View Full Version : bi-curious/im not sure what to title the thread?!?
ilikegirls
12-12-2007, 04:56 AM
Sorry to start another am i gay type threads but its not really the same thing.
I have always been bi-curious since a very young age. I used to try on my mothers clothing and also had a small sexual relationship when i was 13 with another boy. We rubbed each other and did anal, but i never sucked his or vis ver sa. It lasted probably a month and thats when i really started to get turned on by cock.
Transexuals sparked my interest, but i am picky/shallow whatever word you want to use. Im caucasion so i do mostly only get turned on by other white girls, sometimes latin ones.
Now GG's i find attractive and i can even go as far as 2nd/3rd base with them, making out and touching the ta ta's (to put it nicely) but as soon it gets past the hand jobs and bj's and into sex i can't. The pussy just puts me off that much.
I can't look at girl porn because it puts me off that much. But i don't get turned on by guys either. The cock gets me hot but really only if it is on at TS/TV or really hot drag queen.
Is this just something im going through (quite young at 22) or do others feel this way too. Like i don't even try for a relationship with girls cause it will lead to no sex and thats not a healthy relationship imo becuase of why i don't want to fuck.
So basically does this sound normal that i get turned on by all girls but really only get turned on by naked Transexuals. WTF is wrong with me, i don't know how i could go to a phychiatrist or something like that and explain this type of behavior to them. (ive been to many for depression, so just throwing that out there)
Aight i think that post is long enough.
Quinn
12-12-2007, 04:59 AM
Perhaps you should have given more thought to the name chosen for your ID, ilikegirls.
-Quinn
ilikegirls
12-12-2007, 05:19 AM
Perhaps you should have given more thought to the name chosen for your ID, ilikegirls.
-Quinn
i do like girls, just not pussy
Snoriega27
12-12-2007, 05:24 AM
Perhaps you should have given more thought to the name chosen for your ID, ilikegirls.
-Quinn
ilikegirlsbutnotpussy would have been a more thoughtful choice.
Coroner
12-12-2007, 06:23 AM
You´re totally into T-girls. They are what you´re looking for but it makes the life a little bit harder since you can´t see them every day.
Quiet Reflections
12-12-2007, 06:28 AM
I think what seals it for me is the fact that YOU DONT LIKE PUSSY which is totally GAY, but its ok in this closet....sorry message board. here you can thrive totally on cock and not be gay just because you say so. Not saying that you are but..... YOU DONT LIKE PUSSY AND YOU LOVE COCK. sorry for being a Ahole but fuck man those are your words not mine.
jniowa
12-12-2007, 07:28 AM
Not to be a jerk but DUDE WTF. You like girls, well many transsexuals consider themselves women, you like cock, they have that too. Problem solved.
Baron Of Hell
12-12-2007, 07:48 AM
So are you turned on by guys? It doesn't sound like your bi curious, it sounds like your gay and you are using the secret TG attraction to hide the fact. If you are gay, being out and open about it would make you much happier unless you live somewhere that hates gays.
Guys don't have to look like women to be beautiful. Even if you don't see yourself as gay, maybe you should try being with guy. hmmm well maybe not, what I really think you need to do is talk to professional. I don't think you are sick or strange. I just think you will find out who you are faster if you talk to someone.
ilikegirls
12-12-2007, 08:14 AM
So are you turned on by guys? It doesn't sound like your bi curious, it sounds like your gay and you are using the secret TG attraction to hide the fact. If you are gay, being out and open about it would make you much happier unless you live somewhere that hates gays.
Guys don't have to look like women to be beautiful. Even if you don't see yourself as gay, maybe you should try being with guy. hmmm well maybe not, what I really think you need to do is talk to professional. I don't think you are sick or strange. I just think you will find out who you are faster if you talk to someone.
Dude did you not read my post. Guys do not turn me on at all. I can't watch porn with guys in it, it makes me that much uncomfortable. Ive been with a guy once and it was fun but ive tried it again and didn't feel anything.
Ive been with plenty of women and fucked them too. It just doesn't feel right. I get turned on by Transexuals not men.
MrsKellyPierce
12-12-2007, 08:19 AM
welcome to the world of "fetish"
This reminds me of last weeks "Family Guy" episode.
It's all about the boner. If you only get one with fooling around with guys,you're probably gay. If you only get one fooling around girls you're probably straight. If you get one fooling around with both you're bi. Throw in getting one with TG's/TV's and you're a potential member of this board. ;)
Welcome to the Monkey House and don't sweat this shit. There's not a damned thing wrong with you. Cut yourself some slack and get comfortable with who you are. It takes time to get over all the horseshit you've been fed about sexual preferences and gender from day one,
El Nino
12-12-2007, 10:02 AM
Hey Ilikegirls... I am in a similar "category" myself, where I am totally attracted to T-girls because of there femininity; and I prefer cock vs. pussy. However, in terms of sexual attractiveness to men, forget it, I am repulsed. I love girls, GG and TG, but man pussy doesn't do it for me like a pussy-stick does!
Nothing in this world is just black or white, many many shades of gray. It is what it is my friend. Also things can change over time, even things like sexuality
ottorocket
12-12-2007, 10:10 AM
The vagina can sometimes be intimidating enough for some men that it brings up a whole set of psychological conditions that puts them off not because of phisyology of the body in appearance, but also in functional performance. SOme men can't be attracted to the pussy because it literally freaks them out, but they still love the woman.
The vagina can sometimes be intimidating enough for some men that it brings up a whole set of psychological conditions that puts them off not because of phisyology of the body in appearance, but also in functional performance. SOme men can't be attracted to the pussy because it literally freaks them out, but they still love the woman.
Otto,I knew a guy who ended getting divorced over that kind of thing. His wife insisted on him being in the delivery room when their first child was born. Seeing the kid being born freaked him out. He was never able to have sex with her again. I remember him telling me shortly after the birth,"Don't go in the delivery room,you'll never be able to enjoy sex again."
Maybe that's a valid reason most traditional societies keep the father away from the mother giving birth? It makes me wonder how common a condition that kind of trauma is?
LAGent4ts
12-12-2007, 10:55 AM
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Society has placed labels on everything including humans in an attempt to explain that which we don't understand or are fearful of.
We all are human and gender is determined by that which is between our ears and not between our legs.
MacShreach
12-12-2007, 11:38 AM
as soon it gets past the hand jobs and bj's and into sex i can't. The pussy just puts me off that much.
I can't look at girl porn because it puts me off that much.
I am not famous for my sympathy but I'm in a good mood this morning 8) so....
That's not really bi. Bi men, who are pretty uncommon anyway, are interested in having sex with both genders and are not at all put off by cunt.
A lot also depends on your personal orientation. If your fantasy is to suck cock or take it in your anus, then you must remember that most TS women want to be treated like women, not like men in drag. While many will fuck a man for money, most would rather be fucked. It would be far more honest and respectful just to get a man to do it.
On the other hand there are many TS prostitutes who do very well out of men in full denial of their homosexuality......But behind your back they will call you a poof.
There's nothing wrong with being gay, but in the long term, if you are it would be better that you came to terms with this and accepted it.
Baron Of Hell
12-12-2007, 03:19 PM
My bad I missed that part
MacShreach
12-12-2007, 04:30 PM
SOme men can't be attracted to the pussy because it literally freaks them out, but they still love the woman.
I'm not picking a fight here but I find such a reaction completely incomprehensible, even though I have heard it expressed more than once. I love cunts. I think they look, feel, smell and taste utterly, amazingly, gorgeous. I love just falling asleep with my head over a cunt that I've just fucked and breathing that in.....And I really like not showering after fucking a cunt. I like to go around with that smell on me....(Is this freaking anyone out? Too bad...)
I have been present at childbirth several times and no it didn't put me off one little bit....
I really like to fuck anal and I'm right into giving anilingus and fingerplay because it feels so good, but it doesn't have the smell or taste attraction, all that stuff that cunt has. If I had to choose whether I was to look at cunt or ringpiece, cunt wins every time.
I'm actually beginning to think the thing that's hot about a real hot TS woman, for me, maybe comes from all the reinforcement therapy I've had from real cunt, ie
I love cunt>>I love women who have cunt>>I love women>>I like women even when they don't have cunt, cause in the end I really like the back door too and they have all that other woman stuff.....
I do have to be quite frank and say that watching a pre-op TS woman cum all over herself while I'm walloping my dick into her is one hell of a turn-on all the same. Even beats a squirter, that does. And clear is cool, clear is cool.
BiCuriousGeorge
12-13-2007, 05:26 AM
Is this thread for me..lol!
BiCuriousGeorge
12-13-2007, 05:45 AM
There is nothing wrong with you for what you like. Everyone likes different things. I am kind of the same myself. I am not attracted to guys at all except for some of their cocks, but I most definately am attracted to gg's and t-girls, feminine looking ones though, not guys in drag that look like guys in drag. Girls like Jennifer Paris, Yasmin Lee, and Allanah, are obvious choices for just about everyone on here. And girls like Kelly Shore, Celeste, and TSNTX do it for me as well. So with me being attracted to them would make me not a straight guy but since I like gg's too I would consider myself bi. I don't think anyone on here is considered "straight" or "gay" because if your straight than why would you be here and if your gay you wouldn't like the way t-girls look because they are feminine. Like Kelly Shore said this could just be a "fetish". I have many fetishes like footjobs and golden showers. It might be something that you need to experience in order to see if this lifestyle is for you. Just my view on this though as I'm sure others opinions will vary.
voy4her
12-13-2007, 09:34 AM
you're ok guy, dont worry about it. Experiment, see what you like and dont like. In the end thats all it needs to be, what you and your partner like.
BabyFirefly42481
01-14-2008, 09:15 AM
You know me and my friends argue about this all the time....we have come up with an answer that will make everyone happy.......We used to argue if the man I dated were gay or str8 for bein with me.....well they arent gay cause i am a woman.......but they arent str8 cause i do have a lil something extra {penis} so we came upwith a new group.....or box as you will....they are called Strays..not str8 not gay. problem solved...jus remember where the name came from...lol
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