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[GIA LOVES RON]

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[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

It's always nice to have threads like these pop up from women who aren't escorts full or part-time and are having normal life experiences. Rare as it is I think you responded to his thread the best anyone else could. But IMO he's screwed. Looking at what he typed from a simplistic view he's asking her to give up something that occupies her time effectively. When she went through hard times that was her support system, and now it seems he greedily wants to be the only support system in her life. What happens when he is too involved with things like work to be there for her, she's screwed.

[andyuk]

hi GIA
first of all thank you for the honest post.
and you have confirmed what i thought about you,that you are a very nice person.also ron seems like a special person 2.,i wish you both the very best in life.
to be honest i have given up on relatinships,but you have just reminded me that there are some decent girls out there.
once again thank you
and good luck.

[GIA LOVES RON]

It's always nice to have threads like these pop up from women who aren't escorts full or part-time and are having normal life experiences. Rare as it is I think you responded to his thread the best anyone else could. But IMO he's screwed. Looking at what he typed from a simplistic view he's asking her to give up something that occupies her time effectively. When she went through hard times that was her support system, and now it seems he greedily wants to be the only support system in her life. What happens when he is too involved with things like work to be there for her, she's screwed.

Thank you JWBL. I agree with everything you said. I think the girl doesn't wanna give up the "internet thing" because as you said it was her support system even before they got into the committed relationship. But I think part of it is sacrificing for each other. I truly believe that both the girl and the guy has to compromise to achieve a wonderful relationship. Communication is very important, I think she should tell him that she is going to do the internet thing as a support system and that's about it. Nothing more, nothing less. And if the guy trust her commpletely to let her do her thing. Then it would be a good compromise. Coming from the guy's message to me though that she is flirting with the guys in the internet and possibly hooking with them. I'm sure that the internet makes her feel good or whatever because that is how I feel about this forum but it doesn't mean that she is going to cheat and act it out with a real person.I hope the girl will choose what is best for her and her love one. If she chooses the guys from the internet...fine but she will lose the other person that gives her real love but nevertheless they can both move on whether they choose to be together or not. It's going to be her choice and i'm sure she'll choose what is right for her. Cheating is such a horrible thing, i'm not perfect and i've done it but the most important thing for me is I repent from it and move on. Of course I am in this forum but I don't flirt with you guys here...I'm a friend and someone that you could talk to. But other than that i'm just a friend.Keep it simple. No drama. AGREE JWBL?!

[GIA LOVES RON]

hi GIA
first of all thank you for the honest post.
and you have confirmed what i thought about you,that you are a very nice person.also ron seems like a special person 2.,i wish you both the very best in life.
to be honest i have given up on relatinships,but you have just reminded me that there are some decent girls out there.
once again thank you
and good luck.

THANKS andyuk. I hope you find your better half. I'm sure that this world can give you the one that you can spend the rest of your lives with or whatnot. Don't give up on love. It's a wonderful thing. GEEEZ! I sound like a freakin love movie....ewwwww! But yes...don't give up just like anything else in life. More luck to you!

[andyuk]

hi GIA
first of all thank you for the honest post.
and you have confirmed what i thought about you,that you are a very nice person.also ron seems like a special person 2.,i wish you both the very best in life.
to be honest i have given up on relatinships,but you have just reminded me that there are some decent girls out there.
once again thank you
and good luck.

THANKS andyuk. I hope you find your better half. I'm sure that this world can give you the one that you can spend the rest of your lives with or whatnot. Don't give up on love. It's a wonderful thing. GEEEZ! I sound like a freakin love movie....ewwwww! But yes...don't give up just like anything else in life. More luck to you!

thanks gia.
i think everyone deserves a second chance,and im glad that ron felt the same with you.
as for this guy swiper,if she is flirting and stuff,and he asked her to stop,then i think she should stop.if not then i think he needs to seriously consider ending it with her.
in any relationship ,you need to have respect for one another and trust.
without this is relationship is doomed.
p.s
can i have some tickets when you become a pop star? :)
i tried to put the song on my profile but it would not let me,lol.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I'm a friend and someone that you could talk to. But other than that i'm just a friend.Keep it simple. No drama. AGREE JWBL?!

I understand what you're saying; in my online experiences I've grown accustomed to the following women over the years:
1. the ones that hate their current situation and like to webcam and phone bone
2. the ones that like to sit in chat rooms, get guys dicks rock hard with picture folders, then log off and fuck their man when he comes home from work
3. the ones that are married or in a serious relationship but treat the net like it's a new world and they are suddenly single and can mislead a guy.....
and
4. the rarity: the ones that want to meet up, regardless of their situation, fuck, and either go home & forget or keep the net guy as a side fuck


it would be nice if they all just did the 1st thing on that list, guys would be better off, but most of the time the other 3 prevail

[GIA LOVES RON]

hi GIA
first of all thank you for the honest post.
and you have confirmed what i thought about you,that you are a very nice person.also ron seems like a special person 2.,i wish you both the very best in life.
to be honest i have given up on relatinships,but you have just reminded me that there are some decent girls out there.
once again thank you
and good luck.

THANKS andyuk. I hope you find your better half. I'm sure that this world can give you the one that you can spend the rest of your lives with or whatnot. Don't give up on love. It's a wonderful thing. GEEEZ! I sound like a freakin love movie....ewwwww! But yes...don't give up just like anything else in life. More luck to you!

thanks gia.
i think everyone deserves a second chance,and im glad that ron felt the same with you.
as for this guy swiper,if she is flirting and stuff,and he asked her to stop,then i think she should stop.if not then i think he needs to seriously consider ending it with her.
in any relationship ,you need to have respect for one another and trust.
without this is relationship is doomed.
p.s
can i have some tickets when you become a pop star? :)
i tried to put the song on my profile but it would not let me,lol.

Hahahha! Sure only when I get to be one. I'll give you first row seats. hahahha! I wish! I think you can add it to your profile.

[GIA LOVES RON]

I'm a friend and someone that you could talk to. But other than that i'm just a friend.Keep it simple. No drama. AGREE JWBL?!

I understand what you're saying; in my online experiences I've grown accustomed to the following women over the years:
1. the ones that hate their current situation and like to webcam and phone bone
2. the ones that like to sit in chat rooms, get guys dicks rock hard with picture folders, then log off and fuck their man when he comes home from work
3. the ones that are married or in a serious relationship but treat the net like it's a new world and they are suddenly single and can mislead a guy.....
and
4. the rarity: the ones that want to meet up, regardless of their situation, fuck, and either go home & forget or keep the net guy as a side fuck


it would be nice if they all just did the 1st thing on that list, guys would be better off, but most of the time the other 3 prevail

YUP! I should know better form first hand experience. If you could keep being in the internet as a friend and don't meet with the guys from the internet in real life and popssibly make out with them, then that is fine in my opinion. But when you go step outside of the internet and really do it with that guy then that is a whole another story. Very complicated but it happens.

[mbf]

this is a tought provoking post, it touches a variety of subjects, yet all are somehow intertwined.

the relationship of those two people

cheating

online"friends"

online"sex" and possible spin overs into RL.


as to that guy: I am judging from a very low level of information, but he seems very insecure and extremely jealous. he contradicts himself even. if he was so confident, why make her ongoing online presence even an issue?

I can only speak from personal experience and give my personal views: to me jealousy is just another form of extreme egomania and tells a lot about insecurity. although, when in a serious relationship, I never cheated. I consider it unfair towards the girl. she has chosen to be with me, for whatever reason, therefore I will give trust back. I myself would have no problem with having an open relationship. If she would like to leave me i nthe end, thats fine, I will still remember our good times.

although, I may have been someone who helped other peopel to cheat. I had occasional sex with girls not knowing if they had a serious relationship . my policy on that matter is: dont ask dont tell. additionally, I never was pushy, I am not the prize pig but occasionally I get the opportunity to score sexually, and I am not the one to reject such an offer. It is too much of a flattering.

cheating is usually considered bad, yet it can have good side-effects. like in your case Gia to reinfoce trust, or in cases when people are still a bit insecure about is he/she the right one, or out of sexual frustration, so people cheat ONCE and its out of the system.

as with online friends: I cant see anything bad about that really. I have several people on my yahoo messenger friends list who I would never want anything sexually with (if they set the first step - again I would not decline such an offer) , those people might turn out to be friends, not i n the sense of a RL friend, but nevertheless they can provide good advice or nice entertainment.

as with the online sex thing, lol, well, I used to do Cam2Cam stuff myself, and frankly never really thougth about it too deeply. could it be considered cheating? I dont think so. and, its better than watching a porn, its interaction with another person, although washed down via a cam and/or a microphone. and such C2C thingies have to do with vanity and a boost of ones ego as much as the sexual gratification - for both ends of the cam-line

8)

[peggygee]

I've often wondered what I would do when love comes knocking at my
door again.

I already have a very busy schedule with work and other commitments.

Being in a relationship would make me wonder if I had enough time in a
week to do everything justice.

As to my on-line activities with the transcommunity, I'm on-line on a
number of sites to advocate, educate, and to sometimes agitate.

I'm not on-line for hook-ups, to get my ego stroked, or to stroke anything
on anyone else.

And quite franly I've been in the life long enough that I've heard all the
lines from guys trying to get some head, ass, or pussy, so I don't believe the hype. :smh

So if I could juggle the time, I most likely would let my significant other
have access to my entries, cause I don't cheat in my relationships, so it
wouldn't be a problem.