tgirlzoe
01-13-2008, 03:54 AM
What are your experiences with FTMs. Girls (or guys) have you ever dated one? Would you?
I have dated a couple, both pre-T. I was pursued by another, we were at a party (we went together) and we were drinking and I was getting stoned and we made out and hung on eachother the rest of the night. He wanted to sleep with me but when we got to my bed, we didn't know what to do and he was too drunk anyway. A short-term boyfriend was suave and cute but he and I never had sex, even though we slept in the same bed a couple times.
With my ex-fiance, we had intercourse and many other things (eg. he liked to top me anally) but even though I had the penis and he had the vagina, he was always top, dominant and agressive in bed and out. But he knew he couldn't necessarily give me what I wanted sexually because he lacked essential equipment (silicone just can't replace flesh).
I think my requirements for a future FTM boyfriend are:
* Have been on T for >2yrs (I've been on E over 3yrs, I don't want someone just starting out)
* Have had top surgery. No more boyfriends with boobies, even if they're smashed under a binder.
* Taller than me (one was only an inch shorter, the others more; it's not like I'm giant, I'm 5'6", I know lots of females and FTMs taller than me)
* Be stealth or at least not wrapped up in trans-activism or lesbian circles. Be well-adjusted and confident as a man.
I mean, if I see a hot guy, I get turned on and I want there to be a delicious cock between his legs. What if there isn't? Could I still be with him, could I marry him monogamously and never have a real dick again? I know wonderful, sweet, attractive guys but the sexual thing could be a dealbreaker or at least a long-term frustration. What do you think?
I have dated a couple, both pre-T. I was pursued by another, we were at a party (we went together) and we were drinking and I was getting stoned and we made out and hung on eachother the rest of the night. He wanted to sleep with me but when we got to my bed, we didn't know what to do and he was too drunk anyway. A short-term boyfriend was suave and cute but he and I never had sex, even though we slept in the same bed a couple times.
With my ex-fiance, we had intercourse and many other things (eg. he liked to top me anally) but even though I had the penis and he had the vagina, he was always top, dominant and agressive in bed and out. But he knew he couldn't necessarily give me what I wanted sexually because he lacked essential equipment (silicone just can't replace flesh).
I think my requirements for a future FTM boyfriend are:
* Have been on T for >2yrs (I've been on E over 3yrs, I don't want someone just starting out)
* Have had top surgery. No more boyfriends with boobies, even if they're smashed under a binder.
* Taller than me (one was only an inch shorter, the others more; it's not like I'm giant, I'm 5'6", I know lots of females and FTMs taller than me)
* Be stealth or at least not wrapped up in trans-activism or lesbian circles. Be well-adjusted and confident as a man.
I mean, if I see a hot guy, I get turned on and I want there to be a delicious cock between his legs. What if there isn't? Could I still be with him, could I marry him monogamously and never have a real dick again? I know wonderful, sweet, attractive guys but the sexual thing could be a dealbreaker or at least a long-term frustration. What do you think?