To all the guys...

[JamesHunt]

that are in a relationship with a TS, does the whole relationship centre around trying to explain why you are attracted to her, or do you just get on with it

[JamesHunt]

OK, who voted "We just get on with it", give us some feedback :)

[justatransgirl]

Well, I'm not a guy but since it doesn't look like many are responding... and since I am in a relationship with a t-girl, our conversations revolve around whether we are gay or lesbian and whether we are fat or not.

OK - I'm attracted to Jessica because she is brilliantly smart, and when she's naked she looks like a cross between a 13 year old girl and a pre-pubscent boy. So I don't know, maybe I'm a pedophile...

And nobody knows why she's attracted to me, might be the candy I used to entice her into the car that first time...

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[Night Rider]

OK, who voted "We just get on with it", give us some feedback :)

Me, but I haven't been in a relationship with a TS :lol:

But I used to question myself about why I was attracted to them, but I'm over that phase..

[TomSelis]

I've had it asked a couple of times. It's a red flag and a turn off. But my counter is always, "No woman has ever asked me that, I'd have to think about it."

I've also had a couple tell me why I was attracted to them. That's always more interesting.

[alpha2117]

Maybe its cultural - it never really seems to come up with me or for that matter anyone i know. Maybe its a US thing.

[whatsupwithat]

in my first longterm relationship with a trans woman, it came up when we would argue and she would try to demean or hurt me with an attack on my sexuality...which said more about her than me, actually. in my other relationships, we discussed it from time to time, but it was never really an issue as i'm pretty open about and comfortable with who i am. and when it did come up, it was usually in relation to society and others in our lives...and how we were viewed by them.


Maybe its cultural - it never really seems to come up with me or for that matter anyone i know. Maybe its a US thing.

wouldn't doubt it. the us is the center of personal issues that shouldn't be issues in the world.

[alphanumeric]

it was pretty much a non issue, there were other more pressing concerns that affected our relationship(s)

[qeuqheeg222]

the drama got so thick that this aspect of the relationship never was questioned..we were in it and at it..........

[BXCanada]

i voted just get on with it, i don't ever question why i am atracted to my fiance.

[tsntx]

the question ISNT whether or not you guys question it... its does SHE question you

geez

to answer the question... yes ive found i question a lot of the guys i date and second and eight guess everything they say... almost cost me my current relationship... nothing i can do about it... been burned too many times... pavlovs dog

[BXCanada]

the question ISNT whether or not you guys question it... its does SHE question you

geez

to answer the question... yes ive found i question a lot of the guys i date and second and eight guess everything they say... almost cost me my current relationship... nothing i can do about it... been burned too many times... pavlovs dog

either way the answer is the same in my case, she has never once question why i am atracted to her. all she knows is that i love her with all my heart and she loves me neither one of us have any reason to question it.

[MacShreach]

the question ISNT whether or not you guys question it... its does SHE question you

geez



Jen, thank you for your frankness, which is as ever refreshing.

GG women mistrust men too, don't get me wrong, but no GG ever suspected that a man might possibly be gay just for desiring her. This is a very particular issue for TS women.

I feel for you, kid. That's a hard furrow to plough.

[phyrbug]

Well, I'm not a guy but since it doesn't look like many are responding... and since I am in a relationship with a t-girl, our conversations revolve around whether we are gay or lesbian and whether we are fat or not.

OK - I'm attracted to Jessica because she is brilliantly smart, and when she's naked she looks like a cross between a 13 year old girl and a pre-pubscent boy. So I don't know, maybe I'm a pedophile...

And nobody knows why she's attracted to me, might be the candy I used to entice her into the car that first time...

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

you two make a cute couple

[Bluejay]

Never comes up in conversation,however over the years it has changed from the pure physical to personality and character,but imo this is no differant from relationships with gg's.

[mbf]

I have been in only one LTR with a TS so far and the attraction to each other was NEVER questioned in any way.

in factr, if she had questioned *why" I was into her, and there would have been the slightest hint as to steering it into "oh, ure just another chaser-guy", I would have dumped her right on the spot.

I am not here to feed someones insecurity.