difficult to describe in mere words.

Flamme
09-20-2008, 11:47 AM
That's an interesting thread, enough to have me post for the first time in the HA boards.

Well, as some of the posters said it earlier, I'm also not attracted at all by men. I mean there's nothing, not even the start of half a desire towards a guy. On the other side, I like genuine girls and t-girls, on the same level. The more feminine a t-girl is physically and mentally, the better for me. Also, regarding the dick thing, I happen to enjoy pre-op and post-op t-girls. Dick is not a requirement to grab my interest.

I guess answering myself why do I have something for t-girls is not that far from a psychological analysis and I'm not sure I know the answer to be honest. However, I have a few possible explanations.

Please read this as loud thoughts, I can in no way be sure of these theories.

ANAL SEX
First, there's something special about anal sex and t-girls. Well obviously, with a pre-op t-girl, you ain't have no choice.. backdoor baby. Since I love anal sex (among plenty other things), well maybe I see more opportunities to perform this with a t-girl than with a genuine girl. Hence a lil extra attraction.

EXPERIENCE
Then comes the experience, I believe that a t-girl knows better how a man works on the sexual level, since we've got something in common that GGs will never have. This makes me think that the sexual pleasure will be potentially greater with a t-girl because she'll know secrets about us, how to enhance the pleasure..

BEHAVIOUR AND COMPREHENSION
About the behaviour, and for those of you who've read the Mars/Venus book, well GGs and men are really really different and see a lot of things with opposite ways of thinking. It can be perfect, fun and all of course but sometimes, a smaller gap between us would be nice. More comprehension, less incoherent reactions. Maybe a t-girl will have that way of thinking not that far from ours and it can be refreshing for a man, it can put us at ease.

RAW INSTINCT
On the hormonal level, I guess that a t-girl may have stronger and a more 'animal' sexual desire (like men) than most of the GGs. Girls always have these moments where they 'have headaches' you know, whatever the real reason behind is. I believe that t-girls may have less of these annoying moments. Raw desire led by instinct may be more frequent with a t-girl. And since I need a daily fix at least (3 being the best), well.. I feel concerned. I happen to know a cute t-girl who needs to have sex almost more often than me! How isn't it wonderful eh? It's a dream for us.

PLEASURE OR NOTHING
To add to the list, that may seem stupid but.. no pregnancy risk. The sexual act is made in the sole purpose of pleasure.

DOMINATION SHIFT
The last reason is the most complex to explain. The fact that they have an additional tool available opens new sexual opportunities. From there, there is the curiosity to have new kind of games, experience new things, and most likely reverse the domination and dominated roles. Both are for me interesting and resourceful, as long as it leads to pleasure.


Oh I'm probably still in the mist but there's a good chance that some of the reasons above explain why I browse this forum, why I find girls like Yasmin, Allanah, Jade or Jennifer absolutely amazing and finally why I left the shadows and wrote my first post. Peace. :)

arnie666
09-20-2008, 02:22 PM
Well I'm one of those men who in realife has quite a macho job , and prefer the company of men. I don't think women are as good at men and really should be at home cooking meals, tidying and being a total whore when I come home, I haven't had much luck in finding a woman who does all those things .

So as is often the case I secretly get turned on by dominant women.I remember reading a cartoon in a porn mag where the women in it had penis's and they were torturing and buggering the men. At the time though I thought all trannies were perverts who were in fact Gay who just dressed as women to fool men. And they were all ugly . So it was at that time just a fantasy , all my girfriends were not dom at all so it was just in the back of my mind.

Once I saw a female escort who used a strap-on but I pissed myself laughing when I saw her , so it wasn't what I was after. I also saw domintrix's who could a least fufil part of my fantasy and I became a regular at one .getting flogged once a month till I got another girlfreind. I had to stop because of the marks .

The I discovered that on the internet there are girls who are what Iam looking for . Pretty and look like girls. Started watching movies with them in it. I prefered the girls topping scene but I enjoyed seeing them taking a buggering too. The a couple of years ago I discovered that some escort in London and who look just as good as in the porn films. Since then I see a girl every few months.

I top and bottom and go for tall latin or Blacks who enjoy getting rough. I still see them when I have a girlfriend because girls cannot give me what I need. Which is a girl with a real penis who enjoys getting rough. I have no desire to be in a relationship with a transexual though even a hot escort.They are just there for sex and Iam using them but then again they are using me. They get a lot of coin .

peggygee
09-21-2008, 03:42 PM
And I have to say that by and large, the sex I've had with TS's isn't as good as the sex with TG's.

One of the reasons is I enjoy when my partner gets off. If I'm with a GG, she's gets of... and gets off... and gets off. If I fuck a GG for 2 hours, she can cum a dozen times or more.

But my experience with TS's is that if I'm fucking her and make her cum..... it's pretty much over (and I'm not talking paid for).


Ahh, one of the beauties of being a post op.

I can keep coming, coming, and coming, and.....

Just like the Energizer bunny.

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/energizer.jpg

8)

poleskr
09-21-2008, 09:18 PM
Flamme, I totally agree with you! I became attracted to tgirls back in 1997 when I first saw a tiny phone sex ad in the back of Hustler magazine that showed a girl with a cock. That intrigued me and I called the number to experience that fantasy. That led to me searching online for more pictures of tgirls and I found that extremely arousing!

After much masturbation and fantasizing about tgirls, that led to my first experience with this erotic creature. :D I was in NYC on a weekend trip with some friends and I got tired of getting rejected by all the girls at this one bar. I was drunk and left the bar, hopped in a cab and went to latin gay bar called La Escuelita upon someone's recommendation. There I discovered my first real tgirl in the flesh! She was a hot, blonde latin tgirl who just got done performing on stage. I bought her a drink, we started chatting and next thing you know I'm being bottomed by her in her bedroom. Needless to say it was an extremely erotic experience. Ever since then, I've been hooked and have had dozens of other experiences with many other tgirls.

What attracts me to tgirls? I appreciate their femininty. They are such hyper feminine creatures much more so than alot of GGs. In fact, when it comes to GGs, I'm usually only attracted to the very feminine ones. Girls today in the States are so much more masculine, maybe because of the damn women's lib movement and the whole bra burning thing. I don't know what it is but women today in this country are out of toucg with their feminine essence and want to be too much like guys both in the work place and at home.

The other thing that attracts me to tgirls is the sheer novelty aspect of it which is extremely erotic. I guess it's related to it's taboo nature. It's forbidden and one can't exactly discuss it around your buddies or family.

The cock also appeals to me. I love 69ing with tgirls and giving them pleasure. You obviously can see when you are giving them pleasure and if they like it or not since boners don't lie. You can't quite see that with GGs, for all you know they could be faking it. I alos love to get bottomed, which obviously a GG can't do unless she has a strap on but it's not the same. With tgirls, you get the whole package, the best of both worlds. A beautiful, hairless, feminine body, an amazing ass, a beautiful face to look at while you suck their cock and tits to play with as well!

Also with tgirls, they have the same brain as us so we can relate to them better and thye don't have those moody aspects that most GGs have. And the best thing about them having the same brain as us is that they also have the same sex drive and know what we like :D

So in summary, I'm attracted to tgirls because of their ultra femininty, the sheer ertoic novelty aspect of the whole idea, their lovely cocks and b/c their sex drive and brain chemistry is similar than ours. And I guess the fact that they can't get preganant is a big plus as well.

Wow, this has been my longest post in the past year since I've been on this post. Thanks for starting this thread. It inspired me to write quite a bit. I'd love to hear if anyone else can relate to me.

TessTickles
09-22-2008, 05:15 AM
Psychologically, I suppose that I feel empowered by the idea of dominating another man. I, however, have no attraction to men. What I guess draws me to tgirls is the fact that on the surface they appear as women, and I like that. I also think that I find it exciting that she is a man...
but, she isn't...
but, she is...
but, she isn't...
but, she is...
BUT, SHE ISN'T.

I want a lady who is submissive and is willing to surrender herself to me. I think for this reason I prefer bottom only girls. I have no inclination to surrender my masculinity and sacrifice control.

This may not make sense to anyone else, but it makes sense to me. That is all that matters.
Peace.

JamesHunt
09-22-2008, 05:55 AM
I like transgender women for the same reason i would like any girl which only has to do with the qualities of that person or common interested shared.Honestly i really do not give a shit about the sexually aspect of things so i do not have to ask myself questions like "i'm i gay" or try to get into to the reason why i like them.

What about part-time club kids?

LMFAO :lol:

sheyum
09-22-2008, 06:47 AM
its interesting that there are SO many different profiles of people who love trannies...
its clear that the phenomenon can't really be explained simply

there are an endless number pf foctors that go into it

human sexuality is very complex/...

brickcitybrother
09-22-2008, 07:13 AM
Well I'm one of those men who in realife has quite a macho job , and prefer the company of men. I don't think women are as good at men and really should be at home cooking meals, tidying and being a total whore when I come home, I haven't had much luck in finding a woman who does all those things .

So as is often the case I secretly get turned on by dominant women.I remember reading a cartoon in a porn mag where the women in it had penis's and they were torturing and buggering the men. At the time though I thought all trannies were perverts who were in fact Gay who just dressed as women to fool men. And they were all ugly . So it was at that time just a fantasy , all my girfriends were not dom at all so it was just in the back of my mind.

Once I saw a female escort who used a strap-on but I pissed myself laughing when I saw her , so it wasn't what I was after. I also saw domintrix's who could a least fufil part of my fantasy and I became a regular at one .getting flogged once a month till I got another girlfreind. I had to stop because of the marks .

The I discovered that on the internet there are girls who are what Iam looking for . Pretty and look like girls. Started watching movies with them in it. I prefered the girls topping scene but I enjoyed seeing them taking a buggering too. The a couple of years ago I discovered that some escort in London and who look just as good as in the porn films. Since then I see a girl every few months.

I top and bottom and go for tall latin or Blacks who enjoy getting rough. I still see them when I have a girlfriend because girls cannot give me what I need. Which is a girl with a real penis who enjoys getting rough. I have no desire to be in a relationship with a transexual though even a hot escort.They are just there for sex and Iam using them but then again they are using me. They get a lot of coin .


My vote for Most Honest Post of the Year.

hwbs
09-22-2008, 07:16 AM
And I have to say that by and large, the sex I've had with TS's isn't as good as the sex with TG's. One of the reasons is I enjoy when my partner gets off. If I'm with a GG, she's gets of... and gets off... and gets off. If I fuck a GG for 2 hours, she can cum a dozen times or more. But my experience with TS's is that if I'm fucking her and make her cum..... it's pretty much over (and I'm not talking paid for).



i know that feeling.....damn selfish trannies , lmfao

pigsnizzle
09-22-2008, 06:53 PM
I first saw the image of a T-girl in the ad section of a Porno Mag too!
I was so turned on and wacked off to it immediately. like so many others, i am not attracked to men, but i do get turned on by the shot of a delicious looking cock. I used to have dreams as a kid, that i would be in a room that was pitch black with darkness, and i would feel a cock rub against my cheek... i would suck the cock until it released a hot load of cum in my mouth and on my face! i Also had dreams that i would meet a hot chick with a sexy skirt on. when i lift her skirt to lick some pussy, there would always be a cock instead.
I always like girls and i love to fuck pussy, but i had a curiosity about sucking cock too! so when i discovered hot chicks with large cocks, i was hooked! Not to mention that i masturbated my ass alot as a teenager... when i discovered how much pleasure a could experience by getting my as penetrated, my mind ran wild with fantacies of being fucked by a fine girl with a strap on or a hot t-girl with a huge cock.
For the most part though, i fantacize about GG and pussy 10 times more than trannies. But when i cannot do my girlfriend... i am stroking of to some T-girl pics for sure!

boner
09-23-2008, 02:42 AM
I don't know what it is about tgirls I like so much. I've never been attracted to men and only gave transexuals a passing glance until a couple of years ago. There were a couple of times I looked at tranny porn but I never thought much of it. That all changed when I saw Gia Darling on the cover of one of her Transexual Heartbreakers movies. When I saw her, I found myself as turned on as I had ever been in my life.

I took the movie home and watched a couple minutes. I felt gay as all hell and switched it off. The next day I went looking for her website. I found it and a whole new world opened up for me. I had no idea how beautiful these women were. And that's how I think of them...as women. Ultra sexy women with something extra!

thriller
09-23-2008, 07:05 AM
I got into the ts genre about 6 years ago. While surfing the net, I stumbled on a pic of vanity on the joeysilvera website. I was like wow and what the hell. I closed it and left at that until I saw a movie with vanessa del rio and a tgirl getting freaky. It was kinda hot. Before I knew it ts porn became part of my regular collection. One thing is I only like solo scene, ts with ts and ts with girl. Anything involving man sucking or taking it from the back loses my interest automatically. No offense to anybody but this is just my preference.

thriller
09-23-2008, 07:08 AM
I think at the end, it is mostly a fantasy thing for me.

MrF
09-23-2008, 07:51 AM
I was very hesitant about TGirls at first, but among the first TGirls I encountered there was something about their high degree of sexuality, their being a little freakier than most GGirls I've met, that got me hooked. Of course there are GGirls who love sex too, but it seemed the odds were better with TGirls. Another point, I think people are a certain percentage gay, in the sense that they have varying degrees of inclination to experiment with or to enjoy homosexual activity. I'm not going to bother to define more precisely the "percentage", but hopefully you can imagine what I mean. The "percentage gay" ranges from 0 (not gay) to 100% (totally gay). If your percentage is low (say, 10 to 30%), than you would not like masculine men but would need some feminine characteristics to make a "person with a dick" attractive, and then they might be really attractive because of their attitude and sexuality. That's my situation, as far as I understand it "psychologically". BTW, I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay, but that's a different topic (and it's probably been covered here, too).

Christastic
09-23-2008, 08:45 AM
These threads are always pretty surprising. I think more people would be less conflicted if they just realized how fluid sexuality is and didn't have to fit everything into a category, but that's our society. I guess I'm biased, though. I'm bisexual, myself, and I have been pretty much as long as I can remember (even if I didn't quite know what it all meant), so its easy to think everyone should have my point of view. Obviously everyone doesn't. Just don't stress out about it so much.

ilove2swallow
11-10-2008, 05:19 PM
I JUST LOVE DICK!

WE R ALL BISEXUAL. JUST FACE IT

markknyc
11-10-2008, 06:41 PM
Can't explain the workings of my dick. Basically saw a TS video when I was in my teens, couldn't believe what it did to me in terms of arousal. Thought I might be bi, so I watched a few gay videos over time and found that I wasn't really turned on by the action.

A decade and change later, I watch 90% straight porn and about 10% ts. Not sure why it turns me on and it's pretty much irrelevant at this point.

djlunitik
11-11-2008, 03:27 AM
well i discovered my love for transsexual when i was at my teens and i was looking for pictures with big butts and then i found the world of ts at first it was weird for me the fact that they had a penis since i was allways attracted to woman and only very feminine woman but the fact that a woman has a penis and we can switch roles makes me very horny , the fact that i can be submissive sometimes arouses me alot . at first i thought i might be gay or something but i do not find the manly body attractive infact even the ts that i met and slept with had curvious body a big booty and tits and the bonus between their legs was all mine further more compering my dating with TS and biological girls i find that dating and sleeping with a ts is much more relaxing since both parts know what they like and for example not all girls like their assholes to be licked.
zigmond froid once said that every man or woman has 10% attraction to the same sex i think mine is to the feminine body with a twitch of a penis what makes it all sexy and attractive, the femininity of the ts and the style of the ts and the "shick" of the ts with all of the gg aspects and the ability to switch roles whenever .

GurlyCockLover
11-13-2008, 02:04 AM
A quote i picked up off a sexy tgirls' site-

Here`s what`s up with straight guys into she-males: Some straight guys like dick--I mean, they really like dick. They like dick so much that they want to play with dicks other than their own.

But they`re straight guys, so they don`t want to play with some other dude`s dick. They want to play with a dick that`s attached to someone who in every other respect looks like a hot woman....


So is your husband gay? No. Gay men like dick to be attached to men, not women.... You see, very few straight guys into she-males are into them exclusively. They just want to mess around with a she-male, once or twice, now and then, so they can play with another dick. (Didja catch that? I wrote, "another dick," not, "another man`s dick." He wants to play with a woman`s dick. Cuz he`s straight--see how that works?)

I think he has summed it up perfectly..........

Martin C.
11-13-2008, 04:49 AM
I like trannies for several reasons:
1) when I was a kid I had a lot of oral sex with my cousin that was a man. Suddenly he stopped doing that because it was "wrong". Yeah, I stopped, but when I saw a shemale porno movie -"Mr. Madonna 2" - I changed my life. This happened and I still like shemales and I think this will happen till I die.

the other reasons are secundary and I don't know if them managed me to be what I am, but basically it is.

arania
12-03-2008, 05:37 AM
For most of my life I was focused on girls and pussey. However, I often had this dream where I bent over and began sucking my own cock. I would wake up afterward feeling very horny. Then one day while surfing the internet I ran across this Japanese cartoon called "Hot Tails". The story was about a cute high school girl who went to the school nurse with a "problem". She revealed her "problem" to the nurse, she had a shecock. At first the nurse was "shocked" but then she led the girl into the examining room, lifted her skirt and eagerly began sucking the girls big shecock. This really turned me on and got me interested in shemales. I developed this powerful desire to suck a big shecock. This shemale cartoon is in the general discussion list by the way. I particularly enjoy some clips of Khloe Hart playing with herself, she is so sexy. I would love to suck her gorgeous cock!

meditation
12-07-2008, 09:39 AM
I know a lot of people are going to say, "Because I'm/you're/we're all closet case gays, but I disagree. I've never really been attracted to anybody that looks like a man. I think my reasons are a mixture of a couple of things,

First of all, my love of anal sex leads me to believe that I like to feel sexually superior to those I fuck. I'm not interested in S and M or anything, but the more I think about it, the more it makes sense to me that, for me at least, the appealing thing about anal is that it's dirty, and that it's disrespectful to the person you're fucking, (although I always try to be as nice as possible to girls and can even be a bit of a sap, sexually, I like to be dominant).

Secondly, the fact that I like trannies, I think, is an extension of this. I don't find men attractive, but a man who looks like a gorgeous girl, yes. Why not simply fuck a girl? I think it's the idea of feminising a man, (albeit a man who looks like a girl). Taking a man, who in my mind is a sissy, so much so that he/she looks like a girl, having him/her suck my dick and then bumfucking him/her, to me, makes me seem even more dominant and even more in control sexually.

I have been thinking this for the last few days and I wonder if this makes sense to anyone else?

I have been unable to find any official psychological articles on the attraction of heterosexual men, (or homosexual men for that matter), to transsexuals, so anyone who can point me in any direction, please do!

that's offensive to me as a trans woman, but it is also very intriguing and turned me on.

meditation
12-07-2008, 09:43 AM
Am I the only woman on this forum that takes offense and umbrage at
the OPs statement above; "a man that looks like a girl", "a man who is
a sissy", "he/she looks like a girl", "him/her suck my dick, "bumfuck
him/her"......

Others may have given you kudos for your opinion and post, but one will
not be coming from this post op woman. :smh

Well, I'm sorry for offending you, but that's honestly how I feel, and how I think most of the guys on this forum feel. Now I respect your right to be a woman or whatever, but I like girls, and I like girls with dicks, but I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings for post-op tgirls...honestly, and I'm sorry, but my honest feelings are that I do not see the point in post-op girls. If I want a girl, I will get a girl, if I want a t-girl, I will find one, I simply don't see any point in t-girls without dicks, I'm sorry!

i dont really care if you dont see a point in being a post op girls, like i said you are offensive, you should know that a woman's worth is much more than her sexuality..and just becuase we are woman doesnt mean we want to be dominated..or we have to play a certain role in life..

so i think you should just stick to talking about sex..if u dont want to offend.

meditation
12-07-2008, 09:44 AM
Am I the only woman on this forum that takes offense and umbrage at
the OPs statement above; "a man that looks like a girl", "a man who is
a sissy", "he/she looks like a girl", "him/her suck my dick, "bumfuck
him/her"......

Others may have given you kudos for your opinion and post, but one will
not be coming from this post op woman. :smh

Well, I'm sorry for offending you, but that's honestly how I feel, and how I think most of the guys on this forum feel. Now I respect your right to be a woman or whatever, but I like girls, and I like girls with dicks, but I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings for post-op tgirls...honestly, and I'm sorry, but my honest feelings are that I do not see the point in post-op girls. If I want a girl, I will get a girl, if I want a t-girl, I will find one, I simply don't see any point in t-girls without dicks, I'm sorry!

i dont really care if you dont see a point in being a post op girls, like i said you are offensive, you should know that a woman's worth is much more than her sexuality..and just becuase we are woman doesnt mean we want to be dominated..or we have to play a certain role in life..

so i think you should just stick to talking about sex..if u dont want to offend.

DL_NL
12-07-2008, 04:08 PM
The first t-girl who turned me on did so before I knew she was a t-girl. I thought she was a hot GG. We just 'clicked'.

rico87
12-10-2008, 08:21 PM
I JUST LOVE DICK!

WE R ALL BISEXUAL. JUST FACE IT

You ever eat pussy ?

needsum
12-10-2008, 10:19 PM
I'm simply attracted to beautiful women, period. As far as transsexual women and how I became attracted to them, I guess it started with the fact that I used to be able to nearly suck my own dick. I could lick it and suckle the head, but that became such a tease that it drove me nuts. (no pun intended . . lol)

So it made me want to explore sucking a cock the right way. However, the thought of sucking off another man was never attractive to me, whatsoever. Being a fan of Eros, I slowly got into looking at the TS section and over time grew to enjoy it as much if not more than the gg section. I did eventually have an encounter with a TS escort and was very glad I did--no regrets.

Having been here on HA for the last year plus has allowed me to grow and open my eyes to the TG community, and my appreciation has increased from one of a purely sexual tone to one of overall respect and admiration.

For people who don't have HA, most exposure to Transsexual women is through porn and prostitution, which doesn't leave much room for the advancement of them as women and regular people--it keeps them objectified. But here, at least for me, I've been able to get to know many women. And while it may not be on a personal basis, I still like to think that my mind has allowed me to grow as I've become more familiar.

That is why I can so openly and honestly support Danielle Foxx with her SRS. Because maybe before I was a member here, I would have been a little disappointed, having seen her as only a sexual object. But seeing her here often, getting to know what she's like as a person, and then being brought along while she was going through the whole process has allowed me to truly appreicate her for who she is, and not at all for what she is or was. And I lean that not only to her, but all of you girls here as well.

worldbro
12-11-2008, 09:48 PM
Porn did it for me, you see when I was looking at porn(not tgirl porn, just gg porn) when I was younger, I was definitely jacking off more than I was getting pussy. So what happened to me psychologically is that I was used to seeing a cock(mine) every time I had an orgasm while looking at a hot GG. You see I believe that since I was not doing it to a female for the majority of my orgasms but rather looking at them in magazines or computer my brain got wired to be turned on by a pretty face and tits and a vision of a cock got shoved in there(even though it was my own).
I believe this is part of a perfect storm that turned me on to transsexuals. Combined with the fact that transsexual stars fuck their fans, I mean there is no chance in hell that I will ever fuck Jenna Jameson, but there is a very good chance I could have sex with Yasmin or Allanah.
I mean look at it this way, I can have sex with a hot transsexual woman and good chances are shes done a photoshoot or a set of vids and if shes not around I have a constant visual reminder of my experience in bed with her. This dosen't happen with GG and probably not even with gay men.

ILoveTGirls08
12-16-2008, 04:19 AM
I began liking transsexuals much the same way everyone else here did. I stumbled upon a TS gallery in one of those categorized tgp sites. It was very weird at first and I didn't think much of it. However, my curiousity caused me to explore some more. I can't say that I'm obsessed with dick, as before I became attracted to transsexuals, I mostly got off to lesbian porn. I couldn't stand seeing the dude and his dick in the scene. I have dated numerous girls, most being at least for 4 months. I love girls, but I am tired of the BS they fill you with sometimes. What I find attractive about TS, is many TS are taller (I am 6'3") and many TS look as good if not better than GG! Most of the TS I've seen have amazing bodies! Not to mention a whole new world of possibilities! For me, it is time to stop fantasizing and take action as I have realized that TS turns me on more than GG. I plan to see my first TS within the next week and I am def looking forward to it.

JamesHunt
12-16-2008, 04:23 AM
Why do you like trannys? (Psychologically)

Cos the passable ones look like, errr....... women :roll:

HillaryTS
12-16-2008, 09:25 AM
If you are a man, and you like trannies, you are gay!

uktlover
12-16-2008, 02:16 PM
Truth be told ive always felt like a woman inside, i just cant go through the transformation due to family and religous issues, so i dress in secret, i guess im saying i love them because i wish i was one, however i don't think whats between the legs defies your gender

needsum
12-16-2008, 03:23 PM
If you are a man, and you like trannies, you are gay!

Yeah, and if you believe 4 + 3 = 9, then you're fucking stupid.

Seriously, take this played out argument and go somewhere else with it.

DL_NL
12-16-2008, 10:15 PM
If you are a man, and you like trannies, you are gay!
Yawn.

20cm
12-20-2008, 08:37 PM
I consider myself straight. I always loved women...their beautiful faces...their curvy bodies...their awesome smell...the naughtyness...their feminicity in general. And i have never even fantasized about men or just cocks.
I just also like beautiful and feminine transsexuals...
And i also like big tits...
And i also like curvy asses...
And i also like sexy outfits...
And i also like sexy high heels...
And i also like naughty sexual behaviour...
And i also enjoy a good blowjob...
As much as i enjoy anal sex...
These are my sexual fetishes and i believe that just fetishes do not characterize you sexually.I like beautiful transsexuals because they combine almost all my other fetishes too and they have something extra that i dont find annoying...on the contrary it excites me more...
Thats my view...

I have talked about this matter a lot with my friends...almost all of them agree that if Bianca Freire or a similar stunning TS would suck their cocks then they would definately fuck her....and believe me...they are all straight...
Also...
In Brazil where society is accepting TSs more than other places nobody will consider you gay if you have sex with a TS.And i have some brazilian net-friends (all of them are straight) that they have sex with TSs 2 or 3 times a year.

Also...
Is Joey Silvera gay?How about Nacho Vidal?Or Rocco Siffredi?

I believe that everybody (man or woman, straight or gay) can be or become a TS fetishist because TSs are a rare third sex which can satisfy both other sexes. Thats my opinion.

DRock82
12-21-2008, 10:53 AM
I have asked myself this question a few times. I stumbled on a transsexual website a few years back and didn't think much of it. In fact, I was grossed out at first. However, curiousity brought me back and before I knew it I had developed a new fetish. I have never liked dick in my porn.. in fact the only porn I got off to was lesbian porn b/c I could not stand seeing the dude's dick in the picture. However, in my mind a TS is a woman and so I began to be ok with viewing TS porn. Fast forward to now, and I am physically attracted to TS. I love taller women (I am 6'3"), and a lot of TS are taller. I also think it has to do with my past relationships with GG's. They were good and all, but sometimes I think I might be able to connect with a TS better. I guess if I find TS attractive, why not go down that road? You only live once, right? Let's face it.. as I know everyone has seen the many pics on this site.. there are some beautiful TS out there! Many you would have no clue they are TS unless they told you or showed you! I don't think being attracted to TS means you are gay.

ChicagoTbone
05-12-2010, 09:56 PM
follow some of my stories posted in the story form, it gives some insight in this sick puppies mind.

simply, I use to date this Hawian Ts, Verna. Stunninly beautify, olive skin, dark straight hair, brown eyes, she was a diabetic, fell asleep and there was no one their to deal with her diabetic coma.

Verna had curves, beauty and intelligence. When her clothes came off, it simply was this mind fuck, here was this beautify woman with a 8" cock, the best of both worlds.

sexymaleinny
05-12-2010, 11:22 PM
they are sexy and they make me hard, I try not to over think it.

talldudeil
05-13-2010, 01:58 AM
I am not into men, the reason I like t-gurls is that for the most part they look better than GG's and why not have a woman who looks good and has the same sex drive I do. I also found that I love to suck t-gurl cock before I fuck them

BlueEyed84
05-13-2010, 02:15 AM
I'm attracted to women and I see every tg gal I know in real life and those I've chatted with as woman. I've never been attracted to men. And, I wouldn't care if every tg that I'm attracted to got srs. I would be just as attracted to any of the tgs I am now with or without their cock.

Deepdarkfucker
05-13-2010, 03:23 PM
I second the motion that I see T-girls as women and I too have never been attracted to me. But, t-girls have one distinct advantage, they do have more of a perspective on how to communicate, understand and oh yes...get fucked by a man.

Helvis2012
05-14-2010, 07:57 AM
Why not?????

Bunzee
05-14-2010, 10:08 AM
the answer is very simple: men are attracted to anything that LOOKS like a woman. doesn't have to be a woman. it can be a mannequin

CORVETTEDUDE
05-14-2010, 02:39 PM
Love Trannies!!!!

TSLoverUK999
05-14-2010, 11:00 PM
A large part of me agrees with Human-After-All on sexual basis but a) I like being topped and b) TGs, TVs etc are not only sexual objects, so feelings of love comes into it !

markknyc
07-13-2016, 06:05 PM
Can't explain the workings of my dick. Basically saw a TS video when I was in my teens, couldn't believe what it did to me in terms of arousal. Thought I might be bi, so I watched a few gay videos over time and found that I wasn't really turned on by the action.

A decade and change later, I watch 90% straight porn and about 10% ts. Not sure why it turns me on and it's pretty much irrelevant at this point.

Sorry to bump this like 9 years later, but hey...I feel a correction is in order.

The part about watching gay videos and not being turned on was a lie / me not being truthful to myself. Yes, I enjoy porn of all kinds (straight, TS and gay).

It took me many years to accept my bisexuality and only in the last few have I finally allowed myself not to feel guilty about what turns me on.

Also my current porn genre viewing ratio is probably more like 50% TS porn, 30% straight porn and 20% gay porn.

chupapau
07-13-2016, 08:03 PM
It took me many years to accept my bisexuality ...

Good on you! Looking yourself in the mirror, and not feeling guilty/disgusted/ashamed by yourself is one of the most important things in life.

markknyc
07-13-2016, 08:37 PM
Completely agree. I wish it hadn't taken me as long as it did, but it is a good feeling to be honest with myself. The guilt was overwhelming throughout my teens, 20's and early-mid 30's, until I finally realized...why the hell does it matter?

I don't feel guilty when jerking off to women. So why the hell did I feel disgusted with myself when it came to ts, gay or bisexual porn? I'd shoot a load and immediately delete a video file or smash a VHS/DVD or shred a magazine because that act of destruction (and cover-up) somehow made me feel better about it. But a week or a month later I'd be in a position where I was doing it all over again. It was an endless cycle.

Finally a few years ago I accepted that a gorgeous body is a gorgeous body and fantasy is fantasy. Why fight my desires or try to convince myself I'm something I'm not in order to satisfy a straight and narrow self image that has never existed?

sockratees
07-13-2016, 11:09 PM
I'm not gay or closet bisexual or something. Dudes have NEVER turned me on.

I wasn't always into them actually. I was quite repulsed by shemale porn at first. I originally thought it was a bunch of cross-dressers fucking each other, later I realized it was more like a girl with a dick than a dude in women's apparel.

markknyc
07-14-2016, 05:53 PM
To piggyback off that - I will say that I've never felt any EMOTIONAL connection with guys. I've easily fallen in love with women throughout my life, but I've never experienced that with a guy. That's probably one of the reasons why I always just assumed "nope, I'm straight!" no matter what my dick was telling me.

I once had a male co-worker who was really into me (emotionally, I think the sexual component was almost secondary) and I never felt right about it, even if I was tempted to get naked with the guy.

blueeyeboy
07-14-2016, 08:38 PM
Hmmm......let's avoid temptation to go all Robbie Coltrane in cracker on each other here......

But.......there is just something about sticking my Dick up the arse of someone who knows how good it must make me feel

markknyc
07-14-2016, 10:27 PM
Ha, I totally do not get that reference!

sockratees
07-15-2016, 05:55 AM
But.......there is just something about sticking my Dick up the arse of someone who knows how good it must make me feel

this too.

gaysian71
07-15-2016, 07:53 AM
What's not to like?

chupapau
07-16-2016, 02:48 PM
What's not to like?

I'm allergic to flower pollen LOL, anything else in the picture is very welcome

markknyc
07-16-2016, 06:40 PM
What's not to like?

That she's not laying in front of me right now?

holzz
07-17-2016, 03:02 AM
they are women. having a cock is immaterial.

i like how they look, their boobs, their curves and bodies. they are WOMEN! :)

JM Off
07-17-2016, 03:17 AM
I like to get plowed in the ass....and the boobs help me feel better about myself....

irishguy6904
07-17-2016, 10:14 AM
I like how they have such ultra-effeminate qualities. They are all so beautiful!

markknyc
07-18-2016, 04:54 PM
I like to get plowed in the ass....and the boobs help me feel better about myself....

Right around the time I watched my first TS porn video - I was lucky enough to have a girlfriend for a while that loved regularly fucking me in the ass with toys. I didn't know how good I had it.

Legfetishnyc
07-19-2016, 03:40 AM
Ever since I started chasing them on the Lower West Side of Manhattan since the 1990's, I've found trans girls very exciting. They dress sexier then girls, and they know what a cock likes. I'm only attracted to fem trans girls, but I've been harboring a desire to suck a cock on a really a passable t-girl, for a long time now - tho i still have never acted on it. Still, I LOVE legs and stockings, that'll never change.

ravita
07-19-2016, 12:11 PM
I'm a man.

For me its so confusing I 'm attracted to women, but even more to Tranny's.
The more feminine the more I like them.
Here comes my concern.
These ladies want to be a lady all the way.
They don't feel and want to be a man.
But I love them being a beautiful woman with a dick.
So I love them for what they don't want to be.
I want to be so respectful to those ladies but love that what they actually don't want.
I've been several times with a shemale and its gets a bit confusing sometimes, what they love to be and what I love.