Am I alone in this?

[lerath666]

I''m mostly a lurker, but I do post every now and Then. I figured i'd toss this out there and see what happens. Yes i know there are ALOt of escorts out there, and yes, I know that i could go out and find one, pay her, and do all sort of sexual things, but it's just not something I want to do. I'd Like to actualy DATE a Transexual Woman, go to the movies, or a showm out to dinner, a park, whatever, get to know the person, perhaps be friends, Perhaps more. Would i want to fool around? As a man,m I'd be a Liar if i said otherwise, but TBQH I'm more interested in what's between a womans ears than what's between her legs. A pretty, attractive woman is a pretty attractive woman. I'm A little paranoid, however, of comming across as a "chaser" or "someone looking for a freebie" or some other such nonsense. Soo... anyone else feel like I do?

[justatransgirl]

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[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

lol@Jamie. Girl, don't scare the boy! :lol:

but anyways..Quite a noble post. But of course, most tgirls are always skeptics (way more than gg's). You're better off proving yourself to one over time (a few non sexual dates here and there). Then go from there! If you truly don't want to come across as a chaser..do that and you might actually find someone to date. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[TrueBeauty TS]

.....I've had guys take me to....., the movies (where I gave and got great head...)

TS Jamie :-)


I don't think he's talking about the TomKat theater in Hollywood.


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[mbf]

.....I've had guys take me to....., the movies (where I gave and got great head...)

TS Jamie :-)


I don't think he's talking about the TomKat theater in Hollywood.


:wink:


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...sounds seedy...

[lerath666]

Oh - you want the "Dinner and a Date" special. :-) :-)

That's what escorts do honey. I'm talking "real" escorts, not the streetwalkers who migrated from the blvd to the internet the past 4-5 years.

With a quality escort, if she's doing her job, you forget that you are paying by the hour (instead of paying for her condo, car, vacations, clothes, hair, etc,) and she will be as much as girlfriend as you can afford, for as long as you can afford her.

I've had guys take me to dinner, minature golfing, the movies (where I gave and got great head...) one took Jessica and me to the zoo, and one flew me to Vegas for the weekend in a private jet. I've even cooked dinner for a couple of fun guys in my home.

Otherwise you are regated to the world of "personals" where you just might find a wonderful mate - and you might even win the lottery someday, but it's unlikely.

Happy hunting,
TS Jamie :-)

Don't take it the wrong way, but that's just it Miss, I'm not enterested in cheap thrills. the entire concept of "paying directly" for something like that just feels... I don't know... wrong? I'm not knocking those who do it, that's great, but it's not something i'd do. I Loose all intrest if I find myself in that kinda position. Would I have a problem dating a woman who wanted to be an escort? No, It's her body and she's free to do with it whatever she pleases. but I don't want to be "just another john" to her. Corse, my relationship situation is kinda different than normal in the first place., but that's a different matter all together. Hell, i'd be happy to just sit around the house in the traditional "hang out" sense some times. But meh.

[justatransgirl]

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[lerath666]

lol@Jamie. Girl, don't scare the boy! :lol:

but anyways..Quite a noble post. But of course, most tgirls are always skeptics (way more than gg's). You're better off proving yourself to one over time (a few non sexual dates here and there). Then go from there! If you truly don't want to come across as a chaser..do that and you might actually find someone to date. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG
Heh, Girls in general are skeptics. Hell, I'd like to even get the chance to start trying to prove myself, but i guess another part of the problem is not even knowing where to begin let alone even find a pretty Transwoman near me, or even where to TRY to look.

[TrueBeauty TS]

Heh, Girls in general are skeptics. Hell, I'd like to even get the chance to start trying to prove myself, but i guess another part of the problem is not even knowing where to begin let alone even find a pretty Transwoman near me, or even where to TRY to look.


Well.... a large part of it depends on where you live. Are you near a big city or out in the middle of nowhere?


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[lerath666]

Middle of nowhere unfortunately. well, it's kinda a big city, the closest big city is atlanta.

[TrueBeauty TS]

Middle of nowhere unfortunately. well, it's kinda a big city, the closest big city is atlanta.

Well, if you like surfing, don't live in the desert. If you are serious, you have to go where your interests are more likely to be found.


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[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

.....I've had guys take me to....., the movies (where I gave and got great head...)

TS Jamie :-)


I don't think he's talking about the TomKat theater in Hollywood.


:wink:


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:lol: Rolf!

~Kisses.

HTG

[lerath666]

Middle of nowhere unfortunately. well, it's kinda a big city, the closest big city is atlanta.

Well, if you like surfing, don't live in the desert. If you are serious, you have to go where your interests are more likely to be found.


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ja, i know. Once i graduate next summer i'll be moving to wherever the work is, hopefully somewhrer like LA, but we will see.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

We'll then host you a welcome party! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[justatransgirl]

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[lerath666]

Hara, since you're posting in my thread, somethng i've wanted to ask you, but I'm ordinaraly too chicken-shit to do it. Considering the non professional nature of your avatar photo, is that a pic of you?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Yeah..do you have one?!? lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[lerath666]

No, just wanted to say you're cute ( blushes terribly, ducks anticipating the flying purse at his head).

Back to the conversation at hand, Don't get me wrong Jamie, But I actualy ENJOY all the BS with relationships. I know i'll get the " you're full of crap" response for this, but it's how I am, Sexual activity is more than just a physical act. if i just want to " get off" i'll grab a porno and go jerk it for a while. Sexual activity, atleast to me is an unspoken promise of devotion, comitment, and everything else. Yes, the idea of casual sex is fascinationg, but even when presented with the oprtunity, I've not been able to go for it. it's not the " seedy motel" mentality, it's just.. i donno, just not my thing?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Aww thnx. :oops:

~Kisses.

HTG

[slinky]

$50.00 gas
$50-75.00 dinner and a drink
$25.00 two more drinks
$25.00 movie
$10.00 popcorn

$150-200.00 total, easy.

And what happens? You get a handshake at the door when you take her home. Maybe for two or three dates. Now you are into her for $500.00+ and still no nooky. :-)

Suddenly makes dating an escort look better doesn't it?

Sure does. Most of the escorts I date pay for all of that (hey, they're the one's making the big money, not me).

[TrueBeauty TS]

$50.00 gas
$50-75.00 dinner and a drink
$25.00 two more drinks
$25.00 movie
$10.00 popcorn

$150-200.00 total, easy.

Most of the escorts I date pay for all of that (hey, they're the one's making the big money, not me).


Tell me who they are! If you get all that, hell, I'll date them too!!!


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[Leeloo]

$50.00 gas


What are you driving that needs $50 of gas to go on a date? A jumbo jet? :)

[BeardedOne]

$50.00 gas


What are you driving that needs $50 of gas to go on a date? A jumbo jet? :)

These daze? Probably a Mini. :shock:

[Fox]

I'd actually advise against a movie on the first date, too much time spent not interacting. Well, unless you really hit it off well earlier. :lol:

[tstv_lover]

Yes i know there are ALOt of escorts out there, and yes, I know that i could go out and find one, pay her, and do all sort of sexual things, but it's just not something I want to do. I'd Like to actualy DATE a Transexual Woman, go to the movies, or a showm out to dinner, a park, whatever, get to know the person, perhaps be friends, Perhaps more.

It's a fair question. There are lots of guys feel the same. Guess it's the whole seduction, flirtation, establishing relationship, foreplay thing. Having a relationship because of who you are rather than what you're paying sure helps with the ego, self-worth stuff too.

If it leads to sex then it's mutually agreed and mutually stimulating. Having a tgirl (or gg for that matter) moaning and exhoring excitement when she's probably thinking about bills and her next tricks reduces the sex to a purely transactional arrangement. I'm not saying that's wrong - for many it's extremely desirable and avoids all the messy relationship stuff - for others it's just too cold.

A taxi costs money and takes me where I want to go, but I'm not going to have a relationship with the taxi. Sometimes it's better walking and enjoying the journey. You never know who you'll meet on the way!

So, congratulations on asking the question. There's a pretty wide range in here so it's unlikely you'll be alone in any viewpoint.

[justatransgirl]

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[dj4monie]

I think it can be summed up a few simple ways.

P4P as its known in some circles if all your interested in is fucking, long term is the most cost effective thing to do.

Overall you will spend less money than taking out some girl for 3-4 dates and come up empty. Over time that will happen to you more often than not.

Because true "macks" don't post questions like this, so I would assume your skills are a bit lacking.

Finding a suitable T to date is next to impossible, depending on several factors. If your like some people and don't care what you are seen with, then your market is a bit wider. There are plenty of girls that don't pass so well that are eager to find somebody for a long term relationship.

Finding somebody on the same level with many of the women that post and are featured on this broad, you're better off finding a nice GG to settle down with.

Your chances are much greater especially if you extend your search beyond our shores.

I have given up on finding a T girl I would like to spend time with, tried of getting shot down, tired of being second string, so I'm done with it.

One trip to Mexico, another to Brazil and I can close the file on this side of my sexual life.

[Justawannabe]

It is an issue. I was lucky enough to date two wonderful T women, but I wasn't ambitious enough for one, or 'night life' enough for the other. Finding one who is interested in what is otherwise a normal suburban life is tough, much easier in a genetic girl.

In my case, I met both girls at a local game store.

Like a lot of folks, I'm no so good at picking folks up at random, so I'm beginning to feel if I want a T girl in my life I'd have to pay and pretend they really care about me instead of the cash prize. But I doubt I would enjoy the experience much, as I want someone to really appreciate me.

Implying that a date and an escort experience are somehow the same because they could add up to the same bill is just kind of odd. How do you equate taking the train down, walking to the lake and wandering the park with a couple of hot dogs and sodas? Not as glamorous sure, but often some of the most beautiful dates I've had.

A night out is one thing, but a date is about spending time with another person... just not sure you can equate them just because they take the same cash from your wallet.

Not slamming escorts here.... it's just different. A night out with a beautiful girl (T or otherwise) is certainly worth the money in question, but if you looking for emotional connection... putting cash in the middle isn't the best first step.

Sean

[TsVanessa69]

I''m mostly a lurker, but I do post every now and Then. I figured i'd toss this out there and see what happens. Yes i know there are ALOt of escorts out there, and yes, I know that i could go out and find one, pay her, and do all sort of sexual things, but it's just not something I want to do. I'd Like to actualy DATE a Transexual Woman, go to the movies, or a showm out to dinner, a park, whatever, get to know the person, perhaps be friends, Perhaps more. Would i want to fool around? As a man,m I'd be a Liar if i said otherwise, but TBQH I'm more interested in what's between a womans ears than what's between her legs. A pretty, attractive woman is a pretty attractive woman. I'm A little paranoid, however, of comming across as a "chaser" or "someone looking for a freebie" or some other such nonsense. Soo... anyone else feel like I do?
Well escorts have real lives too. In my case escorting is not what runs my life. I do it oasionally, but I enjoy life too. Its not always about money. Just a few weeks ago I shared some pics from a date I went on. Easy and simple, we had Wendy's burgers and a day at the zoo. Clean wholesum fun! Very rarly do I meet a man who wants more than a romp in the hay. My date to the movies latly has been Mimi and thats not as fun as being in the theatre with a cute guy. I wish you luck. And just my luck, as usual, you are not in Chicago

[lerath666]

Hey, if I was, I'd Ask for your number Vanessa. ;)

[SinthiaTV]

I'm a transvestite, and I'd love to meet a nice guy to treat me like a lady, even if we don't go out.

So far, I've gotten a closet case who was cheating on his girlfriend, a totally gay guy who wanted me to dress up in a jock, and a racist guy who seemed to be on meth.

*sigh*

[TrueBeauty TS]

So far, I've gotten a closet case who was cheating on his girlfriend, a totally gay guy who wanted me to dress up in a jock, and a racist guy who seemed to be on meth.

*sigh*


Did you meet them all from this board?

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[SinthiaTV]

No, all off CL.

I should know better.

[hungry4exp]

i am hoping to meet a girl this weekend for dinner, she is really sweet, cross fingers for me