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MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 07:34 AM
Girls, it has to be said, but when you find that guy that will support you. Love you. Let you be you and do the things you want. Don't use him, don't take him for granted, love him as he loves you. Most men see us as freaks of nature, attracted to us YES, but would never deal with us in society Or with some of the choices we make in our lives porn, escorting, etc. It takes a very special man to love us for us. Sorry I am sounding sappy, but thats just my two-cents. Take it or leave it. :wink:
theone
11-16-2007, 07:36 AM
there is some wisdom in those words, nice comment.
hondarobot
11-16-2007, 07:37 AM
Good two cents.
:wink:
MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 07:38 AM
I'm glad you gentleman agree
hondarobot
11-16-2007, 07:39 AM
Oh, and goodnight. I'm going to bed.
MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 07:50 AM
Night :)
BXCanada
11-16-2007, 08:12 AM
totaly agree
MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 08:22 AM
glad you do
Leverage87
11-16-2007, 08:25 AM
Kelly, most of the time I feel that you give sound advice, and once again, you have.
BXCanada
11-16-2007, 08:45 AM
glad you do
ofcourse i would agree, and i would also say that guys should be the same way. if a guy is lucky enough to find the woman of his dreams he should treat her right.
tall, dark & Handsome
11-16-2007, 09:06 AM
I know what you mean. I had a girlfriend that didn't want me to strip at bachlorette parties when I was in college and would get mad just because the ladies would put their numbers inside the Money they stuck down my Boxer briefs. It wasn't like I was calling them or even sleeping with them.
I never even did any porn.
I was robbed. :lol:
Gmanfromthechi
11-16-2007, 10:11 AM
Awesome advice hun. Thing is, I doubt anyone will follow it. :-(
LBCDO
11-16-2007, 01:25 PM
Yea, thats just the fucked up thing about the scene. But its life in general, gay, lesbian, straight. Im sure there are people on this board, reading, lurking, posting, whatever, who if they had the opportunity; would make sure than a TS porn star/college student/whatever would never have to work a day in their life, always be treated with love and offer an easy, simple life where all their dreams come true. But it never works out that way. The girls always want the dickheads. Its universal, good guys dont win.
I understand where the girls come from, but when a good guy comes along, they get slept on because of small, little details but people go for what they want. Its their desire. We all do it. People get on dating sights, and trim their searches with all types of little small details. The search for a white mate, and their soul mate happens to be black. They want someone in the age of 18 to 25, but that special person for them is 26.
Im always in the club, and I hear the gossip thats behind closed doors. Ive seen guys shot down because they are dominican and not puerto rican. Ive seen people who are honestly interested in a girl, but all they are thinking about is getting the next drink. And that same girl will run to the bathroom, get powdered up and talk shit to her homegirl like "This motherfucka was asking me shit like 'Oh, so what do you like to do?"
But thats life. Its fucked up, but hey, what can you do?
MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 07:25 PM
Agreed LBCDO
tall, dark & Handsome
11-16-2007, 07:48 PM
I would like to cradle your two...cents and roll them around in my palm.
:P
yea, It's friday
MrsKellyPierce
11-16-2007, 07:57 PM
I would like to cradle your two...cents and roll them around in my palm.
:P
yea, It's friday :lol:
blckhaze
11-16-2007, 09:11 PM
i see kell is familiar with the sex game "quarters" LOL
suckseed
11-16-2007, 09:22 PM
That your pic, Kelly? If so, those cupcakes get a HELL YEAH from me.
I think they should make a model that squeaks when you squeeze 'em!
manbearpig
11-16-2007, 09:45 PM
:claps
That goes for ALL women. A little appreciation goes a long way.
SUPPLY42
11-16-2007, 10:31 PM
\Kelly, I think I am
falling in love with you. Amazng
CORVETTEDUDE
11-17-2007, 09:32 AM
kelly, I think your 'Two Cents' is worth a Million Bucks!!! Thanks for your word of wisdom!
MrsKellyPierce
11-19-2007, 08:14 AM
Thanks guys
dan_drade
11-19-2007, 08:32 AM
Girls, it has to be said, but when you find that guy that will support you. Love you. Let you be you and do the things you want. Don't use him, don't take him for granted, love him as he loves you. Most men see us as freaks of nature, attracted to us YES, but would never deal with us in society Or with some of the choices we make in our lives porn, escorting, etc. It takes a very special man to love us for us. Sorry I am sounding sappy, but thats just my two-cents. Take it or leave it. :wink:
I love your 2 cents Kelly. But you left out one thing. You said that "Most men" see Transexual women as "freaks of nature", which in some and probably most cases is totally true. But don't foget that a lot of us guys that fall in love with girls like you consider ourselves "freaks of nature" which is why we sometimes have a difficult time dealing with societal issues when dating a Transexual woman. The only advantage that us guys have over you girls is that we can hide it, so we do. Sad but true.
But I still love everything you said!!! :claps
whatsupwithat
11-19-2007, 08:41 AM
kelly, that was beautiful. i will hope and i will wish that all will read it and take it to heart.
it reminds me of this quote:
"In my transsexual teens, I believed that the only man for me was a "straight" man. I believed in order to obtain true happiness in a relationship, I'd have to make him fall in love with me first, then he'd say my being transsexual doesn't matter to him, and we'd live happily ever after behind closed doors. If his family came to visit, I'd cleverly dodge questions about marriage and pregnancy. If his friends came over to watch the Super bowl, I'd make sure that I'd look as feminine as possible so they could never guess my dirt, even if my voice slipped into another octave. Ah, to be in love! After getting a dose of exactly what I fantasized about, I discovered how much I was downplaying myself, for another man's image. I looked around me only to find no one who really knew me. I learned that I really didn't love myself completely, because if I did, I would never allow anyone to make me feel I needed to dim my God given light. I vowed right then, and there, to never be anyone's dirty little secret."
- Angelica Love Ross
Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-19-2007, 08:51 AM
Girls, it has to be said, but when you find that guy that will support you. Love you. Let you be you and do the things you want. Don't use him, don't take him for granted, love him as he loves you. Most men see us as freaks of nature, attracted to us YES, but would never deal with us in society Or with some of the choices we make in our lives porn, escorting, etc. It takes a very special man to love us for us. Sorry I am sounding sappy, but thats just my two-cents. Take it or leave it. :wink:
I only tend to date and keep guys that allows me to express my individuality and be independent. I don't ever want to be like a leech..dependent girl on a guy for everything that I might need. If he supports me at whatever career I undertake through the good and bad times not to mention pamper me and remain loyal to me then he is a keeper! ;)
Unfortunately tho that type of guy is rare to find.
~Kisses.
HTG
Trogdor
11-19-2007, 10:55 AM
I only tend to date and keep guys that allows me to express my individuality and be independent. I don't ever want to be like a leech..dependent girl on a guy for everything that I might need. If he supports me at whatever career I undertake through the good and bad times not to mention pamper me and remain loyal to me then he is a keeper! ;)
Unfortunately tho that type of guy is rare to find.
~Kisses.
HTG
*raises hand* I am that sorta guy you'd like.
Problem is that girls don't seem to reciprocate at all, with the exception of another friends speech I so always dread. :?
Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-19-2007, 10:59 AM
Sorta? You mean you're not totally sure that you are that type of guy? LOL
~Kisses.
HTG
TJ347
11-19-2007, 12:11 PM
Girls, it has to be said, but when you find that guy that will support you. Love you. Let you be you and do the things you want. Don't use him, don't take him for granted, love him as he loves you. Most men see us as freaks of nature, attracted to us YES, but would never deal with us in society Or with some of the choices we make in our lives porn, escorting, etc. It takes a very special man to love us for us. Sorry I am sounding sappy, but thats just my two-cents. Take it or leave it. :wink:
This is all very good advice, and while it should be fairly obvious, seeing as how the most obvious things escape many people, it may well be what some people really need to see.
That said, that whole "choices we make in our lives" bit... Hey, I've got a novel idea! How about I just leave it at that and keep it moving? Right!
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