Question for the Women and the Guys

[bulldog]

1st This statement/Question is not meant to be inconsiderate, rude or assholish lol

Does everyone on here believe that the only way you can get with one of these women is by paying them, and is that all you want to do is sleep with them. Is anyone on here looking for a relationship or friendship. I've been a member for a while(not a long time but a while) and I've seen lots of people come and go, and very few people are on here for those reasons. Am I the only one?


P.S. Yea I know this sounds wierd coming from a guy who posts tons of porn and even calls himself a porn connessiur, I dont mind looking at these B-E-A-UTIFUL women naked, but that is not what it is all about for me. In fact that is barely the surface of what it is all about, I believe this site was originally intended for idolizing and talking to and about these gorgeous women and it just kept sinking to a lower level, dont get me wrong, this is still one of my favorite sites of the web, but it could be better, greater, the best out there.

Thats my 10 cents, take it or leave it or get change

Thank You,
Ben

[bulldog]

Now for the inevitable slamming back, and more than likely I'm going to get it from both sides, women and men, oh well

[thx1138]

My guess is many aren't really pyschologically suited to have a long term relationship with anyone. It's a consequence of the western "me" culture.

[TrueBeauty TS]

1st This statement/Question is not meant to be inconsiderate, rude or assholish lol

Does everyone on here believe that the only way you can get with one of these women is by paying them, and is that all you want to do is sleep with them. Is anyone on here looking for a relationship or friendship. I've been a member for a while(not a long time but a while) and I've seen lots of people come and go, and very few people are on here for those reasons. Am I the only one?


P.S. Yea I know this sounds wierd coming from a guy who posts tons of porn and even calls himself a porn connessiur, I dont mind looking at these B-E-A-UTIFUL women naked, but that is not what it is all about for me. In fact that is barely the surface of what it is all about, I believe this site was originally intended for idolizing and talking to and about these gorgeous women and it just kept sinking to a lower level, dont get me wrong, this is still one of my favorite sites of the web, but it could be better, greater, the best out there.

Thats my 10 cents, take it or leave it or get change

Thank You,
Ben


I think there may be a fair amount of people looking for LTR's, but where to look for them is always a problem.

This board is aimed towards the sex industry. Escorts & Porn, mainly. It's not really set up for connecting people who are serious about relationships. It CAN happen, but the odds are against you.

That being said, most girls I know that are in a LTR met their SO while they were escorting.

Go figure.


:shrug


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[justatransgirl]

1st This statement/Question is not meant to be inconsiderate, rude or assholish lol

Does everyone on here believe that the only way you can get with one of these women is by paying them, and is that all you want to do is sleep with them. Is anyone on here looking for a relationship or friendship. I've been a member for a while(not a long time but a while) and I've seen lots of people come and go, and very few people are on here for those reasons. Am I the only one?


P.S. Yea I know this sounds wierd coming from a guy who posts tons of porn and even calls himself a porn connessiur, I dont mind looking at these B-E-A-UTIFUL women naked, but that is not what it is all about for me. In fact that is barely the surface of what it is all about, I believe this site was originally intended for idolizing and talking to and about these gorgeous women and it just kept sinking to a lower level, dont get me wrong, this is still one of my favorite sites of the web, but it could be better, greater, the best out there.

Thats my 10 cents, take it or leave it or get change

Thank You,
Ben

Well, and not meaning disrespect either.

I can't speak for anyone else, but yeah honey - the only way you can sleep with me is to pay. I know it sucks to be a guy. That's just how it is. Boys pay to play - you can pay by the hour or you can pay by the month (rent, car, food, clothes, insurance, vacation, jelwlery, etc) but one way or another you will surely pay! :-) :-)

As for being a better site. HOW can they/we make it better? Don't just complain dear - give us constructive suggestions on what you think would improve things and why.

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

[MrsKellyPierce]

How can you expect any of the girls on the board to take the men on this board serious for dating?

When 90 percent don't use their own pictures and/or just post about porn.

I'm sorry things like that don't stand out in my mind to like a guy.

[MrsKellyPierce]

hey Kellly,

Guess what? HA is an ADULT chatboard not a dating site.

Post about porn? Yea we do, so does Senchai, Buddy Wood, Nikka, Tara Emory, and dozens of others. Why? Again, this is an ADULT chatboard.

Did ya notice the banners ads above? Guess what? They are mostly for PORN dvds. One more time, repeat after me: HA is an ADULT chatboard.

You've displayed your breasts on HA, and I believe there are some pics of you showing your cock.

Please, spare us the holier than thou, "my feces does not stink," attitude.

If you're looking for Sunday School, you came to the wrong place.


How can you expect any of the girls on the board to take the men on this board serious for dating?

When 90 percent don't use their own pictures and/or just post about porn.

Wow sister get that drama out. I was responding to his question of why girls don't find dating a guy on HA very plausible. I realize what the board is about. I was just making him aware of why. However I don't need to be rude to get my point across.

xoxo

Kelly

[slinky]

How can you expect any of the girls on the board to take the men on this board serious for dating?

When 90 percent don't use their own pictures and/or just post about porn.

I'm sorry things like that don't stand out in my mind to like a guy.


An the guys who don't post about porn, but serious issues instead, get shit on. And the brown nosers get rewarded.

[Shining Star]

It is very hard these days not to find a site dealing with trans that is not full of porn and or escorts, and of course chasers.

It does seem the population of men seeking a serious LTR with trannies is quite small, so small and scattered that most girls simply have given up or don't even bother. Then there is the problem of what sort of trannie the guy is attracted to and wants. A girl who intends to have the operation and or has no interest in pre-op sex may not be first choice for a guy who wants a girl with "something extra", so to speak.

Being as all this may, would say "yes" it is possible to find a TS for a LTR, afterall the law of averages say chances go around, but how long one has to search and wait is another story.

Also consider persons generally tend to fall in love with/develop relationships with persons who are like themselves in terms of likes, backgrounds, interests. I mean one wants someone that fits in with family and friends (if things ever got that far), which often is where problems start.

If you are an average middle-class or upper middle class law abiding man, dating someone who "works" and or does not have the same sort of work ethic as yourself is probably not in the cards weather they are a GG or TS. There is less of a chance as well you would wish to settle down with such a person. Am not saying it does not happen, but chances are low for a long term relationship.

From the girl's point of view, they may have been hurt so often and or simply badly treated by men in the past, they simply treat every man as a date since that is all the men seem want from them is sex. While there are some great guys out there when it comes to trannies, most are simply players running game. They treat trannies with totally no respect and run games/lines they never would on a GG they cared about. Calling up a girl at 2AM saying "hey I'm right around the corner... can I come over?". If the girl says yes, it usually is a hit it and run situation, or worse the guy simply needs a place to crash for the night. First thing in the AM he's up and out calling his GG GF on his cell saying he is on the way.

[MrsKellyPierce]

How can you expect any of the girls on the board to take the men on this board serious for dating?

When 90 percent don't use their own pictures and/or just post about porn.

I'm sorry things like that don't stand out in my mind to like a guy.


An the guys who don't post about porn, but serious issues instead, get shit on. And the brown nosers get rewarded. I must of missed when you post these issues Danny :P

[slinky]

1st This statement/Question is not meant to be inconsiderate, rude or assholish lol

Does everyone on here believe that the only way you can get with one of these women is by paying them, and is that all you want to do is sleep with them. Is anyone on here looking for a relationship or friendship. I've been a member for a while(not a long time but a while) and I've seen lots of people come and go, and very few people are on here for those reasons. Am I the only one?


P.S. Yea I know this sounds wierd coming from a guy who posts tons of porn and even calls himself a porn connessiur, I dont mind looking at these B-E-A-UTIFUL women naked, but that is not what it is all about for me. In fact that is barely the surface of what it is all about, I believe this site was originally intended for idolizing and talking to and about these gorgeous women and it just kept sinking to a lower level, dont get me wrong, this is still one of my favorite sites of the web, but it could be better, greater, the best out there.

Thats my 10 cents, take it or leave it or get change

Thank You,
Ben

I am "acquainted" (in passing) with about a dozen people from here, somewhat friendly off the board with about 1/2 dozen people, very friendly with one or two, and very close with one. And none of it has anything to do with sex, porn, prostitution, etc. (as much as can be considering what business I'm in and some of them are).

[MrsKellyPierce]

Kelly,

I apologize if I sounded rude. But you seem to lump all the guys in one big basket. Yea, I like porn and post pics, but I also like museums, history and literature. The guys on this board have varied interest beyond HA or porn. Just like every tgirl is not an "escort," not every guy on here is a social misfit. It's unfair to generalize about the guys, just as it would be unfair to say that all the girls on HA are "escorts."




hey Kellly,

Guess what? HA is an ADULT chatboard not a dating site.

Post about porn? Yea we do, so does Senchai, Buddy Wood, Nikka, Tara Emory, and dozens of others. Why? Again, this is an ADULT chatboard.

Did ya notice the banners ads above? Guess what? They are mostly for PORN dvds. One more time, repeat after me: HA is an ADULT chatboard.

You've displayed your breasts on HA, and I believe there are some pics of you showing your cock.

Please, spare us the holier than thou, "my feces does not stink," attitude.

If you're looking for Sunday School, you came to the wrong place.


How can you expect any of the girls on the board to take the men on this board serious for dating?

When 90 percent don't use their own pictures and/or just post about porn.

Wow sister get that drama out. I was responding to his question of why girls don't find dating a guy on HA very plausible. I realize what the board is about. I was just making him aware of why. However I don't need to be rude to get my point across.

xoxo

Kelly Apology accepted, but we don't see that side. We see either you posting porn or arguing with a female poster. It just doesn't stand out to me as "wow this guy is dateable" thats all I was stating.

[slinky]

I must of missed when you post these issues Danny :P

No you just denigrate them, sort of like you did just now.

[mbf]

just my two cents:

I was in a one year relationship with a TS. She escorted on the side without telling me. End of the story.

Fact is, the girls tend to say guys into TS are not LTR material. same is true for the TS tho.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I must of missed when you post these issues Danny :P

No you just denigrate them, sort of like you did just now. Me, what? Danny I never do that. :oops: :fc

[MrsKellyPierce]

just my two cents:

I was in a one year relationship with a TS. She escorted on the side without telling me. End of the story.

Fact is, the girls tend to say guys into TS are not LTR material. same is true for the TS tho. well I think a lot of transwomen aren't ready to be in a serious relationship till they get to the womanhood they want.

[slinky]

I think a lot of transwomen aren't ready to be in a serious relationship till they get to the womanhood they want.

and since a lot of them never reach that point.........

[mbf]

I think a lot of transwomen aren't ready to be in a serious relationship till they get to the womanhood they want.

and since a lot of them never reach that point.........

they just continue with the promiscuity......be it paid for or not.....

[bulldog]

first let me say that I like the way that this discussion is going so far, I didnt know that there were a lot of other sincere people on here, second, on making the site better, I believe that this site needs to be a little more strict, and im notting slamming the mod's, cuz that is not nice or healthy for your account lol. I know that you guys cannot possibly dream of reading every post, and that most of the time you count on the members of the site to tell you if someone is misbehaving, so in fact, it is us that needs to start paying more attention and making the site better. In a forum one of the top three things that makes it good is the members. And we are the ones who have to start making this site better.

Ben

[KiraHarden]

first let me say that I like the way that this discussion is going so far, I didnt know that there were a lot of other sincere people on here, second, on making the site better, I believe that this site needs to be a little more strict, and im notting slamming the mod's, cuz that is not nice or healthy for your account lol. I know that you guys cannot possibly dream of reading every post, and that most of the time you count on the members of the site to tell you if someone is misbehaving, so in fact, it is us that needs to start paying more attention and making the site better. In a forum one of the top three things that makes it good is the members. And we are the ones who have to start making this site better.

Ben
Have we met?

[bulldog]

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Have we met?[/quote]

no, I do believe I would remember if we did lol, plus I dont get outta town too much

[Jasmine562]

It is very hard these days not to find a site dealing with trans that is not full of porn and or escorts, and of course chasers.

It does seem the population of men seeking a serious LTR with trannies is quite small, so small and scattered that most girls simply have given up or don't even bother. Then there is the problem of what sort of trannie the guy is attracted to and wants. A girl who intends to have the operation and or has no interest in pre-op sex may not be first choice for a guy who wants a girl with "something extra", so to speak.

Being as all this may, would say "yes" it is possible to find a TS for a LTR, afterall the law of averages say chances go around, but how long one has to search and wait is another story.

Also consider persons generally tend to fall in love with/develop relationships with persons who are like themselves in terms of likes, backgrounds, interests. I mean one wants someone that fits in with family and friends (if things ever got that far), which often is where problems start.

If you are an average middle-class or upper middle class law abiding man, dating someone who "works" and or does not have the same sort of work ethic as yourself is probably not in the cards weather they are a GG or TS. There is less of a chance as well you would wish to settle down with such a person. Am not saying it does not happen, but chances are low for a long term relationship.

From the girl's point of view, they may have been hurt so often and or simply badly treated by men in the past, they simply treat every man as a date since that is all the men seem want from them is sex. While there are some great guys out there when it comes to trannies, most are simply players running game. They treat trannies with totally no respect and run games/lines they never would on a GG they cared about. Calling up a girl at 2AM saying "hey I'm right around the corner... can I come over?". If the girl says yes, it usually is a hit it and run situation, or worse the guy simply needs a place to crash for the night. First thing in the AM he's up and out calling his GG GF on his cell saying he is on the way.
Wow shiningstar that is so true except for me i have never really been hurt in my relationships or dumped yet(knock on a penis)lol. But i get guyz all the time tryin to run game but im to the point its all words. No pussy till i see action. Sad thing is dont really give anyone a chance. But i see girls that have BF and it seems to work for awhile. OMG i don't wanna be a single black transsexual with pussy running all around my house. :cry: :cry: :cry: :lol: I better start looking for a MAN anyone interested.